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Me and my friends have been friends for 10 years (3 boys 3 girls) and one of my friends has a crush on me, i like him to but i do not want to rewin are friendship, i like him and he likes me but my other friends think it would be a bad idea if we started dating so they do what ever they can to keep us apart, i'm to scared to go out on a date with him, just incase i screwup the friendship of 6 friendship...what should i do?:(
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You should learn how to spell ruin, that is what you should do. Then, if you're worried that something is going to go wrong, it probably will. If you're not 100% sure you should do it, don't and keep the friendship.
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I can see why you don't want to take the chance of getting your friendship ruined, but don't you wanna take the chance to see if you could get a relationship started? And even if you and him were to break up, you can always still remain friends. Thats what I did with my one ex. We've stayed friends, and now it's like we never even dated. There was no awkwardness or anything. But just think. You guys have been friends for 10 years now. That means you guys have a pretty strong relationship and I'm sure you two are not going to let it stop if you two break up. It sounds to me like you two could get through any possible bumps you ever might have =] And just explain to your friends how you like him and everything. If they were your friends, they'd understand and want you to be happy =D and besides.. at least ONE date wouldn't hurt. =] I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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Well, one date will surely not ruin your friendship!! To actually date him may be a different story. Your friends advice is important, but you need to set your values before you and see what's more important. I mean, I'm not going to lie, I guess sometimes going out with someone CAN ruin a friendship...but you've been friends for TEN years. I find it really hard to believe that if your friendship hasn't ceased yet, there's not much the future will bring that will break it apart. I could be wrong, you know your situation best. Just think of how badly you want to go out with him...can you live WITHOUT going out with him? If that's the case, the feelings aren't strong enough and maybe you should just move on. But, if you do really feel like you can't live not going out with him, it must be important enough. And about going out on a date, as in, just hanging out with him...like I said...go do it. That's not going to be the thing to ruin your friendship.
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wow, your luck to have friends who like your friends and viece virsa....well on thing is for sure....if your friends are going to try to make you guys break up....no offense, but they are kind of mean..but i see their reasoning...ok, i think you should ask him out but tell him that you dont want to break up your friendship. maybe if you guys get mad and break up say you will give eachother a week or so to calm down and then act like freinds again...hope i helped
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