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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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HEY PEOPLE

I need your honest opinion, is kissing with lipgloss or without better??

If WITH - what flavor??

It usually depends on the guy and girl, there is no right and wrong answer.

While kissing, my boyfriend does like me having lipgloss on; Not the shinny/sparkley stuff, the good lipsmacker ones. While makeing out, I perfer not to have any lipgloss on. That way your boyfriend won't have lipgloss all over his face by the end of the session. ♥

sometimes i get this gooy white stuff in my underwear what is it?

This is completely normal. Every girl has this. It is called discharge. It usually comes right before you begin your period and right after you're done. ♥

well im not going to do it now but for like future comings, like well i wouldnt know rite but do you shave down stairs for girls like if you did that wouldnt the guy hate that? like whats better? what do you do?

Most girls do shave when they become sexually active. It just makes everything so much neater and better while performing sexual activity. If you want to shave, do so. If you don't, that's all right. It's up to you and what you're comfortable with. Most guys do like it shaved, or at least trimmed up. ♥

Hey I was wondering if you knew anything about the different kinds of Nexopia fonts other than Arial, Times, Courier, Impact, Geneva or Optima
thanks

You can use all the fonts that are on your Microsoft Word and Wordpad. All you got to do is replace the name of the font, with the name of the other font you want.

Here are some GREAT fonts:

-- Arial
-- Book Antiqua
-- Century Gothic
-- Century Schoolbook
-- Comic Sans MS
-- Courier
-- Courier New
-- MS Sans Serif
-- System
-- Tahoma
-- Times New Roman
-- Verdana

Hopefully this helps you out some. ♥

okay, im 13- going on 14, and im fat. i weigh 184 lbs. and im 5'3. do you have any tips on how i can lose some weight before school starts back on Aug. 15?

All you really have to do is just watch what you eat and go out for walks. That will help you loose a lot of weight. Eat foods that are healthy for you and aren't high in fat and calories. Don't eat after 8PM. ALWAYS eat breakfast. Drink a lot of water; anywhere between 6-8 glasses, a day. Then, after supper, just go for a little walk. Also, you could start doing sit-ups and crunches before going to bed. This will help tone your belly, after you loose some weight. ♥

My question is : I'm having alot of pain when me and my fiance try to have sex. I'm a virgin and I heard that you can use nupercainal ointment if its very painful. Is this true?? Or is there something else that I can do? It's sort of a last resort.

You could get your fiance to finger you before you guys have sex. That way it'll be easyer when you do have sex and it won't hurt as much. You could also go to a sex store and buy some lube, I guess. That would do the trick, if it's hurting too much. ♥

im 14 and im a grl(plz dont get mad it mite b kinda long!) ok um my bf rico cheated on almost all of his ex's and he always flirts with his ex saundra,and one time my friend aathen told me he saw rico kissin saundra!!!i got so mad,becuz i no he flirts with her so we got n a big fite rico said he hasnt kissed anyone but me "yet" and that made me so pissed that he said yet and then he was like i would if you wanted me to and im like dude so you would cheat on me?? and he was bakin his self up and the other thing is that he calls his ex and he told me that she says she loves him and she doesnt care that hes goin out with me so i cussed her out...and the other thing is aathen wants me and he would do anything to go out with me(breakin me and rico up)so i dont no if i should believe athen or not and my like besttes friend ever calls rico even thou she knows im not ok with it!should i put up with her doin that??and should i break up with rico??plz help me!!o ya and i out on my columists thingy and my user is i_am_the_ruler_of_lALALAN

Rico seems like he doesn't know if he even wants to be in this relationship, or not. I'm not trying to be mean here, but it sounds like he can't make up his mind. When you asked him if he kissed anyone and he said 'not, YET.' That sound give you a little hint right there. Since he said yet, it means he probably would kiss someone, while with you. I think you should dump him and find a better guy then this. This guy isn't worth your time, at all. You can do so much better, hun. Get a guy that respects you and WANTS to be with you. Not a guy that will walk all over you, like he is doing. Find someone better, he's not worth it. ♥

hi i think my uncle is depressed he lives with my nan and he hasnt worked for about 5 years. Ever since my great nan died he gone kinda strange. Hes always in his room .No1 is aloud in there .Hes gotten really skinny coz he doesnt eat. He looks white all the time. hes always borrowing nans money and stuff. we used to play all the time but now he doesnt know when to let a joke go . how can i help him

I suggest that you try to get him to see a doctor for this depression. Loosing someone that he was so close to is very hard on a person. And since this person is dead, he doesn't know how to deal with anything so he just decides to do nothing at all. I really think you should talk to some of your family members and try to get him to go to counseling. It should help him. You should always be there for him, too. If he ever wants to talk about something, be there to listen. ♥

If you have sex with a condom are you still considered a virgin or does it have to be unprotected sex? Just curious.

Protected, unprotected, it doesn't matter. If you had sex (intercourse) you're no longer a virgin. ♥

theres this song and it goes...
the day you slipped away
was the day i found it wont be the same ohh
anyone know the name of the song or who wrote it?

The song is called 'Slipped Away' and it is by Avril Lavigne. ♥

i want to find a site that has those mypace codes so that you can have the boxes that say Message, ADD, Comment, Block. not the contact table but like a seperate one so that you dont have to make a comment cox.

I THINK there's some on the following website: http://myspace.com/xohromancex If not, you can just take my Message and Add button off my MySpace page. ♥

I'm wondering what a movie is called. It has a robot that looks like this. http://myweb.cableone.net/mobilesuitpilotx/botsecks.JPG
I think his name was Jonny Number Five. I've looked it up on google and cannot find it.

The name of the movie you're looking for is called 'Short Circut.' ♥

Does anyone know how to take a black and white photo on paint and make it so part of it is still in color?

I've heard it can be done, but I have no idea how.

PLEASE help me. =D

thanks.

You can't do that on paint. You need a special program for that. Either, PhotoShop or Ipe (that's the program I use.) You can try searching for the programs at http://www.downloads.com ♥

ok is it ok to have sex when your on your period?

It's perfectly fine to have sex while you're on your period. However, you can still get pregnant. So, always be protected. ♥

hey your layout is SO cute.. i was just wondering how you did it, because i want something like that & i dont know how to do it without it looking all messed up lol

Thank you :] All I did was, I found a cute background. There are tons at the following website: http://myspace.com/xohromancex Then, I just found colors that went with the background. You can find colors at the following website: http://www.iconbazaar.com/color_tables/lepihce.html [They have more colors in the table, then the color table that this site provides you with.] Just play around with the colors and the background and I'm sure you'll end up with something you like. ♥

Hi my name is Kesha and I am almost 15 years old. Just about six months ago I was raped. The police dropped the case because they had said that I wanted it and which I hadn't. Now six months later I'm wanting a baby so badly that I cry about it everynight almost. I'm very mature for this because I had practically raised myself ever since I had got my period. Anyway, I was wondering what I would do for myself to calm myself down about wanting one? I have been talked to about this and everything, but yet I still want a baby. What do I do?

Having a baby is a HUGE responsibility! You're only 15. You have your whole life ahead of you yet. If you have a baby, you won't be able to do things that normal teenage girls do. You'll have to stay home to raise your baby. You'll have to get a job to buy food and clothes for your baby. Babies aren't cheep and they aren't all fun and games. I highly suggest not having a baby, right now. You're WAY too young for one. Wait till you have a husband and you're married with a job. Then, you'll be able to think about having children. You'll be much more mature then you are now and you'll be able to handle one. ♥

well when i did it the first time i didnt bleed and my boyfriend thinks i did somethin with someone and i dont know what to tell him b/c i dont know why i didnt bleed at all is that stuped.does every gurl know why they didnt bleed i feel like it is stuped b/c in my coulture every gurl is suppose to bleed the first time or the person ur with is goin to think u did somethin with someone else.and im a muslim and im not suppose to do anythin tell im merried thats why im scared.please help me get my answer.

Don't worry about this, sweetie. Not EVERY girl bleeds their first time. Some girls bleed a lot, while others bleed a little, and some don't even bleed at all. It just depends on the girl. ♥

When I talk on the phone or on a date I cant really come up with topics or things to talk what should I talk about?

Here are some topics:

-- Favorite movies.
-- Favorite songs.
-- Favorite kind of music.
-- Favorite band.
-- Favorite sports.
-- What they like to do for fun.
-- Have any brothers or sisters.
-- Have anything planned for the day/weekend.

Girlie things:

-- Hair.
-- Makeup.
-- Nails.
-- Clothes.
-- Boys.
-- Music.

I hope this helps you out some. ♥

well theres this boy i talk to that i like.. hes goes to my school and i met him in lunch so thats how we talk, and we only talk there... but i want to hang out with him and ask for his number so we can become better friends then maybe move up to something else.. but i dont know how to ask him for his number and to hangout without seeming weird or something.. so please helpp, thanks :o)

Well, since you met him in lunch. Why don't you talk to him on lunch breaks and stuff? Don't be shy to just come out of the blue and ask him for his number; there's nothing wrong with that. Maybe you could ask him what he's doing this weekend. Then, maybe ask him if he'd like to hangout with you if he's free. Once you guys start hanging out more, ask him for his number, then take it from there. ♥

i want to eat my girl out and she says she's ready but i dont know how can anyone help she is 18 and im 16

Maybe you should try asking a boy? Or, you could always search it up on google. ♥

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