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My name is alix. I'm fourteen &i live just moved to massachusets. i love all of my closer friends; theyre my life. i like cats, and my favorite food is soanish rice. i like going to the movies with all my friends; we do it every friday. it's a routine. i love giving advice about guys, but what i really love are questions from guys about girls. im really opinionated, but im usually not very harsh when i answer things. advice
I have a really bad unibrow. Like REALLY bad. My mom won't let me do anything with it: I am not allowed to pluck it, wax it, or remove it in any way. I try to pluck it, but its really hard because there's so many hairs, and also my mom hates it when I do. But recently she kind of gave up, because I still pluck it anyways.
I want to convince my mom to let me go to a salon and get it professionallly waxed. She will most definetly not be happy upon hearing this, but I just want to remove the unibrow, and get some touchups on my eyebrows. She thinks they will do it really thin, "just like those cashier ladies with drawn on eyebrows". It just makes me really mad. I was over at my friends house once, and she gets her eyebrows waxed, and they were starting to grow back a little, and her mom was like "OMG your eyebrows look horrible we need to get them fixed ASAP". I wish my mom was like that. I actually got my unibrow from her, and she doesn't do anything about hers... and well it looks really bad.
She says waxed eyebrows aren't natural, but unibrows arent either!!
How do I get her to let me? Any good arguments?
When you go, you can tell the salonists how to do your eyebrows. Promise her that you'll make sure they only take hair from in between, no touching the width of the eyebrows. (If you really want, tell her that you'll make sure they don't touch the top of the eyebrow--that's what makes them look super unnatural. but that won't be nearly as convincing) Tell her that you'll only get it done once in a while... you can pluck them every other day after you get it done to keep it looking like it did right after they were waxed. If she knows that you won't keep going back, then she might be more comfortable.
are there any perfumes that smell like fresh laundry?
This one's great, and it's only 20 dollars.
http://www.demeterfragrance.com/Product.aspx?ProductID=893
i don't knoe what to do i want to something different then everybidy else What Should I Do?? thank anyway
you and maybe one or two friends could do a magic act. either a serious one, or you could make it funny. like make the tricks reallllly obvious, or mess them up.
you could also do an improv thing. like have you seen the show whos line is it anyway? you could do one of the games from there. the question one would be good. its like where you do an improv skit where every line is in question form. also, this would be a lot better if you didnt rehearse or anything.
there's this one thing that you and some friends, maybe eight, can do. you all have to like line up and you sing this song(its not really a song but kinda) and it goes, "if i wasn't a student, i'd be a teacher." and then one person in the line steps forwards and sings "if i wasn't a student, i'd be MR JOHNSON" and does an impression of whatever teacher he said.
also, i found this question from a while ago, and there are some good ones. i like the idea of doing the napolean dynamite dance :] http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=412056
I've never really gotten bad cramps before but right now I do =( It's so bad that like I feel it in my legs, and they ache. First of all, is that normal? And also, what can I do to make the pain more bearable? Ew and my period is pretty heavy and it's annoying and I hate itttttt! =( Help?
Yeah, it's normal. And take an advil or midol, or any pain killer really. Also, drink a lot of water. If it stops hurting enough that you can run on a treadmill or something, do it. But not if it hurts too much. However, next time your period's coming, work out beforehand to prevent them from being so terrible.
I really want a sidekick 3 so badly. I mean i'm 13 and i'm willing to pay every penny for it and even the bill which would be 50 dollars a month. My mom is basically not letting me get it because of the 2 year contract. She doesn't believe I will have 50 dollars every month to pay it. Well I have a mothers helper job and the lady calls me AT LEAST once a week and I get paid 6 dollars and hour. Also I work there anywhere from 2-4 hours. She's like well you don't have a JOB. I'm like well you need a real job to pay water, electric bills and mortages and taxes every month, not a little cell phone bill. Please don't say I might go over my minutes cause I just won't. Is there ANY ANY way I can show my parents I WILL have 50 dollars a month to pay it for 2 years. oh yeah please please don't say wait a month and see if you have made 50 bucks.
Do you have a good amount of money right now? Set aside a hundred and fifty dollars in a bank account or at least a hidden place in your room. Keep it there and show that you won't spend it. Tell her that that money is reserved for if you EVER can't make the fifty dollars. You might need to go like, half a month to show that you won't spend it.
i want to redecorate my room, but i'm not really sure what to do. i'm 14/f, but i want a room i'll like for a while
i have a really small room, so i need ways to use the space very effectively, and make it appear bigger than it is.
i also need suggestions about color, etc. i don't really want a "theme" bedroom, though.
If you don't want a theme, go for maybe a color theme. Choose two or three complienting colors and try to get the majority of things in your room to match them. You could do pinks and yellows, or blue, white, and a soft yellow, or anything really. As well, the color of your walls should be really light. The lighter the color, the bigger the room looks. Also, try for really efficient storage. Get lots of cabinets and drawers. That will keep clutter and other little things hidden and will make your room look cleaner, and therefore, like a more open space.
me and my boyfriend were talking and he said that him and his ex gf had a scare where she was pregnant.. She wasn't but they got that scare so they had to take a test for her. Anyways he said "we thought she was pregnant but that was before we had sex" He said its possible to get pregnant wtihout really having sex. Am I really confused can someone help me out please.
If they had been doing anything such as giving handjobs or blowjobs that caused him to ejactulate and she got it on her hands and then touched her vagina, or he got it on his hands and did the same, then it would be possible. It's extremely unlikely that that would happen, though.
okay, well me and my friend decided that we're making a new new year resolution for June (since its half-way through the year and we already messed up our last new years). basically, we want to eat healthier. my friend isn't that motivated into it, but i am.
i have had a heart/lung condition in the past and had to get surgery when i was 2. i've been overweight since i was 7. and i really want to loose 23lbs in order to be healthy. i'm 147lbs right now, and according to my diet book, i need to be around 125lbs to be "fit/healthy".
i need a food plan..bad. i also need tips on how to stop from cravings and overeating. i caught myself today from eating oatmeal that i didn't need.
my pool is re-opening if that helps for workouts. i also have a tredmill, and a nordick track (a ski-thing). And I have some weights (like curlups, handweights, barbell(?).
can you help me make a workout plan as well?
i'm 147lbs and 5'4. sorry if i already posted something about this..i just need the advice.
thanks :)
I can't really help with the workout plan; all I can tell you is that you are supposed to get one hour of excersise five days a week. Just do what you feel like doing, I guess, and get cardio, muscular, and all the other elements in there every week. I'm sorry I don't know more.
But for the eating, here's an idea. Everytime you crave a food, figure out what kind of food it is: salty, sweet, starch(pasta, cereal, etc). Then, have a small, healthy portion of that kind of food. So say you're craving potato chips. Instead of having a big handful of those, grab two or three small pretzels. Also, have a glass of water before you eat because it helps to fill you up, and then you won't overeat.
I live in Australia =]
I'm finding it really hard to sleep at night. It takes me like 4 hours to get to sleep no matter how late or early I go to bed. It only happens on school nights and I HATE MY SCHOOL WITH A PASSION. I also had no troubles sleeping in Primary school and my first high school
So any suggestions on how to get to sleep?
everything the person below me said is good, but heres something that worked really well for me.
ok, the scent of lavendar is calming and helps you sleep. either burn lavendar incense or a candle in your room before you sleep, or do this: take an old tshirt and cut out a square of cloth; about six inches by six inches. get lavendar essential oil and put a bunch of drops on the square-- not too much that it feels oily, but enough so that you can smell it, well. then put the cloth ontop of your pillow, under your head. it helps you fall asleep.
Please help i want my period to start im 13 how do i?
thanks in advance.
You really can't make it start. But chances are, it will come soon.
But seriously, enjoy your time without it. I am extremely jealous of anyone who doesnt get it yet.
This will be long and I apologize, but it's a long story. I have good grammar, I promise. :] (and yes, this is about a guy)
Me = 18/f
Him = 17/m
Ok, we'll start 2 years ago where it all began. His name is Drew and I forget how I met him hahah. But we had lunch together and we slowly started liking each other. We would feed each other french fries and flirt a lot and everyone kept saying "Why don't you guys just go out?" and we'd just look at each other and laugh. We had an AIM conversation in which we basically told each other we liked each other and he asked me to the Snowball. As it turned out, they cancelled it. :[ And nothing else really happened that year, except the same old flirting. At this point, he usually wore a black t-shirt and jeans and had a longer haircut. Not a lot-long, it was above his shoulders and kinda wavy.
Now we get into last year. I hadn't talked to him all summer and when I came back to school, I was surprised to find that he cut his hair short and kinda spiky and dressed completely preppy. I didn't talk to him much during the first couple of months. Then Homecoming was coming around and I know guys are supposed to ask girls, but I ended up asking him, because we sort of starting talking again (as in saying "hey" in the hallway and stuff). But he already had a date. Obviously, I was a bit crushed and ended up just going w/ 4 of my friends. I got to talk to him once during the dance and got a cute pic of him, but then I left to go hang out w/ my friends. We went out in the courtyard to hang out and eat popcorn and I started crying and saying how much I wanted him. Pathetic, I know, but it was how I honestly felt. After that, we hardly talked much the rest of the year. He was hanging out w/ a different group of friends, but we still had the occasional "hey" in the hallway.
Now the most recent and confusing paragraph hahah. This is this school year. Again, we didn't talk much during the first few months. At the time, I had a boyfriend of 4 months, but we broke up because he told me he was bi, and I wasn't comfy w/ that, if you know what I mean. I'm not a homophobe if that's what you're thinking, it was just weird dating him after that. So almost as soon as I broke up w/ him, I went out w/ another guy, but it didn't last long. I also requested to be Drew's friend on myspace, but we never commented on each other's profiles or anything. Then, out of the blue, he sent me a comment saying "This might sound weird, but I actually kind of miss you". Cute, rite? So we started commenting back and forth and he gave me his number and told me to call him. I did, and for not talking in practically forever, it wasn't awkward at all. He even started talking about the past and how he wondered if we would have dated, had the dance not been cancelled. He got kind of excited and was like, "You wanna go out now?" And we started laughing and then we're like, "Wait, we just started talking hahah". So after that, we texted nonstop for 3 days straight and it was really nice. He told me he had a number of crushes, but that the biggest one was me. I thought maybe we had a chance to go out. Then we started talking about going out and he said that there was only one thing holding him back. And it was because of my friends. A couple of them are gay (a guy and girl) and some are kind of annoying (I'm not the most popular person, but I do love my friends hahah) And he said that his friends made fun of my friends sometimes and he was afraid of what they would say if he went out w/ me. Kind of egotistical rite? Like I said, he had a different group of friends now who were more popular and I guess it got to his head. It pretty much pissed me off, but I didn't say anything, just that I understood. But after that, we stopped talking again. Except when he saw me in the hallway, he would always smile and say "hey". And we gave each other the occassional pic comment on myspace (He always said I was cute and all). That was around December. So from December until the end of April, we would sometimes say "hey" in the hallway and have the occassional nice times when we got to talk for a little bit, like at the school musical (He was in it, and I was an usher w/ some of my friends). Then prom came around (May 4). Near the end of the night, he asked me to dance (I was ecstatic hahah but didn't let it show). It was really nice, but then he had to go, so he gave me a hug said good-bye and smiled. A couple weeks went by, in which not much happened.
Now the final phase of this question. A little less than a week ago, I had a dream about him. To keep it short, at one point, he asked for a hug, so I hugged him and he gave me a kiss on the cheek (a very nice one, I might add ;]). I flipped out, once I woke up and discovered it was only a dream. And now, ever since then, I've been going crazy. It's like my feelings for him exploded, like an exponential growth, if that makes sense. I've been going crazy this past week, crying when I think about him. It's so bad. I have no idea what to do, and even prayed to God about it (although I've got no answer yet). Saturday night, though, we had another "moment" if you want to call it that. I went to the chorus concert, because a lot of my friends are in it. I came in really late, because of work, so I ended up setting against the wall in the back. I watched him and I almost started crying and I couldn't stop shaking. Once it was over, I went backstage to find my friends. I saw the usual, gave them hugs, and told them good job and all. Then Drew saw me and gave me kind of a half-hug and said hi. I went to talk to my friend Sam after that. He came back and hugged me again. And then he said it wasn't long enough and that we would have to do it again hahah. So we hugged a third time and started talking again (needless to say, I can't remember a THING we talked about). So then he left for a bit and came back wearing a viking hat w/ blonde pigtail braids on it. Being weird I guess. So I was like, "Wow.. that's attractive." So we laughed for a bit, but I had to go, so he hugged me again (:D). Today, I had finals, so our schedules were all screwed up, and I never got a chance to see him.
I casually commented him today about the viking hat, and he was online at the time, but never commented me back. :[
So of course, I'm very sad right now. My mom and friends think I might be in love, but I think that's a strong word. All I know is, I REALLY like this boy. It's killing me knowing I'm not w/ him right now. I'm freaking out. I graduate next Thursday. Tomorrow is my last day of finals and Wednesday is the senior's last day of school. I'm afraid if I don't do something now, nothing will ever happen. I'm afraid of not seeing him ever again. I feel like I can't live w/o him. I don't know what to do. I'm afraid if I tell him how I feel, he'll either not say anything back, or reject me, which I know I can't handle. I can't tell if he likes me or not. I'm pretty sure he does, from the way we texted back in December and some of the things that he said. But he's sending me mixed signals and I have no idea what to think or what to do. Please help me, I don't know what to say to him or what to do. And he's REALLY FREAKING CUTE!! HELPPP!!!
Thanks in advance, sorry this was so long, but I feel like I needed to tell you everything in order for you to understand more. :/ I know I've left things out, but it's long enough already. If you need more info, let me know.
Signed,
Lost and Confused. :/
You're both graduating. You might never see eachother again. And there is definitely some major chemistry between the two of you. I know it seems hard, but you need to talk to him. Think how much you'll regret it if you don't. You'll always wonder what could have happened if you did.
You have his phone number, right? Just call him. Right now. And tell him that you're both going to be going off to college soon, and you really want to talk to him. Ask if you can meet him somewhere, like at an ice cream shop or town dock or something. If you meet somewhere public, try and walk to somewhere that is semiprivate. Where there won't be a million people. And just tell him how you feel. Tell him that you've known him for two years, and that you've really liked him for such a long time. Tell him how much it kills you to know that you might never be together. Tell him that it's okay if he doesn't feel the same, but you knew you'd hate yourself if you never just put your feelings out there. Just tell him everything. Ask if he remembers how great you two were in tenth grade. Tell him how much you wish that you had gone to that dance together, and how you wish you knew what would have happened if you did. Pour your heart out. And do not be afraid of rejection. Because which would you hate more? Being rejected, or going your whole life wondering what would have happened if you had told him? You'd torture yourself over it. I know it's kind of scary, but you need to do it.
I was wondering...
Do they have any barbie dolls of the following celebrities?
Meagan Good
Solange Knowles
Shyamali Malakar
Miley Cyrus
Also,
Who sings this song?
It goes like this...
"I walked across... "
In the beginning, then in the main verse it says:
"Oh simple thing... where have you gone?"..... "And I need something to rely on." a few lines later. Umm... Blake Lewis sang that song on American Idol a long time ago, anyone know?
Thank y'all for being so patient.
Thats "Somewhere Only We Know," by Keane.
And for future reference, don't ask here because people get annoyed.
Instead, go to google and type in the word "lyrics" a phrase from the song.
--EDIT
and I just searched the Barbie store, and they don't have a Barbie of any of those. Sorry.
does anyone know of some kind of perfume that smells tropical?? cause like, my sister got me this lip gloss, and it is called "tropical colada". so i want some perfume that smells kinda like coconut-ish. idk. i don't know how to explain it. lol. sorry. i hope i got my point across somehow. hehe. bye!
Escada Rocking Rio or Pacific Paradise are really great, as well as quite a few other Escada perfumes.
I am 14 years old and I am a female.
I would like to model for stores such as Target, Kohls, or anything like that. My mom isn't really into the whole "focused on looks" thing. & Neither am I. I just want some way to make money over summer [please dont say maybe you should try babysitting.. im not looking for other jobs... I want to model].
But, money is an issue for us, so we can't afford paying a lot for agencies and things-- especially if i dont make it. I also only want to do it for the summer;; & I don't want a job that makes us move or something like that.
Do you know of anything that falls into my "criteria?"
Thanks in advance
It will be extremely tough to do that. I mean, plenty of people WITH agents barely get to model. It takes a long time for them to get a first job... more than two months. As well, models can't really afford to be specific. They'd need to model for anything. Unless you're an extremely famous model, you couldn't really choose who you'd model for. I'm not saying you can't do it, but if you need the money, then you really should try and get another job AND try to become a model in the off time.
You didn't say where you were from. If you're from a big city, like New York City or LA, then it will be a little bit easier, just because there are more open call auditions there. If you're from somewhere that's not so near a city, then this is going to be extremely hard. What you need to do is go online and try to find open-call auditions in your area. You should google a few keywords, like "open-call model" and "open model auditions" and "open call model [your state]." But seriously, you can't really count on this for the money. It's far too unreliable.
But if this is what you really want, then you should google the things I said above, or anything else that comes to mind. One thing can lead to another.
does anyone know of any songs that they used/played on the tv show Scrubs besides superman (the theme song) and natalie by florez?
thanks!
They played Hey Julie by Fountains of Wayne one episode... great song.
I'm trying to make amends with my best guy friend. We could talk about ANYTHING and we used to hang out. I miss that so now I'm talking to him a lot more to get closer to him again. I've noticed this though.. Right before he goes to bed, I say "I wuv/love you" He really does mean a lot to me.
I have a boyfriend who tells me he loves me. But honestly, i don't love him. I take LOVE seriously. It's only been 3 months.. I've talked to him about this and I'll tell him when the feelings right ..when I'm ready. But this is my question: is telling some other guy that I "love" him.. bad?
My best guy friend.. we had a past together and we dated for over 13 months. My boyfriend knows about that.
Is this cheating of some sort? I'm so confused as to what it is..
It's definitely not cheating.
Do you know if your best guy friend still has feelings for you? Because if there's any chance, then it's kinda bad. But if not, then whatever. Girl friends and guy friends should be the same. I say that to all my friends; they know I just mean it in a friendly way. Plus, the fact that he says "wuv" shows that he doesn't think a huge deal of it either.
Is your boyfriend the kind of guy who would care? If he is, try not to let him now(don't lie, but you know. Don't really tell him either.) But if not, then you might be able to let on. Don't just say it, but if he asks, or if you're talking about love, or friends, or anything and it comes up, cool. If not, whatever.
My screen name is really old and I need a new one. Can you guys help me think of some? My name is Jackie and my middle name is marie. It doesn't HAVE to marie in it though.
PLEASE don't give me ones that are all girly like
xoxJaCkIeMaRiexox or xXxBaByJaCkiexox
No offence if you like those but that isn't my syle. Like i really don't want x and o in it.
do you think thejacster is corny? lol
i think thats cutee
maybe alsoo
heylookitsjackie
andjackiesays
shutupjackie
jackieskindacute
heytherejackie
me and my guy friend are rele tight so when my aunt was murdered i went to his house and cried literally on his shoulder. so any way emotions got really heavy and i ended up kisin him and i left embrassed and he has a gf so he told her because he is such a good person and she told every one eles they a re having problems now becuz of this and now im known as the "homewrecker" it sux cuz i just experienced a great loss
what should i do
Do people know what happened to your aunt? Because if they do, it's absolutely terrible. No one should ever say that. I'd do the same if I was in that situation. But if they don't and you don't want to tell them, then ask him to stand up for you. He probably will. He doesn't even have to take the blame, but just say, "It was stupid but there was a reason. She wasn't being a whore or anything," or something that suggests the same thing.
15/f
i'm jewish, go to a jewish private school with a dress code that's not strictly enforced.
so my boyfriend and i just broke up and i'm on the market again. before i had a boyfriend, i used to dress...well, not slutty, but let's just say i wore revealing clothes. unconsiously, when i had a boyfriend, i wore more modest clothes. now i'm single again, i just bought new stuff last week from h&m and urban outfitters, and i'm not sure what to do. should i continue to dress modestly or is it ok for me to dress...well, slutty? i didn't dress exactly like a slut...just bared some cleavage and wore short skirts. i have big boobs and small legs and i want to play them up to my advantage.
i know my teachers (and my mom) would like it better if i continued dressing modestly, but i know that guys...well, appreciate me being a little revealing. and i am looking, not for a relationship, but to have some fun. so should i be modest or be "slutty"?
Hey I'll answer your question in half a second, but first I just want to clear something up:
Most guys think you're kind of demeaning yourself if your dressing slutty. They don't think you respect yourself, and therefore, they don't respect you. And in some situations, I think like, whatever. But you should dress MORE conservative(not nesesarrily conservative, but moreso) at school. Not because it's a place where you should be modest blah blah blah, but because chances are, that's where your next bf is going to come from. And if not your next one, definitely the grand majority of them. So you want those guys to respect you. Even if you don't need it now, you will want it eventually.
But as for your question:
Go ahead, dress a little slutty. I know I do. Don't be too much of a slut, but it's okay to have guys look at you. My rule of thumb is to be kinda alutty in one area only. So if you're wearing a really short skirt, then don't go overboard with cleavage too. If your jeans are really tight and low, wear a more conservative top. It shows that you don't want guys to see everything, and it leaves some for their imagination. Would you want to hook up with a guy who you'd already seen all of, or would you want to feel more like you were... discovering him? haha I know that sounds weird, but I think you know what I mean. They're not going to want you if they think they can get you anyday anyway.
whats the name of the song at the begining of the movie uptown girls?
It's Charmed Life, by Leigh Nash.