Okay, this is really obscure and random. But I'm really REALLY jumpy. I'm not kidding. When the school bell rings, someone drops something heavy, someone touches me unexpectdly, etc, I just jump. Is that wierd or normal? And no, I'm not doing drugs alcohol smoke or any of that junk.
Also I'm VERY pokable as in I'm very ticklish and I squeal or jump or even both when someone pokes one of my tickles spots. I know that it's normal for some people but my question is do guys think that's weird, cute, what?
It's okay I'm jumpy too. The school bell rings and my whole desk moves. Haha. It's awkward.. I just pretend I didn't do it and either shift my position or something.
You weren't expecting it though, so it's normal.
I'm very ticklish too so It's pretty normal too.
Some guys think it's funny and others think it's cute. :]
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hey i really need advice, pleeeaase help me.
Im in 9th grade and there is this guy that i really like and hes in 12th grade :/. he might like me but im not sure, i danced with him at the dance and stuff and people got really jelouse. my parents said i have no chance with him cause hes a lot older and they say he just wants me for sex.it just really stinks cause i really like him. what should i do?
You dont know if he likes you though.
You have to know him really well before you try to get with him. Usually guys go after the younger girls for sex because they know they will believe them if they say they love them and stuff.
Maybe it would be wise to back off and forget the idea.
You could also flirt with him or something. Try talking to him but if you actually get with him, your parents will find out sooner or later..
Trust issues will come up.
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I am eighteen an never had my first kiss (never even close). . . . . .nor have i even had a boyfriend. . . i know. . . . . is there something wrong?
18, Female
Nope nothing's wrong.
Just try to be social with guys and make plans with them or dates. Flirt a little and show you're interested.. and maybe something may start from there.
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boys dont like me im not sure why, how do you get boys to like you more? how do you act and stuff and dress? dont say be yourself i just want some tips
Well being yourself pretty much works.
But you have to be confident about it.
Well every guy is different though. I know guys want a girl who is funny and could laugh at their jokes.
Being confidence in the way they walk (no head down or anything like that).
Sometimes they get attracted by how you dress [if it's either all bright and cutesy or dark and stylish]
Sometimes it's because you're loud or shy.
There's really NO limit on it.
It's either because you have pretty eyes or a beautiful smile.
They like a girl that isnt too shy to go up and talk to them.
You need some guy friends too, all girls as friends.. is a bit weird.
Guys really don't like a lot of makeup. (Eyeliner is okay but the full face thing.. is a bit of a turn off)
I wouldn't really act different for a guy though.
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15/f. has anybody (ages 13-18) have used Proactive? I'd like to here your opinions on it, good or bad. my mom is considering getting it for me if it is good. i've heard that it clears up you acne really well, but it is really drying. so i'm thinking of using proactive along with another oil free lotion.
has anybody (again ages 13-18) used the Clinique acne products? i was looking for like a good acne regiman using the clinique products if the proactive stuff doesn't look too good. i know that clinique has 3-step programs...but i was looking for a 3-step program specially made for acne. i took the quiz thing on clinique and i'm a skin type III is that helps at all.
thanks so much you guys! this will really help me out.
I used Proactive *cant afford it anymore*
It is really good. In about 3 days you can see the difference.. I had mild acne then. Supposedly in 2 weeks.. you should see the full effect of it, if not.. then it's to a month.
You should continue using it because once you get off.. the acne comes back... sometimes even worse than you already had.
Proactive usually works for everyone, but if it decides to go against you.
Then don't use any products and use a restoring moisturizer/lotion a few times before using anything with "benzonic acid" in it.
I think it's benzonic.. well, it's something with a B and its usually on the front of products...
*Salicylic acid is good.
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My right breast really hurts a lot all day today. This never happened before and I'm only 13! At times today it stings inside sometimes but mainly hurts. I was wondering if it's normal, maybe this is the time where milk devolopes on a girl's body, or is it an early sign of breast cancer? I can't ask the doctor because I'm not confortable with a boy touching it and looking at it.
You only develop milk when you're pregnant.
Sometimes it gets sore because you're growing or you are on your period.
You could ask your mom or go to a doctor (you can ask for a female!)
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14/f
Guys suck. Lets start with that.
Now, you mustt just explain this to me, what happened here. For the past month, this boy, has been like tottaly inlove with me. He would give me the biggest smiles, walk right past me & all that good stuff. I like him too. Then, at this dance he didn't dance with anyone.. or hardly even talking to any girls.. except for somegirl that was dressed like a grape? hahaha. (it was a halloween dance, by the way.) Anyways, my brother invited him to our big Halloween Party. (we invite like 100 kids? yess. its huge & amazing) Anyways, he goes, "Thanks, yeah I'm always so busy with my girlfriends. Does your sister have a boyfriend? Or does she talk to alot of boys? I saw her hugging a bunch the other night." I was hugging other guys, because either A. they were my friends.. or B. because i was trying to make him jealous, HE WAS WEARING SOME CHICKS TIARA okkk.
So, why did he say that?
On some of the stuff that I told you, like how he smiles at me & walks by me and stuff like that.. (you know what I mean, its all that stuff) Didn't you think he likes me?!
So, why did he say that girlfriends thing.?
Please HELP!!!
Okay so he was talking to your brother right?
So he probably said "I'm always so busy with my girlfriends" to either impress him or something.
But if you like him, you should go up to him and talk to him.
He asked if you had a boyfriend to see if you were single.. then backed it up with "UM i mean, or does she talk to alot of boys?" So your brother doesn't get the idea that he likes you.
Maybe I'm anaylzing it wrong.
But it seems right to me.
But you need to go up to him.. take the chance and talk to him. "Hey, I saw you at my party! Blahblahblah. Was it fun? You looked... really good -Smile " Something like that.
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Last night I had a horrible dream. In my dream, my boyfriend left me for my best friend. We got into a little argument, he broke up with me and started dating her. I was heartbroken. I couldn't sleep after I woke up. It is really bothering me. I like this guy so much and I don't want him leaving me for someone else especially my best friend. What could this dream mean if it means anything?
Well you pretty much said it.
You're afraid of him leaving you but don't let that get you down.
Be happy! It didn't happen, it was only a bad dream.
Unless your boyfriend is putting himself all over your best friend or anything.. you should be worried but I doubt it.
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i have asked this question,but a bit differently.anyways,i've already decided to get a lip ring,so I wanna ask do girls perfer lip rings on
1)the middle
2)the side,if so,which side?
3)snakebites
4)spider
and is there like a meaning if you pierce on the right side?cause my friend said that it is for gays...
and besides that ,could you girls help with suggesting other places beside the lips that you find attractive,and how many a guy should have.
thanks a lot,really appreciate you guys.
No your friend is wrong. I've seen many straight dudes with right piercings.
I think they are mixing it up with how a gay person had a right ear piercing thing.
To me.. the middle seems a little weird.
Any side looks good.
I really like snakebites though :]
Gauged ears? NO. I've had so many friends get that torn.
Eyebrow piercings look hot.
Do hidden piercings count? (Hah!)
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i need help with getting my husban to want to kiss again we are young and have 2 kids but he says he forgot how because when we where first together i was to shy so we just never have kissed so please help me out
Wow people are stupid.
She said- I need help with getting my husband to want to kiss AGAIN
.. so they never really kissed when they're "parents"
Don't be jerks. :|
Get in check with reality. Most parents stop hugging and kissing when they're in the real world. They have jobs and kids to take care of, so those things slowly stop happening.
Anyway,
When you're alone.. or away from the kids.
YOU make the move.
You kiss him slowly, try to warm him up.. show him how to move his lips.
You can't forget how to kiss. He probably doesn't want to seem bad at kissing.
you should teach him.
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does anyone have the lyrics to "dreams" by the smashup? i cant find them anywhere
Is it a new band?
Sometimes their lyrics don't get out..
I couldn't find any either.
But you should check out-
http://www.songmeanings.net/
and look it up.. Sometimes the members there.. know the lyrics and post them up before it hits every other lyrics site.
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hey does anyone know what that song by evanessence call me when your sober means?
You should use this site:
http://www.songmeanings.net/lyric.php?lid=3530822107858614966
People comment about what they think it means.
But it sounds just like what the other people said though.
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ok well my best friend called me yesterday and he's a guy and my dad was home and he picked up and asked me who he was and i told him he's one of my friends but im not allowed to talk to guys but my dad let me anyways! so what should i do? cuz i don't want to get in trouble!
Well you can't get in trouble though... because he let you. He seems okay about it. Just don't make it a habit though, he might change his mind.
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13/f. is it totally weird i get "urges" a lot. i'm only 13 but i always feel kinda "sexual". like, this might weird but i have this little stress ball and sometimes i use it as a sex toy. is this really bad? i'm gonna wait till i get married of course. but sometimes i feel bad cause i do that, or think about sex. i need some advice guys! thanks!
Nope it's not weird. It's normal! Healthy. It's not bad, it's not hurting you.
A lot of people your age do that and think about sex too. Blame your horomones.
Just continue doing what you want. Just because you think it's weird, doesn't make it bad or wrong. :]
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My boyfriend and me don't talk on the phone I don't know why either. We've been dating since last Saturday. He talk to other girls on the phone plenty of times, but not me. I want to start talking on the phone with him I don't what I should say to him on msn messenger should I just come out and say can I call you or what? Thanks in advance
Yeah you should do that. If you want to talk to him on the phone, you call him!
If it makes you nervous.. ask him to call you because you have to get offline or something.
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Ok im thirteen years old and i dyed my hair during summer recently as in about .. oh say a month and a half ago i started losing hair i would think a lot since my first time, but i dyed my hair in july i shocked my body i guess recently by eating only dinner and a snack when i got home from school i didnt lose much the first few weeks but in the past oh say....three weeks i have been noticing it when i hold all my hair is one hand and then pull gently with another and some falls out containing about 15 strands...i only have been using shampoo for the past month and a half too and i have been eating salad but sometimes with chicken...please help me and tell me what my problem might be, im also not a woman yet so how can my hair be falling out? also i may be getting this women problem cause i got large breasts early and my period when i was ten so .. any advice? ill love u if u give me good advice, im literally freaking out!
Well you should be eating more. You sound like you have an eating disorder. You need proteins for healthy hair.
Dyeing your hair causes some strands to fall out. It's usually because your hair is damaged.
You need to use shampoo and conditioner. You should also buy a hot oil treatment to "restore" your hair.
it's normal for hair to fall out, it's the cycle it goes through. 100+ strands of hair usually fall out a day.
if it's bothering you this much then go see a doctor. it's probably because you're not eating enough.
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there is this girl i know who makes her pictures look flawless perfect face and she really enchances herself without enhancing the rest of the piture does anyone know how she does it
xoxo
thanks so much
Well some people have.. "flawless skin" or it's makeup. Sometimes if you resize the picture smaller.. it enhances.
So yeah a digital camera usually comes with a program where you can edit the pictures.
I dont have adobe but
I know if you brighten the picture by using a contrast effect it would work.
Softening and blurring tools will work too. You just have to select the areas with a button with a dotted line. (I think Adobe has that picture on the button?)
Well usually messing around with the contrast does it!
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My best friend (14) gets aroused sometimes when she watches free online porn...against the law because you have to be 18+.
Every woman + man get aroused no matter what and I can't stop that because it's human!
Should she still watch porn because it makes her horny and she goes plays with herself for about 10 minutes and she's done. I know a bit nasty, but I'm like her sister!
Should I just let her what she's doing? What are things that can make her aroused by not using online porn?
Thanks!
Well its her life.. You can't just stop her from doing that even if you try or dont like it. It's not nasty because like.. everyone does it at one point. Especially younger kids.
There are other things that can make her horny but she needs to experience with that later.
A lot of people go against the law and look at porn.. so yeah.
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There's a song that has lyrics that go something like; "promise me you'll never leave" or something; does anyone know what song this is by them?
It's called "My number" :]
It goes.. "promise me you'll
never go away
promise me you'll always stay"
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well there`s this boy in my class and he acts like he likes me and everything but not he has a girlfriend, and i don`t know. I just thought that he liked me, but I guess not, I`m trying to get over him, but I can`t. What should i do? P.S: his girlfriend is mad ugly for him
He's probably sweet like that. He probably didnt act like he did... he just flirts without noticing it. Just because you think she's "mad ugly" doesn't mean he's not attracted to her.
Don't flirt with him or ignore him. Because things will get messy and somebody will get hurt if those things continue..
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