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i was thinking for my non school uniform day(red nose day), i was going to wear them footless tights with a nice skirt but i was thinking would red footless tights look nice with a black skirt??
anyone got any ideas??
thanks xx (link)
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I would go with black footless tights and a denim skirt. I don't think think that the red footless tights would go very well with the black skirt.
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what is your opinion on shaving down there?
16 female
and should i let my boyfriend finger me? (link)
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Well, shaving down there, in my opinion, is much more comfortable [if you know what i mean] and it just looks better.
As for letting your boyfriend finger you, if you feel that you are ready in your relationship for that, then go for it.
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Hi.
Sorry, for the extremly dumb question but I need to know before I go out of town to look for it, because there is no game stores in town. No, not even Wal-Mart.
Anyways, Do they make DDR for Xbox? Not 360, just the plain regular blah xbox.
Thanks. (link)
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Yep! My brother has it. Try a place like GameStop for it.
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my arms are both fat and muscular and i want then to be skinnier. does anyone know any workouts or anything to help them get slimmer? thanks in advance. (link)
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Do arm excersizes, like lifting weights and push ups to tone your arms and burn fat.
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intercorce durimg pregnancy (link)
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I'm guessing you're asking if you can still have sex while your pregnant. I'm sure you can, but when you get closer to your due date you might want to consult a doctor about it, so you know that you wouldn't hurt the baby before you have intercourse.
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ok well i got my period and my mom wont let me wear tampons. the only time i'm allowed to wear tampons is when i go swimming (im on a swim team), but the rest of the time i can only wear pads.
and i only have thongs, so pads are EXTREMELY uncomfortable, so my mom is out buying me regular underwear which i cant stand cuz they give you wedgies and panty lines.
to add to that, pads are soooo loud when you pull them off (and even when you walk) but tampons are silent and you cant even feel them.
my mom says that tampons are dangerous, and they are only for a heavy blood flow. but they make tampons for light flow too!!! and theyre safe to use as long as you change them every four hours.
the only time i'm willing to use pads is at night when im sleeping.
so how do i convince my mom to let me wear tampons? (link)
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Show her that you are responsible enough to wear a tampon. Show her that you could be careful enough to take them out when you need to. Tell her you won't leave them in too long. Tell her that it would also be more practical since all you wear is thongs.
If she won't give in no matter what, just use the pads. It's only 7 days a month, possibly less. Maybe once she sees that you can be responsible and listen to her, she will be a little more willing to let you wear tampons.
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Hey. Well, I'm thirteen/female. My problem is that when I get to like someone, I fall for them hard. Which I guess wouldn't be a bad thing, but like I can't stop thinking about them. I know like that's a sign of loving someone, but I feel it for everyone. I guess you could say I love flirting, but if there's one bad thing I'm not it's deffinatly a slut. I was wondering if there is anything I could do to fall a little less hard for people. Thanks anyways, even if you can't answer my question, thanks for reading. ♥. (link)
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Focus on other things, like school and friends to take your mind off of the boys.
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Hey. Well, I'm thirteen and I'm in 7th grade. I get honors, but I think that might stop this term. See, I used to not love school, but I still didn't mind it,and I always did my homework and got good grades on pretty much everything [I'm only talking about this year, not before then]. But now, as it's into third term, I hate school.I find myself faking sick a lot, even though I've missed what, 11 days so far? I guess my point is, I hate school. I count down the days to the weekends. I don't do my homework and try to find the easy way out of everything. Now I'm really lazy and lie a lot to get out of doing things school related. I can't do this anymore, I need to get through this year. I thought it was because I needed a vacation, but now I've gone through the whole February vacation and I'm still not ready to go back. Please help, I can't do this anymore. (link)
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Make yourself a schedule for each day of your week. Afterschool, be sure to include at least 1-2 available hours for homework. STICK TO IT!! Make yourself get out of bed in the morning, stop faking sick completely. Tell yourself that you have to go to school. Let your mind overpower the urge to stay home. Sit up straight in your chair at school (they're made that uncomfortable for a reason)and make sure you pay attention.
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how do i get rid of bags. i dont want any lotion or like make up... just like little easy things. you get it. thankss =] (link)
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Get some tea bags that contain tannin. Most black teas have them, use the inexpensive brands. Run the tea bags under cool water and moisten them completely. Put them on your eyes [closed, of course] and leave it for 5 to 10 minutes. This reduces puffiness around your eyes.
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okay, so i will get right to it.
last year my best friend and i got in a huge fight & didnt talk for like 3-4 months.. but then we apologized blah blah & so on.. now we aren't best friends, but working towards it again, i guess you could say.
over that time & this year, however, i have also gotten close to some of my other friends.
so flat out, my group of good friends aren't nearly as good of friends with my old best friend so i can never hang out with them both at one time, so its really hard for me.
my group of friends are basically making me choose & think im ditching them for her [ive only hung out with my old bf twice this whole year] and its not fair and i dont know what to do because i love them all so much and i want to have everyone, but they just dont seem to want me to?
i dont know, this is kind of hard to phrase without using names.
but any advice would be appreciated :] thank you so much. (link)
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Ask them why they have a problem with you being friends again with your old best friend. Let them know that just because you are hanging out with your old friend, you wouldn't ditch them for her. Tell them that just because you would like to become friends with her again, that nothing would change between you and them.
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how can you talk to guys with out getting all shy and embarresed. especailly if he is popular (link)
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Talk about things that you are comfortable with, so you can keep a conversation going. Flirt, but don't be overly flirty because that can come across as annoying. Ask him questions, but listen to his answers, find common interests.. things like that.
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how can i make friends? i dont have a lot and my dad wants me to make more.. and so do i. so yeah thanksss =] (link)
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Talk to some new people when you're in school, have a party and invite some new people, join an afterschool club or sports team; those are great for meeting new people. Good luck!
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Is it ok to ask a guy out?.. ok I like this guy and we flirt all of the time.. but I want to get to know him more, besides at school. we are both busy with sports after school... and i just wanna hang out.. what should i do?? i really like him.
15/f (link)
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Hang out on the weekends, and if you want to ask him out, ASK HIM OUT!! There is nothing wrong with asking a guy out. Good luck!
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My name is Jessica and I am 15 years old. Theres this guy and we were best friends since like the middle of last year. Then, over the summer, someone told me he liked me and i liked him too so i decided to tell him...and he didnt exactly say it back but he practically hinted it and he gives me so many signs that he likes me. But this year, he leaves me to go mess with all these other girls,but even after he leaves me, no matter what happens or whatever girl he messes with...he comes back to me and only me, and sadly..i take him back. And he recently started going out with this other girl and he constantly rubs her in my face and talks about her infront of me now...i guess to make me jealous, and he hardly talks to me anymore but he occasionally sends me text messages asking about my love life
which is kinda strange considering we have such a vague friendship now. About 4 months ago, before he started going out with that girl, he asked me out...but i thought he was just kidding so i was joking around with him like "shutup stop playing with me"...although it appears as though he was serious because after that he got mad at me and didnt talk to me for a month. It seems he always tries to avoid me or let me go, i guess cause hes afraid of getting too attached to me, but we
have the same friends so we often end up hangin around eachother. His girlfriend has been trying to get extra close with me lately, which is a bit weird, and he gets mad whenever I'm around her. When he is not with his girlfriend, he is always trying to talk to me more than anyone else and he gets pretty touchy. I always catch him looking at me and he always tries to get my attention.
I still really like him and i don't know why...because i cant think of anything i like about him and hes not even my type, and i'm not his either. I guess opposites attract though. But anyhow, i kinda feel like its my fault we're like this now because I rejected him when he asked me out...even though i didnt know he was serious. He told me he was afraid of rejection so maybe that hurt him. Anyway, i know he's taken and all, but does he like me or not? its really bothering me. (link)
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It sounds like he's just playing with you. Someone who liked you wouldn't go out with other girls and rub them in your face. I wouldn't be more than friends with this guy.
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i havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her
can i still have sex and get my period ? (link)
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It's okay to have sex, but use protection just in case.
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im 13/m nd i talk to this chick on msn, she was in my grade last year, she knows i like her, ive asked her out but she said no, that was atleast half a year ago, now she likes some1 thats not me, and i really wanna b wit her xcept she wont allow me to do dat, shes coming over to my house next friday and i wanna do something for her that will make her change her mind about this other guy and go out with me, but i dunno how to,
can you please help, thanks
This post has been in another catagory, but i just realised it was place in the wrong one,
Sorry for any inconveniance (link)
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Just have fun, and be yourself. You can't MAKE her change her mind, but maybe she will change it herself.
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you answered one of my questions earlier..about asking someone out.
whats straight-foward? (link)
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Straight-forward is to the point. It's getting right to the question rather than hovering around it.
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ok well im Sam and im 13 yrs old and ihave a little problem. recently i started liking a guy named jesse. Hes really nice, funny, and just great to be with. ive known him for a yr or so but weve only recently become close. i told him i like him and it didnt really change anything. he makes it seem like he likes me all the time, he hugs me and flirts, ect. but then wen i asked him he said he doesnt like me..so i thought he just wanted to be friends and was ok with it. but now some of his friends r telling me that he is not sure if he like me or not. but ive asked him if he likes someone and he said he doesnt rite now. so im confused because im not gonna ask him out or anything like that. because i was already hurt once before by him wen he said he didnt like me. i knew i should stop liking him because it wouldnt work out but now im not so sure bout it. and if he is just afraid of commitment or too shy then i dont know wat to do... any suggestions? thanx (link)
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You should just be friendly with him right now; don't take it any further until he comes to you. It sounds like he likes you, but you want to give him time to realize it for himself. Good luck!
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..i promised myself when we broke up that i would never get back together because he cheated/ madeout with two other girls one my bestfriend and two my worst enemy when i was dating him... he hurt me... but he started talking to me its been about 7 months.. weve always said hi and hung out in groups.. but he told me he knows he really messed things up and feels terrible whenever he sees me (everyday at school) when he thinks about how bad he hurt me.. i cant help the way i feel for him.. hes been appologizing like crazy... calling me late at night.. and i miss him... we have sooo many things in common but part of us are complete opposites.. hes bad and im good... meaning after we broke up he did some bad things like drugs mostly pot and he has done alot more w/ girls than i have w/ guys... and me i have never even drank and would never try any drugs... we run track together.. track starts monday.. god im confused.. i like him alot.. he likes me alot.. i can tell when hes serious and when hes not and hes been serious... i know your thinking im a fool but i have alot of common sense.. i dont think anybody thinks i should be w/ him.. my friends tell me to go w/ my heart and ignoor everyone and i would... but its like (just so you know me) i have a ton going for me.. im basically validictorian out of the 2nd biggest highschool in missouri and i can run track for almost any college in the country i want to and im only a jr..... which is also weird because hes a sophmore... we are really close... i believe him when he says that he would stop (he has to stop smoking becasue of track) and he would never even think about it if he were with me becasue he knows he would loose me again. its weird because i thought i liked him soo much more than he liked me but he remembers everytime we hung out more than i do and i have a really good memory and he played me a ton of songs that remind him of me and kills him when he hears them..... i dont know what to do... i know hes a player.. but i know he really likes me... i know it will be hard for him to be loyal, but i think he means it and will do it... im worried though.. my parents dont like him (they are very strict) and they dont know that hes smoked weed and they would probably take my car and cell away if they knew lol.. i had to lie to them last night when i hung out w/ him... i hate lying to them... but i like being w/ him soo much....... he makes me soo happy but i know how unhappy he can make me.... basically i dont know what to do...im confused... idk if i should go w/ my heart and like him and hangout w/ him and take it really slow and see if i want a relationship a while from now... or if i should go w/ my gut and continue being the good girl and try to find more guys and keep him on a friend level (i know i will be sad for a while)... PLEASE HELP! (link)
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You should move on. A guy like this might get you into trouble, and you don't want that. Stay just friends with him and focus on other things. It'll be hard for a little while but it will be for the best.
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well im in 8th grade and every year the 8th grade goes to washington dc.
i wanna go but im scared ill get upset and im getting upset now already [its in april] because like we need to room with 4 people and we only have 3 and the people im rooming with like dnt really care about the 4th person but like theyre really good friends, like the other two im rooming with and im good friends with them too but not as good as they are.
anyways i wanna know how i can not get upset about it like you barely spend anytime in your room but i need ways to not get upset.
pls help, thanks in advanced. (link)
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Don't sweat it. Just think about all the fun you're going to have in washington...
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