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Q: I don't know what you would put this under. but I am in a crisis people. haha I have to babysit a 2 year old on Saturday with my dad who wouldn't care if he got run over by a truck. The child is wild. He is my nephew and I have to baby sit him for 5 hours. 7:30am to noon. What can I do to keep him under control. Sorry if this is a stupid question but I am nerved wreched. No smart remarks either/ thanks in advance.

13/f. Neika
Try putting on one of his favorite movies. Play games with him and put on some music. Maybe cut pictures out of a magzine and paste then on paper to make him a book of his favortie things. Never let him out of your sight. Who knows what he might do just have fun and think about how much money you are making. Clair

Q: Okay, my mom is practiclly forcing me to go to homecoming. I really don't want to go, because I don't have a date, and theres no guy I would feel comfortable going with. But the problem is that she already saved up all this money for a dress and accessories and shoes and she is looking at things like hairstylists. I don't know how to tell her that I just don't care and that I don't want to go. Help me please!! I rate high!

Just go with your friends and then leave the party early to go and get a bite to eat. CLAIR!

Q: Does anyone kno where T.H.Harris Middle School is?
Try looking it up on google you should find it really fast. CLAIR

Q: I just got my hair cut really short and I hate it. I'm looking for some hair growth formulas, and I found Hair Formula 37 over the internet. I was wondering if anyone knows if it works or not, like if they have tried it or someone they know has tried it, or if they know about a hair growth formula that works, It would help a lot.
No creams please because anything applied outside the head thats not shampoo or conditioner scientifically is complete crap that I wouldn't want to waste money on. I rate 5's for actuall answers!!
In the 17 Magazine it said that people who don't stess hair grows faster. I know it sounds funny but it really did say that. So just try not to stress. CLAIR

Q: Ok I was planning to go to school about an hour away from my girlfriend, but in a last minute effort I decided to stay at home and go to school with her. I was transferring to play ball and this is my second year sitting out. I feel like I'm missing something. I can go without thinking about playing, but sometimes I think about what it would be like to be on my team and what would it be like to play college basketball. My question is simple, Should I get in contact with my coach and try to go away? I really don't want to leave her, but I miss ball so much. We just got back together after we broke up for about 3 weeks. I don't want to jeopardize anything right now. I really don't know what to do...
Follow your heart. It sounds like you really like this girl but you still love the game. You should talk to your coach and see what he can do. Remember your not always going to want to go out with this girl and when you break up you will be mad that you didn't go to the other school just because of her. I would change schools and see what goes on from there. CLAIR GOOD LUCK!

Q: my parents finally let me have a pet, but they said it has to be quiet and not stink too bad. i wanted something i could really play with, you know take on walks or something. Will rate good.
Cheyenne
a dog is all i can think of unless you want to make a really small coller for a hamster.

Q: What is a good teeth whitener in your opinion? I'll rate good
Crest white strips a brighter smile in just 10 days that last up to a year!

Q: ok well me and my friend were in this fight thing and it wasnt even my fault but whatever i always have to appoligize and i called her and shes like well its about time you called to appoligize and its like wtf it wasnt even my fault to begin with so should i be mad at her for sayingthat now or should i just ignore it ?
you should always forgive because you might not have tomorrow to do it. (A little saying I learned at youth from the Bible)

Q: I am learning inequalities in school. What do you do when you graph the not equal sign? And can I have a few examples of Greater than or equal to and Less than or equal too. I am very confused with that thanks a lot !! I rate high
I hate math to. we were just doing them a week ago. Ok I always remember the sign

Q: I had a tennis tournament this weekend and when I woke up this morning I had a small wierd thing goin on on my chin. it's about the size of the upper half of my thumb-and i'm a 16/f so it's a small thumb. My dad says it's Sun poisoning..it's hard to explain what it looks like, it looks like small bubbles. But you don't notice it unless you're really close to me. Does anyone know what for sure this is, how to get rid of it, or how long it lasts? Thnks!
Try putting lotion on it, it should be gond in a few days - a week.

Q: hi i usually ask a lot of questions on advicenators, but i hate getting the email that says i got an answer. is there anyway i can stop getting the emails?
In your profile go to where it says email me when one of my questions is answered and then click where it says no

Q: Hey I had my period for the past 2-3 years now. Now that I'm getting oldr and going out with more people I have started to use tampons. Thats not the problem, I get them to go in, but it hurts like an ubbearable pain. When I get it all the way up it feels like it is rubbing against something, like it is trying to break threw it. (it can't be my cherry I'm not a virign) My friend said to make it hurt less she put vasaline on the of the tampon and it went in fine. So my question is should I try the vasaline thing, or is there something wrong?

Thanks
Nothing is wrong (at least i don't think so) you should try the vasaline thing. If this keeps happening talk to your mom or older sister or go and see a doctor. CLAIR

Q: uh...
i dont eat breakfast b/c i dont like eating early in the morning at like 6--i dont mind eating at 8 but i dont like eating early. i dont eat lunch at school im never really hungry. i eat when i get home and dinner w/ my family and w/ my friends and now some of my friends think im bulemic...
i still cut and friends r asking and im saying no-- id want my parents 2 have 2 go through it again about knowing im still doing it
whatdo i do ? i justhonestly dont care what happens to me....
*sigh*
You should care. Try to not cut yourself and when you are thinking about it just go watch t.v. read a book or jog. Start eatting something at lunch even if it's just a little. I hope this has helped. CLAIR

Q: What are some signs of Breast Cancer and Can u be 13 and get it??? Thanks in advance!
no

Q: hey well i have really annoying nails, and normal nails are hard and don't bend, but my nails bend! and they always start peeling and everything, and it's so annoying! and everytime i get a manecure or put on nailpolish, it comes off in like 2 days!! my nails are sooooo annoying! do any of you know any way to help these problems or why this keeps happening?! also, i have hyperhydrosis, which is something when you have really constant sweaty hands that never go away, so do you think this might have anything to do with it?
please help i rate high!
2 words fake nails.

Q: I am so depressed because there's no christmas weather yet like rain and stuff (Orange County, no snow) How can I feel better
Go back and look at pictures from when it was like that and then just be like i am just thankful i am not in NEW ORLEANS!

Q: I'm a 15 year old girl. I am depressed. And I'm not talking about depression that has been going on for just months. Its been over a year. and it's getting worse by day. The latest thing I hace done to my self when I had gotten angry was cut all my hair off. I'm scared!!! I've tried to commit suicide before. but thank god i made it out alive. I cut and burn myself. I dont do it because i want to or because I wanna try it. I never believed in hurting my body. I always am thankful for being healthy and alive. I never went one night without thanking god for all the good that he has done for me and my family. I go to therapy but i feel as if its not helping me. I have tried asking god for help and still am. But I am not seeing results. I am trying to be patient but it's hard. My parents are diagnosed with depression. but don't take it seriously. They think I am just crazy!!! I thoguht I was too for a while until it really hit me that I had a real sickness. I believe that I got it from them. But I don't care how I got. All I care about is getting effective help. If I don't get some soon I'm gonna end up hurting myself Badly. AND I DON'T WANT THAT!!!! I had a bright future ahead of me. but now i just don't see it. I wanna get my life back and be the person I really am. I know I was created for a reason. I know I am worth something!! but i need help fast. I am not crazy I just need help before I end my life when it's not time for me. I am too young and don't wanna waste every day of my lfe doing nothing. Because every second that goes by brings me closer to the end of my life. I wanna have a story to tell about my life when i get old.I wanna see myself old. inshallah!!! and I don't ever wanna see anyone experience this problem not even an enemy.
The best I can do for you is pray! You'll be in my prayers tonight. CLAIR

Q: okay so this has been really bothering me *hence, the subject*.. does anyone think it's weird that i'm going to be sixteen and i've never kissed a guy?
Not at all. Make sure it is special and with the RIGHT guy.

Q: Im 13 and i really like this guy Brandon and hes a friend of mine but he liked my best friend until she said no when he asked her out. I have a boyfriend but I like Brandon more and hes really cute and i really want him to like me so what should I do? Im also a girl.
You should ask your friend what she thinks of you going out with him and then ask him out. CLAIR

Q: Im 13 and i feel like im not wanted. my mom has a new bf and my dad has a new gf and my brothers 18 and is in a serios relationship so i feel like im not wanted cuz there always with someone else what should i do?
Tell them how you feel and maybe make a day where you can do something fun with all of them. CLAIR

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