my name is elizabeth. i love to have fun. i've experienced a lot for my age. i love too easily. i have goals for myself. i'm an open book so ask anything you'd like.
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so this is the same person who gave a guy head like a year and a half ago and got a sore throat the next day. i recently talked to him and he said he just got std tested for the first time and he was 100 percent clean. do you think i should still be worried about having an std? like do these things go away on their own? (btw i haven't done that since) (link)
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if he's clean, you should be too as long as he's the only one you had any sexual relations with. just incase, you might want to get a test done too. there should be nothing to worry about, though. good luck.
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i'm 15 and have a boyfriend of a year and 2 months. i love my boyfriend but i also love it when other guys look at me. like, i have no intention of thinking of them in romantic ways, or even knowing the person, i just like being looked at. is that wrong? (link)
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not at all.. you like to be noticed. there's absolutely nothing wrong witht that. as long as you don't want them in a romantic way, let them look allll they want.
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is there any website that has like an picture of how to keep track of your period. thankks i just got mine so yeah (link)
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when you first get it, it's really sporadic. just be prepared wherever you go. after about 6 months, it should be constant and you should be getting it sometime within the same week you did the month before.
good luck (:
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In the song "Holiday From Real" by Jack's Mannequin, there's a lyric that goes
She lets me drive her car so I can score an eight/from the lesbians in western venice
What's this mean? What's "an eight?" (link)
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he's talking about drugs.
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Heyy. I'm new here. I would like to meet some people. If anyone would like to IM me that would be nice. I'm Derrek by the way..
this is my AIM:
til2nited0uspart
thankss :]] (link)
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heyyy.
fall out boy is my favoriteeee.
lets talk?
saturday xo.
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Okay this guy from my old school starts talking to me on msn so i invited him to my bithday party he came we had a blast he started hanging with me even though he knew like alot of people there and starting flirting with me. He was really nice and he said i was the most prettiest girl he's ever met. But thenthe next day he starts texting me all of a sudden sayin hey supp and makeing conversation. So then i got intrested so i told him he said oh well i do want to be with you but we don't see eachother if we start to see eachother more and more then their should be a chance between you and me. But it summer and in one week he's leaving for vacation so how can i show him that we can work even if we don't live near eachother in 7 days? i mean ofcourse he'll want to spend time with me but he probabaly would rather spend time with his other friends for his last week here... and when he comes back thats going to be way too long and i reaally like him...
i can invite hime once out of that 7 days but i don't wanna seem desprate :( what should i do?
&&16/F (link)
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if he likes you too and you invite him over, i promise you won't look desperate. have a talk with him and just explain that you really like him and tell him how much you think you could work.. bring up the fact that you both have phones, you can text, call, email, and when he gets back he can see you. you should be fine, just ask him to hang out and have fun with him.
good luck (:
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Hey im in a dilemma lol
Tomorrow is my graduation. I just happened to like a boy today. Im not going to the same high school as him anymore and hes moving out of this area. I really like him and if i spend more time with him this summer, im just going to get more attached and it would be harder for me to let go. What should i do?
Thanks, this is urgent! (link)
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if you really genuinely like him, then keeping in touch should be no problem when he moves. i'm assuming since you're graduating, at leadt one of you can drive. you can see eachother all the time during the summer. talk on the phone, email, even go old fashioned and write letters. haha. i'd say, keep talking to him, hang out, and have fun with him. see where things go.
nothing to lose, right?
good luck, have fun (:
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months...but most of those months we werent together cuz he lives in New York...and I live in California.He's 5 years older than me,and he's moving out here JUST FOR ME.Basically I want to know if it's really possible for is to stay together forever,or am I living in a fantasy world.Oh and he's always telling me that we will be together forever and stuff like that. (link)
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it'd be easier to tell you if i knew your age. but if he's moving just for you, then i'd say that's a pretty safe bet.. just be careful. guys tend to tell you things you want to hear just to get with you. sucky, but that's pretty much how they work. just take things slow andd see where things go.
good luck (:
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Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for just over 2 years.
When we first got together I gave him headjobs without condoms on. Stupid I know but it's all good.
Anyway, the main reasons for that is because I was too scared to ask him to put one on. Then one night I bought a packet of condoms and he suggested to put one on the stop his cum from going everywhere.
I've never given him a headjob without a condom since. The thing is he's been asking if I would give him one without a condom on..
I am more then happy to do it in the shower lol but I don't like the taste or smell (after a long day) of his penis. Not to mention the taste and smell of cum is horrible!!
I'd like to give him a headjob without a condom but I can't bear the taste or smell.. how do you girls put up with it?
Thanks! (link)
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it's said that a guy tastes like what he eats.. sooo, having him eat something that's sweet or tastes good to you should help. have him eat it a few days before you want to go down on him. nothing like planning right? ha. until then, just tell him to wear a condom. he should be able to wait it out.
good luck, have fun (:
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ok so, i don't masturbate or anything, and i'm a virgin, i have no bf or anything like that, but when i TALK about sex, like on the internet or something, or when me and some of my guy friends are just joking around, i feel as if, IF i were a guy, i'd have an erection. what's this called? i', very uninformed about sex, because i plan to stay a virgin until i'm married, hopefully, and my family doesnt talk about masturbation or anything like that. so i'm just wondering what this is called when i feel as if i were a guy i'd have an erection?
14/f. (link)
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it just means you're getting "turned on." i totally agree with you on the whole, "no sex 'til marriage." but if you want to just learn more about sex so you're informed, magazines likle cosmopolitan always have articles about that.
hope this helped (:
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So, there's this guy. We don't really know each other but we talk on AIM sometime and I even went to the movies with him once. But I don't know if he's really that into me. His friends say that he's really shy and he told my friend that he thought I was cool. I don't really wanna pursue someone that doesn't even like me. I'm always the one that IMs first. So, should I just move on? Or keep talking to him and pursue him further? Maybe I should make it more obvious that I like him, cause right now I'm playing it sort of cool? (link)
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pursue him. if he's shy, you're probably going to have to make it a little more obvious you like him. try to get to know him a little better if you're concerned about him liking you. ask him to hang out sometime, go to another movie, or just on an outting with friends. good luck and have fun!
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can you tell me how one can go about being as cool as my bff elizabeth? (link)
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hey bff.
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I haven't been to church in 5 years which was when I was 9
well I'm agnostic and I'm going to church tomorrow with my boyfriend and Its alright with me I don't mind
but when i was 9 and went to church I wore dresses
Well I'm about about 15 now and I'm not going to wear a dress especially I'm going to be hanging out with my boyfriend all day I don't want to be all dressy
So I was wondering if just jeans and a regular t shirt would be fine but I'm still not sure what should I wear?
thank you (link)
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at the church i go to that's what i wear, but it's pretty casual. just incase, if you have a pair of comfortable khaki pants and a nicer tshirt, that should be good.
hope this helps.
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im trying really hard to get out of my comfert zone and stuff because im usually really shy. But when i do, i just turn bright red at the stupidest moments, and i kinda just blank out and always say the stupidest things. and i shake really easily too! its so annoying, but is there anyway to just not blush! or to just relax!? PLEASE HELP.. (link)
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just don't care what people think of you. have fun, and just be yourself. your friends will still be your friends if you do something stupid, and chances are you'll end up laughing about it later.
have funnn!
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I am generally a pretty shy person and I tend to be too timid with my boyfriend while making out and doing stuff like that. Anyways, he wants me to be more in charge because i'm usually really shy. Does anyone have any advice on little things that i can do? (link)
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try thinking of how strong your feelings for him are. take all that, and just kiss him with everything you have. sounds lame, but when you're shy, it helps a lot more than you'd think. or you could ask him what he likes, have him try to show you, and try to learn from it. he's your boyfriend, if something doesn't work you can laugh about it and try something different. have fun && good luck (:
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i grew up with this guy, ryan. hes 6 years older than me and recently married with an almost 2 year old daughter, grace. grace is my goddaughter.
ryan and his wife, to say the least, they are amazing. i can call ryan at 2:00 in the morning and he'll listen to me.
i should state the fact that my life at home isnt all that great. dads been a cop since he was 19 and tends to snap in an instant. sometimes on me, throwing me across the room, sometimes at my brother, during a fist fight.
i keep ryan and his wife updated. they are both willing to come pick me up if i need them too. mom and dad know this and therefore hate ryan. his wife currently left the state on vacation and hes by himself. he called me and was like "im bored. talk to me. my wife left with grace." so i was telling him what happened when i was on vacation, and mom walked in and was like "who are you talking to?" she started freaking out. his number isnt saved in my phone because when they check the call log, they'd see his name. they freak out when i talk to him.
yea he is 6 years older than me, but we are friends. hes married and totally dedicated to his wife.
why are they so retarted about me talking to him. is it because he knows more than he should, thanks to me? in so many ways their family has saved me. i live for my goddaughter. and ryan is willing to talk to me when i feel like shit. why cant mom and dad just see this? (link)
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it probably is because of the fact that he is six years older. parents will be totally lame and overprotective when it comes to their kids. because of your dad's career he might not like how much you tell ryan because it's none of his business, no offense to your father or his job. if they still aren't taking hints, you might just have to sit them down and talk to them telling then how much he's there for you and how much he means to you. they should understand after that because they know you really care about him and wants what's best for their child.
good luck (:
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14/f
what age is it alright to start having sex? (link)
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there's not really a set age that it's considered okay. before you have sex you need to think of alllll of the consequences [ex. pregnancy, std's, etc], talk to whomever you want to have sex with and most importantly, make sure you really love him. most kids now really don't realize it, but when you get older, you'll think back to your first time, and if it wasn't with someone you really loved, you'll regret it. also, make sure you have atleast 2 forms of pretection. ask your mom to get you on birth control, and if you don't want to tell her you're planning on having sex, tell her you want to regulate your period [i don't suggest sneaking around, but you need to be safe], and have your guy wear a condom. good luck, be careful.
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i know we all hate these questions but im clueless here. i have NO idea what to get my boyfriend for our one year. i spent over $250 on him for christmas and for valentines day gave him candy and a list of "100 reasons why i love you". he downloads all his music so he has every song he wants so i cant burn a cd. and im not doing a scrap book w/ pictures. concert tickets arent an option. i want to get him something he like so i thought about guitar strings or picks but at the same time i want it to be special for our one year ya kno? hes taking me out to dinner & a movie and getting me something but i dont know what. any ideas? (link)
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maybe you could get him a promise ring, or chain. the night after, you could get both of your favorite movies and his favoite food and just spend the night together. take a favorite picture of the 2 of you, blow it up and have it framed. and if he likes music and playing guitar that much, then the strings and picks would be really nice because you're showing you know what he likes.
good luck and congrats (:
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I got a perm like a year ago and its still in!!! it doesnt look good when i scrunch it though, so i just have to straighten all of it. But i have gone to the pool like A LOT and my hair is really starting to feel dry...which i dont like...
i konw the straightening, perm and pool together only ask for my hair to be dry...but i reallyyy take good care of my hair and i put lots of product on it before i straighten it. Is there anything that i can put on my hair after i go to the pool?? I cannot do the thing where you put conditioner on your hair before getting in the pool and leaving it on. Right now the only thing that works is this moisture-lock face mask...i put it on my hair and it works really well!! but i'm almost out and it was a sample so i'm wondering what other products would work. i have a shampooo and conditioner for dry hair that i use regularly. i know this was long so thanks for everyone who answers and i will rate!! (link)
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my hair is the same way. anyway.. i'd try to not straighten it as much, like maybe only every other day. it worked for my hair. uhmm, washing your hair on a daily basis is also not that good for your hair either, even if it's for dry hair. when you do wash your hair, leave the conditioner in for about a minute or so and then wash it out.
good luck (:
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15/M
Well, on one hand, there's my ex who I still love alot, and she's just everything I could ever want. She knows I still love her and she loves me still, too. Only problem is that she isn't sure that she wants a relationship right now.
On the other hand, there's this girl I met through a mutual friend and we clicked as soon as we met. We both love each other [Yeah, actual love, not just liking] and we're perfect for each other. Problem here is that she lives in Ohio and I live in New York. Now, we both hate long distance relationships so that's not an option.
I really love both of these girls, but there's obstacles in the way of both. What should I do? (link)
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think about the qualities of each and which would suit you more. then you kind of have to be careful about dating one of them because if you love them both, you can't really date one, ya know? just doesn't seem fair. try to just sort out your feelings, be logical, and decide what you would and wouldn't be comfortable with. try talking to each one separately, leaving the other completely out of the conversation.
good luck(:
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