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Q: When I'm on my piriod, my friends ask me to do something, and I always say no, becuase well, I'm embarrassed that my blood is going to leek through. So my friends get all mad at me becuase, well I don't tell them why, but I really don't want to tell them that I am on my period.. what do I do so that they won't be mad at me when I say I can't??

Just say your parentsw wont let you, or you have to babysit or something~! Why would you be embarrased if their your girlfriends! They would understand, I HATE going out when im on my period! I feel like everyone is watching me and can tell I'm on my period. So I'm with you there, so just tell them they should understand. If you dont want to tell them, say your parents wont let you!

Q: I really want to buy a vibrator... but I don't know where to go. I am 16 years old, and do not want one shipped to me, I want to go to a store. I was wondering, do I have to go to a sex store or are there any other stores that sell them?

~Kristin

You have to be 18+ to go to those sex toys stores. But go to Spencers(like the other girl said) maybe they have something there.

Q: ok here is the thing my dad had a TracFone (Nokia 1100) he had gotten 2 verzion phones the other day and gave me the TracFone one for emergenices (sp?) ive been looking all for 4 hours now for ring tones because the ones i have on here annoy the crap outta me and he refuses to give me a verizon phone..anyone know where i can get free ringtones or something this is a prepaid phone btw which i know probably wont give me anything but can someone plz help me!!!

Search for "free ringtones" on google. Thats about all you can do, but be careful because most sites are just trying to scam you! You will eventually find a site that actually does give away FREE ringtones! Good luck:)

Q: ok im trying to go to disneychannel.com to play a game but it wont let me... it says something about updating a blah blah blah..........how do i get to disneychannel.com beacause it just has a picture of goofy whenever i try going on that site.

The site worked for me, just try to keep going on it...eventually it will work.

Q: I actually have 2 kinda random questions. Number 1. How do you get to the music part of xanga? I can't figure it out.
Number 2. okay, right, i like hanging out with guys for no apparent reason, but for some reason, all of my guy friends always think i'm interested in them in a different way. Some even get mad when they find out i don't like them that way, i don't want to get into that kinda relationship with a friend. What do i do?

To add music to your xanga you log in, go to LOOK AND FEEL and then on the bottom bottom you can add music. You need to have a music URL (to get those go to www.xanga.com/xanga_music or any other music url site) And about your guy friend thing, when your friends with them...dont flirt too much...just keep it friendly but dont make them think you wanna go out with them.

Q: Hey. I've been having trouble by getting a picture on to my advicenator homepage. I would be glad if anyone could list me the steps in order of how to do it. Thanks a bunch!

You could also go to "Profile Settings" and in the big white box on the bottom...you could put *img src="URL OF PIC"* (Replace first * with < and last * with > . To get a url of your picture, go to photobucket.com, sign up, upload your pics, and your good to go!

Q: hey Im 13/f and im in the 8th grade lately I have been thinking about college and I plan to go. I just dont know whats the best college to apply to in or around NY or not to far away I need to know things about it and like top 10 best thnx

It all depends on what you want to be when you grow up. A good college doesnt really mean its good in your area you want to major in. What do you want to be? Give us some ideas and will try to help out!!

Q: Every day after skool or wherever I am with my boyfriend he always gives me a hug and says ok, now your coming home with me. (Im not allowed to have a b/f in the first place) I like dunno what to do cause he always gets a sad look on his face. Any advice? (13/f)

Well just tell him there are other places you can go and hang out, you know? Movies, Beach, whatever...And just tell your parents your hanging out with a bunch of girlfriends.

Q: why did u take your picture off of here and all the stuff that you wrote about yourself?i think you're pretty you shouldve left it up!

I'm going to update it soon. I wanna make it look good and all, but I'm not really finding any time so I can spend like one hour on it. I'll put it back up though, and thanks.

Q: My friend is thinking of committing suicide what should I do?

Tell someone! I know she/he might be mad at you for a while because of you telling, but its better than having your friend dead! Tell someone before she/he hurts themselves!

Q: so we are jsut friends but my mom says i cant date until im 17 or even just like go somewhere with him last night he was like how many days i was like what hes like until you turn 17 i was like 50 some hes like do you think you will still wanna go tot he movies with me by then. so does he like me or just being friendly? give me lots of advice and i rate high

50 days will come soon! it'll come by so fast! so like, keep him intrested in you for a while and before you know it, you can go out! I think he likes you...he did ask you to the movies! So if you like him back, go out with him after the 50 days are up!

Q: Hey, does anyone know a good way to make your leg go higher in an arabesque and such? And also, how to get your split better? Thanks so much!

Just stretch a lot, stretch your legs out about 3 times a day everyday (dont hurt yourself) and everytime you'll arabesque, split, etc. will be a lot better! Good luck!

Q: Okay this is not even a question. I get that so don't start saying how i should ASK a question. I am answering a question that is asked 24/7.

"I really like this guy. How do i get a him to like me too?"

Okay. Simple. YOU CAN'T!!! You cant 'make' a guy like you. He has to do that all by himself. People fall for people that dont like them back all the time so get over it!!!

Sorry if i seem rude. it's just pissing me off. :)

Once your here for a while, you will get used to it.More than half of the questions asked on this site, are about liking guys/girls. So yes, they do get annoying...but those questions will be on the view questions page no matter what.

Q: Do you have any music URLs for Subseven? Just about any of their songs would be great. Falling Up might be perty sweet, too. Thanks.

--Skooter.

Subseven rocks. I'm really sorry but I cant find any. Go to www.purevolume.com/subseven to listen to their new songs from their album and listen to the old ones. Make sure to get their album "Free To Conquer" when it comes out on 3.15.05 and its sold everywhere! If I find any URL's I'll be sure to tell you. Just leave your email!

Q: I've gotten a couple ridiculous questions in my inbox lately- disgusting questions and some that, i just don't have any idea what to say to them. but i feel bad just not answering these people. does anyone else have this problem?

Yeah, everyone gets them and usally its people just being stupid. So most of the time their fake..if you feel uncomfortable about answering a question, then dont answer it!

Q: A girl in my group of friends who i HATE is moving ..all my friends are like crying but i cant wait till she moves -is this wrong of me? Im kind of confused and its hard to keep it from my friend but i know if i told them i was happy theyd think i was a bitch ..what do i do??

Dont tell them your happy, but if they ask be like 'Yeah, that sucks shes gonna move". Just keep your hapiness to yourself because if they know your happy about her moving, they may not want to be your friends!

Q: how do you give a good hand job?
thnx buches....

Um I dont really know. ButI guess as long as your touching it and all..it'll be good to him.

Q: Hey , I have a question. I have this like lump sort of thing inside of my breast. I'm not sure what it is. I don't think that it is breast cancer.. but I really don't know what else it could be. Help please! I'm freaked out.

P.S. I'm 13.

You are too young to have breast cancer...women should only worry about that when their in their 20's. Just ask your mom and/or go to the doctor if your that concerned!

Q: ok i have this boyfriend ( im a female and hes a male, im 13 he's 14) we have been together for 3 months now and when we first met it was like love at first site.. is it too young to be in love.. he always calls me and he isnt like one of those guys is totally in the relationship for sex or anything like that..he likes me for who i am and he always says i love you, he is so sweet and if finds out that some guy has been messin with me (sexually, phisically, ect.) he finds them and warns them that if it ever happens again that something will happen to them.. is it love? can u fall in love at this age?

You can fall in love at any time. And we cant tell you if its love, if it is love..you'll know!

Q: The most popular girl in school (i was O.K friends with her) moved to Arizona (i'm in Virginia) and I am happY! SOOO HAPPY! Cause i like being the center of attention. All my bestfriends are sad though, because they liked her! I didn't really though! Is it wrong to be glad???? Cause I feel really bad.