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I am 14 years old, and i like a guy that goes to my school. He is going out with the biggist slut ever.. & I like him alot! Everyone thinks they are wrong for each other. I need a way to win him over. I donno what to do cuz me and the girl hate each other. He won't listen to any of his friends and i know he wont listen to me. We would be the best couple ever! So if you have any advice please feel free to give it!!
Well maybe you and your friends and his friends are all wrong. Perhaps they are right for each other. Or perhpas she is right for him now because he wants a girl that will bang him without been accused of ruining a nice girl that got very attached to him. Whatever the reason, I doubt you can change it. Unless you want to fight on her level and make it clear to him that you can be just a slutty as her. No, I didn't think you would either........
hi i'm a 18/f and i'd like to address this question to guys and guys only.
what type of makeup do you like on a girl? how little and how much? what are makeup turn-ons and turn-offs?
the reason why i'd like to conduct this simple survey is because i'm starting to see younger girls wear A TON of makeup on when it's unnecessary. i'd like to know what kind of makeup looks you guys are attracted to so it'll give all us girls a hint on how to do our makeup! thanks!
All depends on what they are trying to cover up. Some need mroe than others. I wouldn't be surprised if younger girls used a lot as they may have more acne marks etc than older girls.
As long as its night time and the club is dark, I really don't care. Once I get them home, I'm more likely to be watching their ass.
The other night I went to the gym for the first time in awhile. I was working out on the bike and all of a sudden I started getting a charlie horse (a cramp) on my right calve. It started hurting bad, but I didn't want to get up and start running around looking like an idiot, so I kept working out for like a minute, then I couldn't take it anymore so I went into the locker room and walked it off. It took awhile, the cramp part is gone. Its now wednesday and my leg still hurts, badly. I can really flex it while walking. And if you touch the back of my LEFT calve, its flubber-ish like most calves, then when you touch my right one, its soo stiff and it hurts. I've stretched it numerous times today but its not helping. Whats wrong with it and what should I do?
Tiger balm, massage, stretching, no hard exercise and try adding a little more salt to your diet, especially if you are working out. Then just give it a few more days.
just warning you, this may get long!
last night me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years were in my room and sleeping. not fooling around, literally sleeping. then my dad comes in and freaks out bitching like we had sex or something.
the situation is that i'm the only girl in the family and they treat me like crap. i do the dishes almost every night, take care of my sick grandma, do the laundry, clean the house, and do well in school yet they still look down upon me like i can't be trusted. i am a very responsible girl and i have had enough of them snooping through my room and checking up on me.
the only possible reason why i think they could be acting like this is that we don't communicate very well with each other, let alone get along. maybe bitching is their way of talking to me? even so, that doesn't explain the overprotectiveness!
my question is what can i do to make them trust me? i feel like i've done everything, all ending in failure.
i used to really HATE them for what they put me through, but when they made an effort to BE NICE things got better. our relationship has improved over the past two of months, but after what happened last night, my grudge against them has returned.
please help, i don't know what else i can do. it seems like nothing is ever good enough for them...
-frustrated
As an 18yr old only girl from an Asian family, there really isn't anything you can do about their overprotectiveness. All you can do is try and realise that it is out of concern and love for you, not any desire to keep you trapped like Cinderella.
If you are really stifled where you are, then you need to start thinking about how to gain your independence. Go away to college or if you are working, plan to move outof home sometime soon. It is a last resort as you will seen as shirking your responsibilities towards your grandmother, but eventually you have to forge a life of your own. In the meantime, try to deal with the grudge by understanding that their motives are good, even though their actions may not be. It may help you accept the situation for a little longer until you are ready to move out.
There is a girl I know and she thinks of me as a brother or a friend more than a boyfriend. But she used to like me as a boyfriend, yet I didn't see it. I feel really attached to her now through some stuff we have done(no, probly not what youre thinking). Do you think she will go back how she was? I don't want to lose her to someone else. What can I do to get her to like me more?
M-15
You have never lost your girl, only lost your turn.
Relax and let things happen. Don't get overly jealous if she starts seeing someone else. Just remain in contact and wait for the timing to be right. Only half the task is finding someone you like. The rest is timing. If you try and force the issue, you are only more likely to blow it.
Hey do i deal with my ex. We just split up on saturday and i'm total deversated but my mate dragged me out tonight for some drinks. 19/f/uk. Well my ex spoke to everyone but me he even spoke to my mom how do i deal with it even though he said he wanted to be mates? xx
Although he might want to still be mates, maybe it is just too hard and too soon to be talking directly like nothing has happened. There is nothing to deal with. Just get your own head in order and let time sort out whether you can hang together as mates or not.
i think im a really good advice-giver on here. my rating a 4.62. well when my friends come to me for advice i dont really know what to tell them. but when random people ask me advice i no right away a 'solution'. can someone please tell me if this is normal and what i can do to start helpin my friends?
Thats because if your advice sucks here, who cares? With friends, you can keep them or lose them over it.
i guessed my mom's password for her email and it was right.. i know i shouldnt have, but i looked at all her emails with my aunt. i've been having a hard time lately w/ cutting and things and i didnt want my mom to tell anyone (she found out, bc my school found out and yadda yadda..im seeing a theripist..not important)but in these emails she told my aunt all about it. i am kinda mad but i cant say anything bc I wend snooping. im feeling really guilty and dont know what to do..any sugestions =/
Let your mom vent to your aunt a little. She isn't broadcasting it to the entire world now is she.
Okay, my friend Jackie introduced me to this guy she knows (over the internet) and he lives in New York, where she used to live, and they're sort of "going out" but not, since we live in AZ, and anyway, I've been talking to him and I think I'm starting to like him just a little bit and I don't know what to do, because she really really likes him.. I know I should let her have him, but should I tell her or just try to keep quiet about it and try to stop talking to him so I don't like him more or what?
Stop talking to him ( at least quite so personally) and don't say anything to your friend. He hasn't done anything wrong other than have you like him. She hasn't done anything wrong. Why get in the middle of this? Let them play out their relationship to its most likely end and if you still like him, talk more to him then.
can u get herpes from giving someone without herpes head? like do they have to have the disease for u to get it? PLEASE HURRY! im very worried :(
Geez.......of course they have to have it to catch it! But that doesn't mean it has to be very noticable. Maybe they have it and you simply don't know. But at worst, if all you did was give them head, you might end up with a cold sore on your lip. You could get that from kissing someone too so keep a lid on the paranoia.
Sometimes I don't know who I am anymore. For the most part ive become a really sophisticated, goody good with really STRONG morals. I always do homework and go to church. I never -- cheat, steal, drink, cuss, smoke, do drugs, ditch school, party, sneak out, have sex, listen to rap, etc. But sometimes i get sick of being like that. Sometimes i just want to bust out my old dirty, rap collection and live life a little. But then later the goody/serious side of me DESPISES rap because its so degrading and disgusting. The thing is.. it's not about rap music. (That was just an example of how im like two different people within hours or days.) I really dont think i have a split personality or anything to that extreme. I just dont know who I am anymore. One part of me wants to stay moral, and the other part of me wants to break free and live. How do I find out who i truely am when both of these WAY DIFFERENT personalities keep showing?
Perhaps you should try believing in morals that do not cause you to despise things or people that are not in keeping with those morals. It seems to me that your "morals" are making you far too judgemental.
Lately I cant constritate on my school work. My grades are slipping and I hate all my teachers. One teacher really hates me and never wants to help me. My parents think I`m doing super super great and if I get a lower then a B on my report card I would get in trouble. I`m having other problems right now and school is just my last thing to worry about. We are having a huge test Thursday and if we fail this we fail the grade. By the way I`m 13/f. I need to do really good on this test and what is the best way to constratrate on studying and doing good on this test? Thanks!
Short term for this test all you can do is put the time into study. Concentration improves the more you do it. It is like exercise. Do not expect to run a marathon on your first day. You need to build up to it. For this one you just have to try and get through however you can.
Longer term, perhaps you might want to consider dealing with the "other problems". I dare say they are half the reason you seem so negative and convinced your teachers hate you.
HELP!im 14/f..here it goes..in like october i started kinda fooling around with an eating disorder but didnt really realize i was. since then ive collapsed twice..im really getting scard somethings really wrong with me bc of this! my sister knows & she thinks i told my mom and that im all good now. i feel guilty that im basicly lying to my sister when she asks me how its going and im scard ive done some kinda permanent damage to my body! i really dont want to be known as that girl with an eating disorder but its hard not to be!
I am glad you're scared. Perhaps you are scared enough to either start eating properly of your own accord or get some help to do so. If you don't want to talk to your mom, talk to your doctor or to a counsellor or someone at your school. There is probably no permanent damage yet but there certainly will be if you do not change. Be scared and use the fear to deal witht he issue.
ok my mom's b/f's son (lets call him chip) hooked me and his friend (call him dip) up but now chip found out that me and dip want 2 makeout friday and hes telling a bunch of ppl so now dip isnt sure if he wants 2 go out b/c also chip's dad threatned to kill dip if he tried 2 do anything with me.. i like dip and dip likes me should i try 2 end our relationship or try to talk chip into not beliving we are gonna makeout soon?
For a while i thought it was just the names you had chosen that were weird. Then I decided the whole lot of you are weird. Tell chip and dip they can make out with each other for all you care and go find some friends that can keep their mouths shut.
i have this friend..we are "best friends"..we used to be really close..and are families are still...but im sick of her. she took my friends from me and everything..all these guys like her..and i ade her become what she is today..i meani gave her the good clothes and what music to listen to..but i dunno..what should i do? everytime i confront her about this..she gets all upset and says she never wants to lose me..and just flipps out..i cant stand her!!..what do i do?
well I can't understand why on earth she still wants to be your friend.
So you think you helped make her popular. What do you want? A medal? Point is, now that she is, you're getting all jealous over her. Grow up.
okay so this kid i recently started to like came to my basketball came last friday and since i was playing and was litterly flippin pushed outta the gym afterwards i never got to talk to him. i dont know why he was there, i think it was for me, but do you think he likes me? how should i tell him i like him? straight up, or have my best friend tell him? oh and hes my bestfriends xboyfriend so it totally sucks ass
Unless you want your bestfriend to be your xbestfriend, find someone else.
I'm 15/f, and I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never been kissed either. I wouldn't say I'm ugly. Everyone tells me I'm really pretty. I really want a boyfriend, but I'm kind of shy. How do I get a guy to like me.. and then make him feel comfortable enough to ask me out? Basically, my question is, how do I get a boyfriend??
Have you thought about wearing shorter skirts?
okay - two of my best friends have boyfriends (total geeky boyfriends, but boyfriend non the less) anyway, during the week, like in school and stuff, they are all like making plans with me for over the weekend and stuff, then the weekend comes, and i call em, and there parents tell me they are out.. well.. the point to the story is that they are lying to me all the time, its bugging me.. they tell me that they dont spend enough time with them and that they always spend time with me, when in all actuallity, i only see them at school.. i mean.. i dont have a boyfriend, and i feel like because of it, they dont want to hang out with me anymore.. anyway, this weekend, we were all supposed to go skating, and they told me like 10 mins before skating begins, they call me and tell me that they want to be alone with their friend.. my mom drives by this local park later that day, and sees them with they boyfriends (friend 1 with friend 2's bf wrestling and friend 2 with friend 1's boyfriend wrestling) they consider THAT a date.. i ahev tried to talk to them about it, but they always get mad at ME!! HELP!!
Try getting your own boyfriend then and stop complaining about it.
Im 17/m and here is my problem. Ok Im a senior and prom is comming up soon. Well I have two people in mind to ask out. The first is in my class and I know she likes me. I kinda like her but not as much as she likes me. The other is in 10th grade. I like her but I dont know if she likes me. So now you see my problem. Help please.
Have you thought of simply choosing the one that is really hot?
You want the 10th grader but you don't know if she likes you. Well ask her stupid! Then you know. You already have the other one to fall back on if you crash and burn on the first.
Does anyone know where I can find one of those tshirts that say "I need a hug" or something like that?? Or does anyone know where I can find any other cute tshirts that say cute stuff like that?? I've been looking for them for like forever and I cant find any!! Thanks!!
Shop in Hong Kong
There is no limit to the cutesy T-shirts here, most of which carry badly spelt, grammatically nonsensical slogans that make you laugh your arse off.