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> Full name: Katlin Nicole Starr Mitchell
> Height: 5'3-5'4
> Eyes: BroWn
> Hair: BRowN w/ Red StreiKeS
> Location: Mauldin, South Carolina
> Sexual Orientation: Straight
> Ethnicity: WhiTe but w/ A Tan*
> Pets: 1 Dog and A Cat! RIP Robbie, Died Aug 1 2004
> Siblings: 1 Brother
> Movie:13 going on 30...The Notebook..A Walk To Remember...Grease...Dirty Dancing
> Book: The NoteBook
> Actress: Sandra Bullock...and Uhh...
> Actor: Shane West...and...uhh
> Singer/Band:Ryan Cabrera...and Sara Evans
> Song: On The Way Down and She Will Be Loved
> Quote: "...Our Love Is Like The Wind, I Can't See It...but I Can Feel It..."
> Food: PastA*
> Sport: VolleyBall, SurfinG...BASKETBALL*
> TV show: Dawsons Creek, Newlyweds*
> Drink: Sprite w/ LemonS
> Number: 10 and 11
> Accessory:PurSe
> Color: Pank and Blue*
> Lipgloss: Watermellon, or whatever my Fiance lovEs! *
> Ice Cream: Cookie Dough*
> Mag: Umm...counTrY Weekly?
> Cartoon Character: DINO!
> Animal: DogS*
> Chocolate or Vanilla? Verrnilla*
> Book or its Movie? Both
> Gold or silver? Silver
> Boxers or Briefs?: It Don'T MattER
> Black or White? Black
> Hug or Kiss? Both at one time!
> Computer or TV? Both
> Morning or Night? Night*OOO*
> White Chocolate or Milk Chocolate?White ChocolaTe!
> Serious or Giggly? Giggly
> Drive or Fly? Fly
> Dog or Cat? Dog
> Inside or Outside? Depends on the weather
> Fantasy or Reality? Reality
> Dance or Sing? SiNG!! LALAL*
> Write or Read? Write
> Social or..Not? Social...verY*
> Draw or Paint? DRaW
> Watch or do? Do...HEHEHE
> Eat or Drink? UmmS???
> Write or Talk? Talk!
> Summer or Winter? WinTer*
> Joel or Justin? Justin
> TV or Movie? Movie
> Cholcolate or Caramel? Chocolate
> Tall or short? On A guy...Tall...
> Pepsi or Coke? Pepsi
> Innie or outtie? InnIe
> Have you dyed your hair? Ya :(
> Have you ever fit your entire body into a relatively small compartment? Yupperss...A Drier! hahaha!
> Hobbies:Shopping...sports..and my Babie
> Interests:Music...and my babie!
> What do you like Most about yourself? My personalitY!
> What do you like least? My Temper*
> Whats in your CD player right now? Sara EvanS..Niagra :(
> Ever left the country? Yes!!!
> Where to? Europe, Mexico, Australia, Canada, Japan...and Jamaica
> Whats the worst feeling? Heart Broken..and guilt.
> Whats the best feeling? Being in LovE* Being HappY!
> Whats your sign baby? Capricorn*
> Do you believe in love at first sight? Yes
> Whats your best friends name? Nathan and BJ
> How long have you been friends? ForeVeR* haha..I Dk!
> Who, really, let the dogs out? HaHa..Me DUH!
> If you're life could be a book, which book would it be? Umms...I have no idea. Harry PotteR? Haha!
> Who stole the cookies from the cookie jar? Hahaha? What kinda Question...
> Is oscar, really, a grouch? He was mean to the kiDs...so was big BIRD!
> Have you ever caught a Leprechaun? Oh Yes..Hehe *WINK* Great times w/ Him as Well!
> Who do you admire? My brother and my fiancE*
> Whats your most embarrasing moment? Not going THERE!
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E-mail: KateStar1011@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Greenville, South Carolina!
Age: 18
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Member Since: July 16, 2004
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I found out that my Dad looks at porn.. and I think my mom knows too.. my brothers know too.. what should I do? Is this wrong? (link)
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I don't really think that it is wrong. Umms...it's a little childish, but oh well. Think about it...EVERY GUY basically has/or is looking at it. You're brother probably went and got dads stuff. :-) I'm just kidding. Don't judge your dad any differently...if it bothers you. Say something to your dad or mom. I hope I helped! :)
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what's a good way to make friends? (link)
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Hmm...Many many different way. Maybe talking to them, exchanging phone numbers or screennames. Maybe going out from some lunch. Depends on the way ya'll like to do things such as hobbies. Do stuff together you both like. If you don't like a lot of the same things, make up something to do that both of you enjoy. Such as shopping (for a girl) or playing some kind of sport (for guys) I hope I helped!
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Do you think my brother's gay? He got caught looking at male porn once and hasn't had a girlfriend.. he's 23.. (link)
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He could be...or maybe he likes male porn. :-/ I dont really know. I don't know a lot about the situation..hehe. I hope I helped at least a little.
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help please!!!!! i need to figure out how to text message my friends from my computer!!! thanks x0x0x0 please help ASAP (link)
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I've never done it, but I just asked a friend of mine and he said go to "yahoo" then go to cellphone texting and then put in the person cell phone # and then he said she should probably figure it out from there. LOL...Sorry...I hope I helped.
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ok well i like this person and this person likes me too but befor we admitted it we where good friends and we still are..and if this person is gonna ask me out i wanna say yes but what if we brake up i dont whant us to loose our freindship...so should i say yes?what should i do?help!ill rate you for this! (link)
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Well...a lot of people have this problem that's for sure. So did I a while back. You need to talk to your best friend about your feelings for eachother in a mature manner, ya know? Then, you both need to agree on if you do break up that both of you would not break the friendship as well. It wouldn't be worth it. If that person disagrees then of course you need to say no, but most likely he/she will agree and you can say yes and explore your good friends feelings on a different level. I hope I helped
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ok well i like someone alot and that person likes me alot too, i wanna ask the person out but everybody tells me not to that i should wait for the person to ask me...should i just ask the person or should i wait? cuz it does seem like the person is gonna ask me...what should i do?
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I'd give him/her (you didn't tell) :) a couple of days. Then, depending on how both of you are, such as fun things or romantic things, get that person alone...warm up to it, and see if that person will ask you out. If not...make your move. :) Hope I helped!
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ok has anyone seen that movie thats called Thirteen??...well its like my favorite movie and i have watched it like 1000 times seriously!..well anyways...i like the way tracy and evey act,look and stuff...is that bad that thats influencing me ...im not tlakin about the stuff they do...but if you seent the movie you'll know what im tlakin about me and i hope you'll help!!
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I don't really think it's "influencing" you. Maybe...teaching you. But I believe everybody is who they are inside and out. So..on the influencing bases...no. You are who you are...and if you want to be like that, then so be it. People will still love you. *just be yourself*
Hope i helped*
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im a 13/m. when i jack off, at the very end i get an orgasm that lasts a few seconds. then like a drop of sperm comes out of my penis. is that normal? or should my orgasm's be longer? and should i have more than a drop of sperm come out? btw im about 5'0 and pretty skinny, so would that effect how much comes out? please write back (link)
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Hey! Sorrie it's taken me so long to answer this. I've been in Europe. Umms...I have no idea. I think you're a little young maybe? I think it'd be better if you asked a guy. HEhe. I'm sorry. I don't think it really matters if just a little comes out. I honestly can't tell ya. I'll ask some of my guy friends for ya. Hope I'm helping. Have a good day
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Ok my bestest friend iz havin boy trouble n i try n talk to her n tell her i kno how it feels cuz i have been through the same things but she iz alwayz like u dont kno how i feel!!! Dont u think if i've been through worse crap then she has then i do kno how she feels?????
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Ya, I think you would know that feels, but you have to understand that she's going through a lot right now. She won't want to believe anybody, cause she's trying to stay on "her" side...say as if I knew how guys cheat...then my friend was like, i dont know i dont know...you just have to understand that she's having very mixed feelings. Try to remember how your feelings were when you were going thorugh what she is going though...confusion. You just have to be there for her, and listen and all of it will soon pass. Hope I helped
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i met this guy dan on halloween 2002 .. and i loved him ever since i layed my eyes on him .. we did go out 6 timez but he went out wif my best friend like 20 ! and i reely love him and she even knows that .. im soo confused .. i dont know how to get him bakk .. ;) plzz helpp mee
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Tell your best friend how much you REALLY love him...Tell her that you really need him and such. Then you need to tell all of your feelings to him. Maybe he'll break up with her, or she will. I know you don't want to break them up, and that's going to be hard...but, if it's love...Go for it sweetie. Hope I helped.
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okay katy...im 15 and im a female...so a few months ago i met this kid...and i was with him for quite a while and i really liked him so much...i might have evne loved him...but he was with another girl the whole time we were together and cheateed on me...and lied to me about it and everything...even when she called him i ansswered and he didnt care...and shit like he said they were done...but he cheated on me...and i was so devistated and i am so depressed since hes gone...i want to get over hnim but everytime i see something or hear something it reminds me of him...and when i see him on occasion i cry for like ever...i dont kno what to do to get myself over this kid...i mean can u help me because he has a g/f that hes been with for a while and loving him is pretty pointless....cuz he wont be with me...plus hes comin to my school nxt year and i need to be over him...HELP ME PLEASE...and another thing...sometime i call him just to talk too...and i think i should tell him how i feel...do you?? help!
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Well..sweetie! I'm really sorry that he cheated on you. I think what you need to do, is maybe write down all of the anger, but good feelings you have for him and compare them. I think you'll see how mad he made you, and how he hurt you...and that'll make you dislike him some more. What you have to do is stay strong and tell yourself you don't need him.
I'm here to listen..
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What do you think is the average weight for an 11 year old??? (link)
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Hrm...depends on your height sweetheart...I'd say maybe 85-100...Maybe depends on your body structure and height. Hope I helped...
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i bought a thong but it's really uncomfortable! Do you have to get used to them? any tips? (link)
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Sometimes you have to get used to them.
Maybe getting a thicker thong part for the beginning, and then going down thinner would feel better. Hope I helped
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i rated a 5 for yur advise..yur the only one who said go for it.. i appreciate that .. and he does like me and i like him .. but hes younger..but his girl is older.. idk .. like its weird..but his girl is a complete bitch idk..wow yu are like the best person for advise thanks so much and if yu ever need anything my aim s/n is -- ive been x bad x
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Hehehhe!! AlrightY babE! No problem! You're the best too...you just gotta take chances sweetheart.
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k soo ..i kissed my best friend and i want to do it again but he gut a girll who is older than him ..but i dont like her that much..but still..its funn..and i think i like him..do i keep doing it? (link)
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No..I don't think you should kiss him anymore. Maybe talking to him and letting him know that you like him...maybe he likes you too. Hope I helped
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Hey, My name is Anna and I'm 14! This is my situation, .last Christmas I met this guy named Colin. I was at my friends house and we were just playing basketball and he came and introduced hisself blah blah blah. The thing is that he lives in New Hampshire and I live in Florida. My first impression of him was that he was ugly and I would probably never talk to him again in my life. But that didn't happen, I stayed another day at my friends hosue and we hung out most of the day. He told my friend Kati that he liked me. We kept in touch over the computer and over the phone. We ended up going out and having a long distance relationship. But then we broke up. Anyhoo, he just visited a couple weeks ago and I spent two days with him at his house alone with his friend Jon. While I was there I hung out in his room and we watched movies and went swimming and stuff. We cuddled and just had a great time. While I was close to him I was asking him if he thought he was in love. He said he thinks he is (with me) but the location thing came up again. Well I don't need to tell you about the whole day but after he left I couldn't stop thinking about him, I've had dreams about him. I seriously thought I was in love until I heard from his friends what he's really like. One of his friends told me what he said about this girl Sarah. He was swimming and the water was cold right so he made a comment that in the cold water his dick gets hard then when he went into the warm water it wasn't anymore. Then when Sarah came out in her bikini it was hard again. When I found this out I was sooo mad..Other than the fact that he likes this girl. (Supossedly) Well..I'm really confused because we got into a little fight over the interent and I told him how upset and hurt I was..he just said he was pissed and that IT WAS A JOKE! Well I appoligized to him and I kinda got a reality check that maybe I'm not in love..Well..why am I having dreams that I want to marry this guy? And I'm scared to call him too. I just don't know how to sort out my feelings. He was the first guy I made out with. And he tells me I'm gogerous and everything but he tells every girl that I heard. And I still don't think he feels the same way so I don't know if I should jsut give up, move on, or tell him about my true feelings. Also whenever I talk to him on the internet he never really says anything other than what's up or what did you do today stuff like that. He never tells me to call him either and he never calls me so I don't know how to read him. And if I wore to tell him about how I feel I wouldn't know how to do it. It's so different while he's in New Hampshire and I'm here. We both have different lives and we loose touch and it's like we're just friends not even close friends. But I just can't get my mind off of him and when he is down I get so excited and I don't want to get my heart broken but I might have already. Plus my mom is superly overpretective so I'm not around guys that much at all and well she let me go over to his hosue with out supervision and I don't know if this is crazy or not but I'm thinking it might be fate. That we were meant to be together. It all makes sense kinda? but I just can't put the pieces together. Maybe you can help me with that. Well, Thank you sooo soo much for helping me out. I'm soo soo sorry that it was so long. Hope you have a great day or night whichever it is when you read this lol. (link)
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WowwY! You're in a really tough situation. I think what you really need to do...is call him. I know you're not going to know what to say or how to put it..but just tell him how you feel. You have to, that's the only way to settle things sweetheart. It's going to be so hard to word it, but once you get going...you'll just ramble on. My fiance and I live 8 hours apart! We have fights, and I know how the distance is. It's very very hard. But I think you need to stand up and be strong...pour out your feelings with him like you did with me. Maybe he'll tell you things that he's feeling. Maybe he dreams about you. And about this Sarah girl..you have to forget about her. You do have to understand that boys are going to be boys and make dumb jokes about that kinda stuff.
I don't really know what else to tell you sweetie, I read it twice. I just think it'd all be best if you talked to him. I hope I helped, stay strong and keep me posted.
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i know for shure that he let her do that , because he told me the truth but the girl that flashed him is at this party right now and i dont want nuthin to go on !! (link)
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Oh....I understand now..I'm sorry. Wow...sweetie, I don't know. You just need to have trust right now and stay positvie. I hope I helped, this one is a little hard for me, keep me posted sweetie!
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my 2 friends like this guy that i just started to like. should i tell them that i like him too? (link)
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Well...do you guys tell eachother everything? If so, yuppers go ahead. but if not...keep it to yourself and go for that guy!!
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ok my parents dislike my brother just b/c they dont like his girlfriends parents and they think his girlfriend will b a bad influence on him and sumtimes when im on the computer i hear them talking to eachother and there like saying bad things about him and i feel like really bad b/c i for 1. i dont like hearing bad stuff about my bro b/c he is my own flesh and blood 2. is b/c i feel like im caught in the middle of them b/c my bro tells me stuff about my parents and then my parents talk about him!
help i need help on how to bare this situation!
and when i do tell my parents about this situation there like stay out of this and im like ok but... there like no stay out its none of ur business and im like i HAVE MY OWN RIGHT TO EXPRESS MY FEELINGS! and my bro says the same thing to me! and i try to help and all but they seem to not want it and the never take it into consideration...
help!
signed..
stuck in the middle:( (link)
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Well...I love how you're standing up for what you believe. That's always a good start. Maybe everytime you hear them talking about him...you should go to another room, or go get in the middle of it and change the subject. When your brother talks about it, tell him...I want nothing to do with this. You really need to get your parents in a calm mood and get them together with your brother and tell them in a mature way..I'm absolutly tired of hearing the nasty things all of you say about eachother. Make a point that they are all guilty...and that you're only pointing at all of them...not certain ones. Make sure you let them know in a mature way though...they'll pay more attention to you. I hope I helped...good luck sweetie. I'm always here btw...
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ok...i have music on my colum and i want to change the song. i went xanga.com and stuff and i everyone is saying to copy the code...what code? ive dont this b4 but i forgot! PLEASE HELP and i will rate
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Ususally when you scroll down it says copy the code. I don't know about xanga though, sorry..Hope I helped!
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