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making me choose.
okay, so i will get right to it.
last year my best friend and i got in a huge fight & didnt talk for like 3-4 months.. but then we apologized blah blah & so on.. now we aren't best friends, but working towards it again, i guess you could say.
over that time & this year, however, i have also gotten close to some of my other friends.
so flat out, my group of good friends aren't nearly as good of friends with my old best friend so i can never hang out with them both at one time, so its really hard for me.
my group of friends are basically making me choose & think im ditching them for her [ive only hung out with my old bf twice this whole year] and its not fair and i dont know what to do because i love them all so much and i want to have everyone, but they just dont seem to want me to?
i dont know, this is kind of hard to phrase without using names.
but any advice would be appreciated :] thank you so much.
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Ask them why they have a problem with you being friends again with your old best friend. Let them know that just because you are hanging out with your old friend, you wouldn't ditch them for her. Tell them that just because you would like to become friends with her again, that nothing would change between you and them.
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Are you newer better friends kinda snobbish/mean? because, thats how my old group of friends were. they always said that i couldn't hang out with anyone besides the people in the group. or else i was ditching them. & if i did that, then i wasn't a true friend. & thats thee stupidestttt thing i've ever heard. i ended up leaving them [even though it was hard] because they werent true friends if they didnt want me to make other friends, with like.. normal kids. the other kids i made friends with werren't in to all the girly stuff i did, but they actually new how to have fun. so it worked out.
but, i guess your situation is a tad different then mine. because you & your old friend got into a fight..ok. well think.. what made you two split up? & could it happen again? think what group who you truly like better. & whos been there for you more.
i hope that helped. (: cyaa
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