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the best cleanses are over 300$! =how do i do a cleanse that isn't expensive like that and i can do it at home?
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Um... what kind of cleanser?
If you're talking about A facial cleanser, then you should try Neutrogena which is like 6 dollars (the orange or pomegranate oil-free acne wash one) or The Clean-and-Clear Perfectawash for 20 dollars. I wouldn't recommend Proactive though, it sucks and its 40 bucks! It works only for the time you use it but the week you stop, your "imperfections" come back, so you pretty much buy it for nothing.
Good Luck !!!
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I am talking to this girl she likes me and i like her but i know i can do better there is this other girl who is much prettier and i think she like me but im not sure i can get her if i tried and shes really fun what should i do? (link)
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Really?
Stop talking to the girl you're talking to because you don't deserve her.
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I Really Want Some Links To Clothes That Bella Thorne Wears, And Hopefully Cheap Stuff! Or Maybe Clothes That Cece Jones Wears? Thanks!
P.S. Please Don't Send Me A Link To Dresslikebellathorne.com. I Already Have It!:) (link)
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You know Bella Thorne has an advice column on this website? If you look to the left of the page, it says "Search Advice Columnists" at the top where it says "Get Advice". Maybe if you ask her a question directly she'll see it and there you go!
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my virgin girl can be pregnant (link)
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Um, yeah? If it went in then yea and where are you from?
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hey.. im only 13.. i want to be with god. i dont want to live anymore. BUT hey thin about it.. wouldnt it be better with him. no drama no bullies no nothing bad!!!!! yes. i should live my life but. thats kidan hard when i wanna die. i need help. please. please. please. help me........
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I apologize beforehand if this is too blunt.
If you commit suicide, you're being selfish. How do you think your mother would take it? Your father? Grandmother? Grandfather? Brother? Sister? Teacher? Best friend? Family friends? Aunt? Uncle? Niece? Nephew? Boyfriend? Girlfriend? (you didn't mention your gender ^_^ ) Anyone else I didn't mention?
You're being a coward. If you can't fix your internal/emotional/social problem alone, go seek help. A guidance counselor at school or a therapist will be able to help you through this. Maybe even reading these answers from people who care will at least help. Before you even think about a therapist though, tell a friend, if not, a parent, then if not you go to a guidance counselor, and if even they can't help, ask if there's a local therapist that can help. Don't be weak. That says enough. If you are being bullied... there is so much to say about that... you have NO idea! If you check on my page, there's a couple of questions like this I've answered. Long story short, bullies are weak people (they want to belittle you to feel better about themselves) who won't even be relevant to you when you get older. You would probably even forget that they exist by the time you go to College or are in High School, who knows. Now that I remember, in my life I had 5 people so far who have TRIED to be my bully. Their ATTEMPTS to make me feel bad about myself only worked for one day, just one time. After that one time, I would just laugh in their face and say thank you (a really good strategy. It confuses them, you should try it!). I would attach a link to the girl on YouTube who helped me get through, but sadly, I recently found out that she deleted her account. Just in case someone knows who I'm talking about, her name was something like xxBariBeexx
Anyway, back on topic, when you do something like this, you leave the people who love you behind. DO NOT say that nobody loves you. I don't care if only one person loves you (God) it's not your time. If you were meant to die, you would have died already. He would have given some sort of sign or just SOMETHING to let you know he was ready. You need to be thinking about the future and picture yourself happy, go back in time (in your head) & think about how life would have been if whatever thing that's making you depressed didn't happen. It gives hope that things will change, and they will, unless you just sit there crying in a corner. Learn to open up.
I had a friend (and many, many, many more...) saying the same thing as you and they didn't kill themselves and MOST of them thanked me later for talking to them (individually and at different times in the year) like I'm talking to you. Give it some time and you'll see that you'll be thinking, "she's right" because I've repeated this so many times you have no idea. My friends swarm only to me with things like this, sadly, but I love to help, so it's not a problem, but it makes me sad to think that a friend like me is so rare for them.
You won't be with God if you commit suicide. He will send you to hell because suicide is a sin. So your argument is invalid. Besides, you're 13! You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't you want to know what your kids will look like? Don't you want to see how your kids will look? How successful you'll be? If you don't, that's fine, but do yourself a favor and keep living your life, it does get better, and I know if you follow my advice and your friend keeps telling you this, it is not just something we say. It is true. Trust Me, I've been through this too.
Have you thought about getting a dog, or any other pet? When people say they're therapeutic, they aren't kidding. Last year I asked my parents for a guinea pig and I remember I would walk into my room when I was crying or just wanted to smile, (I calm down first, because whenever I cry I get mad) I'd pick Brownie up out of her cage, brush her hair, feed her, clip her nails if she needed it, and just talked to her. Just taking care of her made me feel better because it helped me remember that someone needs me and someone loves me, even though I had many friends who could've helped, I knew they wouldn't understand what I'm going through.
Sadly, I moved two days before last Christmas. A few months before that, my dad told me I had to get rid of her, because our new house was way too small, and the climate was too extreme for a guinea pig. (I had a 2x3 C&C cage, and that isn't that big, but for this house it is.) So I decided to give her up for adoption. The adoption center was an hour from my house, and I offered to pay for gas on the way back and anything else that came up, because it was my idea. But before I even knew about the animal adoption center, we looked in a Pet Smart to check if they took animals. Of course they didn't, and miraculously the same day we went in there was a woman that said she'd take care of Brownie while my family went on vacation to Dominican Republic for 2 weeks. (this was late June of 2011 by the way) She saw the tracks of the tears on my face and offered right away. I thanked her and asked how much she wanted. She looked at me and said, "No charge." I couldn't believe my ears. There really should be more people like that woman in this world.
I'm telling you this because when the woman offered to take care of Brownie, I'm sure it was a message from God, ans as I write this I cry. I can feel him in this room with me. He was telling me not to give her away. Either that or something else, I really don't know and I'm still trying to figure it out. Sadly and unfortunately, I didn't listen to him. The point is, animals are amazing creatures that stay in your heart forever. I miss Brownie, and I don't know where she is now, but I hope whatever new owner she has now has done his/her research, because Brownie deserves it.
Once again, I'm sorry that this seems like I don't care or that I'm yelling at you, but trust me, I'm not. If I didn't care, why would I take 2 hours out of my homework (and sleep) time to answer this question? I don't like to see things like this, it makes me sad to think that something like this is still happening to good people, who become victims of themselves because of a few useless words from some other person's mouth, who doesn't even matter.
I hope this made you feel better and more importantly, change your mind about your decision. If it didn't then I didn't do my job.
God bless you. :) Goodnight.
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I have been having bad acne for 9 yrs, Im 18 yrs old and its really bad. The bumps on my face get really big and they are very painful. I have tried everything you can think of in the stores for acne. Some of the medications only work for a while and then my acne just comes back and gets worse. I get really big bumps around my nose and my chin. I have some right now and they are big and painful. These bumps burn when I try to put acne medication on them. The bleed and sometimes they are really red and embarrassing. I wash my face and use everything. Ive tried proactive, witch hazel nitrogen and everything you name it and it doesn't work. Ive been to the dermatologist and she gave me medicine but it worked for a while and the acne just got worse, she told me that my face got used to the medicine and that's why the medicine stopped working. She gave me some new medicine and it doesn't work its pill and lotion. I can only go to the dermatologist 2 times a year and I cant pay for high priced medicine. I have been getting teased since elementary school and now school is about to start back and Im a senior and I don't want to be made fun of this year. People call me zit face and pimple face, Ive cried sometimes because of that, some people treat me like I have a disease. I have tried EVERY acne product you can name. I've been to the dermatologist and they give me medication but my face just gets worse after a couple of months.
My acne kind of looks like this: http://www.myskincure.net/acne111.jpg
It gets like this sometimes:http://dermimages.med.jhmi.edu/images/cystic_acne_conglobata_1_050322.jpg
How can I get rid of this? How much will it cost? (link)
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Hi :)
Have you asked your dermatologist if there was a person specialized in the condition that you have? Maybe if you do that the person you're directed to will be able to give you something your skin will never get used to (as in, something that rotates creams or medications every couple of weeks/months) I feel dumb suggesting this, I think you might have already thought of it but if you haven't then there you go :)
As for people making fun of you? They are pieces of s*** that need to go somewhere because they have the low enough self esteem to put you down for something that you have tried to control. Trust me, by/after college, maybe only one real friend (maybe not even) that you have now will still be your friend at the time. They're just low lives. Remember that every time they try to make fun of you again.
I hope I told you something you didn't know!
Good luck !!!
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Im only 13, and I have bad family problems. I dont remember when I started to not feel emotions, I just did.
- I laugh and cry, but I normally stop halfway through, when I relise i dont feel humour or whatever.
- I get hungry and go searching for food, but I dont FEEL hungry, same when Im angry sad happy or watever.
- I have never told anybody about this, and my parents have no idea... i think
- I always seem to have miniture black out things where my vision gos all dark for about 10 seconds... ( Dont know if this caused it or watever..
- But in a way I dont want to feel emotions.... It hurts when you do... (link)
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Hi, I'm 14/f.
It doesn't even have to be an adult you trust, it could be a really good friend who won't judge, be creeped out, or whatever, and that friend (if that person really is a good friend) would go to a Guidance Counselor or something in your school and you can go talk to them. I don't care even scream at your pillow like an idiot if there's no one there. It's OK. I've done it (when I was home alone)
Also, can you describe what's happening? It would REALLY help in this situation. You might even want to go to a doctor. I'm sorry if none of these things are available, I just don't know your individual situation, so I can't really help.
Just TALK! Speak out! I've started to do that and I feel way better. I'm also going through a very depressing time because everything I say to people, it seems they didn't listen and that they didn't care, and in fact that's exactly what's happening, but ever since I told my mom about it (who was the one causing the problem) everything felt better, even though she didn't do a single thing about it.
I'm still not done talking, and I'm still a little numb, but I'm a good actress, so no one can tell, and that means no one constantly asks me what is wrong anymore like they used to when I showed my emotions. I'm trying very hard to go back to that (without the sadness) but I think it will take a very long time for me to keep trying, since nobody knows.
For you, I might even go to the Guidance Counselor at my school tomorrow. My emotions are also like you say, faded, like they're there but they don't really hit as hard.
I hope this helped! Good Luck!
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I like this 17 year old, but my parent's won't allow me to date him. My heart is set on him and i can't just let him go.. I really like him and he really likes me... What should i do? (link)
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Hi, I'm 14 too and I also like a guy that's 17 and my parents don't (I guess I could say) want me to be with! What a coincidence! But ya anyways...
You should include additional information about his personality, how he treats you, why your parents might not like him, etc.
Have you thought about why they don't want you to be with him? It could be anything big or small, like I know and accept why my parents don't want me to be with my 17-year-old. In fact I agree with their reason, but it isn't a big enough reason for me to listen to avoid liking him anymore. Their reason is that he has a lot of girls flirting with him, but it really doesn't bother me because he isn't mine. He's not my boyfriend so I can't get mad for nothing.
You should do what I do and accept the reasons why, whether you agree with them or not. My parents also have reasons that I don't agree with. With your parents it may be that he has an addiction problem, he's a delinquent, he's insecure, possessive, abusive, etc. It really can be anything. If it's the age difference, remind them that there are successful couples that are far apart (My parents are 12 years apart and they've been together for 18 years!)
But if it isn't any of those things, then take him home with you one day and (beforehand of course, you really shouldn't surprise them because they will have another thing against you) tell your parents that you'd like for him to come over, and ask for a day that this can happen. Then tell your boyfriend the same day (after you've told your parents about it) and set a date. Then, when that day comes, you have your talk with them and then straighten things out.
Make sure he's comfortable with it though, and do it on a day
I hope I helped and I hope you took the time to read all of this! If you did, then Thank You and I really do hope you straighten this out and please let me know what happens, it might help me with mine. (feedback)
Good Luck !!!
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I REALLY really like this guy. (Were both 11) Were friends and stuff, but I want to tell him I like him; I actuallt think I LOVE him... What do I do? (link)
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The best thing I can think of right now is to make sure that when you tell him, you don't do it in front of a crowd (even just one other person !!!) because it will probably make him say something mean just because people are all around you. He will think it's "cool", but it really isn't, and you might go home crying or depressed because he was mean to you, but he might like you back. And anyways, even if he did like you, if he would rather look "cool" than be with you, he isn't worth your time, TRUST me!
And no, you don't love him. Don't say that. You'll get hurt even more if you keep saying that. You'll see what I mean later, and I don't mean he will reject you, I mean as you grow up. You might be shaking your head or whatever, but it's true. I learned that lesson the hard way.
I hope I helped, and let me know what happens! Write it as feedback or a personal message.
Good Luck !!!
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Ok so, I've been dating/dated this girl for over a month. It took off pretty fast, we only talked for 3 weeks but we spent a lot of time together and did so much for each other those 3 weeks. She actually asked me out on a surprise picnic. Well anyways to the problem, she recently got to thinking about her future since she will be graduating soon and doesn't know exactly where she wants to go to college but when she does go she wants to be single. This all happened last Saturday and I took it pretty hard but I want her to happy. Then this past Friday, she called and we talked more about it. She said that her heart was telling her that she needed to be independent for awhile, it had nothing to do wit me at all. She still wants to talk and stuff and she still really likes me. But what do I do? Should I be there for her and wait or just let go? (link)
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Listen to your heart. I cant stress this enough. Sometimes you have to listen to your brain, other times with your heart. This is one of those times. You should ask yourself this question. If you think you should keep in touch, do just that. Also, talk about things when you have a problem with anything. I'm slowly learning to do that more often myself. I notice that I do feel better afterwards.
BUT if anything you choose to do is out of greed or insecurity, then DO NOT do it !!! Get over her, if this is the case, because for a lot of people, insecurity is a bright-red flag.
If you want to wait, then wait. Again, this is a question for you to ask yourself. We can't decide for you because we don't know what you're feeling.
Good luck !!! I hope I helped or at least made you smile, or something
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I physically feel an ache in my chest and a burning in the pit of my stomach, accompanied by nausea. I feel jittery (probably from lack of sleep.) I haven't been sleeping well, infact from friday night to last night Ive only had 2 hours of sleep. I'm having a bit of a nervous breakdown do to, having to explain to a unknown person on the bus about what gender I am and in their words, "why I go to extreme lengths to make it difficult to read." That bothered me the most, then I was called out to be a liar and mentally ill, as well as homosexual. Which are in no way remotely tied to the reasons I dress androgynous. I accept the fact that God made me as the sex he intended to. Is it so wrong to want to view myself as either male or female? I just feel like I'm the child that was caught playing with the wrong gender inrolled toy, and yelled at to reinforce the roles I need to take up on as being born of that gender. Now I don't want to leave my home. I feel like all eyes are on me, and like they all for some reason are either 1 disgusted or 2 dissaprove. Please, any "possitive" advice welcomed. I feel pretty jaded from everything, and it seems like I just worked up the courage to feel comfortable in my own skin and finally be able to dress how I want, but now in a fracture of a second it just all seized to exist... (link)
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Here's my advice: print out the advice of the person below me and GLUE it to your refridgerator! That sure helped me with what I'm going through right now.
And another thing to add: picture yourself with a bubble surrounding you. It is your confidence. If anyone tries to get close enough to pop it, you ignore them and walk away singing. It's a really good way of blocking people out if you focus. I hope we helped!!!
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I'm 11 years old in fifth grade (I know I'm young don't say anything about that please) I am a cheerleader and I do softball I have been doing that for a while now but I don't see changes in my body shape I don't eat alot but I'm not on a diet can anyone tell me how long I should exercise a size and how long it will take days weeks months i need answers just to say I'm 5'3 and way 112.2 Im not skinny but slim but all my friend user be fat but they force there sect to throw up I don't want todo that cuz its bad please help..
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I agree with the person below me, do not go bulimic like your friends. It's good that you know it is bad.
What I do sometimes when I want to lose about 10 pounds over 3 weeks is climb stairs for like 10-15 minutes everyday for those 3 weeks (there's 12 stairs and I go up and down, like jogging) for however many times it is and I bring my ice-cold water bottle with me and take a couple seconds break to drink, and when I feel like I've had enough, I stop and take my shower. But you said you have practice? On the days that you have practice, don't try to exercise more afterwards, even if you do feel energetic. You will overwork yourself.
As for diet, I would say you should just eat everything in moderation, even healthy foods. Drink plenty of water, (but not gallons at a time, throughout the day) and here's why;
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090221111340AAIPAUF
I checked on Google for a height and weight chart and you are small for your height and weight. Here it is;
http://www.disabled-world.com/artman/publish/height_weight.shtml
Scroll down to about half the page, and you can print it!
My stairs routine is what I use for toning and to lose just a couple pounds along with it.
I'm 14, 5'9" - 5'10" and I go out of the target weight sometimes so I gain a little or lose a little. Trust me though, you don't need to lose any weight, you need to gain like 20 pounds! But if you're comfortable with losing more, it is your body I can't control you, but I wouldn't do it.
I hope I helped, and good luck!
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I've told my boyfriend i wanna be fingered by him but i'm reallu scared about it as i'm only 12 but i do really love him but i don't wanna be fingered now, how do i tell him? (link)
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Hmm... where to start...
OK I got it:
1) Why don't YOU finger yourself? Have you ever thought of that? You might even like it better than when your "boyfriend" does it after a couple tries (of you doing it) because if he does it and it's the first time your clit has ever been touched (if you don't know what a clit is, you're not ready) you WILL not like it because of how inexperienced you both are with your body, you won't know what you like and don't like, assuming that you don't masturbate.
2) Don't do it !!!!! He will lose interest in you, break up with you, tell everyone, whether it's only his best-friend that he tells and then his best-friend tells everyone, or if he directly tells everyone, and you will be called a slut (I'm not calling you a slut I'm saying your classmates will) and probably commit suicide if it bothers you to that extent.
3) The reason why I say "boyfriend" is because he will leave you once you show him how easily he can get into your pants. He will not respect you.
4) You THINK you love him, but you don't. I've been there, I had a "boyfriend" when I was in 3rd grade who bought me a present. It was a really pretty and probably very expensive necklace. One day one of my friends told me he was going to break up with me for one of the school sluts. I got mad, and threw his necklace in the trash. A while later in the class that I had with him, he asked me why I wasn't wearing his necklace and that he wanted it back. I lied and told him that I had given it to my mom as a birthday present. He was smart not to believe me and I said OK then check the trashcan! He got mad at he and said "You know what?" and the rest I can't repeat (yes all of this happened in class and the teacher yelled at the crowd of people around us and us to sit, and yes I was about 8 or 9 years old). That was my first heartbreak. I really "loved" him and he was just using me to make another girl jealous.
5) When you've made the (MOST STUPID) decision to do anything sexual with a boy before you're married (unless you're older, like an adult, and you live with him, met his parents, etc.) and you know that he loves you for you and not because you have let him touch you, then that would be OK, in my opinion.
I just hope that you don't regret any of your decisions. I hope you end up happy with whatever you choose, and good luck!
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Ok plz don't judge me I was havin an affair with someone who has a child and a partner but his partner has now found out and he and her have split and I haven't heard from him was he using me??he told me he loved me said if he could be with me he would and now he can u hasn't even bothered with me :( I don't know what to do I feel hurt and angry at the same time I don't really have friends or anything he was someone who I thought actually cared someone I cud talk to etc now I have noone x (link)
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Ya, he doesn't love you. He was using you.
Sorry to be so blunt, but if he loved you, you'd know.
Anyways, you shouldn't mess with a married man who has a kid! That's what you get, maybe he was mad at you and mad at himself for being so stupid.
Once again, I'm sorry but it's true, you should go talk to someone to help you get over him.
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when do you know when you are about to have your period? (link)
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I got my period like exactly 2 years and a couple weeks ago and that was about a year after i got mosquito bites (like literally) and when u get it, you'll know because your underwear will suddenly be FULL of bright red blood and you will have to throw away those underwear and when i got mine i was dripping lol but i knew it was normal, so i was like jumping with joy. Just like the person before me said, ask your mom, she might have around the same time that you do. By the way I'm 14/female.
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If by tracks you mean cornrows, then yea they can if you pull too hard when you braid them and if it bothers you or hurts you.
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Hey all.
I have a spanish teacher, and he is saying, doing and drawing things that offend me.
We learned the body parts in spanish, and sometimes he makes us stretch. Well one time he said "no for estomoigo" (i am horrible at spelling, and that means stumach) and he would like rotate his hips. like in a circle.
then recently we learned things to do, like dance,(bailar) and sing (cantar)
and he would to the actions and then we would have to say what it is outloud, and in spanish. He would go, "me favorito" (my favorite) and start to "dance" and he would like do like humping type things it was so wierd. and like push his but out like fast but slow at the same time(if that makes sence)
And then, this is what totally offends me. he will draw people, and they will be having a conversation in spanish. He will usually draw a rap singer, (a male) and then a "curvy" female.
Usually Jenifer Lopez or Beyonce. He draws them with extreme curves.
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that middle pard would be like the hips. and its gross. he will write, like "bootielicious" as the guys responce,or something like that, and he says it sometimes.
My friend said today that she liked to run (correr) in spanish! and he drew a picture of her, and he made her have really short shorts, and said that she had really short shorts! I understand it because of running and all, but thats gross!!
Also, today we had a fire drill, and the alarm things were going off, and he kept saying "attencion a me, attencion a me,
attencion a me,attencion a me,attencion a me,attencion a me" (that means, give me your attention) and he would not let us leave! he always wants us watching him, creepy. and then he always blows a whistle! its soo annoying and he did that today!
I dont think that has much to do with sexual harassment, but it is dangerous!
If you need to know more, ask!
He is a really good teacher, but he is young, and a lot of the other girls find him attractive, but i dont, because I find him offencive sometimes. I know he is a good teacher, and i want him to continue teaching, but I dont want him to do this stuff. is there anyway I can say something (not to him) to an adminestrator or someone, but not in a mean way, just to talk to him about what he does that Myself and some other girls find offencive?
Do you think that this is sexual harassment? am I totally over-reacting??
Please help!
I'll rate and leave feedback!
Thanks! any help is really appreciated!
-Kas-
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I'm really not trying to be funny, but maybe he's just weird
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I am 20/F and have been with my boyfriend 9 months. He is much better with numbers and dates than I am and we are quite concerned that I have completely missed my period this month and I was late and brief last month.
I went to the doctors and did a sample after having a negative home test. The sample was also negative. Since then I have done another home test and again it is just one line.
I don't want my GP thinking I am obsessed thinking I am pregnant all the time but I have always been quite regular. There isn't so much as a sign of me about to have my period anytime soon either and we're at a loss of what to do.
I am living at my mum's, she does not speak to me or look at me. I am waiting for my boyfriend's house to sell so that he can move on from his ex and we can get a place together. The doctor could tell me it is due to a stressful home life, even though it has been this way for quite sometime and hasn't ever affected my cycle in the past. I have at least two meals a day every day, I walk around a fair amount but not too much. I just wonder if it is really worth making another appointment? (link)
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1) Why don't you just masturbate?
2) You should do what you gotta do, if your gut feeling is telling you yes, then listen to it!
3) Maybe it does have to do with stress because I'm having my share of stress and it's affecting my cycle, I'm pretty regular. I was supposed to be done with my period by now but I haven't even had spotting yet so ya I wouldn't worry too much
4) You said that when you went the first time it was negative? Isn't that enough? The doctor's test is the best test there is, you should trust it.
I hope I helped, _Melwillhelpyou
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hi should I'm devastated, should I confront my lover and tell her how I feel? even then I know he love his wife? (link)
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can we have more details please?
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will me and my boyfriend ever have sex (link)
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Uhhh?? More details please?
How old are you?
For how long have you two been together?
Are you married?
Are you responsible enough to take care of a baby if you have and unplanned pregnancy?
Have you ever even though about using condoms?
You see what I mean? I need more details.
I though this question would be like, you were married and you had unbearable intercourse or something like that but there are no details for me to base my answer on here.
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