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too timid
I am generally a pretty shy person and I tend to be too timid with my boyfriend while making out and doing stuff like that. Anyways, he wants me to be more in charge because i'm usually really shy. Does anyone have any advice on little things that i can do?
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Ok well here r a few things:
- grab his ass
- if u r standing up, push his against a wall and kiss his neck
- run ur fingers thru his hair when things start 2 pick up alittle faster
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Just go with what feels right to you. Maybe you could initiate it, or take charge after he makes the first move. The other girls gave good advice with the hands and stuff. Through the hair, pull him towards you, up and down the arms. All of this is good, but the most important thing to remember is DON'T FEEL PRESSURED! If you don't even WANT to be in charge, let your boyfriend know! He can't make you do anything you don't want to do. :)
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try thinking of how strong your feelings for him are. take all that, and just kiss him with everything you have. sounds lame, but when you're shy, it helps a lot more than you'd think. or you could ask him what he likes, have him try to show you, and try to learn from it. he's your boyfriend, if something doesn't work you can laugh about it and try something different. have fun && good luck (:
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Kiss him before he kisses you. Do you sometimes look at him and want to kiss him but wait until he makes the move? Next time you want to kiss him, just do it. Don't even think about it. And feel free to move your hands around a bit. On him I mean. Put your hands through his hair, up and down his arms and legs, whatever. Be into the making out...not just with your mouth but with you hands too. Also I don't know how old you are, but if y'all are making out while you're laying down you can grind yourself on him too. But be careful, don't hurt is junk lol. What it comes down to is don't over think things, you have to go with your feeling and don't second guess yourself.
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