My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months...but most of those months we werent together cuz he lives in New York...and I live in California.He's 5 years older than me,and he's moving out here JUST FOR ME.Basically I want to know if it's really possible for is to stay together forever,or am I living in a fantasy world.Oh and he's always telling me that we will be together forever and stuff like that.
0NEL0VEEx answered Monday June 25 2007, 10:12 pm: of course its possible, anything is :) especially since he's moving all the way across the country (supposedly) JUST for you, than more power to you! he must really love and care about you ♥ im not saying it's for sure, but it is definitely possible that you'll be together forever :) good luck hun!!! [ 0NEL0VEEx's advice column | Ask 0NEL0VEEx A Question ]
alwaysmile answered Monday June 25 2007, 9:40 pm: it'd be easier to tell you if i knew your age. but if he's moving just for you, then i'd say that's a pretty safe bet.. just be careful. guys tend to tell you things you want to hear just to get with you. sucky, but that's pretty much how they work. just take things slow andd see where things go.
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Mollysie answered Monday June 25 2007, 9:13 pm: Well having your boyfriend move to California for you is a very big commitment. I don't know your age, but if you are young it is very difficult for a young couple to stay together. However there are many young couples that stay together. Don't look so far into the future (I have this problem to). Of course you want things to work out, and for you two to stay together but try not to focus on that. Focus on spending time together now, and live in the moment. If you plan your future now it's unlikly it will turn out that way. Take it one day at a time. He is five years older then you and that is an age gap. He probably is ready to have a girlfriend that he will be with for the rest of his life. You should talk to him, tell him that alot of couples don't stay together forever and you want to take it moment at a time, if you don't feel comfortable telling him that I can tell you right now it's not going to work out, but if you do then it will make you a stronger couple! Good luck! :)
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