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I have a big problem with my hair - I love the length of it, it comes down to the middle of my back, but it is very very thick. Not only is it very thick but it has a tendency to become frizzy after washing. My hair is naturally wavy, but when I brush through it the frizz gets worse.
Can anybody help me keep it under control?

One thing to make it less thicker is have lots o layers in your hair and it will still have a long lenth but it will be lighter. If you use straighteners when you have dryed your hair they can make it straight and shinny! There is lots of conditioning treatments which can help with staight hair and you just use them with damp or wet hair.

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Whenever I search for a favorite columnist, these stars pop up. I only have 4 stars, while others have 4 1/2? what do the stars represent and how do you get a higher star rating

They represent how many times you get rated, and what the rating is. If you want to get higher you have to get lots of 5's just do your best.

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okay, there was a party last night and i became friends with this boy, i kissed him on the lips as a joke, and then he said "come with me to the bathroom" i brought my friend with me, and then he started kissing me. what should i have done?
Was it a big deal?
Am i stupid for stopping it half way?

Some guys are like that he might have been using you yes it was good idea for stopping half way, You hardly now this guy and he desides to start kissing you. Guys!

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i really like this guy and the problem is i dont know if he likes me. i dont think he does and i need help.

Well if hes shy around you or he shows of he likes you or if he stares at you all the time thats a good sign, Ask him out to the cinema or round to urs to watch a film and see what happens.

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I find myself easily stressed out and being that I'm only 15 this must not be a good thing. I feel like I have no time to do all the things I need to do, with my life, with school work, a job, home with babysitting and I find myself unable to relax. I don't know what to do to relax. Any suggestions. Thank You.

Its normal to feel stressed lots of girls do! its been a in your teens which can put a strain on your life and make you hormones go wild.
Well with your social life grab a bunch of mates and hit the couch watch some films and eat aload of crap! school work you can only try your best no one can expect more of you! well just spend some time to your self watch some films and eat some chocolate and take a long bubble bath!

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i've gotten everything... sweaty armpits... can't fit into shoes.. pubic hair... vaginal discharge... everything! i went to the doctors last year in march or april... and they said my period would be coming in about 6 months - a year... and its the end of march now and it still hasn't come... my discharge has been heavy lately... how much longer will i have to wait

Usually when your discharge is heavy means your about to start! All girls dont start at the same time dont wish your life away! peirods are awful your lucky. But it should be soon if not go back to the doctors!

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My boyfriend broke up with me today. And he did it because he thinks I love my ex still. And that I don't love him...enough. But he wants us to be "friends" still. How am I to deal?

Just get over it! if you want to tell him the truth that you dont love your ex tell him that if hes that special he'll be willing to listen to what you have to say. Just be honest.

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Okay this is my friends question.. She wanted to drink just for the experience but then when she did everyone was bitching at her because she wanted to be like them.. Like she was a poser or some gay shit like that.. Well she just wanted to know why everyone thinks she wants to be like everyone else???

Because people are stupid, and need to keep out of your life. If shes wants to try drinking why shouldnt she go for it!
dont let some idiot stand in your way and tell you that.

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Does anyone know where I can get some good quality (preferably with an underwire), but inexpensive bras? (like under $20)

I dunno where you live. Which is a bit hard go to the shops and see if there is any underwear stalls, try magazines they sometimes have a section on underwear and then you ring up a number or go to that shop if its near you, use A clothes catalog they help and you dont have to do anything you can order them and tell them your size and they will be send to you in 2-5 days.

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I baby-sit this five yr old grl. She's a nice person when there are grown-ups around. And I get paid good money and her mother is so sweet. In fact, her mother is my pastor's daughter, and they both been good to me. But the little girl aint at all what i thought. she is so worsesome. she is the most whiniest little girl i ever met in my life. she's obsessed with thats so raven and watches it all the time. she bugs me about going outside in the rain and she insults my sisters. and she's only five. how do i handle her without losing my job. because i couldnt quit and do that to her mother. the girl is a handful

You have to be more Stern, Show her whos boss dont let her push you around if shes bad send her to her room. If it gets worse tell her parents about the whole thing and she might get punished for been like that.

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I blush a lot. If I get a tan (on my face), will that help make my blushing less noticable?

No it wont do anything it wont cover it up because thats one of your jeans you have, And it can be covered up with fake tan. If you do use it dont go over the top because it can look a mess and all streeky.

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Ok well I have tried to use a tampon like a million times but everytime I try to put in, It doesn't go in all the way even though it looks like it!! When I walk, it's realllyyy uncomfertable..What am I doing wrong???

Most people find it hard to use them. I dont use them because they hurt! you have to relax when doing it, get the smallest size and just relax follow the instructions given

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Okay I used to have really bad acne on my face and my back. (I know it's gross but I did.) Well now I don't really have any pimples or anything, I have like little red bumps, I think they are scars from pimples I had before. Does anyone know how to get rid of these, and if so, how??

One of my friends had really bad acne but its got down sooo much she looks great. She went to the doctors and they gave her some tablets. The scars wont go away completly but they will fade.

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how do you get that little black heart??

Hi right what you do is &phearts;
Thats all get rid of the p though i had to show you like that other wise it would come up as a heart

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ok this might sound weird so brace yourself! lol anyways... ok so whenever i shave my legs (like the half below the knee) when i'm done i have like these dots all over them. My legs will be smooth but they still have these dots. I think they get more notice-able when i put lotion on afterwards too. Its nothing like razor burn tho... i dont know what it is! its like the hair underneath my skin?? but its still silky smooth!
what should i do to get rid of it?

You can use cream, it will help get rid of them, and when you shave you loads of shaving cream or soap and do it with walm water. Yes it will be hair coming through which is a unlucky if you have just shaved, there is this cream called johnsons and it makes your legs look alot smoother and your hairs less noticable so you can shave less often.

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I like my friend, hes so fun to be around & I think at one point he used to like me too, you know how you can just tell? Besides, i used to nag him about who he liked and at that point, he would say that he was shy and such, and that he didn't want to ruin anything if he said something. Anyways, after a while, i started to like him and it was obvious hehe. I told him I like him and wells he told me to call him back when I had a chance to talk about it, when I did, he ignored the subject and wells i thought something was there but i guess at that point there wasnt. Anyways, nowadays, it seems like he likes me again, doing the same things when he might have liked me, but on and off..and i think i still have feelings for him..should I ask him about it?

No, dont bother its way other i think that hes just playing you about and messing around with you, There is no point starting a relationship after all that has happened.

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my boyfriend has REALLY bad breath. hes such a clean guy but he like breathes with his mouth open and its digusting. even when he chews gum i still smell it. and when were cuddling i just about die. and when he wants to kiss me it smells like dog poo and makes me smell..i cant tell him that will be totally mean...what can i do?

Be truthful and tell him, because if hes your boyfriend then he should understand and not get all moody because he trusts you.

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besides babysitting, what are other little ways of making money at age 14, and also besides getting a real job (bc my mom won't let me)

You could help around the house e.g washing,clean,hanging the clothes out to dry just extra jobs! that will get you some spare money doing them jobs wont be alot. You could wash neighbours cars and mo there laws just little things that might get you some money. Why not try a paper round? go to your local shop and see if there is any going tell your mum that you want to earn some more money and the only way you can do that is buy a real job!
if she doesnt agree to that take what i said first.

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I have liked this guy for a while and we have become pretty good friends...but only over the internet. we go to the same school and we know what the other looks like and we even say hi to each other sometimes. its really odd because i feel that i know him so well online but at school he's a total stranger. he hangs out with a weird group of guys and i noticed that all his previously girl friends r sluts, blond, and skinny (no offense to skinny blondes). i am a brunette and im definately not a barbie doll. i wouldnt consider myself ugly tho. i think that if he hung around with a different crowd he might like me. i noticed that he wont talk to me if hes with his friends. i think hes a really great guy with the wrong group of friends. i want to tell him me and him should hang out more in person, but i know his friends are going to say no to that. theres absoulutly nothing wrong with me. what do i do? sorry this is so long. i rate really great!

~ Loves a Guy in the Wrong Crowd ~

Mabe the fact that your friendship over the internet is so different from your real contact that, it doesnt seem right that you be such good friends at school because the relationship is different when hes alone and so are you. I think you should just carry on the way things are because eather way someone will get hurt and you want to prevent that.

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I have been married for almost 7yrs and since about a year ago I don't feel my husband loves me like he use to what do I do? Recently his coworker told me that he might be stealing do I say anything to him? I am 27yrs old. He is 25. We have four kids. We just boughgt a house.

Sit him down and talk about it, im only 14 so ill try my best anyway, Tell him that you love him but you feel that your marriage isnt going as well as it was. Dont mention anything about stealing until you have told him everything about the relationship, Then when you do get to the stealing say that there has been some rumours and you were wondering if there true, even if they are you can still work through it because you have a great marriage and four children that you both love and look after.

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