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i became friends with this one girl named Jenna who was new this year. weve been in school for about 5 monthes now and me, one of my best friends, and one of my guy friends are her only friends in our school. well one of her guy friends from her old school likes me and i dont like him back. he saw me at the movies one night and gets mad because im with another guy, he tells Jenna and Jenna gets mad at me and says some extremly mean things to me, things that a "bff" (as she calls us) would NEVER say. she then apologizes the next day when she hears the real story from one of my friends. i dont know if i should forgive her because she really feels bad.. or shes apologizing because she needs friends at our school and if im mad at her, then she knows my friend and my guy friend will surly be mad at her too.. also she has gotten me in a LOT of trouble.. like trouble with cops.. please help!

ditch her. you dont need friends that are like that.

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My two friends, who happen to be girls, really like me, and I don't know if I like them as much! One is good looken, and the other is fun to be with, Please help me on what I should do. Thanks!

i fu dont like them then dont go out with them but if u want to go out with one of them then go out with the one thats fun to be with

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Well, I have a friend who visits an advice site (the name slips my mind) where most everyone posts idiotic relationship questions riddled with bad spelling, punctuation, and grammer, pretty much in that order. My question is this, how do I tell my friend that he is a moron? And how can I make him stop asking stupid questions? And how can I get him to stop using things like "u" for you, or "r" for are?

Thanks for the help.

it doesnt rlly matter if he uses u for you u shouldnt care that much

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Hey does any0one know a (legal or illegal i dont care) program to download entire CDs at once?? the program i have you have to download each song individually..thanks

i used to use kazaa and i downloaded whole cds at once but i stopped cuz its illegal

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Ok its CREEPY thers this guy that i hung out with ONCE at a party who goes to a totally different school then me. he ends up calling me (even though i never gave him my number??) and we talk alittle but i really dont like him. then he calls me right before i left yesterday (ON MY HOUSE PHONE?!?) and i told him i couldnt talk and he said "why not" and i said "im about to go to the movies with my friends" and then i went there and guess who was there! yupp that guy!! and he decided to see the same movie at the same time! weird huh! how do i get rid of him??

confront him and ask how he knows all that stuff about you and see what he says back

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Okay, so there's this guy in my school that most of the girls would give their leg to date (not literally of course) He's one of the best skateboarders around, and was even chosen to go to this contest thing across the US... Anyways, he's so cute and he doesn't even know it. From what I've heard he doesn't like having a gf because it gets in the way of skateboarding. A few weeks ago he(Mark) broke up with the girl I have hated since elementary school (she used to pick on me before I lost a lot of weight and discovered make up. lol) This guy that I know from around my neighborhood is dating my best friend n also friends with Mark. He told me that he thought I was 'hot' and that he liked me. Well, he is also really shy. You'd think that because of all of this attention from girls and skating he wouldn't be, but he is. I was hanging out watching them skateboard and he didnt do anything but look over at me a few times. So, before I left I heard him say "No hug?" which was the first time i heard him say anything really. So i gave him a hug and left... When i passed him in school Mark barely said anything other than a "Fine dont say hi to me, i see how it is" so I did and my friends and I walked on to class. When I've passed by him, I saw his eyes on me the whole time we walked by each other and I know he did it on purpose for me to see. I can't help it, I like him so much even though I don't know much about him. Something about being not like the other guys who make those rude comments as you walk by. He's just... So cute! lol. Well, I don't know what to do anymore. I've been talking to him as much as I can, but I don't want to ask if he wants to hang out because I think that's his job and I really want to get to know him better. I also don't believe he likes me because i tend to put myself down a lot and I don't think that he *could* like me. I'm thinking of the worst, like, its all a joke or not true or something, not that he really does like me. Can someone help me with what I could do? Thanks ((I rate if that helps any... Btw, Mark is 16 and I am 14))

u should ask him out. he probly likes you hes just rlly shy about it so take a chance and stop puuting urslf down!

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I broke up with my ex boyfriend because i had been hearing stuff like that he was all over other girls. But then when i broke up with him he cried infront of all of his friends and everything. I still love him a lot and want to be with him but we've gone out 5 times and i just dont know if this time he means it. He's also my best friend and he told me that he loved me and would do anything to get me back! So what should i do.. go back out with him, stay broken up or just take a break?

take a break from him for a little while. like dont hang out with him and try not to think about him and just do stuff with your other friends and see how you fell aftrwards

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My guy friend..lets call him K..likes me and I like him back..atleast I think so. We got kind of deep and talked about our feelings and stuff..and he told me all the reasons he liked me..I really liked him at that point..he's so sweet. One weired problem..when I'm not talking to him...or just talking to him online..I feel like I can't decide if I really like him or not..but when I talk to him in person it's totally different. I dont know I can't stop thinking about it and it's tearing me apart. If anyone could help..that would be GREAT! THANKS!

if i were u id go out with him and see how you feel then. it seems like u like him u just like him better when your talking to him in person

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the boy I like is goin gout with my x-best friend. (thats ok )he made a promise at the beginning of the year that he wouldn't go out with anyone. my other best friend asked him out and he said no because he made that promise.is this boy worth worrying about
~x0x0er girl~

nah just ferget bout him. thats not kool what he did

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Hi well like u know i lost prety much the friends that i was really close to before and well laitly i have had hard times of making new friends and well usually i'm really good about talking to people and introdusing my self to them but i just dont know what to do anymore.....what do you think is wrong with me..? and well i hope this site will help me to make some new girls/guy friends that i can talk to when i need some one to hear me out!

u probly are just dishearted cuz ur other friends u arent friends with anymore.just rmember that u do still know how to do it and try to remember how uve made friends in the past

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ok, theres this guy, mmk? and i know he likes me, cuz he told me like a bajillion times. but i dont like him AT ALL..and he keeps like hangin all over me and stuff. he calls me, i dont answer, he writes me notes, i throw them away and dont answer them, he emails me, i delete them, and i have him blocked on AOL..why wont he take the hint???? am i being too subtle? do i just need to like go up to him and make a huge scene or sumthin? please help, cuz he's really startin to bug me!!! thanks!

~*wants nothing to do with him*~

just sit him down and tell him that hes a nice but you dont like him that way n u just wanna be friends

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How long does an akle sprain usually take to go away, and is it smart to be running track right after it?

i dunno how long it takes to heal but aftr ur sure its fully healed then u can do track again

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wen i have my period im not really aloud to take a pill but my stomach always hurts alot wut can i do?!?! wif school n everything i dont wunna go wif muh stomach hurtin!!

well supposedly if u get alot of excercise and eat fruits n veggies u wont get stomach aches but to make it feel better take a hot bath

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Help. When I order chicken wings in a fancy restaurant should I pick them up and eat them or use the cutlery provided?

ud use ur knife and fork if its a rlly fancy restaurant but if its like friendlys or KFC then u can us ur fingers

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Tomorrorw is picture day...

I have wavy hair and i want to scrunch it..

how excactly do i scrunch it.. please give detailed information or i'll have to sraighten it..

u wet ur hair and then take it and push it to ur head. this is probly way to late to answer cuz ur picture day is probly ova but i hope i helped anyway
~jj

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Okay, this is kind of weird for me, but I want/need help...I'm in this after school women's ensemble, and we're singing this piece, Unchained Melody. I love the song. It's pretty, it's fun to sing, and it has meaning - but that's the problem. For some reason, it really strikes a chord, and I've never been able to sing through it without crying. Obviously you can't sing when you cry because your throat tightens up. I do have the option of telling our director that I can't sing the piece, but I don't want to do that because I like it. I can't just sing it flatly without emotion because that's just...bad. Anyone have any ideas as to how to fix this, or help me in any way?

think about muthing happy while ur singing it or think about what ur gonna do aftr ur done practicing wile ur singing it

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Hi well i love playing the piano but i hate goin to lessons. I just HATE lessons. Does any1 kno how to make myself want to go to lessons?

ma mom had the same problems with me but she made me wanna go to ma piano lessons by taking me to a local pharmacy and buying me my favorite kinda ice cream afrwords. so if theres a pharmacy or an ice cream palor or sumtin round there then hav ur mom treat u or treat urself to sumtin aftrwords

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Does anybody have any pet care tips for a rat?? I just got one. Like, what are their favorite foods and what activities do they like??? Anyone who has a rat, gimmie some tips!!! Thanx!! I rate high

i have a rat and she LUVS cheese n bananas. she always loves to be held and the more i hold her the more calm and better behaved and sweet she is

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What the youngest baby do you think that you would put a 14 year old in charge of? And do you really think that at 14 they are responsible?

probly aftr the bay is about 3 months old a 14 year old can take care of him. and it depends on the 14 year old if theyre responsible anough to take care of him

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for a 7 year-old kid who's nice and who would listen to me (easy babysitting) how much shopuld i charge?

probly around 5 dollars an hour

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