dear fran,
i have this friend, hes really sweet and my friends think im perfect for him! but hes goin out with sum1 else... ive liked him for 3 years now, and ive asked him out n everytime he says "let me think about it" then says were too good of friends! i love him, i no it sounds kinda corny, and my friends say i dont no wat love is rite now, cause im only 13, well i think i do no, but he has a gf and shes becoming a really good friend of mine! his gf n i r so much a like so im confused. him n his gf r like best friends 2, so it makes no sense to me! he wont go out with me but hell go out with her, and were pretty much exactly alike! ugh! im so fusturated! i tell ppl that im over him n that ive been over him for lik2 and 1/2 years, but secretly, ive always had really really really strong feelings for him... im just scared that oneday, he realize wat ive been up to n hate me, not to mention that if he realizes wat ive been up to n figure that he mite like me, i dont want him to break up with his gf, i no sounds wierd, but shes like one mf my bffs now, so if he breaks up with her to go out with me itd b really awkward! please please please help! thanx
- Confused n lost with love
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Ugahottie321 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:20 pm: Dear confused n lost with love,
heres wat i think u should do...
u hav to lay off if he has a gf but if they breakup u should try to get together with him! the reason y mayb hes going out with her insted of u is that mayb thers just a little sumthing different in her but u shouldnt try to change ur self to b like that cus that aint cool and ur fine jus the way u r! about the love thing im ur age and i feel like i love sum1 to so i believe n love now! otherwise if he and his gf arent breaking up anytime soon i think wat u should do is try to get over him. i no its really tough but u hav to try! try to look and find other ppl u might like! good luck with the guy! write me sum time!
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