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ok, i went out with this girl for four months (13/m), and she dumped me over a small fight and tht she "didnt like me anymore". i thought i got over her, but now i love her again. she knows but doesnt like me back. idk wht to do im going crazy i love her so much

awww poor huse its okay we luv ya hahaha jkjk
Everything happens for a reason if she doesnt liek you shes missing out. Your great and shes dumb. shell realize how big of a mistake sshes maknig and if not shes so not worth it shes flat hahaha

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Well, I'm a little unsure if I should be upset or not.
Okay. Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now and I found out a few months ago that I was not his "first" (talking about making out.) He was mine without a doubt. But it's not just that i'm not his first that upsets me, it's with who. It's this girl from another school named elena. She's a slut and she knows it. My boyfriend "didn't even like her" he claims. But, what concerns me is that if he didn't like her, what if he made out with me and he "doesn't even like me." Am I upset over a stupid thing? Because if I am I want to not ruin our relationship over something so stupid.
Once again,
Retro_Romance

dont be like this ovcouse he likes you. you do have a reason to be upset but come on he didnt mean it that way. and by the way i luv your Screen name! Mwaazz good luck feel betta Dianee

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There's this boy I like and we've been through a lot together and he's acted SO much like he likes me but now he's telling me that he only likes me as a friend. He even said he thinks of me as a sister and his best friend. But he acts so much like he likes me but then, people constantly tell him that he needs/should go out with me/ask me out/etc. He cares about what people think and he's tired of everyone pressuring him to go out with me and it contradicts how he acts around me. We talk a lot and he initiates it a lot and we flirt at times(not nearly as much as before, we used to flirt 24/7) but sometimes he's also kind of mean to me. And when I confront him about being mean to me, he's always really sorry and feels bad about it genuinely. But I'm tired of all these mixed messages and signals and the changes in behavior. I just don't know what to do. If anyone could give me some advice about my situation, I'd be really thankful and also, if anyone could tell me any and all signs that a guy likes you, I'd be doubly thankful. Thanks so much.

YOu shuold tell him that send him what you just said. See what he says. If he reacts in a good way then see how things work out. Im sure they will.

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Ok, There is this one guy that I know and I've known that he has liked me for a while. The day I was finally going to say yea I found out that he had a girlfriend now. And I didn't really care. I still talk to him and everything and I can tell that he still really likes me. He always says how awesome I am and everything, and I don't know what to do. Because he is like flirting with me but he has a girlfriend. What do you think I should do? Help soon plz

talk to him about it I mean whats the worst that could happen. But I have a guy friend who is a total flirt and doesnt like anyone so make sure you know then confront him.

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Well there is the girl at my school who i like but i found out today that she dosent want to go out with me and i still have feelings for her and i just cant seem to get her outta my head even though i know she wont go out with me i am still crazy about her and i dont know what to do please help i reall cant stop thinking about her no matter what i do i just cant stop thinking about her like right now i am and i just dont know what to do.

Aww thats sad my friend has that problem. But dont worry it all works out. Im sure there are tons of girls intrested in you just keep looking and as for her....shes without

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ok well i like this guy and i dont' know if he likes me back, well he's been flirting with me here lately and he always talks to me and stuff.
me and him used to fight all the time and then we started to be friends. when we have lunch he sits beside me , but he used to date on of my best friends, but they broke up about a month ago.they are still friends but they hardley talk to each other anymore. so i actually have have two quesitons do you think he likes me and if he does do you think that his x-girlfriend and my friend will be mad at me if i ask him out.
please help me (i rate high)
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I had the same problem and dont worry it all works out. What you should do is hang out with him out of school and try hard for it to be alone but if its not its fine. While you guys are laughing say I wonder what would happen if we ever went out and if he looks like hes un inrested dont push it. But if he is see how he responds and maybe you guys will be more then friends faster. As for your friend talk to her about it first if she seems like she would rather you not lay off for a while.

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14/f i have trouble with cutting my self and i really dont kno what to do!!! any advice would be nice!

OMG thats so sad......But everyone loses it every once in a while. I used to dig my nails into my skin until i bleed so i understand. What you need is a hobby....something to keep you occupied and happy. Maybe even some one I mean my friends just make it worse when im upset. Try to be more active and happy.

Get better and good luck!
Diane

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Hey, okay this is kinda weird for me to ask...but is it wrong for you to have a bf, or well, not a bf..but I mean at my skewl when you say bf, it's someone you just say you're goin out with, and not actually do anything besides hold hands, and im not sure but maybe kiss..at school...thats it..so is it wrong for you to have one without your parents' permission...like,i mean, not the kind where i haven't asked them cause I'm afraid of their answer, I mean I haven't asked them cause I KNOW their answer, because their not American and they have values and all that...but see I was raised in an American or International way, and so at my school...and there's this guy I like on and off..and he flirts with me...and all that. but even for the future..an I asked my sister if it's okay with her anyway coz even though she's not allowed she had 2 before without my parents finding out, but she said no, it's better not to...so is it okay for me to go ahead when they've all said no, because it's not fair, and it's my life..and even though I'm young, I know it has nothing to with age, they will never let me have a bf in their right minds...i dunno...life is pretty horrible for me right now..my parents are really mean besides that too...so i'm confused. Plz help m and answer my question. Thanx. I'm really sorry this was soo long. THX

Well I dont really know you but im sure its fine....so chill out. My best friend had that problem last year with this boy named andrew all you do is tell him that your not aloud that way if he wants to come over you can just tell your parrents hes a friend

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