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I have a "friend" that is sort of mean to my other friends. She excludes them and is very posesive of me. She gets angry when me and my 2 other friends do things together, without her. My other friends basically hate her, but i don't want to break the friendship off because i don't want to make an enemy. I hat being stuck in the middle!!!
~Stuck

tell her she shouldn`t do that to you! i understand why your friends hate her! she should understand that you have lots of other friends and you wanna hang out with them too. she isn`t really a friend if she only wants you to be with her and not with anyone else ♥

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hey there. im thinking about using proactive for my zits. the ones i usually get are either small painful ones, and these huge, cystic ones. they scar, and i have so many scars on my face from acne..and i was wondering if proactive works for both the little ones and the big lump ones that are really painful and beneath the skin, does anyone know what i mean? well if anyone has any personal experiences with the zits im talking about, and/or proactive, please help me!! im just wondering if proactive is right for my kind of skin? thank you!!

i never used proactiv before but i think i need it cuz i usually get those small painful zits too. a few of my friends use proactiv and they say it works really good! if you want to use proactiv then go ahead but i don`t think you should use it if you have sensitive skin ♥

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Hi my name is aaron. i used to have alot of friends most were girls and lots of girlfriends. But now none of them relly pay attention to me do any girls know what i can do to get them to like me...i have hered about ignoring them

you can flirt with them but you should only do it if you like some of the girls. if you don`t really like a girl you shouldn`t flirt with her because then you`d be giving her mixed signals and you could end up breaking her heart! ♥

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A while ago, my classmates and peers used to make fun of me a while ago because of my "different" style of clothing. Now I realize that the style wasn't me and I changed it. Now, I'm always afriad of being judged, even though I'm not "openly" judged anymore (I used to be called names because I guess my peers thought I was goth). I know I shouldn't be, but I always am. Please help me get over this! Thanks so much!

i`d ignore them. if they can`t accept you for the way you are then they aren`t worth caring about anyway! ♥

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I'm 16 and have never kissed, dated, or even gone out with a guy. IS this really wierd? I'm not ugly, and i'm thin. But I am very shy. IS there any way i can get over this. I really would like to have a boyfriend soon. I want one really bad!!

no it`s not weird at all! everyone is different. you can get over being shy by start talking to a few guys that you like or whoever you think is kute. you`ll get to know them better and a few of those guys might like you too and then you might have a boyfriend soon! ♥

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hey i don't like kissing...i mean i hate it the last time i made out with a guy was a long time ago and i had been with him for 2 years so i was really comfortable with him.. now i feel like i'm gonna have forgotton how to do it and make a fool of myself..i really like my boyfriend and he asked me why i wont make out with him...idont' know what to do ..please help

i don`t think you can really forget how to kiss someone but you should tell your boyfriend how you feel and why you won`t make out with him. if he really likes/loves you, he`ll understand! ♥

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I just got braces a week ago and after I came home, I noticed these tiny tiny black spots on my teeth...I tried brushing it off, but they won't come off...Now it's a week later and they're still here..It's not really noticeable unless you look closely but I notice them. Can anyone help? I rate. Thanks

i have braces too and i`ve had lil black spots on my teeth before. it could have been from something you ate because that`s what happened to me. keep brushing on that spot where the lil black spots are and it should go away soon ♥

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everyone keeps tellin me i don't need to lose weight but i still feel i need to. does anyone know of someway to find average weight for height?

http://www.toneteen.com/tools/bmi.htm - you can go there and type in your weight and height and it will tell you if you`re in your weight range. hope i helped ♥

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Well i put some blonde streaks in my hair and ive got like one side which is quite gingery and the other is really blonde! lol i dont know what to do i cant go out like this it looks such a mess please help xxxx lush me xx

you could your ask your mom, a friend, or someone to go out to buy you more hair dye. make sure you don`t dye your hair a lot all at one time cuz then your hair might fall out! you could also go to a professional to get your hair dyed ♥

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Whats the name of the song/band that sings the song that starts "where is your boy tonight i hope he is a gentelman??" i rate 5s thanks!

the song is called "grand theft autumn ((where is your boy))" and it`s by the band fall out boy! ♥

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Ok so I have a good amount of friends and everything... but I am a bit shy. I just know I'd have WAY more friends if I was more outgoing. It's just really hard for me. Can I have advice on how to become more outgoing... and what I should do? Thanks.

-Hopeful

you can join clubs after school like your favorite sport club, art, music, whatever you want! you`ll meet lots of different people. just be yourself and then you`ll have a lot more friends! ♥

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do u know how to get ride of smily centrol on my computer?
lol, that actually is a serious ? though...

go to preferences, then go to expressions and click on my expressions. in the bottom right corner there should be a thing for your smileys. click on the clear button and then that should be it ♥

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What is the meaning of life? Is there a GOD? What reallly happends to us when we die?



from
Erin

LOL erin i don`t know the meaning of life. yes there is a god. after you die you go to heaven .. xcept you and dan! hehe love you guys ♥

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ok, im not a big clothes person, but i obviously want to dress that way i want. my parents are teachers so they wouldnt understand if i took on the look brought on by clothes.... lets say from hot topic lol. blacks my favorite color and i already have enough problems with my family and i dont wanna make them worse.

from
master

i think you should dress however you wanna dress. it expresses how you are and people should except you for that! you should talk to your parents about it but i don`t understand why they wouldn`t want you to have clothes from hot topic ♥

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okay, im starting to like my best friend, but i dont know if i should ask her out. its been a while since ive been with anybody and the friendship we have right now is really strong, but me asking her out might really change that. what should i do?

i think you should ask her out! don`t be afraid of rejection. if she doesn`t wanna go out with you, it`s ok cuz it`s her loss! if she says yeah then yeah that`s good! if you guys break up you guys should still be friends ♥

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omg i just got braces like this morning and they are kind of sore..will anyone give me some advice on what to do and how to floss and all that stuff?? thanksss

ahh braces suck! i have them and your teeth will be sore for a couple weeks. what you do to floss your teeth is you put the floss in between the 2 brackets and move the floss in between your teeth. it`s the same as how you would usually floss without braces. you shouldn`t really eat any sticky food like gum, carmel, and peanut butter or popcorn because the kernels get stuck in between your teeth but it`s ok every once in a while ♥

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Yeah i forgot to log in so ill just do this again. Okay so me and my ex broke up on March 7th of this year. I was IN LOVE with him well im pretty sure i was. He said he broke up with me because of him getting grounded *He was grounded for a month* and he said hed go back out with me. Well i find out he lied to me and really he broke up with me for his neighbor. Well that didnt really bug me too much til i find out he didnt want to talk to me ever again. To make things harder my best friends boyfriend is his best friend so they talk. And yeah then we got in this big fight a few weeks ago over the internet and he told me to leave him alone and that the best part of our relastionship was that he played me. Yes he was an asshole but oh well. The thing i want to know is do you think he said that out of anger because i told him i didnt want to date him ever again? i mean he might just play me again thats why I cant go back to him=\ But yah do you think its just anger or do you think he really meant it? Because I still wanna be his friend. but he doesnt seem to want that. Please answer this? thanks=)

aww i kinda had the same problem as you! my boyfriend broke up with me for a stupid reason and we got into a huge argument and we never wanted to talk again but now we made up and everything`s ok so i think your x boyfriend might just be mad. give it some time and you guys will be ok ♥

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SOOO i think the one of the 2 people that like me knows about the other what should i do should i do anything different

i think you should ask the one out that already knows about it because the other girl doesn`t know about it and what she doesn`t know can`t hurt her! ♥

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OK get this there is this guy tyler he is in my english class right. I love tyler with all my heart i mean i really love him. But the only thing is that we are both guys and i don't think he swings that way. So i call him fatty because i can't have him. How do i tell him about my feelings for lol

from
Tom

aww i know who this is from but it`s not tom .. haha. well if it helps i think tyler swings that way and you shouldn`t call him fatty because then he`ll be more attracted to you! give fatty a hug and tell him you love him. hope i helped! x0

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Hi. I'm 15 years old and i'm a bisexual female. I have a girlfriend who is a lesbian, but i think we'd get along better as friends. She seems to love me more as a girlfriend. Lately, though, I've been crushing on this guy from another school (a friend of hers from her school), n I'm afraid to break up with her, especially for a guy. Also since i don't know if he's interested in me. BUT i'm also tired of the strange looks we get when we makeout n hold hands, it never used to bother me until the thought occured that i could avoid all that by hanging out with a guy. I also don't want her to be angry, since i would be 'dropping' her for her friend. So what should i do? I'd be taking big chances either way. PLEASE HELP ME!
Sincerely,
LESLIE

lmao leslie i love you! if you really like this guy i think you should go for it but don`t let your lesbian friend down too hard after all she does love you. hope i helped x0

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