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Q: So ok i had sex um like two weeks ago....Down there is kinda like all red and it looks like someone like burnt the first layer of my skin off. See after i had sex it got real ichy(i thought maybe he cut me with his finger nails down there does that make you ichy?) But today after my shower i seen that there was like a lump but its like a pimp but its not one its just a blister looking type thing. I herd from people he had STD's and he does fuck and isnt safe...Are thease signs of a STD?

If you heard he had STD's whyd you even fuck him in the first place

Q: i like my ex-boyfriend again and we been hanging out alot and he likes me...and i dont know if i should be with him again or not because he messed up me and my best friends relationship..because he thought it would be cool 2 go out with her so he can be close 2 me but at the same time make me real mad...and i also have a boyfriend...and my boyfriend now got in a fight with my ex-boyfriend because my ex-boyfriend said he was going 2 hurt my boyfriend because he took me away from him...which is kinda true but at the same time my ex was messing with my best friend....im 16 and im a female

Hunn,
do the obvious and stayt w/ your new b/f..he fought for you he obviously cares foryou plus your ex did you wrong he ruined you and your friends r-ship you can hang out or whatever but it wouldnt be good to hang out too much cuz you might get attached and start liking him again(if you dont already) then you'll mess up you and your new b/f's r-ship and it seems to me like he's good so dont hurt him by going back out with your ex...keep the thought in your head that your ex did you wrong.....it makes you pissed doesnt it?
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee

Q: how can you tell when a guy likes you?

i have this one guy and he pretty much flirts with me ..and he says all these sweet things

Sweetie,
All guys flirt..but if he pays more attention to you than other girls and treats you differently(in a good way) than the other girls he likes you.
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'

Q: Okay Me and My boyfriend, just broke up because of school, we don't go to the same school anymore & he only can hang out with girls 2 a week, has to be home at 5;30 on school days, he's not allowed to have anyone over during the day, his parents both work, and his parents would kill him if he went over my house or any girls house without them knowing, or home. he does like me still but a little bit.

how can i get him back? I will try everything
i am hanging out with him tomorrow so

Hunni,
Don't stress it out youll get him back eventually ..but if you insist..heres my theory on how to get him back:he likes you for you..I assume, so just be you with a bit of flirting dont do anything too extra..remind him (without telling him..show him) of what hes missing then he'll see it then hell try to go out with you again and be a good friend to him...boys like that..well the ones i go out with do..so the key is flirt and be you
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'

Q: My boyfriend and i been together for 11months, this month.we been having sex for about 7 months and i enjoy it and everything but... my boyfriend cant get me to have an orgasem. Don't get me wrong my boyfriend knows what hes doing and i enjoy it and everything. Is there something wrong with me? Should i go to the doctor?
im a 15 female.

Hunni,
It's not your fault...its probably his he's probably not workin it right and theres nothing wrong with not having an orgasm...not evryone has an orgasm.
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'

Q: hey..whenever i get my period i get really depressed and i hate it..and i feel liek whenever i feel this depresssed there is no way out of it..but whenver my period ends it's gone..i kno that this happens to some people..does anyone have any ideas on how to alleviate the depression?

Sweetie,
the best advice i can give you is to juts stay busy and do things that make YOU happy and things that make YOU have fun....that should help a little.

-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'

Q: last weekend i had sex with my boyfriend and now im worried im pregnet cause we didnt use a rubber but he did pull out

Hunn,
Just do the obvious and go to walgreens or your local pharmacy and buy a pregnancy test.
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee

Q: I go to bed about 10:30 every night. For some reason I keep waking up around 3am and then I can't go back to sleep. Then I start getting sleepy in the afternoon when I can't sleep! Anyone else have this problem, and if so what do I do?

Go to sleep later and you'll wake up later...or you'll get used to the 3 am thing and youll just have to deal with it
-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'

Q: I have a wart on the back of my hand. I heard somewhere that it could go away by itself. Is this true? If it isn't what are some things I might try to get rid of it?

Buy that Dr.Scholls Freeze Away wart remover stuff

Q: Hey,
I am always getting into arguements with my brother Nick, He is 18. Its always about the stupidest stuff! I want to try and talk to him to you know settle all the differences but I just do not know what to say to him. Got any ideas?

HEY BABE!
Ask him why hes so mean to you than say we should get along more so stop being mean to me and I'll stop being mean to you. I kno it sounds cheesy but that's all i got....or you can just ignore him and tell him that you dont have time to argue w/ him and to go away..

-HOPE I HELPED!
x3-Janee'

Q: Okay, I'm on birthcontrol. But, when you're on bc do you have to use a condom? And can he cum inside you and you still be safe? I"LL RATE 5's!!!

Sweetie

LISTEN CAREFULLY!

Birth control is only 99.9% effect you'd prolly figure oh yeah thats close to 100% so whatever But the boys cum CAN be that .1 percent to get you pregnant so use a condomn plus bc doesnt protect against STD's so again use a condom.

-HOPE I HELPED!
x3-Janee'

Q: What is homecoming?

Its a dance you asshole!

Q: I used to always be happy and fun but lately im always in a bad mood...I want to know whats happening and how to help it

Hunn,

HORMONES will fuck u up it's probably only temporary

-HOPE I HELPED!
x3-Janee'

Q: about 2 weeks ago i was fooling around with my bf and some sexual things happend. we didnt have sex but he came, and it might be possible that it got "down there " sort of. My period has been 2 weeks last but it was late when i was fooling arounf with my bf. do you think its possible thtat i am pregnent without even having sex because some way some how like if it was on his fingers or something that i could be pregent? or is my period just really late. I havent had any signs of hurting boobs or anything like that.. so im just wondering. because ive been worried. thank you. =]

Sweetie,
ARE YOU DILLUSIONAL???? Everyone knows that when you're pregnant that you dont get your period AT ALL for the whole nine months. Thats why when the baby come out its all bloody n stuff...the blood on the baby is from you NOT having your period for 9 months

-HOPE I HELPED!
x3-Janee'

Q: ok so ages ago i thought i would buy a small pack of tampons.My mum knows ive started my period but she probably does not know i got these tampons and she found them.theres only 2 of them. in a tiny box. be cause she thinks i use pads which i do. So what im asking is what if my mum asks me where i got it? erm or something? 17/f

Babe..
It isnt that serious just say I bought them she cant do much, I mean you ARE on your period plus you're almost an adult..
-HOPE I HELPED
x3-Janee'

Q: School started 4 days ago or me, and today I just got my period. I'm s freshman, and it just seems like everything is so STRESSFUL for me! I'm nervous about tomorrow and I have no clue why! Could you period be linked to stressing you out? I'm never really grouchy before/during my period, just crampy.

14/f

Hunni,
Listen Closely....

PERIODS FUCK UP EVERYTHING!!!! so its prolly your period that making you stressed like mines make me really hungry allll the time even when I'm full and it makes me get irritated by evrything so its def. your period

HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'

Q: how do you get rid of or cover up a hickey? please&thanks!

Hunni,
The answers are sooooo obvious....put foundation over try that true blend stuff its really good make up or liquid foundation....NAMEBRAND ONLY becuz that generic shytt dont work dont ud any of that powder foundation that stuff cakes up and makes u look like an idiot..OOOOOR put a fake tattoo over if your mom or dad asks about it say you and all your friends were bored so yall decided to put tattoos in the same place and one of your friends picked the neck so you all had to do it...OOOOOR say its aa curlin iron burn or say it's a mosquito bite. The spoon thing works for some people it depends so try it anyway..

-HOPE I HELPED!
x3-Janee'

Q: ok my boyfriend birthday is coming in 2 weeks he is turing 16. i have been with him for 3 months and i have an idea of what to get him but i dotn know if i should get more and which to get or both. i know he wants a hoodie which is 15 dollars at tillys (red) or either a 50 cent cd or tony yayo but i dont know if that is enough. i am also have a poem that i wrote and a picture of me to give to him.. do you guys think that would be enough?? and should i get the cd? if so which one? or the hoddie? thanks

Sweetie...
Girls arent sposed to write boys poems its sposed to be the other way around..so dont give him the poem thats a bit much Buy him the hoodie and the Tony Yayo cd ...cuz it's newer..and 50's cd is lame..it should total up to like 30 dollars or sumthin like that...

-HOPE I HELPED
x3-Janee'

Q: Whenever my boyfriend comes over we usually just sit and watch T.V or a movie. This is really boring after a while and I want him to feel like he's having fun when he's around me. Is there anything fun that we can do whenever he's over? Nothing sexual or physical; I just mean fun by enjoying one another's company.
Ex: Making a cake, going to the park, etc.

Thank You.

Sweetie,

If you're his g/f then u have to do atleast a little something sexual or physical with him...SO the answer is no...I mean would it hurt for yall to do a little kissing?

-HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'

Q: My boyfriend & I have been together for 2 months. We're very serious. We laugh, we have a great time, we're passionate & have tons in common. We talk about the future alot-- getting married 10 years from now, etc. I just want to know if that's possible, if relationships can last that long & what are some ways to build it so it does?

Hunn...Listen,
Some relationships last that long...But very few do so the best advice that i can giv yooh is dont plan now if yall are still together when you're 17 or 18 then start planning.

HOPE I HELPED:)
x3-Janee'