Question Posted Saturday February 24 2007, 1:28 pm
ok well im Sam and im 13 yrs old and ihave a little problem. recently i started liking a guy named jesse. Hes really nice, funny, and just great to be with. ive known him for a yr or so but weve only recently become close. i told him i like him and it didnt really change anything. he makes it seem like he likes me all the time, he hugs me and flirts, ect. but then wen i asked him he said he doesnt like me..so i thought he just wanted to be friends and was ok with it. but now some of his friends r telling me that he is not sure if he like me or not. but ive asked him if he likes someone and he said he doesnt rite now. so im confused because im not gonna ask him out or anything like that. because i was already hurt once before by him wen he said he didnt like me. i knew i should stop liking him because it wouldnt work out but now im not so sure bout it. and if he is just afraid of commitment or too shy then i dont know wat to do... any suggestions? thanx
christina answered Saturday February 24 2007, 2:40 pm: It sounds like he's starting to regret telling you that he didn't like you. Maybe he does but doesn't know how to tell you. Or maybe he's shy & afraid to get into a relationship. But he could be just messing around with your head & making you think things that aren't true at all. I would talk to him about it. You can't rely on what other people are saying. Ask for yourself, because he's truthfully the only one who can tell you. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
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