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Ok, so... I have a regular body. I'm pretty skinny, and just... well... regular. I dont have huge boobs or anything like that. I'm just a typical young teen. But I would consider myself more "pretty" than "hott". I'm not trying to sound conceided... but I have a prettier face than anything. But, it seems like all guys care about is "hottness". It's like they could like some of the most ugly girls just because they have a "hott body". Does anyone think... or know if guys will ever grow out of this and start actually looking at girls faces and caring more about beauty than hottness? please let me know

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aww don't worry
all boys go through this faze about "boobs and asses" but in the end a pretty face is all they're going to care about in the end =D trust mee ♥ and you'll find a nice guy who will realize this!


Hi. Alright so there is this guy and i like him so much and he liked me until... well... i gave my really good friend his screen name and she flirted with him and acted all fake when she talked to him and now he likes her. They havn't even met! I am so mad but i dont wanna talk to her about it because she'll be like "what r u talking about?", and act like im crazy. She doesn't even know I like him. I don't wanna ruin our friendship but at the same time im so mad... and confused... im afraid if i tell her then she'll tell him and he'll think im an idiot. Alright this probably sounds like another silly teen love problem... but it really hurts. And I don't know what to do. I can't stop thinking about it. Please help.

Thanks (link)
tell her you like him!
if you don't she'll never know so she won't stop.
tell him you still like him too =D
you might be surprised with his answer back to you!


Whenever I'm alone, I keep thinking about how bad the world is and writing dark poems and stuff. Once I nearly cut my wrists with a sharp knife. Do you know any way to help me have a brighter outlook on the world? Thanks. -Elie (link)
are you ellie from degrassi? lol haha sorry if this isnt a joke..

the world is a happy place too =D
learn to love yourselff! ♥


ok maybe its a dumb question..but what does "emo" mean?? (link)
Emo is a word to describe a "depressed punk" kid.

ex: tight pants on boys. =D


i really really like this guy we went to homecoming together and he was going to ask me out but i chickend out and now he likes my bestfriend i dont want to tell her how if feel she thinks i like another guy and he doesnt know what should i do


hopeless (link)
Well I would think you def. have a second chance if he did like YOU first =D
let him know you do like him!
it might be too late if you wait too long..
so hurry and tell him how you feel ♥


I'm 13 and my boyfriend wants to make out.. but, the bad thing is, i dont know how to make out! How can i learn?! I'm really scared and i want to make out with him to, but i dont want to look like a loser.. =(

HELP!!! i rate high! (link)
aw don't worry
kissing comes naturally
there isnt really a right and wrong way..
relax and let him take control
you'll learn from him =D
and you're only 13, so don't worry about looking stupid! if he's 13 also, chances are he hasnt made out with many girls either. so he wouldn't know if you were doing it right or wrong!


is orgy and orgasym the same thing?

thanks (link)
lol no.
orgy = having sex with 4 or more people.
orgasm = reaching the peak of sexual excitement. full extent of sexual pleasure

=D haha


My boyfriend and I are celebrating our 2 year anniversary next month. Any ideas on what to get for him? I want to get him something nice and special, but he doesn't wear jewelry and he already has a really nice watch. What should I do? (link)
You could take him out to an expensive dinner, if he doesn't already have that planned for youu! or you could buy him some nice shirts or a hat he's wanted if he wears hats..use your imagination and be creative =D whatever you do i'm sure he'll love, its the thought that counts!


i've liked this boy since i was five, and now i am 15. but the problem is that the boy duznt even noe im alive. im right under his nose but he haznt even realized. i dont noe wat do anymore. i cry every night b/c ive tried everything i could think of. its kinda like he's that guy that all the grlz like but he duznt understand that im not like those other grlz. i am actually the one that really cares. ive been in a corner since i was five watching him and now, i dont know what to do. i heard about this website and ive heard good things so if you can help me out, please, i would appriciate it! should i tell him that i like him? or would that sound desperate? i dont wanna be like those other grlz. i wanna hug him b/c i care, not just b/c he's popular. please help me. love, tiana
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aww ♥
tell him you like him!
you have nothing to lose =D
if he is making you cry by not knowing how you feel, you should DEF. tell him!
& let him know you arent like them
straight up tell him
you can do it =D


My mom is an alchoalic..shes not the type that hits people but the type that gets drunk then lays down on the couch and passes out..but shes so embarrasing..like ill have a friend over and she'll be drunk on the coach and i dont know what to say! but my ? is how can i talk to her about her illness? and does anyone else have an alchoalic parent because i would really like to talk to some people and here there stories..so leave me your screen name so we can talk thanks! (link)
Let her know how much it bothers you that she is an alcoholic and say in a non offensive way, that you would like her to get some help if she can't stop drinking. Tell her you're concerned and let her know exactly how you're feeling. She should listen to you and if she doesn't you might want to get proffesional help.


f/13. i really like this guy his name is zack but he does not know i like him at all cause im really shy an i do not flirt that much hardly. so how can i give him some hints that i like him? (link)
Hmm..well you can say stuff like "so who do you like?..I like this really cute guy.." and hint to him that its him =D and you never know, he might just admit he likes you too!


Does anyone have any tips about make up for the summer? (link)
Well I stopped wearing foundation or any face makeup cause your face will clear up and get a tan since its summer! =D and go light on eyeliner, since it can smudge easy in summer..and everything else i think is fine! ♥


my best friend told me he wants to hook up with me durring the fire works at the carvial in our town. he's older than me, and i really dont mind that. i just want to know what else we could do while we're " watching " the fireworks (link)
aw thats so cute! =D
but if he is just your BEST FRIEND
you shouldnt go too far with him..
cause that might make things ackward with you guys later. but just relax and have fun! ♥


i am a gril and whenever i watch "those special movies about sex" and how females and males reporduce i am fine when they talk about the male body but when they talk about the female body parts i get really sick and a dizzy. i have my period and everything, but it doesnt disgust me it just makes me quesy. why is this? (link)
I don't know why you get sick and dizzy when they talk about the female body? But if your quesy when you have your period this could mean that you are getting cramps, or you might want to be careful of TSS (toxic shock syndrome) from tampons, that can effect with you becoming dizzy and passing out.


im 13 and my boyfriend ( obviously im a G I R L) has been acting really weird with me. i recently wenT to puerto rico for a month to get prepared to compete in a pageant. we talked and we were doing well apart but then he wentto north carolina and has been talking alot and i mean alot to my best friend. i didnt use to mind on account of theyre best friends too.but they look more like a couple than me and him. i feel like there is something he isnt telling me. hes not the type of guy tht would cheat or play me and he wuouldve dumped me if he didnt really like me b/c thats how he is. i know him ....weve been together for 10 months.but something tells me there is something going on. i dont know what to do anymore. im scared to talk to him b/c sometimes he makes me feel like trash and then talks to my best friend again about it. is she really my best friend and how do i know if hes cheating or not? PlEASE HELP!!!! i RaTe 5s!!!!!!!! (link)
Well I can def. help you on this one cause this has happened to me. My best friend had sex with my boyfriend behind my back and yeah... what i would suggest is to ask either his friends or your other friends who have talked to your best friend. Because I would never of expected it to happen to me either and it did and i was heart broken. just let them know its bothering you. trust me it will help letting them know how you feel!


when i see like sex seens in movies and what not i get this weird feeling in my vagina...what is this? thanks (link)
lol this means you are horny and you might start wanting to have sex!


How do you get rid of dark eye lids and dark circles around your eyes? (link)
concealer! or you can buy undereye bag removing cream.


It has been over 9 months maybe more since i have cut myself.. but lately i really dont care. But see im trying to open up to my friends about this situation. I can talk about it in a journal. i can do w.e but when it come to explainning i chicken out. My moms even worried bout me being all "depressed" and "stressed" is there a good way to calms down a bit. maybe? or just opening up..please i`ll rate 5 if its a good answer and not some fuck just playing around and asking dumb. this is serious... and im tired of peoples fucking stupid remarks. (link)
aww hunn =(
I know how you feel cause i became so depressed over something i'd rather not say i almost ended up thinking of doing that. but trust me it isnt worth it, and there is a different way to deal with problems than inflicting pain to yourself. Talk to someone about it, a close friend, parent, anyone. they'll understand i promise =D


Okay I'm like really bored and passing the time by looking at pics but I need some other site to go to. Can someone please give me some websites?

I'll rate five if you give me at least three good sites! (link)
www.myspace.com

=)


f/13
ohk so i've gone out with many people b4 ... some were crushes, dares you know your typicall 12 -13 year old stuff only like one or two i really truly loved . yes loved i would do anything for them. i have had my heart broken a couple of times and i have broken a few ... but why is it that all a sudden i feel like love can be/ is such a scary thing ? (link)
Love is so scary because you are giving someone the opportunity to break your heart. You're trusting them with your heart, and sometimes they can completely crush you. But you will fall in love one day with the right person who won't break your heart =D
*i did already* :) and you will too.




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