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14/f
me and my ex are still friends, but he tells everyone that he still likes me and isn't over me. well, his best friend also likes me, and i like him. would it be okay to date him ?? is there a way i can explain this to him without hurting him ??
well first talk to the best friend
it might be easier for the guy you like to talk to your ex because they are bffs
if you want to personally talk to your ex dont straight out ask him if you can date his bff
it is probably best to find out for sure if your ex likes you and if he does explain to him how you have feelings for his best friend and dont want to hurt him
hope i helped*
So my friend wants me to give him head, and i want to and all, It's just I'm not quite sure how.
I know that you like basically get down on your knees, hold it with one hand and stick it in your mouth, but it would be great if someone could just clear this up a bit for me. :]
thanx. :]
this page gives you a good explanation
http://www.ehow.com/how_1000252_oral-sex-man.html
hope i helped*
ok so i have this friend. Lets call her "Jane" Well jane is always wanting to come over and when she does all she wants to do is look threw my clothes and my shoes. And stuff. And when i say lets do something shes like do you have any money and when i say no shes like well i dont know what to do then. and she is like always cramping me. I NEED MY SPACE FOR OTHER FRIENDS!!! what should i do?
-cramped
suggest hanging out at her house
or if you want space for your other friends then you should make plans with them before she asks to hang out
So, this question is gonna sound really, really stupid but I'm desparate for an answer. I'm a sophmore in high school and about a year ago, I stopped being friends with my best friend and when that happened I didn't have that many friends and still only have a couple. I really wanna start hanging out with people but i just don't know how to ask. I've gone on sites that had examples of what you should say when you are socializing but its all really corny stuff that people my age would never say. This is such a dumb question but when you start hanging out with someone for the first time (not dating, just friendship)how does it all work out? Do you just say, "wanna hang out" and stuff like that? Do you go in groups? Do you call them or ask them in school, or ask them online? I wanna ask people but I don't no how I should do it. If you could give me exact examples of what you say or dialogues that would be great. I'd also prefer it if people like my age could answer (like in high school or whatever). Any other advice would be great. Thanks so much!
well i dont know if this will help you but it might
my best guy friend that i have now
i actually just talked to him alot on AIM just about general stuff and finding about his likes and dislikes
while talking to him i found out that he really like guitar hero
knowing this, i borrowed my friends guitar hero and asked my friend that i talked to if he wanted to come over
playing guitar hero turned out to be our main interest
we also started talking a lot more while he was over
and are now really good friends
so my advice to you is if you want to meet more people you can try through other friends or find a simliar hobby and build off of that
hope i helped*
i fell in love with this girl she is everything a guy can imagine. shes my cousins close friend. my cousin and i are really close but we dont talk about these things. me and her friend talked a whole lot and im usually a very shy guy around new people. i was with them but i didnt talk the whole time till all the other kids left other than me her and my cousin. i flirted with her so much but she didnt seem to do much back but she did alot. she was one a sugar hangover haha and my cousin wouldnt tell me what that is. i had her phone and was lookin threw the pictures there was so many emo kind of guys i could tell that about her before i even looked in her phone. she said her parents made her dress normal? to come to our family thing. im the kind of skateboarder big guy. she skates to! she also said over spring break she was dyeiing her hair every color. i just pretended i didnt hear her bc i didnt no what to say altho i think thats pretty hot. we were on a team 2 on 2 playing basketball and we walked together to much. my cousin wouldnt stop texting so we kept taking her phone and shed put up a fight. and when we went upstairs around all my cousins everyone was there but all i could see was her and i would just follow her. i dont even know why im righting all this but i can go on forever. i just dont think i will ever get this chance of this great of a girl again and i got my cell phone taken away because we just dont have the money and i cant ever use the house phone but whats the use i dont even have her number i dont even like her i think but in some way i think i do? i dont know what to do? help me! shes also a year or two under me
it seems like you like this girl.. a lot
you may want to try and talk to your cousin about this
try emailing your cousin or try emailing the girl
you might want to think about letting the girl know your interested
because if you dont, you might, as you said, be missing out on a great opportunity with a girl you really seem to like
but basically it seems to me that you should talk to either your cousin or the girl.
hope i helped*
hey ok so i babysit my neighbor and she is like 9 and her older brother is like 13 and im 14 but almost 15 and her older brother always has his friends over when im babysitting.. and one of his friends is REALLY tall and kinda cute.. would that be totally weird to like a guy thats like 2 grades lower than me? im a freshman in highschool and hes in 7th grade . thanks
well this one is quite difficult.
for one, you two are in two different schools
its truly up to you
some of the problems you might encounter may be the following:
when you babysit it might be a little awkward for you and the 9 year olds brother.
another thing is this
my friend dated a 6th grader when she was in 8th
for about a couple days to a week she had guys in her grade goofing about it
however, it faded
also, the kid she dated became in love with her and started to get cocky as well
he thought he was so good that he got an older girl and the whole grade found out
lastly, when guys are two years younger than you, they might not be that mature
that includes how serious the relationship would get
and also kissing etc.
based on the advice i gave you i hope you can figure out your decision. to answer your question, it might be weird at first but it might work out. hope i helped*
i lost both of my parentss
& i was wonderin if you knew any good REST IN PEACE SONGS
other then the ones ..
slipped away
ill be missing you
well my classmate passed away
and his song was
"youll be in my heart"
14/female
i am 4'11" and weigh just barely 90 pounds. I am skinny but not to skinny. and i never have a big appitie. i am concerned that i am not growing as fast as i should. i know that everyones different in how fast they grow but ALL of my friends arent still shopping in the little girls department anymore, my sister is growing faster than me and she is 3 years younger. none of the females in my family ever matured slowly. i get frustrated with myself because i still look like a 12 year old and i am almost 15. i am also worried that because i do not look my age it will be harder for me to get a summer job. does anyone have any answers for me? boost my confidence? anyone please help...
im not sure if this will make you feel a lot better
but im about 5'
and only about 88 pounds or so
however, i have a big appetite but i never really grow much
im almost 15 as well
if you want to make yourself look older
try putting on a little makeup
and maybe changing your hair
or even make your clothing more mature
i hope i helped
Hello EVERYONE! This is my first Valentine's Day that I really cared/loved the person that was my valentine. My boyfriend is sooo sweet and I want to do something totally different. He has to work on Valentine's Day, so what i have come up with so far, is placing a cd that i've made for him with all the songs that remind me of him in the cd player, so he'll be listening to it on his way to my house, i've brought him a shirt, he jus recently got a new car, so i took a pic with him today on the car, and i have the prettiest frame that describes him with that picture in it. Now I am stuck. what else can i get him? Please help, do you think my idea is cute and different, I would really like your input, thank you!
i think your idea is very unique :]
im sure your boyfriend would enjoy it
also, if you wanted to rent a movie
you could get his favorite
or just a cute movie to cuddle through
another idea to add could be:
you could bake cupcakes or a cake
and make it in the shape of a heart
like this:
http://www.cupcakefun.com/images/ideas/jumboheartyccks/jumboheartyccks_main.jpg
or this:
http://z.about.com/d/baking/1/5/q/3/cutcake5.JPG
otherwise,is you dont want to
your idea sounds perfect just the way it is :]
i really cannot remove my blackheads on my nose! i think they were there from a long time ago. do i need to do something else extreme like pop them out using a pin?
try a cream used to attack blackheads.
dont try and pop them because they are dirt under your skin.
my friend tried once and not only did it begin to bleed but the dirt just spread out and made it bigger.
try a product such as:
Joey NY Pure Pores Cleansing Gel
or
http://www.drugstore.com/search/search_results.asp?N=0&Ntx=mode%2Bmatchallpartial&Ntk=All&Ntt=blackhead+strips&srchtree=5
ok this guy likes me but is way too shy
and i like him so much
we are very random and just our complete selfs around eachother and i reallllly like him a lot
we are both on the swim team together
well he wants to go out with me but is too shy to ask
and he told my friend he'd rather have me ask
i just want to know a good way to say it
15/f
although you might want him to ask you out,
i wouldnt pressure him
just catch him before you both go in the locker rooms to change
just be like..
hey i was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime
he'll be glad that you made the first move
and he'll open up more too
hope i helped =]
ok im seriously hoping its just me.. but it seems like i have soo much hair/fuzz on my face and neck lately! and i hate it! im a gurl by the way.. i dont want to shave it because i mean yeah what girl would thats just weird.. and i dont wanna cut myself and stuff anyway haha. but umm i dont know maybe its because since i started tanning my skin is darker than my [blonde] hair especially on my arms and stomach and stuff, not really my head. but its like it shines in the light since the hairs are so light. haha what can i do? i use the little razor thingy thats for eyebrows and nose hairs and such but it seems like its back in like two days...
the more you shave it, the more noticiable it will get.
i've grown to know that nobody even notices it
and its better blonde than black or brown
so dont worry
you probably dont need to worry about it at all
hope i helped =]
my boyfriend ((my first)) just asked me to go to the movies with him. first date. i didnt answer yet because i think hes gonna "make a move" and kiss me, but im not ready for that at all. we just stareted going out on a few days ago. i want to blow it off. i dont want to tell him that im not ready to kiss him or anythingg. what do i do! i need an answer quick!
dont stress
if he tries to try and make a move at the movies just say
this isnt the right time
my first "real" boyfriend tried to make a move at the movies with me
and he's known for making out with girls in relationships
but i told him not now
and he respected me
he'll understand if you need time
hope i helped =]
I'm 15/f and a freshman in high school.
I know it's almost the end of the year but I've had a crush (god I hate that word) on on of the junior guys for the longest time. He's a really sweet guy and we only talk from time to time but I couldn't stop the "school-girl crush" from happening. Is it even possible for a junior to like a freshman? Or am I totally out of my league?
Thanks in advance,
Little Freshie
yes it is possible for a junior to like a freshman
one of my friends is a sophmore and she had an 8 month relationship with a senior
also, my cousin is a senior and is dating a freshman
so just go with your instinct
hope i helped =]
I've been wondering if I was for awhile.. I have had boyfriends, and am definatly attracted to guys.. but I am also kinda attracted to girls to. I've kissed a few girls and.. when I masturbate (oh come on, everyone does it) I usually picture girls... I could see myself having a relationship with a girl too.. is this weird? Am I normal??
of course your normal
either boy or girl,
you can like whoever you want
and people will accept you
i have 2 of my close friends that are bi
its not weird so dont worry
hope i helped =]
I am on my friends username.
I'm and 8th grader in school.
All of my friends have "madeout" with a guy.
I haven't.
Someone please explain to me how to "makeout"
Pleasee!
theres no actual "way" to makeout
it'll just come to you naturally on what to do
dont force it either
my first makeout i had no idea what to do
but it just comes to you
also, if the guy your kissing has madeout before,
he'll basically "lead"
if he hasnt, how would he know if its wrong ;]
hope i helped =]
ohkay so i want to get my hair cut REALLY bad.
i want it a short/mediumish. and i want it angled from like my bangs. and kind of emoish. but the thing is i cant find a picture with that hair. cause i want to show my hairdresser what i want. cause i always get it messed up when i go. any one have a picture for me?! thanks
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=113055127&albumID=0&imageID=6033335
or
http://www.bbc.co.uk/radioassets/photos/2006/10/28/5095_2.jpg
or
http://www.zimbio.com/emo+hairstyles/pictures/3/Emo+Hairstyle+Pics?Sort=title
the last website has lots of pics^^
What are some good PG13 movies for teens
that are like Mean Girls, John Tucker Must
Die, and Bring It On All Or Nothing??
Basically any movies that talk about love
and cliques. haha thanks =)
love dont cost a thing
sleepover
the breakfast club
10 things i hate about you
sugar and spice
theres a couple.. hope you like
Ok, so it's spring break. My friend and I have been wanting to hang out since before this vacation. [We've beeen friends since 8th gr. and now we're in 9th].
We haven't hung out once YET, and we're pretty close.
However, she's asked me to go bowling yesterday with her boyfriend who's a junior. I said no, because a) my mom said no, and b) becuase I don't really feel comfortable. Then later on in the day, she asked me if i could sleep over her house [that night.] She didn't really get back to me on the idea, so my whole family brought me out to pizza. I told her that I'd be online later on that night to discuss plans for whenever.
So, I went online at about 8, and she suggested for tomorrow-[which is today]. I said OK, I'll be online tomorrow, let me know what you want to do then.
I haven't been on AIM because of it. (In other words, I'm kind of ignoring her.) I don't really want to do anything today, and it's already 2:00.
Then again, I don't want her to get mad & make it seem like I can never hang out. I love her to death, I just don't ever want to do anything.
I can't do anything tomorrow because I'm babysitting at 4. :(
So what should I do? I don't want to ignore her...
Sincerely
-The Lost One..
you probably shouldn't ignore her, but i don't understand why you don't want to hang out with her? you should probably give her a chance, you might find out that you love hanging out with her.. but don't ignore her.. that will only make things worse
How can you ask a guy if he likes you still without sounding desperate?...I know he used to like me but now he doesn't say it...he's not his old self..and I just want to know..how can I?
try just saying, so, who are you into nowadays