Q: ok so like I started going out with this really ho t guy but I don't know how to start a conversation with him or talk to him! Does anybody know wut I can say to him?

Q: I always wear the same makeup, same hair. My hair is shoulder length and really dark brown. I have dark brown eyes and VERY pale skin. So...what are some ideas to make my look better (hair and makeup)

Q: I have to do a powerpoint on a country. Okay I'm almost done only problem is I need info on the history and goverment. I mean I have the info but I don't know what to put on the (pp). I want the important facts but I don't know how to pick them out. Can someone help me? Oh, the project is on Spain.

Q: ok so my friend Brendan has been ignoring me lately. We don't see much..and we were really good friends, but all of a sudden he just stopped talking to me. We only talk over the internet and phone.so I don't know what's happening and I don't know what to do.

Q: I am a dark, pessimistic, negative person. I feel totaly hopeless and that both the good and evil forces are against me. I try to be the positive, outgoing type, but that realy isnt me. Im realy pained inside with doubt and hiddin secrets. I have a crush on someone and today I was thinking about the girl, the way she acts when I flirt with her, the way she is so outgiong. Those happy, warming feelings turned cold. I have been doubtful about myself, I feel like I cant start a close relationship, not even a close friendship. Its more than that, but it would take forever to explain things. I feel weak and helpless. Can you help me?
--Caden--

Q: I asked a girl to the winter formal dance a few days ago. She got really excited and was taken totally surprised and started bragging to all of her friends. Her actual words were "Let me check my schedule to be sure that I don't have something, but it sounds like a lot of fun." Oh my goodness thank you for asking me. Hug. Here I am thinking SCORE!
Well, aparrently not. The next day she pulls me aside and says that she's really sorry but she has something that night that she absolutely cannot get out of (independly confirmed, she really does have something that she can't get out of). Oh my goodness, she's so sorry, she was so excited to get asked that she told all of her friends. I'm a really nice guy. If there was another dance ("You're a Junior, right?" read: PROM) she'd be honored to go. She feels so sorry and she's really bad at this because she's never been asked to anything before and she's so sorry she doesn't know what she's doing. I made her day/week/month. Etc. Etc. So I mention that maybe there's something else she might want to do another night. She says "Well, there's plenty of time to think about that." Bounds off.
I am really confused. Do I cut my losses and move on or is she interested? How do I approach the situation when I run into her tomorrow? If she's interested will she come after me now or what? I don't want to be the guy that can't take the hint, but at the same time... I really don't understand what just happened.

Q: Im like addicted to the computer, and i really can't stop. Is there a way to get me off of it? Please help.

Q: I met this guy alex a couple days ago. He flirted with me almost the whole night then 3 days ago i went to a party and we made out. He said he would call em afterwards but he never did. I dont know his number or sn . I dont know how to get him to liek me becasue im pretty interested. DO u think he just wanted ass?

Q: I have a question about this guy that isnt my boyfriend, he is just a friend of mine. Well I was talking to him one day about my grandmother and how she was coming down from her city which is about a 6 hour drive away to see my appartment for the first time. While anyways, after telling him this he said quote " and how is grandma doing"? I thought this was strange since he isnt even my boyfriend to refer to her as "grandma" instead of "your grandma". I mean by the way he said it it sounded like he already thinks of my grandma as his grandma too! Does anyone else find what he said strange? I would never refer to his mom or grandma like that!!

Q: Howdy

I was just doing a little christmas present pondering to tell my parents what i want and i came to a question. for along time now ive wanted the ipod mini...but now my friends tell me theyre no longer selling them..only the new ipod nano or more advanced/expensive crap. but does anyone know if this is true?
also...just to randomly throw this out there...whats on you guys' xmas list this year? lol. i cant think of anything to ask for...anything would be helpful and i PROMISE ill rate fives to everyone except the smart alecs.
~Megan 15/f

Q: so i really like this guy and i think he likes me and my friend think he likes me 2. we met on myspace . . i want to send him a message letting him know im into him and hes on my mind all the time. do you have any ideas and what to say . . .thanks in advance!

Q: I like my best friend more than a friend but don't wanna ruin our friendship. He likes me back tto. What should i do? Risk it or play it safe?

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Q: Is it possible to find the "one" when you're only 14? I have been thinking about this alot. I have this boyfriend, he is the best guy in the world. He doens't pressure me to do anything. We have been dating for 3 weeks and he hasn't pressured me to do anything. Just yesterday it took him the whole football game to put his arm around me, and it wasn't even fully. He hasn't even kissed me yet. Personally, I love this. I don't like feeling pressured. He texts me and or calls me everyday. I like him so much. I don't know if I love him though. But that isn't really my question. My question is, should I be looking for "the one" right now? I know it is a really small chance that I will find the one so early. I am only a freshman and I can see this relationship is going to last a long time, but the next 3 years of high school? Is it possible that we can stay together for the next 3 years?

Q: I have this friend. And we spent the whole summer together being best friends. We are both really nice and fun when we are not mean to each other. Sometimes we get in these huge fights but the next day she wants to be my friend! What do i do?!

Ill rate 5's for good answers!

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Q: ok well im not a soicial outcast or anything i have many friends but many are n a different district for school then me i have a few that arent back stabbing where i am now. my closest friend that is in my district is moving because she doesnt like how everyone there is well i hate it n people make up stuff to get me nto trouble every day n that isnt a lie i have been to the counsler n principal about 5 timez a week since school has started n they arent beleiving me when i tell them these people are making stuff up n plus i have problems with my teachers since my dad went to school there n he was a very bad kid n still iz bad as an adult so bad i dont talk to him at all and neither does my mom they have been diviorced since i was 3 it just feels like staying there i will drop out when im a legall age n everyday ii feel like people are out to get me and im being threatened to get jumped by a group of over 50 girls because im not a straight up prep and it is so hard to trust anyone there because people turn on everyone every day


please helpp!!!!

Q: 14/f.

Here's the story...

I used to be BFF's w/ a girl since pre-school, but we drifted apart b/c we haven't been going to the same school. We are still friends, just not BFF. But I started becoming really good friends w/ a girl in my class in 8th grade, who moved up north. We both are really close and talk a lot on AIM, and I think we really are best friends now, and I was thinking about suggesting this possibility to her the next time she is online.

There is 1 problem, though...

Everyone who used to be in that class thinks that she is messed up. She tried to do it on purpose b/c she absolutely hated the elementary school we went to. The Assistant Principal was always trying to butt into her private life, so she hated her. I mean, we all did b/c she watched us like a hawk and ran student council instead of being faculty advisor like she was supposed to. But this girl especially. And she hated all the rest of the staff, too. So she went about pretending she was weird, like sniffing a bottle of rubbing alcohol in front of people, and sending an email exploding w/ cursewords to the entire school after she left. So, she accidentally convinced the STUDENTS that she was weird and then no one wanted to talk to her. They thought they were doing me a favor if they did, b/c me and this other girl are the only ones who talk to her now. And if they ask me who my best friend is, and I say she is, I'll probably be guilty by association. I know you think that I shouldn't care what other people think, but it can really have an effect on my life in high school. My parents really wanted me to go to a different high school, but I ended up being where I am. I am really happy at my school, and I don't want my association w/ this girl to make it any different. How can I convince my classmates that she is not in fact weird and that she just did that b/c she wanted to piss everyone off for being pissed off at her?

Q: Well, last week, I got into a car accident. It was just me driving.

This guy was drunk, and speeding. He ran a red and smashed in the front of my car. He hit me, and then he ran. His plates were from April of 2004!

The policeman came back, telling me that he didn't catch him, but it is my fault, and they are going to send me a citation in the mail.
Should I go to court? Or just pay off the money..

It's not fair that he hit me.. and then ran, and didn't get punished, but I did. Now, I have to pay 500 dollars to fix my car, ontop of the citation...

Help?

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