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I have medium-ish length dark brown hair. i always envy other girls hair. i like the short choppy looks but i got that once, and my hair wouldnt stay straight the whole day..so it looked stupid. i also like girls w/ long flowy hair, but idk if it would look good on me. i have kind of a narrow face.. well..more narrow then round. but if yall could send me pics of hairstyles that might look good on me, it would be very appreciated. maybe hairstyles that emphasize my face more.
also, any good products for volume and reduction of split ends?
i take a shower, blow dry my hair, and straighten it. im afraid that once i put products in after i take a shower that theyre not effective by the time i straighten my hair
thanks a lot!
hey, well you could try drastic bangs like these.
http://www.girlynation.com/not%20used/cover_hairtrish.jpg
or side swept bangs.
http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/images/Allison_Mack003StuartLittle2Premiere_250h.jpg
whats a panty liner? haha.
hey, its a thin pad. you could use it if you think your getting your period or if your periods really light that day. also its good if you dont like getting all the drainage in your panties.
ok me and this guy had a thing for a long time . then we started going out but one of my friends pressured him to do it . he said he wanted to tho. our thing was 2 months and it was perfect everything was going great. when we started goin out he wasnt himself anymore . we didnt feel right together. one of the girls that is obsessed with him started a whole lotta stuff so we broke up. and he said i was gonna get a second chance but later on he just wanted to be friends for right now. well i couldnt do that cuz i had feelings for him and he made me fall for him so much because he said the sweetest things.well the next day in school she was wearing his jacket and i got mad and i told him i wanted him to die. ever since then he hates me and now its so hard. its been 2 months but i still have feelings for him. and everyday at school i go up to the stairs where we signed our names. now its really hard to talk to him because he wont even look my way. idk wut to do all i know is i want him back..wut do i do??
hey, well you cant make him like you if thats what your thinking. so just apologize to him for being jealous. let him know that you want to be bffes again. that way if you guys talk a lot and show him that your there for him when he needs you then maybe something will develop again. dont act jealous anymore whatever you do tho. thats a huge turnoff. also dont flirt with him. unless he starts the flirt.
ok im a 13 year old boy at my school for the people who turn in all their homework get to have at sort of resess. me and my friends almost always get our homework. so during that time my friends and i play tag. but for the past month if i run too fast then my ankle atarts to hurt. it doesn't feel at all like the normal spraned ankle and i havent spraned my ankle in a long time. it hurts on the back sid of the heel and i was wondering if anyone knew what it was.
hey, well go see a doctor. i cant diagnose whats wrong with you.
can some one send some cute outvets from hollister (because i have so much giftcards) to me. (like the link) and then if you can some like cute underwear (anytype) from like any store.and if you can like send some stuff or tell me if theres any acessories (like earings or bracletes)that would look good with the outvet.
thanksss!
hey, well normally i wouldnt answer your question because i think that you could easily do this yourself. so basically your lucky that im bored. now im going to send you trendy pieces that are in style.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_197185_-1_12607_12552
camis like that are very cute and a lot of girls wear them.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_318962_-1_12597_12552
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_323015_-1_12600_12552
the hollister logo tees are really in anymore. but i do see those two tees around a lot.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_322211_-1_12627_12552
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_322316_-1_12627_12552
plain hoodies arent trendy and in anymore. girls are wearing those types of things to put over there shirts. also stripes are very popular.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_319476_-1_12628_12552
v-necks are all the go.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_319435_-1_12628_12552
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_323071_-1_12628_12552
a lot of people wear those button shirts. the three quarter sleeve ones are more popular.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_258040_-1_12622_12552
polos are very hot right now, if you pop the collar.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_324887_-1_12623_12552
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_324572_-1_12623_12552
any kind of destroyed/ripped jeans are in style right now. it doesnt matter if you wear the straight legs or the flare.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_285120_-1_12620_12552
i know tons of people that wear those.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_318486_-1_12625_12552
sporty shorts like that are cool.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_319008_-1_12625_12552
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_318774_-1_12625_12552
also just like jeans ripped shorts are nice.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_322267_-1_12595_12552
cotton stretchy skirts are things that girls wear a lot.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_281664_-1_12595_12552
ripped ones are also in.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_309622_-1_12618_12552
rolled sweatpants are majorly popular.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_256294_-1_12596_12552
leggings are extremely popular.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_125105_-1_12612_12552
there purfume smells really good [=.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_319120_-1_12624_12552
a lot of girls carry totes.
Female Daschhound not in heat, yet male Daschhound is trying to mate with her. Is this normal?
hey, yes thats normal. its because the male daschhound is in heat.
is walgreens brand cocoa butter lotion the same as other ones?
hey, yep cocoa butter is cocoa butter.
how badly does it hurt to get your tongue pierced?
hey, well pain is different for everyone. its not the most pleasent feeling im sure.
I don't know why and it's kinda gross but lately like everyone in my class started wearing thongs instead of underwears and even the teacher! I don't get what's so good about having a peice of string hanging up your ass. Is it like because when you're wearing something that's not jeans that the lines on your thongs wont show up as much as an underwear would? Or is it cheaper or something?
hey, well ive been wearing thongs since fourth or fifth grade. no im not slutty. i just find them for comfortable. the less material the better for me.
ok,well i have angled bangs that go off to the side. my hair grows suuuppeerr fast and i got my hair cut like two weeks ago,and my angled bangs got REALLY long! i dont know how to cut them so they are still angled, could you help? like in steps? if i mess up i dont care,because they'll grow back in a heartbeat. but could you give me steps so i know how to do it each time? also is it ok to use saftey sissors or regular sissors? cause i dont have hair dresser sissors.... thank you so much!! :]
hey, i woudlnt do it yourself. i had bad experiences with that. even if your hair does grow fast you still could do some damage for a while. just have the hair dresser do it for you for like three dollars. long bangs are also in. maybe there cute?
13/f
okay so i woke up this morning, looked in the mirror & i see this GIGANTIC zit on my nose. i'm not exaggerating. i'm going roller skating tonight with a bunch of my friends including the guy i like! so i need to get rid if it FAST. i have already washed my face like 8 times & used oil free acne wash on it twice. what else can i do to make it go away by tonight??? thank you soooooooo much if you can give me any advice at all.
hey, well washing it so many times made it worse. try popping it. it might leave a little red mark but cover up could easily fix that.
any ideas on how to get rid of hickys in like 2 hours??? please help. thanks
hey, well hickys last a few days. the only option you have to to wear a turtle neck, a scarf, or just use coverup.
Hello to all. I'm a 14/f. I'm in the 9th grade. I have a serious problem. It's ruining my life. I've been noticing lately that people are using me. And I mean EVERYONE. When they need an answer (on a test, or a quiz w/e) they ask me. I, being a pushover, give them the answer and try to help them to the best of my ability. However, when *I* need something, like help, or advice, they shun me out. They ignore me and make up some lame excuse to not have to deal with me and my questions and problems. I used to think I can rely on a group of people, but now it turns out they're just using me. On the weekends, they NEVER call. They NEVER want to talk. However, when they need something, they always come to me. (This is probably because I get straight A's...) I feel like an object...a piece of gum, that has been chewed up and spit out. I'm coming to the point where my favorite band and my own cat are my best friends. I can't rely on anyone because I know they will use me. I help them truthfully...and they end up backstabbing me. Like an example of a situation: I finished an exam online (it's worth a grade) and I got a 60. My friend asked me to give her some answers to cheat since it won't affect my 60 anyways...so I gave her 7 answers...and she got a 79. While I was upset, she started asking me if I think the teacher will pull the grade up to an 80 -_-. I then asked her for help and she rejected. I'm so confused.
hey, well you have to learn how to say no. your being way to nice to everyone and thats why you get used so much. they know that youll say yes to everything they ask so they just walk all over you because of it. i mean its okay to help people sometimes, but definately not all the time. you could either a) find a new group of friends or b) let the friends that you have now know that your not going to be like that anymore. if you picked a), you have to join clubs and find people with the same interests as you. if you picked b), have a talk with them at lunch or somewhere where they cant avoid you. tell them that your done being nice and that you want them to respect you and like you for who you are. if they dont want to do that then definately go for choice a). if they want to try to repsect you then just ask them to hangout. show them the cool new you. the one thats fun to be around and the one thats a good friend.
okay well when my boyfriend comes over he ussually like massages my vagina,,like with my pants on...and it feels really good. but when i so the same for him he doesnt act as excied...am i doing something wrong? or is that just annoying for guys?
hey, well he should like it. hes probably just embarassed to show that he does. the only way to know for sure if he likes it is to ask him. it might be embarassing for you if your shy so you can always do it on AIM.
Why do guys not like to share there feelings to there girl friend. At the beginning of the relationship.
And when the relationship is going good at the begining and changes at the end, and you really have feelings you've never had about a boy before how do get them back and let them know you still do like them???
hey, well someone people are just more affectionate then others. ive gone out with plenty of guys. some have been really clingy and affectionate. others just like to keep there distance more. it really depends on the guy. anyways you cant get somebody to like you. they either like you or they dont. however you can still let them know that you like them by just simply telling them. flirt with them. if you want flirting tips or other helpful hints go to http://www.links2love.com
i use cover girl continuous wear cover up but i can never get my face to look very clear like i have litte spots that i want to cover up...like not zits but little like marks and it doesnt really cover them up? is there a diffrent way to apply it so you cant see blemishes and make it stay on longer?
hey, well try using bronser and cover up. make sure it blends well with your skintone so that you dont look fake. dont think of im so white i need dark tan makeup products. you will look like a fool if you try that.
i have curly hair and its extremely hard to straighten it. How can i straighten it without the blower? Do you know of any good straighting irons? cause my is bad.
hey, well i have curly hair to! it takes me almost two hours to straighten =[. anyways i got a chi straighter from sally beauty.
http://www.sallybeauty.com/shop/1650/255032
14(freshman)/f
i really like this guy, and his name is jack. like really i've never liked someone so much, and i have had alot of serious relationships before. anyway. he is a junior (16). and he likes me back. my parents are kind of being stupid about the whole situation because he is so much older. liek they dont let me hang out with him or anything, and they are like really over-protective when it comes to him. i dont really know how to deal with it, they just seem not acceptable to the whole thing. i mean, i do good in school and so does he. and like i think they are judging him just cuz hes older. they think all he wants to do is get in my pants, and like.. he says he actually cares about me a lot and wouldnt push me to do anything. which is good cuz i think im to young to do anythign serious. any ideas? please help!
hey, well first of all he is not "so much older then you". hes only two years older and age difference shouldnt matter. invite him over the house to have dinner with your parents. let them get to know the real him before they keep judging him and eventually push him out of your life.
Basic. 16/f
There's this guy named Bill that works at the same place as I do. We became good friends so now we talk non stop at work, thankfully we both work for our parents so we can't get fired.Of course, I had a crush on him so I told him I liked him a while ago so he knows. Well more like my friend told him I liked him and I know I shouldn't have because he is really shy in that area. I mean we can talk non stop on the phone or in person but he's just like me. He gets shy in a way when in comes to something like that. So yes I thought wow Im screwed, another guy is scared off.
Because his answer was...
"I dont know, you are really fun person to talk to and ... besides i wouldnt tell your friends that I liked you if i liked you"
and more confusing "Its not like i dont NOT like you"
yes the stupid double negative... (or so he calls it that...)So I was confused for a while so I just let it go or at least try to, but I couldn't because I already liked him so much.For who he is and not for how he looks or what he has. I used to be a shallow girl that liked a guy for his looks and kinda never had relationship last longer than 2 weeks because i would either get tired of the guy's look or whatever stupid reasons.But this time was different. I actually liked him for who he is and how he is so nice, sweet, caring, understanding, and not to mention little cute. I know he's not a hottie and people kept asking me why I like him so much but that's exactly what I tell them. I like him for who he is and not what he looks like. Besides I think he's kinda cute. so yeah.But we kept talking on the phone (we live pretty far from each other... about 2 hours i believe so we dont go to same school or anything and only time I see him is on weekends when we work)Then last saturday he asked me if i was doing anything on monday (we had no school because of MLK day) so i said no and he asked me to go to the movies and I told him my mom wouldnt drive me all the way to where he lived and he said he would come pick me up and all that whatnot.So we decided to meet about half way from my house and half way from his house.
and I was more surprised that my mom let me go because she has this stupid rule on how i am not suppose to date or get bf until i graduate high school. But I went and I had the GREATEST time. This is kind of getting long so i will shorten it up now. So basically, things were great but my mom didn't like him because he didnt get out and greet her or said bye to her (which he did but guess she didnt hear and I told him to leave without saying bye because we didnt have time to walk all the way to where my mom was parked because his mom told him to leave like 10 minutes ago and we lost track of the time)So now my mom doesn't want me to go out with him again and I couldn't tell him that. Well I sort of did so he is now really sad and he kept saying like how he's gonna bring flowers to my mom next time we go to the movies (except he doesnt know I cant go out anymore)and he thought of whole bunch of ideas because he said he wanted my mom to like him.But the thing is, I still don't know if he likes me likes me.
I mean one time I told him
"Oh my mom wanted me to tell you that I cant have a boyfriend until I graduate high school but I told my mom that it was okay because You dont really know if you liked me so..."
and hoping he would say something like "well I do like you" but no that wasnt the reply... in fact I dont know what he said because it was something like um okay or something like that.So now im lost and confused and dont have anywhere to turn because all my friends are idiots kept telling me to get a life so what should I do?
hey, i think hes just teasing you or hoping he can get stuff from you. if he just teasing you then he likes going out on dates with you and flirting but he just doesnt want a relationship with you because he likes dating around or is afraid of commitment. if he wants to get stuff from you, he will keep going on dates with you and then once you do stuff with him he will never call you again or as much as he used to. it seems to me like you`ve said mulitple hints to him that you want to know if he likes you and he hasnt replied back yes. find out what the deal is with him so you wont be lead on. if he says he really likes you and wants to keep seeing you just tell your mom hes shy. since shy people dont talking to people that they dont know too well, just say that was the reason he didnt say bye. if he says he doesnt want a relationship then you dont need him in your life. it was really rude for leading you on and you can do much better then that jerk.
I've started at least 3 novels and I always lose inspiration after a little bit. I have some great ideas and I'd like to complete them, for once. What can I do?
hey, well maybe you could write smaller books. that way they wouldnt be as hard to write. maybe childrens books are also an option for you. oh and just so you know you dont have to write the whole book all at once in a certain time period. some writters experience writters block and need some time off to think of good endings. give it a few weeks then write more.