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Hey so the names Jenna ... i can help with pretty much everything...I'm a recovering anorexic, and a survivor of an abusive realtionship ... um yeah... so ask away ... but I have a tendancy to TELL THE TRUTH... so if you don't want to hear it ... don't ask ...
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is there a way where someone can kill themself without it hurting...i wanna know if my brother went peacefully (link)
Yes a gunshot is usually painless and so is taking excessive amounts of drugs im sorry ti here about your brother ... if ya ever need nay thing... im here


hey!I was just at blockbuster and i just saw like the hottest boy ever! and like he was totally checking me out cuzi saw him and i was checkin him out and we were like walkin by eachother all througout blockbuster...its funny tho cuz it was really awkward cuz we didn't say anything. And next time i see him i wanna talk to him and stuff cuz he is so gorgeous and i dont kno what to say to him though. Does anyone have any tips on what to say to guys when you dont kno them but want to kno them? THANKS SO MUCH! *tasha* (link)
Try cute pick up lines make jokes about blockbuster but dont go over board cause then he will think ur corny


okay... i babysit for 2 people in my community and i think i am pretty good at it... im 13/f btw... and i dont know how to tell other ppl that have kids that i can babysit or let them know... any suggestions of getting their attention or asking without being rude or anything? thx soo much!
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~*Beccah*~ (link)
Try putting up posters wit ur fone number in the libray and local delis and supermarkets people will see them and call u


hey im 13/f, and i really want to get a second hole in my ear. My dad told me he would convince mi mom i could after mi bat mitzvah, but he didnt. mi mom said it would be mutilating my body(even tho i already hav 1st holes). what should i do? i mean, im a "teenager" and i feel i have the right to get my ears pierced(again). please help! what should i do? signed,
::need.help:: (link)
You shouldnt go around your parents ... very bad idea do what i did wait til your 18 and go crazy tatoos other percings but those 6 years if you go around you parents they WiLL make it hell for you so just wait


I wanna start wearing eyeliner, and in your opinion, should I wear liquid or pencil? Thanks (link)
I like liquid cause its darker but if u dont know how to use it it gets messy


OK i think this is really sick, but for some reason, ionno why, but my dog love to sleep in the bathroom. I mean its not hurting me or anybody else. Can anybody enlighten me on why he does this every night? (link)
Sometimes animals become attracted to certian parts of the house cause they are warm or cold or they like the colours its natural if its not hurtin any one then its not a big deasl


how did u get over anorexia? (link)
I had to go to the hospital and then a clinic it wasnt pretty ... if your anorexic u need to get help ...


theres this girl i went out with like a year ago and we had fun but it didnt last as long as i wouldve liked but i got over her and she hasnt gone out iwht ne one since but all these guys like and recently she kinda likes this guy and i actully am jealous i dont understand y i must still have feelings for her but i dont want to hurt our freindship what to do o what to do? (link)
Talk to her ... cause she hasnt gone out with any 1 maybe she still has feelings for you too ... youll never knoe until you try


me and my friend are on a diet and it doesnt seem ti be working! we have tried the fruits and veggies diet but i doesnt help at all! (link)
SOUTH BEACH!!


OK well I used to be the happiest person.. at least it felt like that. I was kinda popular, and I actually felt kinda pretty. Its not like I'm ugly or anything its just that Ive never had the greatest self esteem. Well then I went to high school and my life kind of went downhill. I wasnt very popular, I dont have like any friends it feels like, and ive been crying myself to sleep some nights. Its not like I like doing this! I hate it! I feel like my life sucks... and everyone knows me as the ALWAYS HAPPY girl and stuff... but really I'm not like that! I want my old life back and the friends I used to have. I want to feel as happy as everyone thinks I am. Its not fun being miserable or anything... I dont know what to do. Im hating my life. and I cant run away from it. Help... (link)
I know how you feel I really do . You may want you old life back but its diffrent now and chances are you cant get that back so you have to make the best of it make new friends and everything else will follow you may never feel as close to these new girls as you did with your old friends but they will help you feel better about your self and you have a better time then you have been

hope i helped


hi im a 15 year old girl and my mom hits me a lot. i was wondering what you think i should do to get her to stop? (link)
I had this problem too You need to talk to you mom She may not realize shes hurting you sometimes its a reflex because chances are when your mom was a girl a spanking was an acceptable form of punishment and she may see it as one too your best hope is to tell her shes hurting you and maybe you can reach a comprmise (like she doesnt hit you and you make a more conciensious effort to fix ...{insert your biggest flaw here} ) i hope i helped


What is it like the first time you have sex. Details like, does it hurt, etc. Thanks-- I rate. (link)
It hurt like a b%$ch! and it does for like the first 3 times ... but after its SOO much fun! hoped i helped


im goin out with a guy i kind of like i mean i dunno but i like some one else ( his friend) and hes goin out with a girl (no one knosz) but hes gunna dump her i realy like him a lot and he told a lot of people he likes me and my friend asked me if i liked him and i said yess so she knew i liked him n now there goin out whut do i do im sooo confused HELP SOON (link)
So wait ... U have 2 boyfriends ? Well this seems easy enough , dunp the one u dont like ! if you like them both then keep both b/fs but be careful cause they might both dump you


hi. i'm a 16/f and when i masterbate, i think of girls. i look at pics of girls. not guys, girls. but i still like guys!! am i..gay? (link)
Probably not ... theres a chance your bi but this is really something you have to figure out on your own


Ok...
I am 13 years old and i look 17
boys like my body i hate it
i dress like a guy and guys (i talk to) think its hott


am i weird or what? (link)
Nah u aint weird ... If yall dont like the way they act or talk around ya then tell them and if they dont listen ... CURSE EM OUT!!




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