|
cheating
im 13 and my boyfriend ( obviously im a G I R L) has been acting really weird with me. i recently wenT to puerto rico for a month to get prepared to compete in a pageant. we talked and we were doing well apart but then he wentto north carolina and has been talking alot and i mean alot to my best friend. i didnt use to mind on account of theyre best friends too.but they look more like a couple than me and him. i feel like there is something he isnt telling me. hes not the type of guy tht would cheat or play me and he wuouldve dumped me if he didnt really like me b/c thats how he is. i know him ....weve been together for 10 months.but something tells me there is something going on. i dont know what to do anymore. im scared to talk to him b/c sometimes he makes me feel like trash and then talks to my best friend again about it. is she really my best friend and how do i know if hes cheating or not? PlEASE HELP!!!! i RaTe 5s!!!!!!!!
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Okay...I started dating my X when I was 13 years old. He used to be good and nice and everything. Well after three years he betrayed me and slept with another girl. Obviously it's over. During the period I went out with him, I didn't feel things were right sometimes...and intuition proved me right. Now I'm not saying that your suspisions are right, but they may be. You may just be a little paranoid that your boyfriend and your best friend are so close. But if your uncomfortable about it and you try to tell him how you feel, he shouldn't make you feel like trash. If he cares for you, he'll understand. Your best friend shouldn't let him talk to her about you anyway, she's supposed to be on your side, that's why she's your best friend. Maybe you should talk to her about it, and if you still feel something is wrong or your best friend makes you feel like trash also, then I'd say that maybe the best thing for YOU, is to ditch them. Intuition is almost always right, that is why God gave that ability to women LoL. Hope I helped any!
]
Ok first of all, if he makes you feel like a Trash then it is not good..
these are signs of cheating...
1. more time hanging out with his "buddies"
2. spends more time on phone or internet but it isnt you his talking with.
3. changes how he dress or his hair style
4. gets all interested in band or singer that he didnt use to listen
5. accuses YOU of cheating out of guilt
6. try to pick a fight so he can use that as a reason to break up
7. asks weird question
8. try to avoid you ... but very subtly..
and this one is most important one of all
if you think that his cheating, he probably is... i mean a girl cant get a idea like that out of thin air. i mean no air is that thin
and besides, trust your instints...unless you are one of those girls who are insecure which i dont think you are ...
so looks at these cheating signs and see if any of them matches...
hope i helped and hope everything works out
and PS
if he did cheat, then his a lying phoney and its all good for ya because then now you can get a guy who really loves you SO YOU GO AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP GIRL!
ciao~
]
first off, if he makes you feel like trash when you talk to him, why are you with him?
but you should try talking to him about it. talk to your friend about it too.
Don't assume anything, because assuming can often be wrong. Talk about it, and find some information out first.
]
she probably has nicer tits than you.
]
You need to talk to them both separately and see if their stories jive. It doesn't help anything to sit and worry about what is or isn't going on. So talk to them and see what you can find out. If he is going to make you feel like trash...dump him. You don't make someone you love feel like trash. :)
]
Ok..so. If this guy is really cheating, dump his sorry self. But no...talk to him. If he treats you like trash, hes trash! Adn if ur best friend would reallt do that to you..shes not a very good friend. My advice is to talk to them and if your really paranoid, get a private investogator!
Hope we helped
love -ish adn lili-
]
Well I can def. help you on this one cause this has happened to me. My best friend had sex with my boyfriend behind my back and yeah... what i would suggest is to ask either his friends or your other friends who have talked to your best friend. Because I would never of expected it to happen to me either and it did and i was heart broken. just let them know its bothering you. trust me it will help letting them know how you feel!
]
More Questions: |