Friends change...How do you kno who is your real friend. I mean people can be soooo sarcastic. How do u kno if they are playing or mean it...
Honesty, trust, and fun.
Those are the basic things in friendship.
If you can't honestly say you can count
on them to NEVER let you down, and that
they'll ALWAYS be there for you.. and they'd
have your back no matter what, that's a
true friend.
So many people overuse the word friend, kinda
just as much as love. Theyre both very strong
words that shouldn't be used often.
x3jessikah
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what happenes if you snort pixie sticks???
Hahahah,
you just made the top 5 funniest questions Ive seen on here.
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So, i'm pretty sure I like girls. I mean, ive never dated a girl or a guy to EXACTLY know. (or kissed for that matter) but honestly i'm just attracted to girls and find male genetalia gross.....
But i'm starting to think that maybe i just find it gross because of my age and inexperiance and just... immaturity? and maybe I like the idea of having friendships with girls and confuse that with being in love with them? I just dont know.
I have told people I am bi, but never told someone I was actually a lesbian. Also, all the guys im friensd with are gay. I have like no straight men in my life besides my father and older brother lol, if that matters....
Oh, and I watch/enjoy girl on girl action frequently and i just dont know who i can see myself spending the rest of my life with: a man, or woman? I can't see myself with EITHER! :-p
Well first off, a lot of girls go through this.
It's mainly because you're young, try not to stress on it, you figure things out as you get older.
Anyways.. I still find the male genitals gross hahah.. because, well..look at them.
I've madeout with a girl before [drunk but thats not much of an excuse] but that doesn't make me even bi, because I don't find myself attracted.
But yeah, like I said, dont stress, everyones like this.. you just need to figure out who you are as you get older.
Good luck! x3jessikah
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Okay My friend was talking to this kid online
and the conversation went kind of like this:
boy= bill
my friend=jill
Jill:So is kelsy still being the same?
Bill:yeah i guess
Jill:she used to be my best friend until that girl keria came
Bill:i hate her so much
Jill:why
Bill: she is weird and stuff
now my question is, when he said he hates her
was he talking about Kelsey or Keria?
my friend didnt ask
Thanks
14/f
Uhm.. I'm not miss cleo, and she was arrested.. So sorrrrry.
But my guesses, he was talking about kelsy.
I dont know, have your friend as him.?
good luck
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months now. Everything is going really well, but I have one concern: he's a Republican and I'm a die-hard liberal. Because I have this knowledge, I avoid any type of politial discussion with him. My friends are convinced that this will lead to our demise, but I don't know. I love him very much, we get along so well, and he makes me very happy, but I sometimes feel like I'm hiding my feelings about certain subjects from him. This is not like me at all; I'm a very opinionated!
I'm wondering if I should end it before we get in too deep because of this, or if I should just stay with him and allow whatever happens to happen.
Thank you all in advance!
Im sorry if this offends you, and Im trying to be nice and honest at the same time: But I think it's stupid that you would even think of ending a relationship with someone you care about, over politics!
I mean I'm a very opinionated person also, and love to argue, but if you're going to let something like that get in the way.. then wow.
Anywayss, just if you feel like arguing with him about something, do it. Just respect his opinions and I'd expect him to respect yours.
Hope I helped! x3jessikah
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I am 5 ft tall, weigh: 115lbs, 29 yrs old. My body is SO unproportioned!! I am very thin around my arms, neck, chest and stomach area, but have LOTS of FAT on my legs!!!! It drives me NUTS! If you were to look at just the bottom half of me, I swear you would think I am overweight!!! Can someone please tell me if there is anything I can do to lose fat ONLY on my LEGS????
Ahh,
I was just talking to my aerobics instructor about this [except i need to lose in my hips.]
And she told me that there is no way you can target where you're going to lose weight..at all.
Soo, just walk a lot, excersise every other day and make shure you move a lot.
Also, try and stay away from fried foods, they go to your thighs.
Good luck :]! x3jessikah
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is it conceited if you say "im hella nice" or "im so nice"?
Not at all, if youre actually nice.
But if youre not..youre not conceited
then either, your just a liar.
And hella... no. lol
laterr x3jessikah
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so the problem is that I AM A GIRL and i hate other girls. i can't stand them. i think their so weird and discusting. and i am a girl myself. and i only have guy friends. and i only like guys.
seriously i think guys are the only normal creatures in this world. and it makes me so angry hearing girls talking about girl stuff. it's just SO anoying. and when they scream cause they are so excited over something. it always makes me pissed. and seriously i am obsessed with guys. i dress like a guy , i act like a guy a lot , and i only have guy friends , and i am so crazy about guys haha
and i don't get myself.
is this behavior normal? or am i a weird person?
Uhm.. this is pretty normal.
But not all girls are like that.
I dont know, I know I cant stand most
girls either,but that's because they
cause drama.
Anyways.. yeah your normal, you just
sound a bit tom boyish though if you
as me.
:] Hope I helpeeddd.
x3jessikah
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okay, so theres this guy at my school who i REALLLY like.... but then he found out i liked him thru some of my friends... I was really worried that he wouldnt see me the same way (u know what I mean? like evrytime we talked i wouldnt want him to think, "oh, its cuz she likes me" or something.) but he doesnt treat me different, he kinda treats me... better. He's in almost all of my classes and we talk all the time. He sits at my lunch table with me and he always sits next to me. He usually walks me out of school, even if he has to go back inside, and... he tickles/pokes my ALL the time! But now I'm not sure if he really likes me, or if he's just being nice because he knows i like him... What do you think???
Well this is how I see it..
If he didn't like you, & knew you liked him.. that would be a reason for him to be avoiding you and being weird around you.
But since he seems to be treated you nicer, that probably obviously means he likes you too :]
Good Luck
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I have blue eyes and in every picture I've seen with me in it my eyes turn red. Every single time. If I were to wear brown eyeshadow, would that reduce the redness and make my eyes show up their natural color? Also, are there any other eye makeup tips that would be a solution. I know photos could be fixed by computer, but I don't want a reason for fixing..
Ahahahah.
This is a camera problem.
All you have to do is go
on your computer editor
and click "reduce red eye"
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i have this weird feeling in my chest area. im not sure if its my chest or my boobs because ya know, theyre in the same area. it almost feels like someones either sitting on them or its heavier. i can feel something moving kind of. i dont know its really weird. it almost feels like its my boobs. i can feel something when i breathe in or out. what is this!?
Well there's 2 possibilities::
1)If you're sexually active, you
could be pregnant [and only you
know if that's possible]
2) your boobs are probably growing,
because they tend to hurt when they
are.
Either ask your mom or a doctor.
Good luck!
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Ok so me and my boyfriend are wicked close been together for over 7 months hes older than me. I have a cousin me and her have been best friends since we were born she's 2 years older than me. So my boyfriend is unlike any other guy. I can trust him, but sometimes i wonder if hes really to good to be true. So him and my cousin are talking. I feel like they are trying to keep it a secret from me. I know because me and my cousin both have eachothers myspace e-mails and passwords. So out of curiosity, I wasnt even exspecting to see them talking, but they were. So i log onto her myspace look at her messages and i saw one from my boyfriend i read it and it didnt say anything bad but I got kind of jealous. My boyfriend and cousin are closer to age than me and him. She is wicked pretty and thinner. Im not fat but I have the athletic body and when im with her i always compare my body to hers. So I just found out recently that hes messageing her instead of her starting the conversation. So now im scared. He is so different from any normal guy. My parents and whole family trusts him.
So im wondering maybe he might be to good to be true?
Do you think im over reacting about this?
Anything would help
PLEASE! :)
Hey :]
I know a lot of people will probably tell you to talk to them about it..well,no.
If you tell them, they'll probably both take it the wrong way and then you'll all be mad.
They'll both feel you don't trust them, & your boyfriend would probably be thinking that you think he's not supposed to be talking to any other girls.
But anyways, just let it go if he's not saying anything out of line to her. If he does, then confront him, but other than that you just have to trust him [I understand youre jealous] But this is one of the reasons that a relationship is NOTHING without trust, because if you don't trust them, you're constantly worrying about him leaving you, and that's no fun.
Good luck!
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How do you deal with someone who thinks that everytime you question them on something they are doing they think you are criticizing them when you arent?
You don't.
You kill them..
Ahah, no. Just tell them exactly what you're saying here.. & if you're nice about it and make it clear that you don't mean offense, I'm sure they'll just tell their side & just settle it from there.
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how do i delete my advicenators account?
Why do you want to delete it :[
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okay so Friday i got my first period and i didnt go to school. its really gross because its like a REALLY heavy flow and it is just so gross. i have pads like carefree original.. but i dont like them. i mean they dont work well and i keep getting stains and its so gross. i dont like the brand im using and find it so gross about like the flow and everything. and im so worried like i have school on monday and this is my first period. like what the heck am i suppose to do? like .. wear am i suppose to put the pad and stuff. i dont even want to use a pad but like i guess im kind of embarresed to ask my mom to go get me tampons. and even if i DID have tampons to try like firstly, i would have no idea what to do like to get them in and like when to change them ect. AND like what brand would be good because i have like sports and crap. this is so overwelming for me because its my first time. and ALSO i hate the feeling i have like when like theres a flow because i just like feel so dirty (and since i have been grounded for like a week i've been home alot) and i just like take a bath and stuff and i feel clean. like this whole thing is just ew.
any advice??
ew. =]
Get pads that are branded "heavy" or "thick. [go figure].
& when it's time to change it, go to the bathroom, throw it away in the garbage that is in the bathroom stall, and put a new one on??
And as for tampons, all u do is stick it in, read the box,gosh.
And as for the brand, pick the expensive ones and the ones that say "heavy" or "thick".
Dont be embarassed about your mom, she had it too.
=] have fun, i hate periods lol.
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so theres this guy that i like. n ive liked him since the beginning of this school year, but he sends me mixed signals. like, i thought he liked me in like october (cos he kissed me), but he liked someone else. then we kinda stopped talking, just a hug n a hi once a day. at that point, i was getting over him. i was almost completely over him, especially cos of winter break, i never saw him the whole time or anything. when we he got back from where ever he was vacationing, he started talking to me again. then he kissed me again. n of course, i fell for him again. now, i think he likes another girl. again, just like last time. i dont want this to keep happening, but i dont know what to do. its hard to talk to him, cos i rarely ever see him, especially since my parents are so strict. but i dunno. i just want to know what i should do. cos i seriously dont know. and yea. is there anything else i can do to get over him? n i dont really want to talk to him about it anyways, it gets kinda weird..
Okay, well obviously, he's being a jerk and leading you on. So you need to get over him. The only way really to do that is avoid seeing him or having any contact with him as much as possible. After a while of not talking or seeing him, you'll get over him, fast. Hope things work out for you =]
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