HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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my mom caught me mastubating and watching porn and now i'm crying and i'm mad and i don't know what to do.... i feel awful... i cant stop crying i think i'm gonna cut myself... dammit i dont know what else to do!!! please help me i'm not some emo kid but im considering killing myself... (link)
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ok ill be honest and say thats retarted cutting yourself cuz your mom saw you....what did she do after she saw you did she BEAT you up?i dont think so!its ok but if masturbating makes you feel guilty then you shouldnt do it.talk to your mom ask if shes mad and have a loooong talk with her bout how you feel its not worth you killing yourself.what are you gonna do if you happen to break up with your boyfriend????you need to toughen up a lil bit
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So I'm interviewing this guy tomorrow. It's a half an hour interview. I saw his band at a local pub and really liked them. And since I'm part a community TV station, I asked if I could interview him.
But now I find out he's REALLY famous here and everyone I speak to knows who he is! He's been the host of a popular music show for a couple of years which I didn't know about.
I'm really nervous now about the interview and worse case scenarios kept running through my mind. I'm afraid I'm going to look like such a fool or have a mental blank or something. It's a half an hour interview that's being filmed and I have no idea how I'm going to fill up that time.
How can I relax a bit, and what are some good things to ask him? The fact that he interviews people constantly and gets interviewed himself means he probably has been asked the "usual" questions several times and I don't want him to be bored! I'm really panicking. How should I act? Help please? thanks. (link)
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omg i know exactly how you feel because im the chick that usually host every years school partys.lol.ok you know its better to feel stressed before the interview so when youre interviewing him you wont be stressed anymore and the sooner you feel your stress and feelings the sooner youll get over it.youll feel stressed at first but when you sit infront of him youll realize that its too late to feel stressed now because your infront of him!! ok i dont know if youll like the questions i have for you to ask him but...yeah...first off start off by saying stuff like i am very pleased to be having you here...blah..blah and then ask him..ok tell me a lil more about yourself and your career,what do you enjoy most about your current career or what was more challenging being a tv host or a musician,what was the most craziest thing or most embarrasing thing thats happened to you on tv or stage(daring question!)whats the biggest challenge youve ever faced at work,how long have you wanted to be a musician ,if you were to send a message through your music to people that are listening to you what would your message be like or mean?where do you see yourself in the next 5-10 years?how do you handle critisicm?what motivates you?in your opinion if three things had to be removed from this world for it to be \"perfect \"what would that be? hope this helped or gave you an idea!
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hey my name is ashley... and almost everyday afetr school i come home crying because i am always being made fun of because i smell... i have no reason to smell. whats going on, how do i get them to stop, what should i do about the smell? (link)
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well you came on this website for the truth RIGHT?? ok well they wouldnt make fun of you and say you smell for no reason you probably havent realized that you do because your nose is used to your smell but others noticed it.if you have armpit hair shave it and just shower good and wash under your arms and put on some perfume and youll be fine..soryy if this is offensive im just telling you what you can do.
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well i like this guy. but he does'nt like me and that sucks. he never talkes to me or anything just because i'm not thaaaat popular. i dont know why he does'nt like me but i just wanna be friends! so what should i do now? i really want him to notice me and like me........heeeelp (link)
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ok you may be a really preetty chick but he DOESNT like you and you cant change that easily and know that if he comes to you one day and says he likes you its a lie because he dont like you now why would he change his mind all of a sudden just get over him hes not worth your time
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Well my ex dustin i still have feelings for him. But he doesn't know. But we were best friends until Ali came along. BUt any way i saw here with another guy (curtis) and he didn't believe me so were not friends any more and i can't get him off my mind. What should i do?
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ok well you need to clarify a little more...what i get is that you still like your ex and were his best freind till....what happened?anywayz you need to forget him because now he has become a part of your past itll take a while to get over him but the sooner you feel youre feelings of sadness the more you get over it and will be able to conquer it l8er on.going to him and asking him to be your boyfriend again will only mock your dignity and a girls got to have dignity.youll get over him time heals everything and youll see.find someone eles or give your heart a break from love sometimes it feels great to be free of loving a guy for a while so you dont have to be thinking bout him 24/7.but what did you mean by "BUt any way i saw here with another guy (curtis) and he didn't believe me so were not friends any more" you need to clarify more what did you see here????
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what can i do to stop arguing w/ my mom. Talking w/ her about it isn't helping anymore.
-i'm a 16yr old male (link)
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you dont have to answer her back or have a comeback to everything she says sometimes you just have to let it go.
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I have this stomach ache in my lower left side of my stomach. It hurt soo bad that i can't move. Its like a cramp but 10 times worse! What should i do? (link)
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u should go to the doctor because it could be serious
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Ok, well I had this boyfriend for a few months. He was my perfect guy, the type I've always dreamed about, my dream guy. In that amount of time, we went through alot together and I came as close to loving him as I've come to anyone ever (you know, in that way). Well, a whole lot of crap happened and he broke up with me and I still miss him like every day. I've been out and about alot and my girls have been like wicked supportive but it's been a few weeks and I still cry about it every day. I can't stop thinking about him or anything and I feel pathetic. So how can I get up and move past him? (link)
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its ok itll take time its only been a couple of weeks youre not pathetic we all been through breakups and time heals everything youll meet new guys and hes not the last guy on earth the sooner you feel your feelings the more youll get over it later on just dont block your sadness out stubbornly now cuz ull feel it l8er on
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My ex and i have decided to get back together, the only problem is, is that my mom can't stand him. My mom is so pissed and upset at him for breaking up with me the first time and she says she can't trust him! I don't know what to do! How can I convince my mom? (link)
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no offence but if you want the truth i think if its mom vs ex boyfreind then definetly mom wins because this dude broke up with you be4 and your mom knows better and is more experienced so i think you should have a long talk with your mom about why she dont like him and im sure your mom just wants to save you the heartbreak cuz this dude broke it be4
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Tonight I am going to the movies with four of my freinds. One of them is a girl, my best freind, and the otehr three are guys. The one guy, lets call him Tim, has been freaking me out. He's always liek I dreamed about you last night and we were hooking up and going out. And I'm thinking of you, I love you xo. And like, I bet you are good at hooking up. And I jsut don't like it. So tonight I am worried he will try and sit next to me and like try to make a move. There will be other girls there who I'm not exactly freinds with. What should I do? Ignore him? Or what? (link)
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omg since you DONT like him tell him not to come any closer to you or ELES!!!you have to tell him that or eles he might make a move but if you tell him and he doesnt listen and STILL makes a move.....slap the crap outta him!!im serious itll make him back off and respect you
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So theres this guuy, lets call him "rick".(( we are both 13)so he always does this thing with me where he will start flirting like he likes me, then when i start liking him, he ignores me completley like he doesnt care anymore. well anyways this has happened about 3 times already. hes not even going to my school next year, so i was trying to forget about him. then he just starts texting me like saying "hey sexy" and stuff like tht. then i flirt back and after awhile its like he gets bored or somthing and just stops tlking without saying anything at all. i have no idea whats up. its like one day he likes me, the next he doesnt even care. i have no idea what to do. what happens if he does it again? should i flirt back or just ignore him? and im afraid to ask him upfront cuz i dont wanna like make it seem like i care too much or turn it into a big deal. what do i do!?!?! (link)
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hes playing around with you because he desperatley wants SOMEONE to like him so he can go brag to his friends and be like hey look i made her like me by only flirting ha!whats am i gonna make her do if i tell her i like her!?look when he flirts with you dont flrit back dont let him get what he wants.and when he talks to you online and says hi dont even BOTHER to answer hes playing with you and its only gonna get you to trouble
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First, thanks for reading this. I've been dating a 40 yr old man, Chris, for a couple of weeks, and we get along really well, I like him a lot, and he feels the same way. Last week, I met a guy online, Jon, who is 26, much closer to my age of 22. Jon and I have an amazing connection, he's everything I ever wanted in a man, except that he smokes...and he lives two hours away. I'm having trouble deciding which relationship to pursue. Should I drop Chris and see where things go with Jon, even if I'd only see him once or twice a week, or forget about Jon and keep seeing Chris, who lives in my town? I'm so confused, and I really need help! Do you have any suggestions on what I should do to decide? Thanks! (link)
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the younger dude....definetly cuz if you choose the older one itll just seem like a father daughter realationship
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I am like the only person that doesn't have a boyfriend. And I have never actually had a kiss i mean i just turned 14 but it is so embarrassing. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!! (link)
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BIG DEAL ok lady wait a lil its ok youll find your right guy one day and mabey hes infront of your eyes and you dont know its him!im 15 and dont have a boyfriend and im cool
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Okay so im going to my best friend's house today. Normally i would never have to ask this question, because we have so much fun together, but she just moved, so she doesnt have any T.V., internet, or anything like that right now. So its going to be WICKED boring..so i was wondering what would be something fun to do?? like something involving, maybe paper, like the game MASH..does anyone know any games like MASH that we could play, or like something like truth or dare (but not nessacarily truth or dare..its just an example.) by the way we're both 14/f.
thanks ANYTHING will help (link)
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play open book which is a game where you can ask her ANY question and she cant answer and say anything but the TRUTH
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13/f. I don't know what's been happening to me recently. For the past 3 months, my appetite has disappeared. In one day, I can't seem to eat more than this: a baked potato, a cup of coffee, a piece of banana bread, two bowls of fruit and half-and-half, and a small plate of macaroni. I usually can eat more than that. I used to be around 88 lbs. I'm now usually around 84-87 lbs. I've been having a bit of trouble going to sleep, too. It takes around 30 minutes before I'm completely ready to fall asleep. My period keeps coming late, and I know this is disgusting, but my urine has started to smell really, really bad.
Oh, and don't tell me "you're stressed." I'm out of school, and I have not been doing anything stressful at all. I'm just sitting at home.
I know that most of you aren't doctors, but I was just curious as to whether anybody else has had these symptoms and what it COULD be?
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its the coffe you know that coffe like 6 ounces has 100-150 milligrams of caffeine and that makes you hyper unable to sleep and brings health problems if you drink too much so i think instead of coffe drink chocolate milk and you need protien or eles youre going to get anemia you can find that in meat and nuts eat meat with the maccaroni
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My lips are really chapped and I'm using the jar of Carmex with the yellow lid. I've used it a lot and left it on, but everytime it wares off my lips start to peel and I'm tempted to bite them again and get them chapped. Should I leave the peeling skin alone? Any additional advice would be wonderful.
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ok well whatever happened to ordianry moisturising chapstick?lol use chapstick for a while without removing it and youll lips will be better
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okay i went out with this dude for 3 months.
the first month he cheated on me then broke up with me and then asked me back out we went out for 3 more months and when he broke up the reason why we did changed everyday. and my new best friend went out with him. before i did. and he lied to her and told her he was going to wait until she was aloud to date. and then he ran off with me. and then he cheated on me with her. and shes not the kinda person that would do that. but i guess "love" makes you do crazy things i forgave her we both did out share he ran off with me , he cheated on me with her and now. hes comming back to her asking her on dates and shes no going for it cause hes a lier and a cheater everything he said to her when they went out and while cheating on me was a lie and i found out last night okay it went like this. He asked her on the dates, i told her to stay yes to them and then i found out he promises my friend emily on a date! and then...... i go to his myspace ( i have his password) and emilys friend from colorado he was saying how he was thinking about her during soccer conditioning and that he loved her and all this. im like WTF? so me and my friend have our own littel jonh tucker issue. but its only 2 of us. Shes the bait and im the one who knows everything. like i have all the connections i have ALOTTT of friends that know him. and like shes the quite type not very popular and i guess im the popular type and people tell me everything. so do you think its time for him to get his like seriouly? emily and her friend both live in colorado! and its me and clara here. and hes the type that comes back to girls after a while its time for him to be SHUTTTTT DOWN.hes acting soooo deprite and immature and hes playing games with me and my friend clara and he doesnt deserve us at all
he bacially have 4 clara,me,emily,and emilys friend!!!!!!!!!!
do you think this is right!!!!!!/??? (link)
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you call this "love"???.....LOL!!! well this is NOT true love this guy is one BORED person who has nothing better to do in life but play with girls because hes extra confident that all the girls like him ill tell you a lil bit of advice DuMp HiM!!!hell get a taste of what hes doing to other girls and this time no going back GOD!is he the LAST guy on earth?
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I told this kid that knows my boyfriend that my boyfriend poped my cherry and we had oral sex on a.i.m. So before i could tell him i was lieing he signed off! Now i'm scared he is going to tell my boyfriend. The only way i can think of to fix the problem is if the kid signs back on a.i.m and i tell him i was joking. What should I do? And what if he tells my boyfriend? (link)
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well thats what you get for lieing!hes going to tell your boyfriend....ADUUUH....well you have either 2 choices either save yourself the embarrasment and lie again or tell the truth and pay the consenquences of lienig in the first place.
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Hello, I'm fat, I weight 330 pouds roughly and like hm...
I have acne, but I'm pretty sure I can fix that with some facial hygiene and working out(after all, I'm only 18).
I wanted to know if it's still worth living, because I quit scroll and I'm about 4 years late on high school now, I should've been in college.
I deeply wish I could change all of that, but it gradually accumulatyed/piled up, now my life is a bad bad mess and it's going to take a GREAT effort to recover everything.
It sorta kills all my motivation to take it back when I think of how much it will be hard to heal, so I just sit and wait for my death to happen.
Is there anything I can do to decide to change? Because by sheer self esteem is impossible, I find myself worthless and unloved. (link)
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why the hell would you quit school for?ok is there anychance you can go back to school?it doesnt matter that your older ok well about your weight and acne life didnt do this to you YOU did this to yourself you HAVE to lose weight its extreemly dangerous especially at your age and why the hell commit suicide life gives ppl a second chance if you look for it.ok this is what you do to lose weight just walk like a half hour a day ok and eat NO JUNK AT ALLLLLL and more vegetables and less rice and cut down on the nuts(all of them) and anything fatty start now or you never will
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My one friend was being very mean to me on the phone, and I didn't do anything at all! Well this is how it started (sorry this might be long)...
Well my one friend usually calls me about everyday, and I noticed she hadn't called all day yesterday or today, so I thought I'd give her a call. Everything was fine until I asked her if she was gonig to an amusement park for our school or something. She said that her parents would never let her. So I started making these little crying noises because I did want her to go. Then she gets all mean telling me to stop making those squeaking noises. I told her I was just kidding, and she said that it gets annoying sometimes. I couldn't believe that she said that! I mean we're girls! We all make weird noises, especially squeaking ones! After that it was quiet for a while. Then she was talking to me like nothing really happned.
I was trying to figure out why she said that. I thought maybe it was because she might have been jealous because she couldn't go to the amusement park, but she didn't sound so dissapointed about it. Also, it was very hot outside today, and I know they don't have air conditioning, So I thought she might be hot, and irritable. I'm not sure. She seemed like she was in a bad mood, but then she didn't. It was very strange. Maybe she was moody, but I really don't know.
I'm getting kind of worried because I'm affraid she might call our other friends and tell them, which I don't think she will, I sure hope not! But I don't think our friends would get mad, because we all make weird noises for fun. Maybe she was just annoyed and not in the mood for talking, but then again, she didn't seem like it. Like she talked to me on the phone how she always does, but it was different in a way. I don't know, I'm very confused. So do any of you know why she was acting this way? Thanks! (link)
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she probably thought that you were trying to make fun of her or annoy her with the sounds you made because she couldnt go,she didnt take it the humorous way but i that you should call her up and as her if shes mad at you.
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