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Ok, so i like this guy that goes to my church. The problem is, he's 2 years younger than me. Im in 8th grade, and he's in 6th. But you see, he doesnt act like he's in 6th at all. Hes really mature, funny, and im pretty sure he likes me back. But I dont know why, but i care what other people think about me. Would it be too weird for a almost fresman in high school to go out with an almost 7th grader? I dontknow!! I dont want advice like, who cares what other people think, because I do!! I don't know what to do, Some people might think thats too young, but i dont know. What should i do?? (link)
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I'm a sevener hahha I went out with this guy Ryan hes in grade 9 hes 14 and we had no problems...I broke up with him...he lived too far away I never got to see him :( oh well...best of luck,hope I helped
-stephi-
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how do i tell my mom about my period?? (link)
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write on a peice of paper I need a pad NOW...worked for me X_X
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this is kind of urgent. ok so my best guy friend just got dumped by his girlfriend that he had for 7months. he really loved her and is really depressed about it. i hate to see him that way because i care about him, alot. in fact i love him. i've been secretly in love with him for about a year now. i told him that i used to like him but not that i still do. ok so anyway he's been really depressed and he's not sure if him and his girlfriend are going to get back together. if they do i'll be really happy for him because i hate to see him miserable like he is now. but i want to tell him that i like him. so what should i do? tell him or let them get back together and just be a good friend and stay out of the way? (link)
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Tell him ur secret life is about taking risks.
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Just Wondering.. About how many percent of guys masturbate around the age of like 15-17? (link)
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I think its in the high 70's low 80's
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I started eating a little less and excersizing a little more. I still eat some junk food. I mean, I barely thought this diet thing would work. But now, since about a week or two ago, I have already lost 5.5 pounds. Is that too much? I guess I'm the kind of person that needs to eat alot. Should I eat more? Or is this too much? ... (link)
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Just to let you know if you lose weight fast then you're more likely to just gain it back.3-5 pounds a month is the most to lose a month.
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I hate my family. There all a bunch of #$@%&*$#(@%^(#&^…everytime I get on the computer..they always suspect I’m doing something wrong like..i’m on myspace or aim or e-mail….my dad always think that…everytime I’m on the computer he’s always saying “ o are you on myspace or aim or e-mail…and I get angry b/c I’m not and he always suspects that and it gets on my nerves and when I say “NOOOO!!!” he says “ yea rite your lying to me” then I get mad and say “WHAT THE HECK!!”…Why’d you ask if you don’t believe me!!”…. Then my mom is just a bigger annoying one!! she’s always nagging to me about my grades…. I try my hardest but she never accepts it!!…. She’s always saying “if your trying your hardest…your grades would be higher”…I hate talking about my grades b/c my mom is always like look at everyone else…their grades are high, why can’t you be like them…everytime she says this I feel stupid, and I wanna just ignore her…then she says you never want to talk about this but look at your grades!!!…. Then I’m on aim sometimes and then she comes and beats me because she thinks I’m talking and not doing my hmrk…. When really I’m talking to a friend or my cousin to get help…but she never believes me…then I get beat for noo reason…and everytime she gets mad she always talks about my grades..And says print your grades out and let me see them…then there bad grades then she gets mad at me more…sometimes I wish I can just kill myself (no joke)…but then I say no bc don’t want to die in pain(if there was a easier/ painless way of dieing I would do it)…it’s really getting close to me doing that…I know I won’t ever do it but I really wish I can …sometimes I just tell my mom that maybe I’m stupid and this is the best of my ability but she never believes me….sometimes I wish I can hurt her really badly emotionally w/o hurting myself physically…I just can’t stand her…sometime I wish I can just run away….and we also have this neighbor who is he biggest momma’s boy ever…he listens to his mom and everything he’s like the “perfect son”…he makes my life even worse…b/c my mom will be like “look at his grades and look at yours he has better grades than you…he’s in all honors classes and your not!!…you just in 2 classes”…and this makes me feel even more stupid…and I’m really bad in math and my mom makes me go to this tutoring class for math every Saturday morning…and he’s there…b/c everything I do he has to do!!…and he does his hmrk every single day and asks questions and be a good student… then he makes me look bad….then I don’t get anything we learn in that class so I asks questions and sometimes she’ll get aggravated b/c I’m not getting it..and then we’ll take a test and I’ll maybe miss a lot and she’ll call my mom and be like she doesn’t do my hmrk(maybe b/c I don’t get it!!) and she missed a lot and she never does anything in class(she lies!!)…I try my hardest to pay attetion..It’s not my fault I’m stupid and don’t get it!!…sometimes I hate going home from something just cause it’s soo bad…I get in trouble or yelled at everyday!!…then my sister is the worst of them all!!….she’s sooooo annoying..she’ll always up in my business!!….i’ll be on the computer and she’ll always run out of no where and “check up on me”…then b/c she comes so fast then I get scared I then I think I’m doing something wrong so I have to exit out of everything then she’ll be “OOOO!!!….your on mypace/aim/e-mail!!!..i’m tellling!!.” And she’ll yell it so that my mom or dad can come can come and accuse me and be like “GET OFF THE COMPPUTERR!! YOUR NOT DOJNG YOIUR HMRK!!” Then I can never finish my hrmk…so then I have it sneak on at night just to finish it then my dad’s like…I know you were on the computer on myspace/aim/e-mail last night so you can’t get on today!!…then I can never do my hmrk…then that’s probably another reason that I’m not passing all my classes!!….then sometimes I’ll be on and my sis will come and then be like I no you were on something you were’nt supposed to be on..click on the history!!…then I’m like no I’m tired of you accusing me …then she accuses me for no reason with no proof and yells “OOO!!…mommy/daddy she’s on myspace/aim/e-mail..then my mom/dad comes and says CHECK ON HISTORY!!….then I do and there’s nothing wrong there!!…and my sis walks away saying I no you deleted it…I get sooo mad when they accuse me for no reason!!…I hate it!!….and everytime my sis and me argue my mom comes and break it up and she listens to my sis’s part of the story and not mine…so it’s like I’m the bad guy!!….it’s sooo annoying!!….then of course I get yelled at…..my sis has an attitude and she never gets in trouble she treats our parents with no respect…and she never gets in trouble!!…she scratches me and it leaves marks on my hand and my parents don’t says anything…but if I do something like call her stupid or push her down I get in trouble they always say you should know better she’s younger….I’m like what the heck!!….she’s 11 she’s not little!!!!…. And I’m not “allowed” in her room…if I stand by the doorway she gets mad and says “get out!!” then slams the door in my face….I don’t know what to do with my family..sometimes I wish I can just run away…and everyday when I go to sleep I wonder how it would be like if I was never born…..it would be the “perfect family”…I try to make everyday a good day but it always comes out bad..b/c of something I do…so I just gave up…I know it’s gonna be a bad day so I just go along with it…there’s no point of trying to make it a good day…..also I’m doing really bad in Spanish…and I pay attention in class and do my hmrk and go to tutorials…and I can’t tell anybody b/c if I tell my dad then he’ll tell my mom…and if I tell my mom then she’ll yell at me and I don’t want that anymore….so I have to keep it a secret and pray that I pass at the end…..
14/f
sorry it's so long but i did'nt want to leave anything out... (link)
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Give up go goth and start cutting urself and then they will find out and say why and youcan just say its all ur fault becze (the resons listed above) and they will fell so bad they will be like omg ya...it worked 4 me
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Hope I helped
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Is it weird that I masterbate atleast once or twice a day? why do yu think that i do this?
Im a girl by the way (link)
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This is totally normal...most girls and guys mastrabate...healthy,normal and pleasurabe ;)
Hope I helped,
-Stephi-
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what is the size of an average fully grown penis? (in inches) (link)
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usually around 6 inches when erect
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Can you be catholic or do you have to be baptized when born? because my family come from a long line of buddism but I don't beleive in it, I beleive in God but i don't know how to make it offical, etc or if i'm talking to him for nothing (link)
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you can still get baptized...if you want or you can just go to a catholic church and talk to the preist(spelling?).
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Okay well i have a boyfriend and he loves me and cares for me and stuff but he wants to kiss me but i dont know if im ready i toled him i would but i keep puting it off . then i get pressured to do it my my friends anna, emma, and meagan. They all have boyfriends and they kiss. Do i have a problem that i cant kiss my boyfriend or not cuz i really want to kiss him. i just dont know how i should or how long. HELPPPPPP!!!!! (link)
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I was totally nervous my first time to...make sure you're alone for 1 so theres no embaressing moments for others to tell all about (drool teeth clank ext) and let him lead.Mail me and tell me what happens if you wnat (please do lol) Hope I helped !!
-Stephi-
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I am quite pretty but I always feel self-conscious cos my teeth are wonky. I mean, I have a great figure and a pretty face except for my teeth and it really gets to me. Like, I don't like smiling with my mouth open because of my teeth. It makes me feel really self-conscious and makes me not very confident. I'm just wodering, if you saw a pretty girl with a good figure and then saw she had wonky teeth would it put you off? Also, I would like to know how I can stop it from bothering me so much, any advice? (link)
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I have wonky teeth too...if your worried that u won't get a bf or whatever...if he won't love you for you hes not worth it.If you're just self concouis I dunno I don't care what people think that much so no advice on that part sorry hope I helped :(
Stephi-
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I'm a 19 year old girl.
I'm going to see The Phantom of the Opera on Saturday, and I'm really excited!
Thing is, I have no idea what to wear. I've been to the theatre before, but never to a more formal show like this... to give you an idea, I've seen Mamma Mia, Da Kink In My Hair, and Beauty and the Beast.
I have two different outfits that I could use;
1: Dress pants, nice tank top, 3/4 length heavy cotton jacket (kind of dressy)
OR
2: Black halter chiffon dress, knee length, with black shoulder scarf
If it helps at all, my boyfriend's wearing a black suit with a white shirt.
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K well I'd deffinatlly go with the dress...you'll look so cute with your boyfriend !! :D Best of Luck !! I hope you have sooooo much fun !
[Stephi]
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Today I was searching on my boyfriend's video playlist, and I discovered about 4, maybe 5 pornographic videos...I confronted him about it, and he broke down, saying he had forgotten about them, and that they had been there before we started dating...I think believe him...but I'm still not sure what to think...any thoughts?
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Lol don't worry about it...Almost EVERY guy on the planet has/does/is going to watch porn.Its natural...hes not cheating on you or anything its just a video or whatever.
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Usually I go on a special diet when I need/want to loose a few pounds.
I decided to do my usual diet and start actually working out.
Meaning; lifting weights,working on abs,doing more muscle building machines.
After I started doing that, instead of loosing weight ive been gaining it.
Usually, I dont gain weight that easily because I didnt go off my diet[that much haha].
Do you think Im gaining weight because of my eating habits or is it muscle?
Ive gained like 3 pounds.
tHanks!
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I think if its only 3 pounds
1) DON'T WORRY ITS ONLY 3 POUNDS
2)Its just mucles.
Hope I helped !! Hope you rate haha ;)
Stephi--
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okay so tomarrow im going to the mall with a friend. my dads ganna be there but he'll most likely let us walk aorund on our own. okay so i really need bras and underwear. like really badly. so i wanna get like some nice underwear andd thongss. and bras. ha. but like.. i know there victoria secrets.. and american eagle.. but where else has some nice stuff. and not to mention the fact that im really embarressed about getting the thongs and like underwear. and like i need to get measured for bras.. so like idk what to do.. its embaressing and but i really need this stuff done. its like the fact that i have never worn a thong before, shopping for that stuff is just awkward, asking someone who works there what size i am in the boobs and like underrwearr is also embarressing. (and like how would i ask her...). yeah so please advice. on like anything. i dont want my dad to know i got stuff like that at the mall too. thankss. =] (link)
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Try going to a store like Wal-Mart or Zellars...grab all kinds of bras you think might fit,try them on till you find one that fits...check the size and buy that size from any store.With buying undies and stuff,people go buy underwear & thongs ALL the time.The sales person won't think twice about it if you don't.
Hope I helped !
-Stephi
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hes crazy. like.. he grabbed me by my hair because i spazzed out because everyone in the house thinks im crazy i bet because i told htem there was a cat in the back yard and there was like it was right next to the window staring at me and i went up to tell everyone and when i came downstairs it wasnt there anymore so there all like making fun of me. and i spazzed and threw something in the sink and he was grabbing my hair and yelling. its like one of the only time i saw he do that. i wanted to fucken cry i didnt i was just like DAD BALHABKSDHSJLAHDSKJ you know just yelling back. recently hes been getting on my last nerve. like he used to just walk in the door of my bedroom even if i told him not to when i was getting changed and then be like jesus christ ____ and leave the room or just like walk in my room and lay down on the floor and just be in the way and be so nosey. and like.. ew hes a fucken dumb ass. i fucken hate him right now. and HE AND MY AUNT ALWAYS MAKE FUN OF ME. like sometimes my brother does too. like i have big feet so my fucken cheap aunt can only point out the bad in everything so she makes fun of my feet because there big and i mean like thats all she talks about and she is so nosey she like comes in my room and looks thro my stuff of comes to our house and like goes thro droughers and stuff. shes a fucken bitch. thats what she is. she isnt married and doesnt have any kids of her own so i guess thats why she so freakin obsessed with out lives. and like... my dad just makes fun of my grade in math because im struggling in it because its soo hard. im in the 8th grade and the teacher if giving us stuff that 10th graders are learning.. and like. im in advanced so its so much harder. && my aunt cant stfu about my grade and like .. grades are important to me so i know ill bring it up. AHH I HATE THEM. my brother is so anyoying. my litttle one is okay. and my mom is a freakin crazy, fat ass bitch (who used to be gorgeous like homecoming queen and everything) and has NO HYGINE like. she doesnt wash her hands or like wipe herself. DONT ASK HOW I KNOW. shell like drink out of the milk container and everything. i fucken hate them all. my bros are okay tho.
AHHH sorry this is SOOOOOOOOOOOO long but i had to get it out.
any advice.
they all think i have anger managment problems. and i prob. do because if you had to pick up after 4 fat asses who are slobs. and get in your fucken way .. and you have to clean the whole house because no one else will including there rooms.. and you have to do it everyday.. i think that you would be pretty freakin crazy too. OH and let me add that i have SPORTS too and then i have hours worth of school work because the teachers are bitches. everything is on MY shoulders and is MY fault.
they alll are fuckkkin shits. =]
thankss for listening.. any advice. ha. (link)
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I would STOP cleaning and tell them to do it them selves...get a lock for your door that ONLY you have the key to and wear it around your neck at ALL times even at night.Tell your aunt to piss off because your not her kid and to stay out of your shit and if you have a cd player in your room or a computer or a mp3 player...just walk around listening to blearing music no matter what it is...look in a bad mood and start dressing in all black at home and pretend to be all depressed and maybe they'll realize what they are doing.It worked for me :D And I still hate them all !Hope I helped
-Steph
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how can i look prettttty.
i have blonde hair and blue eyes. (link)
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Try finding your perfect colours,of clothes and make up...Have fun invite a friend over and have a little make over party Haha its always fun :p
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I am 14/F and I want to eat the food groups what we are suppose to eat so I can keep healthy. How much grain, fruit, vegetable, etc. do I need to eat? I don't like milk, so what is another way I can drink it? I like cereal though. Is eating two slices of bread good to accomplish my grain servings? (link)
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Actrually they just changed the food groups and broke them down into smaller groups and slightly diffrent servings...now you're supposed to get more veggies and fruits than grains ! I don't have a guide ... go buy one and see !
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i have nooo privacy in my house!!!
if i keep my door closed and even put a "do not disturb, or do not enter" sign on my door.. people will just walk in. they don't even knock or anything!
they just barge in.. and i ALWAYS knock before walking in a room. aghh
i have my friend over now and my dad just walked in when we were dancing around. it just annoys me so much!
how can i get more privacy in my house? (link)
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Next time you have a feeling someone is gonna come in...pretend your changing your shirt and be like walking around in a bra and then when they come in throw your shirt over yourself,they should learn to knock after that...or after a few times Haha it worked for me !!
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you're on my mind every second,
of every minute, of every hour of every day.
does that make sence? HAHA :D (link)
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Yepers it does.
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