I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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hey ok im really scared Becvause i think i might have gotten this girl pregnant i went to her house at night and i was really drunk we had unprotected sex for seriously like 1 minute and i pulled out because i wanted a condom i wasnt even close to cumming cuz i t wasnt that great..i dont know if i pre cummed and thats what im scared about but i was drunk and u ejaculated earlier that day but like i said i was drunk and was peeing ALOT did this clean out the leftover sperm? and could she pregnant? and she DID take the morning after poill (link)
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K i dont think she is but the only way to find out is to tell her to do a pregnancy test you have to tell her to because you dont wanna be all scared all the time so ya just tell her to do the pregnancy test and hopefully it comes out negative and you didnt get her pregnant although i dont think she is i mean it was 1 minute dw im sure she's not just tell her to do the test for conclusion to this whole thing and next time be careful good luck:) message me if you need to talk to me about anything else.
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I'm 16 and the boy i'm dating is 17. we're not exactly girlfriend boyfriend, but we like each alot and probably will end up as an item.
Except he's a shy kisser! he doesn't mind hand holding or holding my waist in public ( i love his touch!) but on our second date, I couldn't wait any longer, so i made the first move and gave him a spontaneous french kiss. He was taken aback and later explained he was too shy to kiss in public! I thought kissing between two people were when time stops - everything around you disappears and all that's left is you and the other person. That's how I felt until he pulled awayXD
So how can I encourage him to feel more comfortable kissing? we can start off kissing in a more private place, but where would be suitable to begin? Not either of our houses because we're not allowed haha.
please give any tips you can for me, all will be greatly appreciated! thanks:) (link)
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K you two can go to a park and just sit and kiss and you have to make him realize that its k if he's shy and also that you dont care if hes bad or not and that you like him and if he doesnt kiss you now he's always going to be shy and thats not good just kiss privatly in a park or something and then when he feels good you can try it in public good luck:)
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14/f.
So a week ago today I was at my friends house and it was 1 in the morning. We snuck out. We met two guys downtown. I knew both of them but one more than the other. Lets call him Joe. The other Bob. My friend, lets call her Sam, was going so she could hang out with bob and I was going to hang out with Joe. I kind of liked him but I didn't really know him. So when we got down there, this is going to sound horrible but, I had sex (my first time) with Joe. Joe already liked somebody but liked me as well.
Since then Joe and I hang out all the time and talk all the time. But two days after I had sex with him I got drunk, don't ask why, and had sex with one of my brothers friends. I told Joe about it and he was upset but didn't really care.
Joe really likes somebody but he says she is really prude and it turns him off, which has drawn him closer to me. Today there were fireworks in town. He ended up bring the other girl he liked.
I liked somebody else as well but didn't really know him. When I told him everything that had happened he stopped talking to me. So now that he is out of the picture I feel like I like Joe more and more everyday. But he says he really wants to date me but it's not fair to the other girl so he can't.
We both REALLY like each other, but he says it wouldn't be fair to the other girl if we started dating.
Any advice? I'm so confused and really don't know what to do. (link)
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K so its clear that you two really like eachother and if you two are serious about going out then maybe you should try it and that means that joe is gonna have to tell the other girl that he likes you and wants to go out with you because the truth is if you really like someone and they like you back then you should go for it because if you dont you'll always think about him and how you never got the chance to go out with him good luck:)
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Ok. I Had a pregnacy scare a few weeks ago. and a week after i had a penis unprtected in me for like 2 sec. he didnt cum or anything in me. But i had a light period after that. and a could days before my light period i had bad Cramps and my breasts were hurting ** but spotting when ur pregnant may be mistaken for a light period. my breasts dont hurt and i havent felt weired. But im still scared. idk why but i am.. any advice
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k first you need to calm down the only way to really know if your pregnant is to do a pregnancy test so just go to the department store and get one this is the only way to figure out if you really are or you could go to a doctor but its best to do a pregnancy test first actually you might want to do it a few times and then go to the doctor good luck:)
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well i think i have something wrong with my back. i can crack my back usually every 20 minutes. and it sometimes hurts randomly. i cant go to stores long without sitting or ill like die. now im cant go to sleep because the pain in my lower back hurts to much. no matter what position im in it hurts. please help! (link)
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you need to see a chyropractor or a doctor because if you dont your back problems will get worse and thats not good so go see a doctor first and ask him/her to reccomend a good chyropractor to you that can really help you.
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im fifteen and my boyfriend and i have had a thing for a while and now he doesnt really bother making plans with me or starting any conversations. before we started going out he would try a lot harder and it seemed like he cared a lot more. and now its like he is taking me for granted. i dont know how to talk to him about it because he might not take me seriously and i dont want to seem ridiculous. i dont want to break up or anything but how can i change this? (link)
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you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel because thats the only way hes gonna start caring about you more and hanging out with you talking is healthy for a relationship and whatever problems that there are can be solved if you two just talk and get to an understanding goood luck:)
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First of all.. I'm a virgin. I'm 21, and I'm having some vagina issues. Anyone who gets grossed out, don't read any further.
I'm itchy HORRIBLY down there. It's inflamed, and burning. There's no discharge at all, but it's red, and concerning me.
My question-- what could it be? I'm well-aware that people on here are probably not physicians, but it would be great to have some feedback. Maybe even a suggestion on what it could be, or if anyone has ever gone through it and found proper treatment.
I will say, that just because I am a virgin, I have a boyfriend. We've messed around a bit, as far as fingering and oral sex.
I've done a bit of research, and found that some things like shaving, fingering, soaps, and even the heat of summer, can cause a yeast infection. Any of these could be possible. But I'm scared it's more. I feel like I've worked too hard being a virgin to be so irresponsible to catch something.
Help? (link)
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k well it has to be that way because of the shaving you'll probably have some red bumps down there too you have to see a doctor its not serious but you still should go because only a doctor can help you get rid of the irratation or if you feel to uncomfortable to go to a doctor go to the drug store and find some itchying cream and but a drop of it on your finger and just rub it should get better i shuggest you go to the doctor tho good luck:)
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So when do the 2008 olympics end? (link)
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the ending ceremony of the olympics is on august 24th
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I used to be confident, satisfied, and comfortable with myself.
Now, I'm far from it. I can do anything without judging my every thought, every want, every action. Even as I write this I worry 'what would people think if they found out I result to an internet advice sight to gain some sense of mind'. I'm going crazy, I hate not being able to do anything without worrying if it'll hurt me, make me fat, make me lose a friend, break a rule, look dumb, sound stupid, look ugly, seem dorky, or even if I'll regret it the next minute.
What can I do to clear my head of all my new found insecurities, I don't know what has brought them on me. I'm mentally exhausted from fighting them. (link)
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k here are some steps to help you gain some self esteem.
Step 1: Stop negative self talk. Self talk is the ongoing conversation you have with yourself. Every time you hear yourself saying and affirming negative stuff about yourself TO yourself, STOP IT. Don't let one more negative thing about you get planted in your mind.
Step 2: Say positive things to yourself every single day. Every morning and every night make it a point to say nothing but positive, self esteem building stuff to you. You will be amazed how much better you will feel about yourself and your life. Remember, you have to teach yourself how to gain self esteem first, then you can teach others.
Step 3: Stop inflicting negative junk on other people. Every time you hear yourself saying something negative to someone else....STOP IT. Don't be responsible for filling someone else with negative junk. Showing patience, gentleness, and kindness will go a long ways toward building up the self esteem in someone else.
Step 4: Don't let yourself get caught up in tearing others down behind their backs. Some of the worst things you can do are gossip, tell negative stories about others, or break the confidence of someone who placed their trust in you. When people find out what you said about them it can be a devastating blow to their self esteem because they believe what they hear, whether it's true or not.
Step 5: SET the example of right behavior to others. Don't just tell them; show them by building other people up on purpose. Look for positive things to say by using God's Word as a guide. Eventually people will get the idea that you're not interested in listening to a bunch of negative junk. Self esteem improvement in others will only come if you help the process every chance you get.
Good luck:)
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http://www.coastalscents.com/cfwebstore/index.cfm/product/1442_37/pink-duo-fiber-powder-stippler.cfm
or
http://www.coastalscents.com/cfwebstore/index.cfm/product/1521/silver-duo-fiber-stippling-brush.cfm
which is better for that air brushed look? (link)
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the second one is way better
yes i have tried it
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1 hi :) um when you apply your f0undation using the stippling brush, do you put the foundation ON the brush ; or you put it on your face first, then you blend all over?
2 how do i use it? do i do like circle motions on my face, not just whatever, like how TO APPLY IT THERE YOU GO.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-5fiLET-SFs&feature=related
thats how a stippling brush looks like (link)
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K ya i apply it on my hand and then take the brush and use it to apply it on my face and i do a circular motion to apply it b/c that gets it on evenly good luck:)
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http://www.coastalscents.com/cfwebstore/images/products/Brushes/BadgerFanBrush_300.jpg
if this brush can take away fall offs for eyeshadow under your eyes, then wont if smudge through my face coz i fan it? like thre would be stains on my cheeeecks wont it be like that?
how do you girls use it? (link)
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i use it for featherweight application and blending of pigments and powders or as a tool to gently clear the skin of any excess product.
The Fan Brush is also used to apply loose and pressed powder. Whisk away any eye shadow that falls to the under eye or cheek area.
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1 where can i get a black and white houndstooth scarf?
2 also, what can i match with it?
3 is it n style this fall? (link)
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you can get it from ardenes or claires or from suzy shier and you can match it with a lot of things heres some pics of the clothes you could match it with
http://www.alternativeoutfitters.com/ProductImages/accessories/cold_weather/2007/HoundstoothScarf1.jpg
http://www.kaboodle.com/hi/img/2/0/0/8d/7/AAAAAhoVDYMAAAAAAI13XA.jpg
http://grins-n-giggles.blogspot.com/2007/10/walking-in-winter-want-it-land.html
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For people who've done it before, does it really work? On the commercial, they'll say "$36 a week PLUS the cost of food"..meaning the food must be expensive. Does anyone know how much? How long til you see improvement? A billion thanks =]. (link)
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truthfully it doesnt work the food is too expensive and very gross and it might help you lose a few pounds but eventually they will come back trust me you can try it if you want but not everyone has the same results so dont expect the amazing results the people on tv have b/c from ive seen it doesnt really turn out that way good luck:)
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where do you get those sparkly softball headbands like the one Taryn Mowat (link)
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probably from a sport store or try ardenes or claires they have pretty much everything good luck:)
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I'm not too familiar on cameras and such..
all i know is that, my friends take really good pictures of them self, with the professional cameras they use. I'm guessing they cost like $300 and over? I would like a professional digital camera...but I have like no idea what to look for because i'm not really experienced enough. Rite now I own a samsung digital camera, it's decent, but I would like something much better. I am also taking a web design class in school, so I might need a camera for taking some pictures.
thanks!
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http://www.futureshop.ca/popup/largeimagepopup.asplogon=&langid=EN&file=/multimedia/products/large/10099405.jpg%20&title=Sony+Alpha+200K+10%2E2MP+DSLR+Camera+With+18%2D70mm+Lens+Kit
this is an awesome camera perfect pictures and very professional looking too it cost $479.99 from future shop you should probably look around for one thats cheaper if your not willing to spend that much money but i would probably go with this camera because its awesome it might be a little old fashioned but perfect for what you need it for good luck:)
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i have a job interview for a makeup company on monday, and i have no idea what to wear! help! pics would be great (link)
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I thought id just send you a website that has a lot of nice clothes for interviews and stuff so i hope you like the stuff that you see good luck:)
http://www.suzyshier.com/store.cfm?&ckey=CA&lang=eng
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has anyone else gotten the facebook message that says:
Attention all Facebook members.
Facebook is recently becoming very overpopulated,
There have been many members complaining that Facebook
is becoming very slow.Record shows that the reason is
that there are too many non-active Facebook members
And on the other side too many new Facebook members.
We will be sending this messages around to see if the
Members are active or not,If you're active please send
to 15 other users using Copy+Paste to show that you are active
Those who do not send this message within 2 weeks,
The user will be deleted without hesitation to create more space,
If Facebook is still overpopulated we kindly ask for donations but until then send this message to all your friends and make sure you send
this message to show me that your active and not deleted.
Founder of Facebook
Mark Zuckerber
is it true or not? cause i don't want to send 15 people a message unnecessarily if it's not true. and how would they even MONITOR 2 weeks for each member and if they've sent the message to 15 people? has anyone else gotten this cause if not i won't bother with it. i'll see if i get more but i also don't want to get my acct deleted it. i know better safe than sorry but i don't want to bother people unnecessarily .. (link)
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This is actually true i didnt do it and my facebook account was actually deleted so i would send it to the 15 ppl it requires a lot of people have been asking the same question and they found that what the message was saying is true so please do what the message says.:)
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are all colleges in new york overly expensive?
i live in eastern PA and i am hoping to attend college in new york. however, almost all ive looked at seem out of my price range. im looking to major in either business or education. any info would be great ! (link)
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unfortunalty all collges in new york are very expensive most people who do go to any of the colleges in new york either have a scholarship to pay for most of half of the required payment so might want to try something else. good luck
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whats a reasonable amount of weight to lose in a month? im five three and weigh 121 pounds. im looking to get in a little better shape for a wedding im going to. thanks. (link)
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2lbs a week is actually the healthest way to lose trying to lose more then that in a week could actually make you lose energy and make you very sick good luck.:)
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