about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

i've liked this guy for two years and i know a lot about him....but my friend is obsessed with him but she doesn't like him....or so i don't think how do i tell her to back off without her being hurt.

You shouldn't tell her to back off. She doesn't have to and you don't own him. If you do tell her that, it's just rude and selfish. She's your friend and you need to talk to her and tell her everything that you feel. Yeah, you might feel a bit akward but tell her that you have feelings for this guy. If she was a good friend, she will understand a back off.

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what websites on myspace can i get a cute christmas/winter layout for my myspace?

There are some on this website:


http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=103118627&blogID=180204540&Mytoken=88E59F39-A291-4520-8A2D1925F008984C47586152
Make sure you`re loggen in your myspace before you look at them though.


http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=89299410&MyToken=e85a781a-f491-4dbb-bfab-0568cabf9838

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I was curious, do many girls sleep in tampons? If you put a new one in right before bed then a new one right when you woke up would that be safe? When I sleep I wear a pad to avoid TSS risks, but since I do not sleep standing up, my period sometimes leaks out on my pj's and sheets which is quite embarressing.

Just curious how many people do it and how safe it is.

I sleep in my tampon & I have been for couple years. Nothing has happened to me but I guess it's because I'm never really heavy. Once you're laying down, your blood flow isn't as heavy rather than standing up. It's safe to sleep in them but if you're really worried about TSS, you could set up an alarm clock to change it. That might be annoying and I don't think you would really want to do that. I personally think that using pads is less uncomftrable because there's a bigger chance of leaking. What you could do is wear a pad & tampon that way you won't leak. ;]

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i was just wondering if when a guy fingers you is it supposed to hurt??? because my b/f has done it to me a couple times and it hurt. is it supposed to or was i not doing something rite like not spreading my legs out far enough or something?

It's not supposed to hurt you but if you've never done it or if someone has never done it to you before, it's normal for the first couple of times. Other than that, you should feel pleasure.

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Ok, So im a guy and im wondering if girls like guys when the shave down there. Should We shave completly or trim it so its out of the way. Whats best? All answers are appreciated.

Not every girl prefers the same thing but I, personaly would want the guy to shave or at least trim. I just don't like pubic hair.

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ive liked this guy for about eight months and we dated in june to august. he broke up with me and i cant get over him. i need a way to either win him back or get over him. btw he likes one of my best friends who is dating one of his best friends( weird i know)

You can't make yourself get over him and you shouldn't have to. You have to accept the fact that you guys are done.. for good & you need to move on. It's not worth being sad and crying over him or any guy. Go out with your friends and just have fun. Flirt with other guys and get to know other people. It'll take your mind of him. Just don't force yourself to get over him. It might take you some time but don't rush anything.

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Ok, I was just wondering if anyone knew any super strogn types of womens deoderant. My armpits do nto usually smell bad, but they sweat ALOT! I have used the strogn types i can find, like arid xxx and mitchum, and they all work for about a week, but then my armpits start sweating again. I know that its usually normal, but i hate raising my hand in class, because you can always see huge sweat rings on my shirt

No matter what deoderant you use, you will still sweat somewhat. No deoderant will completley prevent that but I use Addidas for women. Most of my friends use guy deoderants because they're strong, smell good & work good.

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So I asked the question about dying my hair blonde. People said that if I didn't like it, and I dyed it back, it would turn out RED? (or redish)
Why/how would this happen?

That's not true. Your hair won't turn red but it might turn out different. You have to get your hair profesionaly done so that way it will turn out right.

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Okay so i have my periods regulary and everything and i just got off like 2 weeks ago, but latley everytime i whipe i get a little bit of blood on the tollit paper, its not showing up in my underwear or ne thing its just there, i dont know what it is, and also i get this real thick almost cum looking stuff when i whipe sometimes to, i dont know what this is so if any one can help i would love that... im to imbarrassed to talk to my mom about it...oo and if this helps im not a vergin either... but i dout that has ne thing to do with it right??

It's completely normal. Every girl gets it before or after their period & it's called spotting. If you get clear or white stuff, it's discharge. It's nothing bad. If you want to prevent it from getting on your undies, wear a panty liner.

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Why is it sometimes when I'm on my period that my er, thing down there is REALLY sore? I've had my period since I was 11 and I'm now 16; I'm also a virgin.

A lot of girls get like that & it's normal. If you use tampons and have a heavy flow, that's why.

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Does a charger come with the iPod?

Yes it does. You plug it in your computer & your iPod. I bought a wall plug in charger. It charges your iPod so much faster & it doesn't lag your computer. It's $30 but it's worth it.

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hey. i don't know if you already knew this but http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=xJESSICA basically stole your dislikes in your advicenators profile. =o i don't know if you gave her permission or anything but just letting you know.

♥its_melissa_duh

I didn't give her permission to. I had another user take my information before & it bothers me. I don't know why people would copy all my stuff? & I don't understand it. Thank you for letting me know though. I reported her.

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I am most likely getting an iPod nano for christmas. I might be getting the one that holds a 1000 songs, but my question is can you put songs on it like from limewire for free?

Yes, you can. It`s actually really easy so if you need me to explain, let me know.

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doesn't the That's So Raven perfume smell exactly like Britney Spears's Fantasy Perfume? because i have the fantasy perfume and i bought the that's so raven perfume from claire's and they smell exactly the same to me.. does anyone else think so? thanks!

They are both made to smell like cotton candy but they do smell alike. I think the Fantasy has a stronger smell though.

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is this: http://www.claires.com/product.asp?name=prod&color=black&rcid=21&id=2733&scid=24 supposed to be a coach wallet? i know its not real but is it made to imitate coach? thanks

It is made to imitate Coach. I hate when they do that thought because they make it SO noticable.

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I went to google.com and searched [ Paint Shop Pro ] & there are alot of them, which do I pick ? It's confusing me & you give awesome advice.

Go to www.download.com & type in Paint Shop Pro. It`ll give you the newest version. & thank you.

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ok. so i bought black leggings to wear with my jean skirt. but i just dont know what to wear with them.

right now i have 2 choices.
choice 1.
black flats
black leggings
dark jean skirt
dark grey long sleeve shirt w/ white and greyish flowers on it

OR
choice 2
black flats
black leggings
dark jean skirt
light purple wife beater tank top
black jacket that has blue and purple on it

which one sounds better? tried them both on and i cant decide

I like your first choice better, but honestly I don't think that the dark jean skirt would really go. Try something .. modern or something that's in now. Short dress or a lighter jean skirt.

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heyy!! okay well i have mild acne i guess? and i have just started using BP [benzoyle peroxide] im not sure if i spelled it right . and its a nuetrogena cream . i also use the nuetrogena face wash. do you think those are good proodcucts to use? i mean your face is like totally clear. and would you recommend to use that? and what do you use? thank you very much!

Nuetrogena does work good but I don't think it works on everyone. I use Clear Action and I think it works really good. It's just like Pro Activ because it has everything the same. You can get it at Walgreens. My face isn't totally clear, but I don't have acne. I get few zits now and then but Clear Action defenetly works good. Also, try not to pop your zits and touch them. I know it's tempting and hard not to, but it leaves scars and makes it a lot worse.

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static cling, like when i straighten my hair its static-y and it stands up and stuff?

If you don't wash your hair with conditioner, it will do that. Also, use some kind of spray for frizzines before you straighten your hair.

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how do you delete questions from yer advice column

You can't delete them anymore. Before, you could just highlight the answer, delete & then submit but that doesn't work anymore. You have to ask DN about it.

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