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Alright, I'm a Christian and last night me and my friend were talking about her dad bieng in the hospital and I told her that I would pray for him, and she said "whats the use in praying since God allready has your life planned out for you"...that totally made sence to me, I mean what is praying going to change. I believe in praying for your sins...but now I'm stuck on this one. What do you guys think?
-Zero (link)
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Dear Zero,
im a cristian to and i think thats totally rong! no offense, u have the right idea but this is wat i think. God doesnt have ur life planned out for u at all he NOS wat ur going to do but he give u the choice of doing it! So if u had a choice between chocolate and vinallia ice cream he gives u the choice but he nos wat ur going to choose. The point of praying is either to help u choose the right thing or it is to tell god wat u want to happen like u want her dad to get better so u pray to god that he will make her dad better. thats how i see it but i could b rong thas just my opinion. hope i cleared things up for u! write me sumtime!
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theres this boy thats one of my friends n we hang out all the time like wit other ppl n stuff wit us. n durin the day this boy is the BIGGEST asshole. but then when night time roles around hes all touchy feely n wantin me to flash him n we mess around. it doesnt bother me or nothin because i love sweet guys...n when hes sweet...hes sweet! should i still let him be an asshole n then mess wit him when he 'becomes' sweet? (link)
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Hey hun,
is ur guy PMSing?! lol jk but i dont think u should "mess wit him" when he bcomes sweet cus altho doing stuff with guys is o so fun it sounds like he might b using u :-( dont worry tho im an expert at this ppl use me all the time :-( it sux o wel tho! anyways u need to sit him down and talk to him or call him and ask wat all this is really about and if he jus wants to fool around with u and is that it?! anyways good luck with him hope i helped! write me sumtime!
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Okay , me and my boyfriend was talkin on ta phone and he asked me to marry him(AND AT A YOUNG AGE TOO) and I said no , was it the right thing to do ???were both 15.he aint mad but he is kinda sad , he said he wanted to be with me forever,and I let him down. was it the right thing to do??? (link)
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Personally i think that he wasnt being totally serious! i would hav said yes for the fun of it cus he sounds really sweet but since u dint u should tell him wat u jus wrote ther... ur reason y u dint say yes that might make him feel a lil better! btw~ ther was no right thing to do so dont sweat it!!! good luck with the sweetie! write me sum time!
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Is it ok to have a make-out buddy? I mean, not a sex buddy, we're not having sex...but we're only making out once in a while. We dont like eachother, but is it still ok? Does it make me a slut? (link)
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Hey hun,
makeout buddy?! FUNN!!!!!!!! lol no i dont think ur doing sumthing rong at all! wats rong with frends with benefits?! the only slight problem u might hav is that eventualy u probly wil like eachother and u gotta make sure that goes okay! anyways hav fun!!!!! u r NOT a slut!!! jus dont let it go past 3rd! write me sumtime!
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Okay there is this guy named brad and i like a lot i mean a lot...i imagine a future with him...that's how much i love him!! he is interested in someone who doesn't even think of him like that!! now i'm suppose 2 go 2 a concert and he has invited me 2 sleep over his house after the concert!! is he flirting with me?? is he giving me signals?? what kind signals should i give?? how can i tell my best friend of 3years that i like him?? How can i make a friendship into a relationship??
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.*.BeSs.*. (link)
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Hey Bess,
wats up girl?! its sounds like u hav a little situation here. mayb wat u should do is wait till AFTER the sleep over to tell him cus otherwise it could b pretty awkward. im not sure if hes flirting with u or not but i wouldnt read into anything to much. to tell him that u like u should jus call him and b like hav u ever thot about being more then friends with me? and see his reaction. also i wouldnt go around telling him that the person he likes doesnt feel the same way cus thats only gunna get him down. anyways i hope u figure it out with him. write me sum time!
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my bf wanted me to have dry sex with him... of course i said no, one bcuz i dont no wat it is, and 2) bcuz im 13 and im not gonna hav sex till im married! can u plese tell me wat dry sex is?
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Hey hun,
go u for saying no! thas awsome!!! its sumtimes really hard to stand up to ppl as sum ancient saying or other says its hard to stand up to ur enemys but even harder to stand up to ur frends o wait mayb that was harry potter... o wel lol anyways dry sex is basically jus sex with ur clothes on. good luck with ur bf and everything.
write to me sumtime!
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well i realli like this one kid jay... he's hott nice an sweet i love his personality an of course his eyes but latly he's been giving me signals an all my (girl) friends have been saying he is givin u so many signals an that he likes me but i realli dont know, like he's been paying attiction to wut ive been sayin, stairin at me continusly even if i aint talking, an putting his arm around me an is constantly askin who i like an saying he got my back an stuff... i realli like him but like.. if i tell him i like him i dont want to feel stupid if he dosnt like me back... jay means the world to me an i realli dont wana look stupid if he dont like me back!!! plzz help!!! (link)
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hey gurl!
i think ur blind lol!! this guy OBVIOUSLY LOVES U!!! he seems like a great guy and if i wer u i would tell him that i like him ASAP!!! he definantly likes u and i say good for u!! so tel him soooon!!! good luck with him he seems great! write me sum time!
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~Hey I have this cutting problem. I just always wish someone would take me away from this world. My parents just kicked me out...once for smoking pot and sex...and the other reason is becuz they didnt want me. Right before this happened I caught my almost husband in the bed with 2 otha gurls.I almost married him at 17!! I got a new bf though. That is the ONLY reason I am still her. I am living wit him for now. I tried commiting suicide once but my bf stopped me. Life just keeps getting worse. I cut myself to releave myself from deppresion, anger, and nething else. I want to stop cutting myself becuz my bf doesnt like me doing it. I was raped by my ex's friend(my ex set it all up)and my bf doesnt know yet. I am anirexic(food disorder). I am 5'6, 92lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, white wit a tan. Pls help me stop cutting myself~ (link)
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Hey hun!!!
omg u r such a brave person!! if i wer u i wouldnt b living but u r and u need to keep living! ur bf is absolutely right u need to stop cutting and doing all that shit. in my opinion i think u should tell ur bf everything and talk to him about everything he sounds like he really understands u and could help. also i think u should go to a support group or sumthing and try to get bak on terms with ur parents. ur life really sux right now and u need sum help and thas not a bad thing as long as ur willing to get it also mayb rehab would b a good idea. o wel i hope u get better and i hope i helped! write me sum time.
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What do girls my age (14) like in us guys? (link)
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hey dude,
we like a guy hoos funny nice athletic good looking and wel im a rock chik so i love guys hoo like rock! any guy that likes the same things as me is automattically like really cool!! also i hate wen guys dont talk alot or even at all it annoys me i talk alot and i like having sum1 to talk to. also we really fall for sweet guys hoo would NEVER pressure a girl! good luck n finding sum1! write me sum time or IM me on ugahottie321!!
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ok, ive been together with my boyfriend,drew, for 14 months. its been great. this one girl tree that drew used to like has always been in the way. they are always talking n shit and drews friends used to tell me that he still likes her and shit. so id get jealous off and on. well tonight he tells me how he stayed online until 5am talking to tree. well i said how come u dont stay up with me. he could tell that i was jealous and he said why cant u accept that im best friends with her? i replied how can u be best friends? u never hang out. i doubt she looks at u as a best friend. well that was rude of me and he got all mad. he looks at me and says "There is something i have to tell you" and he tells me that tree told him a long time ago that she likes him. i knew it all along. should i be mad that he kept that from me for months and months when i knew it all along ? (link)
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hey gurl,
first of all wat the heck kinda name is tree?!!?!? lol jk jk!! anyways tho i think u should talk to ur bf about how u dont feel so good about tree and him being frends and hoow ur a lil jealous and all u shouldnt b too too mad at him but u should let him no u would've liked to no erlier. anyways jus tell him everything u jus wrote ther and it should help yall out a lil! hope it works out! if he doesnt listen to u about the topic u should bring up breaking up over it, that mite change his point of view. write me sum time!
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Alrighty, this guy went out with my bestfriend. I like him, but they hate each other. He says he likes me but won't go out with me. Everytime a friend asks why he says because I'm too young (He's 16 I'm 13) but he went out with my gurl who's 14. I really want this guy, but I don't know what to do. (link)
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Dear dont no wat to do,
i think that u should talk to the guy urself and tell him wat u jus said (that u really like him and want to no exactly y he doesnt want to go out with u) only problem is ur getting into rough territory with the frend thing. u need to make sure ur friend is ok with it but wat i do wen im in that situation is think sumthing that mayb self centered but in order to love ppl and b frends with ppl u hav to love urself and u, urself hav to b happy so u hav to think about how much it will hurt u not to go out with him and how much it will hurt ur friend to go out with him. anyways good luck with ur situation. write me sum time!
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I'm in like despirate need of a job cuz my mom decided to stop randomly givin me money wich sucks ass... so ne ideas for a 14/f! (link)
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kroger will let u b a bag person... my frend is!
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k, so I got new naeighbors and well their kid or teenager came to my house and we talked for awhile but now scence we hang out he just wont leave me alone , I mean I like him and all but he gets annoying, what do I do??? (link)
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hey gurl
heres wat i think u should do tell the guy that u need a little breathing u. it seems like u are an independant person and jus need sum space so just explain that to him anyways good luck write to me sum time!
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Hey well lets start off here, I'm 14 in a month 15(going to be a freshman), and the guy I like is 18(just graduated highschool). I know its crazy, but the thing is he was the one to approach me. He didn't think I was my age because I guess I look older, but we still hung out and had fun, talked on the phone now and then and texted eachother all of the time. One night I snuck out to see him ... and we kissed, and had dry sex (i'm not a slut it was the firstime I did something like that with someone that wasn't my boyfreind ... well dry sex first time ever). So of course ... I started to like him, this went on a few more times, But whenever we would talk he would talk about the age difference and how young I am, he also told me not to tell anyone, that made me kinda sad... not like I would have anyways. The thing is he treated me really wel lwhen I was with him, and made it seem like he liked me by saying tons of little things. So it's like two months later, and I got like no attention from him, one night I needed to talk to him but he was in Vagas and had to go. So I started to give up which was going okay. Then last thursday I saw him agian, and he hugged me and totaly acted like things were normal agian, I'm so lost, and I like him too much to try to let him go, I'm not sure what to do and I know everyone will tell me to leve it alone, I honestly don't think thats helping or that I can, Ive also been having problems trying to exlplane it to him, I told him I liked him, what else do I say? Well thanks for you time, and help me if you can!
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hey ali,
wats up gurl u hav a tough situation here wat i think u really need to do tho is tell him every single thing u wrote ther! it will make u feel a ton better and it will help alot, also u gotta find out wat hes feeling tell him u hav to no wats going on between u guys and mostly wats going on with him. also a little piece of advice sex is a lil to erly for u in my opinion but u no it doesnt really matter. and a guy im talking to on the fone hoo is the same age as u agrees. he said u should do everything but that for now. anyways good luck with the guy. write me sum time.
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anyone have any good webisites that have fun quizzes like personality ones and stuff? thx (link)
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quizzila.com
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dear fran,
my moms always inmy buissness! she wants to hang out wiht me n my friends, n when im online talkin to my friends she wnts to no wat were talking about, but she doesnt care wat my bro types, n he says things way worse! how do i avoid my mom getting into my buissenss? please help!
sincerly,
annoyed by mom! (link)
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Dear annoyed by mom,
it happens to every1 doesnt it suck!? and the brother thing i no exactly wat u mean my bro gets off for everything!!! byt about gettin ur mom out u jus need to tell her u need ur space! i mean ur a teenager and u hav a life!!(hopefully... lol jk jk!) anyways tho just ask ur mom if she could just bak out a little so u can hav some space and it should work if not try mayb getting ur dad to talk to her or sumthing else! at all costs try not to get n a fight!! that jus makes yall both mad and gets every1 n a bad mood. good luck with ur situation!!! write to me sum time!
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Dear fran,
its scared about weight, i forgot to add sum stuff earlier, guys have liked n asked me out, but i always got th efeeling that it was a joke so i said no to most all of them... sum were pretty popular 2! ive nvr told my friends about my diet, and nvr told them wat i was feeling!im taking ur advise, and i guess i am feeling a lil better about myself since u put it that way... thanx so sosososososo much! i guess since im goin into 8th grade, that mayb this year ill get sum selfestem and mayb ill get the courage to talk to my friends n c if they can help me a lil bit! thanx for everything! luv,
scared about weight (prob not for much longer!) (link)
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Hey gurl!
im glad ur feeling better thats great and im really glad i helped! u can ask me about anythin!! i promise! also i wouldnt say no to guys if i wer u ther probly serious! y wouldnt they b?!also telling ur frendz is a good idea idk ur weight but mayb u shouldnt even b on a diet! they can giv u ther opinions tho!anywho good luck hope to talk to u soon!
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ok im a girl, 14 -- can some1 give me advice with what to do.. well me and my boyfriend been together for like 2 1/2 months and i havent relle seen him at all this summer bcuz hes been away and shit.. and all these girls keep i.ming me sayin madd shit about me and how he only uses me and idk all this shitt and tryin to ruin outr relationships and i relle cant take it anymore and he never calls me anymore on the phone sence hes been away and everytime i call him he seems to never pick up his phone! and i ahardly call him bcuz im afraid he doesnt like me anymore and wants to break up with me and id talk to him bout these girls that are i.ming me and hes like he doesnt no them and w.e there sayin isnt true and all this shit but idk what to belive.. i think its these girls just bein jelous and tryin to break us up but im not gunna worry bout that cuz ima find out who they are and theyll get it from me.. but idk what to do with him!? i never see him, talk to him and were goin to different high schools next yr and this summer im only gunna be able to see him all thru august and i wanna break up with him.. but i like him to much to do it and i relly dont no what to do and i need some help pleasee! (link)
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Hey grl,
been ther done that with the jealous girls! they really can hurt ya cant they?! anyways wat i think u should do... u need to talk to ur bf say that u need the complete truth or it might b over ask him and tell him anything thas on ur mind if u like wat u hear stik with him if u dont break it up. if not seeing him is a major problem then u probly need to break it off but mainly u jus need to figure out exactly wats going on between yall. good luck. write me sumtime!
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dear fran,
ive been on a diet for almost 2 years, and ive been doing everything like im suppossed to, but for sum reason, i cant lose anyweight, im always gaining it! i feel as if my weight is wat is keeping me from being positive about myself, and really getting to no sum ppl to have a relationship with them! it makes my life so much more difficult to no that i cant b positive n acctually like myself and i dont have a bf so its as if, guys look at me n say ew no!!!!! please help!
thanx,
scared about weight! (link)
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Dear scared about weight,
a diet for 2 years?! good for u i could never do that! but u dont hav to b a stik to feel good about ur self try excersing more that might help! about feeling good about ur self its not at all how u look its ur personality and if guys r only going for how u look then its not worth it personality and character is wat really matters! altho guys can b shallow u hav to get them to see past ur looks. good luck with ur diet remeber try to exercise alot! write to me sum time!
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dear fran,
i have this friend, hes really sweet and my friends think im perfect for him! but hes goin out with sum1 else... ive liked him for 3 years now, and ive asked him out n everytime he says "let me think about it" then says were too good of friends! i love him, i no it sounds kinda corny, and my friends say i dont no wat love is rite now, cause im only 13, well i think i do no, but he has a gf and shes becoming a really good friend of mine! his gf n i r so much a like so im confused. him n his gf r like best friends 2, so it makes no sense to me! he wont go out with me but hell go out with her, and were pretty much exactly alike! ugh! im so fusturated! i tell ppl that im over him n that ive been over him for lik2 and 1/2 years, but secretly, ive always had really really really strong feelings for him... im just scared that oneday, he realize wat ive been up to n hate me, not to mention that if he realizes wat ive been up to n figure that he mite like me, i dont want him to break up with his gf, i no sounds wierd, but shes like one mf my bffs now, so if he breaks up with her to go out with me itd b really awkward! please please please help! thanx
- Confused n lost with love (link)
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Dear confused n lost with love,
heres wat i think u should do...
u hav to lay off if he has a gf but if they breakup u should try to get together with him! the reason y mayb hes going out with her insted of u is that mayb thers just a little sumthing different in her but u shouldnt try to change ur self to b like that cus that aint cool and ur fine jus the way u r! about the love thing im ur age and i feel like i love sum1 to so i believe n love now! otherwise if he and his gf arent breaking up anytime soon i think wat u should do is try to get over him. i no its really tough but u hav to try! try to look and find other ppl u might like! good luck with the guy! write me sum time!
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