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your hott! (link)
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thanks!
-Bess
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do you like badass or nerdy boys? (link)
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badass boys mostly.. it really depends on the guy!
-Bess
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my friend isn't talking to me. you see i ignored him for a month and now i guess he's doing the same to me. what should i do? (link)
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well what were the reasons? i am in a similar situation.. you have to realize whats more important being "right" or your friendship? if your friendship with him is important then i would say work hard to get him back but if you don't want himback as a friend then forget about him and move on. you'll make new friends!
-Bess
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have you ever babysat? How is the experience? (link)
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yes i have. i started babysitting when i was 13. I have babysat my little cousins and let me tell you its a lot of hard work and you have to watch the kids with a close eye cause they can get into trouble. my advice would be to take a babysitting course because it helps if you have a certification that you can show your clients (the parents) that shows your a committed babysitter.
-Bess
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Where are you going to college in the Fall of 2006? (link)
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Johnson & Wales University Class of 2010
-Bess
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what kind of car do you like? (link)
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well.. i don't drive i take the train as a way of transportation. but if i could drive i probably would want to drive a BMW convertible. its soooo cute!
-Bess
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what are your fave bands? (link)
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umm.. thats a good question i like all types of music, but mainly rock. I like afi, hilary duff, nirvana, the beach boys, gavin degraw, jefferson airplane, john mayer, joni mjitchell, the all american rejects, ashlee simpson, and thornley.
those are just some of the great bands i listen to.
-Bess
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Does anyone know any good movies that are sort of like Vanilla Sky and Eternal Sunshine? Like, psychiatrics and stuff? (link)
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Here are some suggestions:
Open Your Eyes
Eyes Wide Shut
Magnolia
Minority Report
Garden State
Sideways
Ray
Donnie Darko
hope i helped!
-Bess
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I have this friend he's a guy hes one of my best friends and everyone time he goes out with another girl i sorta get jelous i dont know why though...i just cant really figure out if i like him more then a friend (link)
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it might be or it might be the fact that there is "another girl" in his life and you feel replaced. have you ever flirted? flirt with him and see what happens.
-Bess
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i have a friend who has scary dreams..really scary dreams and he told me about one that one of his close family member got cut and the next day found a cut on her arm.hes really getting scared and doesnt want to tell anyone else about this ive told him to tell a parent but hes only told me.and i dont kno how to help him ive told him all i kno about telling somone who can help but he doesnt want to.
any ideas (link)
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well you can't force him to do anything he doesn't want to do. maybe get someone he is close to that he can talk to and feel comfortable talking to. if it realy gets out of hand you should tell an adult ASAP!
-Bess
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I am going to be a Junior this fall in highschool which basically means it is time to start looking for colleges
but honestly I don't even know where to start. Like i really don't know much about any college anywhere because well i don't follow college sports or anything to familiarize me with anything.
I know right now i can basically get into any school minus Like harvard (i have a gpa between 3.6- and 3.9 somewhere)
In the next few weeks my mom and I are going to some local schools around Pittsburgh Pa but outside of here i don't know of any schools!
I want to major in Elem. Ed. I think or something around that feild if that helps.
So basically my question is can someone give me some info -background- advice on any good schools for want to be teachers! i would prefer someone who acually knows about the school and not just researched it! (link)
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the best way to find the right school for you is to research yourself. no one can tell you the right school for you! i would suggest going to this wonderful website i used my senior year... it helped and works wonders.
www.collegeboard.com
-Bess
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im 17/f and i have been with my bf (17/m) for almost 6 months. we are completely in love and very serious. this was MY idea just to clear it up.
being that we are going to be so serious and before we nkow it even living together ..i figure we are still young and many people make the mistake of marrying a high school sweetheart without exploring other people. so my idea is for our 6 months we each get sexual with another person. do you know anyone who has done this? how did it work out? whenever i think about him with somenoe else its so weird! and the same for him thinking about me with someone else. this can really bring us to be a lot more open and trusting..but im also afraid i might feel hurt..thinking about another girl pleasing him and making love to him kinda gets me upset..but then i think how i will get the same thing so i feel better..i guess right now i am 50/50. what do you think about my idea..being with someone else for a day? (link)
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don't do it... if you want to be serious that is no way to do it. that doesn't make a relationship stronger it kills it! the two main things to make a relationship work are:
1. trust- without that there is nothing if.. for example if he doesn't trust you and feels like he needs to call you every single hour to check up on what your doing.. thats not a relationship thats somewhat stalkerish.
2. communication- you need to tell each other what is going on and be there for one another through hard times especially.
-Bess
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Hey everyone! Well, im looking for ways to money... so far I've done a TON of yard work and house cleaning(laundry too) because my family is moving and the house has to look good anyways. However, i am making some money, but not a lot. I had a garage sale last Saturday, but made barely any money!(10$) Im stumped outa indeas... does anyone have any!! plzzz help! Thankx! (link)
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try maybe babysitting or try applying for a job!
-Bess
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I have been best freinds with this girl since 4th grade and now that I am going into high school I don't want to be best freinds with her. I want a new best freind and meet new people. I still want to be freinds with her, just not as close. She doesn't have many close friends and me leaving her would be the end of the world for her. Is this mean of me? Should I stay BFs with her? (link)
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well its hard naturally to move one from middle school to high school. i think you should stay in contact with her even... why are you not wanting to be her friend anymore? friends are there for each other through thick and thin no matter what. yes you will get new friends but that doens't you have to get rid of the old ones.
-Bess
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17/female my name is Rachel and my mom is driving me crazy.when my mom has these mood swings she takes it out on me and I can't take it anymore and I feel like moving,but I can't becouse iam to young.I want to move with my cousin michelle i've already asked her about it and she said of course she's 36 and she's getting a room ready for me right now,but I told her not to do it yet becouse I have to ask my mom first and I know my mom would go pysoco if I asked her becouse the last time I did mom trough a stool at me and luckily it missed is that child abuse what should I do and then my mom started pulling my hair what should I do? (link)
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i wouldn't even ask your mom if you can move out... i would just do it if i was you!
-Bess
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I lose my temper a lot when i am babysitting. I am making good money, but this girl is so annoying. I dont get that mean, but I just want to tell her to SHUT UP. I try to be nice and act interested in what she is saying, but she drives me crazy!
Does that make me a bad babysitter? (link)
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not at all, kids can be kind of annoying and very tiring sometimes. it doens't make you a bad babysitter, just remember to breath and control your temper... after all the kids are little and they don't know any better.
-Bess
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I love my ex boyfriend. He broke up with me about 5 minuetes ago. Im crushed. I dont know what to do. He said we dont have a good connection. I really loved him. I dont know how to get over this. My best friend has a party saturday and hes going to be there. I dont know what to do. Any help?? (link)
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it takes a long time to mend a broken heart.. and its hard to face reality but maybe your relationship wasn't ment to be. you probably deserve better then him anyways. at this time you need to surround yourself with friends at this time. and maybe at the party just gesture and be friendly but don't be too close to him. if you don't want to go to the party then don't feel like you have to go... but you should because its your friend's party and i think she would appreciate it. just hang with your friends you'll forget he is even there.
-Bess
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I have a friend who is mad at me. I wont say why but she says she will never talk to me again. I tried to work it out but she wont listen to me. WHat should I do? (link)
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for now i would give her some space, maybe give her a week or two. then after a week or two ask her what happened? whats wrong? if she continues to ignore you then if you want wait for her to come to you and tell her the problem!
-Bess
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Does anyone know any good COUNTRY songs that are son to mother.
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A Song For My Son
for more information and a sample of the song....
http://www.new-wedding-traditions.com/song4son.htm
-Bess
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My ex boyfriend is going to my school next year. he is very strong and could be very mean i kno he wont hurt me but i am worried about my new boyfriend weve been dating for about a month and when my ex found out he threatend to beat him up . now i dont know what to do i VERY VERY worried can some one please help me??! (link)
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i think if your that worried... you should warn a teacher or a faculty member about the situation... make them aware of whats going on. in the meantime ignore him totally, but he threatens or continues to bother you.. tell the teacher right away!
-Bess
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