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please read this and help me..i'll rate 5s..just please i desperately need help more than anything
i fell in love with a guy named harrison about 2 years ago, and we have been unseperable ever since then. we'd always have the occasional fights between us, and i was crazy about him, and he was about me too. i loved him more than anything in the world, and this was not just puppy love, this was the real thing. he was my first and possibly final love, and i lost my virginity to him. when he moved to iowa last year, we still loved each other and he never even attempted to go out with any other girl. he was the best thing that had ever happened to me, and i loved him..i truly mean it. he was always there for me, he was there when mother died, i lost my best friend, and when i had to have a heart surgery.
recently he died in a car accident. it wasn't his fault at all, it was horrible luck. he was driving on a highway and a drunk driver crashed into his car, killing him. i cried myself to sleep for months, and i just didn't care about anything but him. i was obsessing yes, but i loved him, and i know he loved me too. he was the only one for me, and i know he's gone now and i should move on and look for other guys, but i don't think i'll ever find anyone else like harrison. i will still of course try, but i cannot help but feel horrible. sometimes i feel i should kill myself so i can join harrison up in heaven, but i have never succeeded. i am hurt beyond words, and i don't know what to do anymore. please help me, anything will help right now. thank you so much for reading all of this.. love, lauren (link)
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Suicide is not the answer...he truly loves you and will wait for you...
You can pray to him...
Try to go out more with your friends to make yourself feel better.
Very,very sorry :(
-Long Lost
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Okay, so friendship questions are rare for me. This is gonna be long. If you have a problem with that, stop reading right now.
I'm really kind of scared. My best friend, short of sister, I think, is addicted to this guy.
Problem is, they never dated. She liked him, but he didn't like her. Then she got over him, and he liked her.
Then she decided to unget over him.
He's a possessive asshole. He's basically "claimed" her and talks about their married future, and she goes with it, considering him hers as he considers her his.
The worst thing is, though, all her life, her family has considered her the "screwup", so all she's known is displacement and pain. She's longed for real love her whole life, even the "parent" kind of love. Not just the husband/wife love.
I don't even know how to explain this. She thinks he unconditionally loves her.
I have unconditional love. My boyfriend and I have discussed marriage, and he loves everything about me, even my flaws, and wouldn't change me.
This guy, however, he's used her, emotionally abused her, hurt her more than anything, and he's even like, haunting her dreams. He tried to change her. Get her to dye her hair blonde, change her clothing style, criticized everything...
I'm just afraid she's going to end up with him and cause herself more pain.
She's created an idea of him for herself. Things he does, she's given examples...I can see that he's only doing these things because he gets something out of it. He gets a person to possess. Someone to own. I hate him for what he's doing to her, but she won't let me talk sense into her.
I can't talk to him because he doesn't like me anyway.
I don't know what to do about this. This girl is seriously like my little sister. I want to protect her from him. Not from all guys, just from him because I know he's bad news.
He tried to convince me to cheat on my boyfriend with him, and to tell me that if he "really" wanted me, I could be his in a heartbeat, because he's just that good with women, which sickened me from the start. I don't understand what she sees in him. Fine. Whatever, I can deal with that.
I can't deal with him hurting her and making her think he's the last person out there for her (she's had bad luck in relationships).
On top of it all, she's afraid her parents are going to make her move, and they're not sending her to college next year, which is where she should be.
What do you think I should do? I mean, I can't really DO anything. What can I say?
-Siren =( (link)
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Tell your friend what you just told..or asked...us...
If shes like your little sister,you should let her know about what kind of guy you think he is.If shes a good friend she'll listen...but she may be confused or even offended,so be gentle.
This guy does not sound healthy for your sis...so please,do something.
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i am so sad because my dog just got run over by my neighboor like 2 hours ago! she was my best friend and her name is raz and i cant but just think she is going to be gone forever i will never be able to see her again! i am amuzed that this happend!:`( please help me try and get over this i need tons of HELP PLEASE HELP ME!! write back as soon as you can please! (link)
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How about burying her in your backyard...so you can 'visit' her any time you wish?
Just know,Raz is in a better place now and is waiting for you.
I'm sure your neighbor didn't mean to ever hurt Raz.
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ok well there's this guy in my neighborhood and i'm new here (well not really cuz i lived here for 3 years) but anyways... i think i have a crush on him and stuff but hes always around his friends and i met him like 3 years ago and we don't really talk and he's one year older than me.I'm really shy.... what should i do to get him to notice me??? (link)
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WOW
This sounds exactly like my situation now ((except for being new to the neighborhood))
Just be yourself...and don't make my mistake:
please,actually try to talk to him!Hes probably shy too!
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To start out, I'll tell you this. I'm only 15, but regardless of my age I think I could be in love. I've liked this guy for almost three years and he's pretty much all I think about. Every song I hear relates, in some way, to him. But that isn't the problem. He recently told me he liked me. And a few days later said he thought we would eventually go out. well, I don't think that's going to happen. I heard from a friend that he hasn't liked anyone since this one girl he liked a few months ago. Which would mean, he didn't like me. I asked him and he said I'm great and all, but he didn't like me any more than a friend. That kind of made me give up, you know? I felt like I failed or something? I don't know. I'm not really the jealous type, until it comes to him. So recently I've been talking to this other guy, he really likes me and I really like him. But the way I like him doesn't compare to how much I like the other guy. so, this guy is supposed to ask me out when we hang out this weekend, so I've heard. If he does, I'm scared to ruin the chance with the other guy i REALLY like. Although, I can't wait forever. But I need help soon. I have to decide. I'm really thinking to go for this guy that really likes me. What do you think? (link)
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Wait a while for the guy you REALLY like...if he dosn't make a move,your feelings will eventually fade for him...probably.
You could always tell him how you feel as well.
What I would give to feel like I was in love again...
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I really hate my body even though I'm skinny and some girls envy me. I'm too short for my age. I'm 13 and I'm 5'1 and when I get jeans I can't fit into them because I'm skinny but also because I have a regular butt. My mom says it's because of my gene! I wanna gain some pounds but I can't.
PLEASE HELP! I Rate high! (link)
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If you want to gain wait...eat a penut butter sandwhich before bed.
But it sounds like your tall enough for your age.
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I kind of itch, and ache in my vaginal area. I dont know what it is. I dont think its an STD because Ive been checked and I havent slept with anyone else, and neither has he. Theres no odor or anything else coming from it, it just itches a lot. Can anyone tell me what this might be?
Thanks a lot (link)
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May be a yeast infection...if theres white stuff around your vaginal area it probably is.It dosn't have to result from sexual content with anyone...ask your doctor or genicologist and they should have some medicine.
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well, i'm really big on acting, and I really want to audition for commercials, etc. The problem is, I dont know where to find auditions for such things. Does anybody know a site or number I could go to or call..that isnt a scam! thanks in advance! (link)
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Look in your newspaper in the arts or flair section.It should have a small theatre section that has upcoming auditions and plays.
Good luck :)
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I have writers block, I can't seem to come up with any ideas that will really work. Does anyone know of anything that might help me? (link)
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Listen to some good songs,I recommend Linkin Park.
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I always feel as though when I talk to people I bore them or like burden them.. I feel as though everyone wishes I wouldnt be here or something.. I mean nobody really cares about me! Sometimes I feel really like i dont even speak the same language or something.. My life isnt going anywhere! I feel as though i am always doing things wrong and whats the point of even trying.. All the hope and wishes (i dont believe in anymore). there isnt any point.. I might be depressed I dont know but.. I cant seem to get this feeling to leave me.. How can I feel better? Is there any solution or anything? (link)
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Heres a good site to visit:
http://www.gurl.com/topics/suckyemotions/1,,,00.html
and
http://education.indiana.edu/cas/adol/adol.html
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what food contains vitamin e? (link)
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Wheat germ
Corn
Nuts
Seeds
Olives
Spinach and other green leafy vegetables
Asparagus
Vegetable oils -- corn, sunflower, soybean, cottonseed
And products that are made from these.-ex: margerine
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i hate my sister and my mom so much ... they are just ughh i hate their guts 75 % of time they make me wanna cry or murder someone ! ughh ... it has gotten so bad i've started to cut again. my friends act more like my family then these 2! my dad i love him i just cant talk to him about these stuff ... like cutting class lol i thought ohh i'll share that with my sis we never talk about stuff like these so i might as well tell her something for once but no when i turn my fucking back she has to go and tell my mom ! then she comes to me giving me a speech and shit then i ask my sis why she told and she was like i dont want you to fuck up your life i dont wanna be taking care of you ! i hate her so much she doesnt know half of what i have been threw in the past year she doesnt know anythong about my life so i dont think she should be talkin about it ... my life isnt fucked up at all ... i just skipped a class (gym) on the last day of skool .. wow im really doing bad ! god i hate this ... what can i do to take my anger out cuz crying doesnt help + i dont wanna go back to cutting ! yes it gets me this mad/upset (link)
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Play a sport...martial arts work best at letting out anger.
You can also listen to good music and/or angry music.
Read a good book or play a computer game,RPGs are especially fun.
Get well soon
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my hair has been falling out like crazy but its not normal falling out i mean its a lot of hair but i dont know why and i dont know if i should tell my mom
16/f
thanks (link)
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Definently tell your mom..she may know something about it.
If you've been using a new type of shampoo,conditioner or hairspray,that might be the cause.
You can also talk to a hairstylist or doctor.
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Ok, my whole life, I've always been convinced of the "impossible"... Things like the paranormal, or prehistoric creatures still living today. But right now, my issue is with the paranormal, more specifically "ghosts". I am almost.... Obsessed, you could say. I visit ghost web pages, read "true" ghost stories, my favourite section of this magazine I read is the sorta, "ghost stories section", and I absolutely love Horror movies. I believe its all possible. And lately I've been freaking out, and "seeing things". Am I paranoid about these things? And does anybody know a way for me to become less jumpy, without having to give up all these things?? (link)
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This sounds a little like me.I love the paranormal and horror movies.
It could be possible that reading about ghosts and such so much is causing you to see these things.
I would definently let up a little on these types of stories and movies.Keep a nightlight on before going to sleep.And try not to drink milk before bed,because it will make you have odd dreams sometimes.
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I have a question..
what is better to use when going horseback riding
tampons or pads
thanks
i rate 5's for good answers (link)
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My friend who is a horse-riding junkie always wears tampons.
I agree with this,since pads can be uncomfortable,especially when your wearing riding pants ((which are usually tight)).
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I just got accepted 2 a very good school for advanced studies. In the coming year I want 2 Stay focused. Does any1 have tips for staying on top of grades? (link)
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Get a good nights sleep.Study every night with short breaks.Eat right.Ask your teachers for help.
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hey, i had sex for the first time last night with my boyfriend of 6 months, we are with eachother alot so theres no problem that we did if overall. but we had unprotected sex, i know thats bed but, he pulled out a few minutes early..could i still get pregnate? thanks ♥.. oh yeah and i didnt ask for people to bitch at me about this (link)
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Hm...I know that that can help a little...I had a sheet about it but I lost it...but I don't think it will help much :(
Seeing as theres sperm in the precum that men usually get before having sex.
Good luck.
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My sister asked me to ask the following question since she is too young to go on this site...
My sister got a gerbial(YUCK!) but anyways.. she doesnt know what to name it! Its a brownish/tan Male.
Could someone give us some idea's for my sisters pet???
-Luv-
Meg
P.S. Please no websites. (link)
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Dusty,Twinkie,Butterscotch,Butternut,Zaps,Albott,Algernon,Buddy,Brucy,Bennie,Billy,Buckskin,Charlie,Spirit,Dan,Chad,Courage,Caspar,Dakota,Elmo,Hopper,Gerby,Hamptaro,Jimmy,Hank,Jasper,Jet,Luck,Dizzy,Lemmiwinks,Monster,Moushie,Mango,Mongo,Nelly,Munch,Mini-Me,Nemo,Nutmeg,Nibblit.
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how do you use a tampon? i mean, in places it says "insert it in the opening.." but exactly wut opening? i`m confused about that.. =/ (link)
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You have to insert it into your vaginal opening.If its your first time using a tampon,put it in slowly and carefully ((you should do it that way everytime though)).One way to put it in is to sit on the floor with your legs spread in a kinda V shape and put it in.You can also try putting a mirror on your floor and looking at the mirror while you put it in.
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I'm currently going to cheer camp everyday for 9 hours a day for my squad. (Ive been going for 2 weeks) I'm so tired and so worn out I dont know if I can take it anymore. I'm very sore from all the jumps, stretching etc., But my coach wants me to push through but I dont know if I can take it anymore, I've already pulled my hamstring, and bruised my big toe (stunting), and my shoulder(while tumbling). What should I do? (I still have 2 more weeks of it!) (link)
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Hm...I think I can help...I was a cheerleader for 8 years straight,and a flyer in the stunts too.
Take lots of tylenol!!!It really helps.
For joint pains put ice on the area,for muscle or skin pains use a heating pad or something warm.You could also alternate if your willing.
Try not to do as much or push yourself as hard when your working out.Take a few deep breaths and drink water or Powerade constantly.
If it gets really bad,talk to your coach about it again,tell her you need to slow down some.
I hope this helps.
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