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okay...i started talking to this one guy. he's really cute and nice. i have always thought that he was hott. so i started talking to him and i told my friend that i was starting to like him. so now she started talking to him and she likes him too. she's prettier than me and always gets the guy she wants. she did this last time i liked a guy too. she started talking to him and then he kind of started ignoring me and only paying attention to her. then in school today she told the guy's friend that i liked him. which i dont think is right cause the the friend will tell him and i dont want him to think that im weird cause i just started talking to him like 4 days ago. plus i dont know if the guy still likes his ex girlfriend cause she is always around him. well my friend flirts with him online even though she knows i like him. she goes from guy to guy to guy. and one time even a girl. what should i do about her? i already told her that i really like this kid and that i am mad that she is trying to take him. plus she is probably gonna go out with another kid soon? what should i do about her? and what do i say when the guy i like askes me about what his friend will tell him?
PLEASE I NEED HELP.ILL RATE 5'S
K THANKS IN ADVANCE
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First you need to stick up to your friend. I wouldnt even be friends with her she sounds two faced. Tell her that it made you mad the she told someone what you said and that she is flirting with him. If she says so then tell her you dont want to be her friend. Then onco the guy ask you about the liking thing say that your not like in love you just have a lil crush and you think hes a cool guy. Then to get revenge on your friend tellhim if he goes out with her chances are she will cheat and or brake up with him after a week or so. I wouldnt be friends with this girl anymore. And tell the guy tha tyou just have a lil very lil crush and hes a good friend. Hope i helped and hope it works out.
♥ jackie
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i sorta have a complicated situation here. well, not really, but it involves boys, what else.
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i have this really good friend named sarah who's dating michael. michael & katy are really close. well, they're going out, aren't they? its just that, michael's in my art class, and hes really nice and reminds me of this boy i totally fell for who moved away. today in art class this one girl said, "you two should get busy," but she didn't mean it like, you know, she meant it like we should start our project. and he just smiled at me. whats going on? (link)
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He could like you but wait for more hints. Don't go out with him if he does at least not till hes single. I dont know if he would be a good boyfriend because he could be a cheater so be carfull.
♥ jackie
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ok so i REALLY love my boyfriend..but lately since i told him that his best friend rapped me..he started getting...controlling and like now whenever i say somthing hell scream and say BITCH SHUT UP...then hell say "oh im sorry baby" and everything is fine but he hit me a couple of times..i told my best friend and she told me to break up with him..but i LOVEE him! and..if i i do decide to break up with him..im scared hell like..kill me or somthingg!
plz help me.i dont know where else im going to get help!
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Your friends right break up with him. If you continue to go out with him he could hurt you really bad. If its to hard to break up with him right now then sit down and talk to him. Tell him you really dont like it when he hits you and yells at you. Tell him that if hes mad about his freind that he shouldnt take it out on you because it wasnt you fault. Just talk to him and tell him what you think. If he continues to hit you still after the tell someone and break up with him. You r 14 try not to fall in love with him find the right guy and hes not the one.
♥ jackie
Let me know what happens.
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I really don't know if I did the right thing breaking up with my boyfriend. Every one I talked to has said I've done the right thing. Well anyway, my ex had "friends" who called me names all the time right in front of him and he never did anything about. Another occurance was when one of his friends threw dry glue at right in front of him. Well he just watched it happen. I have no problem with standing up for myself. It's just, well I don't know that's why I'm asking the question. (link)
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You did the right thing. He's sounds lieka jerk. If he really liked you then he would stick up to his friends and tell them to stop. Don't worry about it you did the right thing breaking up with him. Byu the way if his friends continur to bother you stand up to them and say stop.
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theres this guy hes 14 and im 12 and im in love with him if he comes anywhere near me i almost die. i cant breathe when i look at him. hes no popular at all with anyone. everyone kind of hates him because they think hes odd. hes friends with all girls and he knows i love him. i dont think he likes me back but i cant help myself I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE him. dont tell me to forget about him. (link)
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Well i dont know exactlly what your question is. Ask him if he would like to hang out some time. If he likes you to then he would probly say yes. Dont go to the movies though because then you cant realy talk. Go somewhere fun were you guys can talk. Dont tell him that your in love with him yet just hang out first and after a while let him know that you have feelings for him. This might not exactly be what you want to hear but dont get hurt if he doesnt like you to. Just say to your self theres a million guys out there and i will find one that diserves me. Sorry if i didnt exactly answer your question cause im not sure what it was. Let me know how it works out.
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im about to knok dis guy out so hard hell wish he can reverse time he is calling me ckikin cuz i dont want 2 fight him
i dont want 2 becuz his dad is a giant brick wall with legs and hes a rat
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Well just tell him that you actully want to succed in your life on like him and not waste your time over him getting in a fight. Plus dont worry about his dad because if his dad hits you he could go to jail and if he does try to hurt you kick him in the nuts. lol. Yea sorry if i didnt answer this the best. Hope you dont get hurt.
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I have been dating this guy for almost 8 months now (a year and a half on and off) and I really love him. I have talked to my mom once before about birth control (once when we had been dating for 2 1/2 months, once when it was 5, then once again when it was 7.) It's nearly eight months now and I really wanna get on birth control. But my mom's scared that by doing it she's giving me permission to have sex and do whatever. I explained that if it arises, I just wanna be as protected as possible. I feel weird having to be the one to always bring it up, but I want answers now! My boyfriend is away in rehab for 2 months so I figured now would be a good time to bring it up. How can I talk to her about it and get her to see my side?
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Tell her just because your going to get on birth control doesnt mean your going to have sex. Just tell her that you want to be safe and if you do end up having sex that then she doesnt have to worry about you getting pregnet. Let her know that she can trust you but you just realy want to go on it because you would feel safer. Tell her that around your age is a normal to be getting birth control. Hope it works out.
♥ jackie
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Well, Okay. There's this boy named Senad & I have liked him foreverr. Me & him are always on/off, and idk. I want him back so badly and things completly switched between us. In the beginning he wanted me so badly, and I didn't like him that much. Now I am obsessed, and he's like uhh. It sucks. Before he met me which was around January when we started talking he was so shy, and afraid to say the wrong thing. It was so cute. Now he's so mean, and bossy. I'll look at him in class, and he'll be like "What the fuck you looking at?" Just because his friends are there. It's so immature. Then when I am with him we makeout, and stuff. Sometimes I think he's using me. On Friday we were in a pretty big fight, and we were at the same persons house cause she had a few people over and he was like "Wow fuck her!" and then by the end of the night we were alone in the living room, and he finally talked to me & madeout. I don't know what to do? He says he "kinda" likes me to people, and tells me different. I like him so much, and do not wanna give up. What should I do to get him back? Someone pleasee help. (link)
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Wow he dounds likea jerk. Well since you really like him i dont know if this is what you want to do. You need to talk to him. Just do this in front of all his friends to make a point and make him feel sort of embarrassed. Tell him in front of everyone. ( What do you want ( his name here, make up your mind eather you wnat me or not, im tierd of being a big joke to you, why do you tell all your friends you kind of like me but you tell me different, Im tierd of being used, so eather you want me or not what is it?)
If he says i dont want you and then comes to you later and says that he does want you when your not in front of his friends say " no you already made you dission its over" Then maybe he will get the point your not taking his b/s .
♥ jackie
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hey i was just wondering if it's bad to keep your contacts in for more than a day. if it is, then why? if it's not, then how long can you leave it in with out taking it out for? like how many days?
i rate high!! please help me quick!! if you can't answer all of these questions, just answer as much as you can, and i'll rate really high!! (link)
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You can keep your contacts in all day but you are pobly want to put eyedrops in. You have to take them out at night or when ever you get in the shower because it can mess them up. You can put those same contacts in the next day though just put them in that liqiud stuff and the contaner. Hope i helped.
♥ jackie
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ok what is the most romantic/creative way to get a girl's attention? and i dont want to do roses or jewelry, i want to do the only kinds of things girls dream about. any ideas? i rate high. (link)
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Make her dinner. Her favorite food.
Buy something for her.
Call her beatiful,pretty.
Write a poem to her on how you feel.
write notes to her. about how you feel or cute and funny.
This is kinda corny to but cute. Lay in the grass by her and watch the clouds.
Might seem corny but this is cute. Ask her if she wants to come over for dinner. Cook her her favorite meal. Dress cute. Then when you are done eating put a slow song on and ask her to dance with you. Tell her she beatiful and give lots of compliments.
Cant think of much now but hope you like these ideas.
♥ jackie
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alright, i like this guy, his name is ben. well im in 8th grade, 14. ben is in 8th grade, also 14. i think i am inlove with him, everything he does. all i want to do at school is cry, because i want him so bad. he`s not really that popular at my school, but out of scholl everyone loves him. he knows so many girls. well, i have liked him for like every. i am one of those crazy, loud, popular girls, but he doesnt like me. im a little on the chubby side. i wanna loose 10 ilbs. i know if he thought i was "hot" he wood go out with me. i know i know this sounds bad, but if he thought i was hot he would spend more time with me, and start to like me, thats how he is. but, i need help, we are both going to the same high school next year, for 9th so when i o back next year i want to be beautiful, i really want ben so bad. i actully LOVE him. no joke. im INLOVE. it`s just the fact i CANT have him.
so what should i do till the end of this year?
wha can i do over the summer to become really actrative.
i am REALLY prety, everyone tels me, it`s just the weight issue.
polease dont say i dont deserve him or anything, because i love him. thanks.!
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Over summer brake just work out and do sit ups and all that so you can lose the weight. He should like you for who you are and not for what you look like. Well maybe get your hair cut a different way that shows off your beatful face! lol. Just dont try to hard on getting him. Next year talk to him. Try to become friends with him and show him that you are a fun loving girl. Go to this web site.
www.toneteen.com it will give you ideas on dieting and losing weight. hope i helped.
♥ jackie
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There is this guy who used to like me. He flirts with a lot of girls. But out of all the girls he stills flirts with me the most. He gets so jealous when I flirt with other guys and do stuff with them. We also talk on the phone a lot. But he is one of the bad boys who breaks girls hearts so I'm not interested in him. I want to know does any of you thinks that he may still like me? (link)
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He might still like you but hes probly just trying to get you to do stuff with him. for example if a girl brakes up with him he knows you will be there and he might just use you. It's good your not interested in him because i think he sounds like a player so don't go fall in love with him. If he does try to use you ignore it and don't let him do it. When he flirts with you ignore that to don't flirt back. Hope i helped.
♥ jackie
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Ok, I have no idea what to say when people ask me out and I don't like them. Everytime I end up saying something nice and i guess I kind of lead them on, but I don't mean to, I just don't want to be mean. So what can I say when I don't want to go out with them?
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Just tell them you don't feel the same way about them. like "Sorry i don't feel the same way " or " i dont have the same feelings for you" or you could say " sorry i dont have the same feeling for you but we can be friends". something like that.
♥ jackie
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im 11 years old and most guys would consider everything about me hott. ive done things with guys that arent good for an 11 year old girl in 6th grade to be doing. when i say i do things with guys i mean EVERYTHING. my parents dont care what i do and ive gotten high with my sister a lot of times. my best friend yells at me and tells me the right things when i do things like pot and when i have sex. usually i yell at her back because its my life and i should be able to do what i want right?...or is my friend right? (link)
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Your friend is right. Your only 11 im sorry to say it but your messing up your life. You need to stop having sex and doing pot. Just because your parents dont care doesnt mean do it. Your friends care about you and she doesnt want to see you doing this to your self. This may not be what you want to here but you need to get some help with this. It is your life and your right that you can do what you want with it but do you really want to do the wrong thing think about it. Start to succeed in your life goals. Your only 11 so you can still save it and change . I might not know you but Please don't continue doing this stuff let your friend help you. Hope i helped and i hope you listen.
♥ jackie
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There's this guy that I like and he's in 8th grade and I'm only in 6th. Everyone thinks he's gay but I know he's not. He's not too nice to me but I still like him a lot. I don't want to forget about him I just want him to like me. I know there's no way he will ever like me but I dont know what to do about how I feel...What should I do? (link)
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Well you should tell him so you can get it off your chest. Then just try to forget about him. LIke everytime you start to think abou thim try to put your mind on something else. Beleave this feeling probly wont last just try to find another guy to like. Im sure theres a really sweet guy in your grade that has a crush on you. You cant say he wont ever like you who knows he might in the futer. Hope i helped.
♥ jackie
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I have a boyfriend named Nick. I hugged him twice and he was happy but he doesn't ever talk to me that much and whenever I ask him if he actually likes me he smiles and says, "yeah." I don't want him to be shy with me. Does he really like me or is he just shy? (link)
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Well i think he likes you. If he sounded serious when he said "yeah" then he probly really ment it plus he smiled to. Tell him that he doesnt have to feel shy around him. YOur going to have to be outgoing around him so he sees that its ok for him to be to. Just try to bring the wild side out of him . lol . Just talk to him about it and tell him he doesnt have to be shy around you. I think he might be scared that he will get on your nerves. Talk to him and start to be outgoing around him.
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I absolutely love to read. Can anyone give me lots of great teen books (novels are great!) that you absolutely loved...Most likely if a lot of people have read it, ive read it too. so think of some good ones that not many have read. some examples of my faves are Looking For Alaska, and Hard Love. Just looking for some more options!Thanks a bunch.
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"A Child Called It" - this book is about a boy who has been beat and all kind of things its sad but realy good. The author of this book is Dave Pelzer and it is actully about his childhood. This is the first book and there are i think three more after it. But i only know the name of one of them " The Lost Boy". These books are really good you should read them.
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well i like this one guy we are friends but i like him and i think he likes me and today at school he was all like saying how good i look today and i just felt like giving him a hug and saying yiou are so sweet thank u!!! what do i do next time he does it?
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julie (link)
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Hug him next time then say thanks and give him a compliment back. Also just smile. After awhile if he flirts with you and keeps saying nice stuff then ask him out or see if he wants to hang out with you sometime.
♥ jackie
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What does "friends with benefits" mean (link)
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Its when you can do stuff like kiss and sexual things but just be friends. Basicly you can kiss him/her but still flirt with other people and or kiss other people to.
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ok i really like this boy and we've known each other through 3-8(were in eighth now) and he rly funny and nice and sometimes knows wat im thinking and i rly though about asking him out he knows that we flirt with each other its kinda obvesious and i was wondering if he feels the same way i feel about him? please help i rate high
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Well we can't really tell if he likes you. Ask him if he would like to be more then friends. Since he flirts with you to then maybe he does like you. Give some hints that you like him flirt alot. Tell him you like him and if he doesn't feel the same way tell him you don't want things to be wkward between you to.
♥ jackie
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