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To graduate high school I had to take a theater class but I wasn't really into that stuff so instead of doing my assignments, my teacher let me do other things for grades (stay after and clean the stage, stuff like that). Whenever I'd do that, we would be together. We talked all the time and started to get really close. We ended up making out once but we didn't let it get in farther. We got together a few times outside of school for coffee and such but nothing more because we knew we couldn't


Well, now that I've graduated, he not my teacher, and I don't even go to that school anymore. So do you think it'd be okay to try to pursue a relationship with him? I'm 18 and he's 24 by the way.

Of course! He's not your teacher anymore so its safe too. Just make sure he's not a jerk.. :]

GOOD LUCK!

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I work with this guy. But hes on a vacation break for about a month. Its his part time job becuase he is aslo military. I started this job in OCtober. He was the one that pretty much trained me on the job MOre then any others employees. Since i started there i have Had A crush on him.
Friday i drove on base to put my check in the bank and he was one of the security Guys checking the IDs. He saw me and smiled at me. And i drove away.

Also Theres a pretty big age gap. im 17f & hes 25m. And he has a girlfriend but hes not married.
My question is. Is there anything i can really do in this situation? And any advice that you would love to give to me.

Thank you;)

Well, since he already has a girlfriend i would just leave him be for now. You dont want to get in the middle(believe me from experience) Getting in the middle, is bound to cause problems between you and his gf and you and him.Its just not worth it. But, if they ever do break up then go for it. But, in the meantime focus on other things. And the good thing outta this is that it is only a crush;]

Remember: Whatevers meant to happen, will always find a way.

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Hi Paige712,

Thanks for your input,appreciate that. I dont know if this will sound right,but for how long should she leave it there b4 she cleans up.thanks

Give it 30 minutes, the reason is because it needs time to go into the canal.

Good luck!

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I have a secret crush and she dosent know it, or at least i dont think she does, she has a bf and she really likes him, i have had a crush on her for awhile even before her bf but i had a gf at that time, should i try to go for it or leave her alone?

I suggest you to just let her be for now. She has a boyfriend and she really likes him. Dont get in the middle of that, you are just asking for trouble. You dont want her boyfriend wanting to beat you up, and you dont want her to be mad at you. Just wait a little after they break up and express youre feelings to her. Dont do it straight after, because she will probably still be hurting.

Good luck!

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As you know, I recently put in a question. I'm doing a lot better and have a new little puzzler for you. If you have't read my other question, my boyfriend is moving to Belgium. I was just wondering what i should get him for a going away present. Something really special and personal. Love, ringo8mybaby.

Something that means something special to both of you.

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Hi,

Me and my wife are tryin for a baby for more than a year , but have failed so far. My question here is that when ever we have sex my wife wipes off the sperm straight away. will that affect, I mean does that reduces the chances of getting pregnant? does it affect in any way?thanks

I am kinda thinking it does. My aunt and my uncle were trying to have a baby, and she let it sit in there. So, i am assuming youre supposed to and i am also assuming it does have something to do with affecting it.

But, did you both look into a pill or something? You can go to the doctors and they will give you a pill to help, or even clean out your wife(i know my mom has had that done)

and also, check to see if you both are able to have a kid. :)
Good luck!

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My sweet 16 theme is Hollywood and me and my friends want to go all out. We are trying to think of people to dress as, but are coming up blank.


I'd love to hear some advice on it, or even a website for ideas.

I tried google but it didn't help me much.


Thanks

Hmm. Maybe you can dress as movie stars? im sure you will get all sorts of wacky things if you do that. haha

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im a girl/14 & i really like this guy and we've beentogetehr for awhile now.. i want to do something for him but im scared to because i dont know how.. or wel atleast the more detailed partss. could someone tell me how to do fourplay on a guy, like how to give head really good and a good hand job

Hmm, tease him and rub his stomache.

a hand job is very simple, you cant really mess it up. Just grab it and move up and down...Go fast then go slow again, and keep varying the speed...But dont grab it too hard, but not too loose. and ask him if it is okay and go by his expression

A blow job is a little more complicated. Just go up and down and you can even lick the tip and that will usually make them go crazy. Just make sure you are into it, its not fun for guys id your not into it...moan and stuff. And like i said above, go with his expressions and sounds. Remember to keep your teeth out of the way. When you get a little bit more experienced, then as your giving the blow job...give him a hand job at the same time. This is multi tasking, but after you do it awhile...you will get the hang of it.

Goood luck!

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i am a 45 year old woman and i have been with my husband for 10 years and married 3 of the 10. i have not been in love with my husband for a long time ( almost a year) and i meat a man that i am falling for but he told me last night that we are fuck buddies but i wantto know how i can get him to fall in love with me

If you dont love your husband, why are you with him? that isnt fair to you or him.

Im sorry, but you cannot make anyone fall in love with you. If its there, thats great, but if its not...then you have to move on. Fuck buddies? How did that make you feel? Im sure he doesnt think much of you, for him to call you that. You are in a great deal of mess, and you need to get out of it. You cant be unfaithful like this anymore. Its wrong, and its unfair.

Good luck. Make the right decision

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im a grl and wen i masterbate i dont like using my finger, so i just rub up and down on some spots. it gets me really horny and it's working great. i would just like to know some other masterbating methods that dont envolve fingering or anything i have to buy like a vibrator....what can i do just using my hand?
thnx in advance

Try the faucet method.

You put your clit under the faucet && it stimulates it. Feels very good too!

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im worred about my friend shes in my grade 7th but shes only 11 im 13 so sometimes i think of her as a lil sister and im a little worred about her because she has a new boyfriend whos 16 in the 10th grade and she hangs out with him alone and im worred that somthing might happen how can i covinces her that this just isent right and dont say tell her mom because her mom dont care about her and i would like it if i didnt have to tell an adult because she wont listen to them

Then, honestly you are her only chance. You need to talk to her && convince her to snap out of it. Say it is for her own goood. She has no business going out with a guy thats 16. He is just using her, Duh! You seriously need to talk her out of this whole thing. She will only get hurt in the end, if not pregnant!

good luck!

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When a guy goes to second base with a girl does he go under the bra or just puts his hand over the bra or over the bra and the shirt? (usually) and which one of these is most common to be considered "2nd base"

I would say under the bra. Only because that is actually being felt up.

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Is making out and french kissing the same thing? Or can you make out without french kissing?

Making out is more touchy feely kinda thing. And french kissing is just using some tongue. Its basically the same thing, but then again its not

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i need some non exspence ways to masterbate and it would be better if i did have to spend any money also i would like it in deatal ohh by the way im a girl 13

Uhm, you can rub your clit, finger yourself. You can also use a showerhead or faucet

The faucet is where you scooch all the way down ur tub and let your clit be stimulated by the running water, but dont make it hott. Just make it warm enough.

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My question is ... how long after having sex should you wait to get a pregnacy test, to see if your preganet? See I think I might be preanet. Though the last time I had sex was last Wed. So I wanted to know how long to wait to get a pregnacy test. Or if it will show up right now if I go get one. Please help me out if you answere it so appreciated!

If you take it tooo soon, it wont show. Wait about 2 weeks then take it.

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My question is ... how long after having sex should you wait to get a pregnacy test, to see if your preganet? See I think I might be preanet. Though the last time I had sex was last Wed. So I wanted to know how long to wait to get a pregnacy test. Or if it will show up right now if I go get one. Please help me out if you answere it so appreciated!

If you take the test now, it wont show up. You have to wait about 2 weeks.

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My best friend lives in Jersey and I live in Florida. Ive been crushing on him for a few years now and im not sure if I should tell him. He has a g/f and its like every time i get ready to tell him something like that comes up..should I just wait until he is single or until im ready or just go ahead and break the ice.... (but thing is I dont know if he likes more than a friend)
My age: 15 Female
His age: 17 Male

Be honest with him. But dont break him and his gf up on purpose. It will be all bad. But, the thing is how are yins gunna see each other? and your best friends, what if it doesnt work out? Things may never ever be the same.

Ask yourself these Questions.

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i started my period july 3rd. and the past 2 days its been stopping and starting and the times its started again its been a heavy flow. idk whats happening. please help. thnks in advance.

Its normal, When you first start youre period. You dont have a regular shedule. So, you are gunna have an irregular one, until you become regular. If i am making any sense? But dont worry, its normal

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alright i have a problem interacting w/ people..i pretty much force people to talk to me. i want to be more involved and get more friends. The hardest part it talking to girls. I just never anything good to say. what should i do ~ im a 16yr old male junior

Just be yourself

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i have a cell phone & i was wondering if i can block people's phone number?? i know they can block theirs if they call, but is there anyway i can block theirs if they do call??

thanks!!

I think you can. You have to call youre phone company and ask them. I am sure they will be able too and if not, then just ignore them :/

Sorry

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