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my friend dani is a really weird person. she's my friend and all but i don't know how to tell her how weird she is. help me.

Well if she is your friend then why would you need to tell her shes wired?? But if your telling her that because other people are saying that about her then you might want to sit down and tell her some people like think your wired i dont know but if shes ur friend why would u want to tell her she wired?? but if you want to tell her that because you dont want to be her friend thats another story talk to me more about this on aim. my sn is pinknprettychick
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Sarah

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OMG. I know this girl who smokes weed and I try to tell her to stop but she totally keeps on doing it. The only reason she does it though is to be cool but when I try to tell her that it's not cool, she hits me with a soda can! HELP!!

Yea i knew a girl like that and I tried to tell her it wasnt cool and that really it wasnt and she wouldnt listen and yes i got to the point where i figured its her life not mine i should let her deal with it with her family so i think the best thing to be is to tell her parents whats going on or what youve heard because she might get sent to jail or worst she might even die so maybe consider talking to your mom or her parnets

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Well , i have been going out with this guy. we never see each other and sometimes people tell me he is makin moves and flirting with other girls!! i dont know what to do. should i break up with him? thanks in advance .. :o]
signed,
mixed emotions

WEll i would say to sit down and talk to him and as him if he is cheating on you and whats going on with this stuff you hear and tell him that you also really miss him because u dont get to see him that much
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Sarah

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at prom there was this guy i was dancing with and when we were slow dancing he pulled me close and are faces touched and he was smiling. i'm thinking this is a way of affection. also he was pulling out my chair for me and opened the car door for me. was he just being nice or is it something more??

Oh sounds like a crush to me...
sarah

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What is the best way to disinfect cutting boards and sponges?

I would say buy using clorox wipes i think they do a pretty well job.
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Sarah

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hi ,i m really confused wat to do .theres a guy in my class whom i really like but i haden't told anyone bout it.then few days back i got to now that my best frnd also likes him.that was too heart broking but then i thought i shud sacrifice my luv for her becoz i didn't wanted to hurt her.but just after few days when i was having headache i was sitting in the class alone,that guy came to me n said that he loves me very much .i was really shocked actually very happy.he said he wants my answer in few days.i m really confused now.i dont want to say no to him but then i also think bout my frnd.wat will she think of me when she will get to know that i m involved wid that guy.plz give me some answer soon!!!!

Well your right thats a tought problem but what I would say if this girl really is your friend and you really want to go out with this guy and she might get mad at you but if she really understands then she might be mad at you for awhile then she will edventully come around to being nice to you and being friends. If she really is a good friend a guy cant seperate you.
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Sarah

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my face is not the cleanest one and it has some pimples and i wanted to know what kind of face wash or any techniques i can do to make my face really smooth and even get rid of some pimples

you know i have the same problem and latley ive been washing my face ever day with Olay daily facial pads they seem to help alot hope i helped
Sarah

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My name is Kayla and I live in Houston, Texas. O.K, I have known this guy for about three years. He is a total gentleman. By the way, I'm 13 and so is he. We were born on the same day. He has some sort of autism that causes him to act younger. People at school don't respect him. He has crushed on me ever since fifth grade and now, we're in seventh and he still has this crush. He has asked me out several times and I JUST DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO NOT HURT HIS FEELINGS. He likes that "Pokemon" show on WB kids and he's obsessed with "Yugi-oh" and he's just... weird. He's really sweet though. His mom just passed away on Friday the thirteenth and he's really depressed. I called his mom Aunt Paula and he called my mom Aunt Leanne. I love him and all... but not the way he loves me. He's more like... my cousin/brother. Not a boyfriend. I told him I would LOVE to be his friend but I'm not ready for this kind of relationship. A long time ago, he told me he had a dream about me. I asked him what it was about. He got all shy and red in the face and he smiled, showing his braces. Then, I said "O.K, you tell my sister and my sister will tell me." my sister was only 9 at the time. He whispered it in her ear and ran away. My sister Brittany told me and he said his dream about me... naked... making out with him. So, I stopped talking to him for a while because he said he would make a move on me. I was really scared to be alone with him. A few months later, he told me he stopped having those dreams and he was sorry that it scared me so I forgave him and we were friends again. He asked me out again and I told him "No. I only like you as a friend." and he started CRYING!!! He's like a cousin to me but not like that. I really don't know what to say. I rate good answers and will email anybody who wants me to. Please help me!
~~~Luv, Kayla

Dang i know almost ecally what its like well this guy has liked me for along time now too and his parents got divorced and i think or what i relize now is that when that happend he just really needed someone to talk to and be friends with and like your guy his mom just died and he needs someone to talk to someone to love i guess you could put it that way and about him asking you out thats just he thinks your pretty he really likes you as a friend too and he wants to be your boyfriend so that he knows someones there to love him if you kind of know what i mean. When he ask you out and you say no over and over again i get that part same thing happend here to and evtully he got over me and now where just friends so maybe you should just talk to him and tell me like how this works out what ever u can email me at legallybrunette@bellsouth.net or aim me at pinknprettychick if you want to talk about it more. hope i helped
Sarah

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I dont know if i should ask this guy out that goes to my school he doesnt think tat i like him and we dont talk a lot but i like this guy a lot and i want to ask him out so bad but i dont know how......plz help me....i rate high....

love,
dont know what to do

well if he goes to ur school get your friend to pass him a note asking if he likes you then ask him out i guess lol its not that hard really
Sarah

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Theres this kid who i am friends with and well hes really ugly (not trying to sound mean) and no one would ever like him like that. Well and hes kind of a loser and this girl he likes is kind of snobby and popular.. And her friend is setting him up so he looks like a fool. Her friend is telling him that she likes him and that she wood say yes if he asked her out. What should i do so he doesnt get crushed?

I would tell him whats going on about her setting him up so he dosent get hurt or embrassed by the populair snob. hope i helped
SaRaH

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OmG! There's this girl that goes to my school, she's one of my best friends. But it seems that she wants to be exactly like me. She bought the same exact digital camera I had, the same battery charger, she has the SAME necklace I have, and the same exact purse. I usually don't get mad over this stuff. But now she's asking for the same cellphone I have. Am I over exagerating?

she sounds like she wants to be just like you lol she needs to get a life if u ask me.
SArah

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k, don't ask....this is a really random question, but.... where would you move to if you had a choice? Just say one place... i am not going to rate you if you say a place i don't like.

♥ PrObaLy NeW york City because i love the city
Sarah♥

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hey...does anyone know where you can buy a Bamboo plant? try to name more than one place in case i don't live by the place that you say. Thanx in advance. Luv ya all!

Well i asked my mom becasue we have a few and she said she got hers from
kroger
the mall
Wal mart
thats all i can think of hope i helped =)
Sarah

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I want to shave my legs but i dont know how to ask my mom wut should i do?

you should ask your mom first because you might end up cutting urself really bad. and if your mom says no just explain to her why you think you should be able to shave your legs maybe because it might be embrassing to you i dont know but please dont try it by yourself because you could end up getting cut really bad and its summer time so that means youll be in short and u dont want beat up legs hope i helped
Sarah

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OK well, it's abit silly but I kissed my boyfriend for the first time a few days ago and was kinda' surprised when he went straight into frenching! It was my first time kissing properly so I was just expecting a lip kiss or whatever, but he kinda slipped his tongue in somehow... and I was like... ah no? I didn't really want to go that far + it kinda grossed me out! so I sort of pulled away... He said he was okay with waiting until I'm more comfortable kissing him, but I would just rather stick to lip kissing for now! How should I deal with this? I'm not sure how to phrase it right... It was his first time kissing aswell... any help muchly appreciated!

yea i think that you should just stick to lip kissing till ur more coforable and just tell him that and if he dosnet listen then dump him cause then he isnt worth it . hope i helped
Sarah

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Ok heres the deal..im 14 and in the 9 grade and i feel like i have no friends..i mean yea i talk to people at school but idk like at lunch i sit with these ppl that my "friend" sits w. and i dont even sit by her i sit at the end of the table w. these boys and i dont even tlk to them i just sit there and eat my lunch. Then there comes the weekends and i have nothing to do and i usually stay home w. my mom and dad and i come home every day after school its really is pathetic..any idea to help me?

well yea sorry but it dosent sound liek you have alot a friends what you should do is hang out with people that liek do things like you i mean idk what are you preppy gothic punk i dont know but if no ones like you then you should maybe try to get involed in so groups or soething you would meet alot of new friends there maybe idk i tried my best to answer the quest hope i helped
Sarah

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ok well i really want my hair chemically straighted but all ym friends say it is really really bad for you. i kno its kinda true but i hate my hair! like whatever i do it wont get straight. becasue i have really wavy hair its not curly its just like wavy and i hate it! i have a really good straigtner but it still dosnt get my hair straight. so i was wondering how chemically straigtning works.

like how much does it cost?
will it hurt?
how long will it last?
and like other things like that so help me please and thankyou!!

hey u no what i know excally what your hair is like mine is the same so i got it chemical strighted and my hair really isnt that bad i just used dove shampoo on it and its silk and i still use a strighter on it make it look nice and sright and my hair is ok its not like how i know you want it but its alot strighter so i would go ahead and try it just use dove because it helps alot hope i helped rate me lol
SARAH

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14/m
what are ways that i can pull my girlfriend aside from all our friends and get our first kiss? like what are ideas that i can do? what are things that i can bring up the romantic event once i pull her aside?
Background: she has been getting annoyed with me for absolutly no apparent reason, sometimes just because im around-we go to the same school, and are in the same classes, and hang around the same group of friends. sometimes i get the impression that she gets annoyed whenever i pull her aside for a while just to cuddle with her, or talk by ourselves, its like she thinks i am hogging her from everyone, when really its just some of our friends are so obsessive with her (they are almost all girls, we have like 2 or 3 other guy friends) and they (a few girls) like obessess with her and shit. so how can i pull her aside without her thinking im trying to hog her to myself?? thanks for the help!

well maybe you should plan a date just you and her like the movies or a picnic or something like that. And those are both romantic and cute things to do for her. And if u do go to the movies u should pay for her hope i helped
Sarah!

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A friend of mine has his girlfriend's birthday all planned out. Well, almost. There is one point where he doesn't know what he's going to do. This is what he has so far:

Wake her up a 7:30 in the morning; give her 30 seconds to grab anything she needs then take her out to breakfast. After breakfast he's going to take her back home so she can get cleaned up, take a shower, and all that good stuff. Breakfast will probably take an hour so she should be ready by 11am. Then, he doesn't know where he's going to take her. But, at 5pm or 6pm he's taking her to an early dinner where he's giving her her gift. After dinner, at 7pm he's taking her to his fav. local band's show who she's gotten pretty interested in. After their show, him and his band are going on stage and sing her 2 fav. songs to her; Vindicated by Dashboard and Hanging by a moment by Life house. All of that should be over at about 10 or 10:30pm. When it's over, he'll take her to her house where all her friends are waiting for her. We’re gonna party it up through the rest of the night and may be a lil into the morning ;).

But anyway, he still needs to figure out what he's going to do with her from 11am to 5 pm. That's about 6 hours lol. I want to tell him to take her to an amusement park but I don't know if 6 hours will be enough for that. Any suggestions?

man that sounds like alot of fun i would say that he should take her shopping and to a movies that would be a good time filler
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Sarah

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There is a few preppy people in my school. I always usually talk 2 this one person which she is considered preppy but she only talks to me when she is not around her "friends" I get along w/ the other preppy people in my school just not very often sometimes she is mean and nasty and sometimes she talks to me. I need some really good comebacks for her when she calls me like a slut and a whore but im not so i need some great/ awesome comebacks. thx 4 ur help! :)

when she calls you rude names just ingnore her. You dont need to be like her if you call her names back your just as bad as her hope i helped
Sarah
p.s. i dont mean to sound like a consler its just the truth lol

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