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What Do you Guys Say?
So, this question is gonna sound really, really stupid but I'm desparate for an answer. I'm a sophmore in high school and about a year ago, I stopped being friends with my best friend and when that happened I didn't have that many friends and still only have a couple. I really wanna start hanging out with people but i just don't know how to ask. I've gone on sites that had examples of what you should say when you are socializing but its all really corny stuff that people my age would never say. This is such a dumb question but when you start hanging out with someone for the first time (not dating, just friendship)how does it all work out? Do you just say, "wanna hang out" and stuff like that? Do you go in groups? Do you call them or ask them in school, or ask them online? I wanna ask people but I don't no how I should do it. If you could give me exact examples of what you say or dialogues that would be great. I'd also prefer it if people like my age could answer (like in high school or whatever). Any other advice would be great. Thanks so much!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
well i dont know if this will help you but it might
my best guy friend that i have now
i actually just talked to him alot on AIM just about general stuff and finding about his likes and dislikes
while talking to him i found out that he really like guitar hero
knowing this, i borrowed my friends guitar hero and asked my friend that i talked to if he wanted to come over
playing guitar hero turned out to be our main interest
we also started talking a lot more while he was over
and are now really good friends
so my advice to you is if you want to meet more people you can try through other friends or find a simliar hobby and build off of that
hope i helped*
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Well I mean it's not a stupid question but you do gotta ask. I mean wanna hang out doesn't sound corny to me. I mean you know you are just talking about stuff and you just like throw it in there. You wanna do something this weekend? You wanna go see that new movie? You wanna grab some food this weekend? Let's go bowling this weekend. you know stuff like that. Just kind of maybe like, you say hey did you see that ad for that movie 10,000 bc? it looks hot. do you wanna go see it with me? that would be cool.
you know something like that. :) if they say i cant do it this weekend, don't feel discouraged. just be like ok, well we should hang out it would be fun. Then you know if they seem stank or something then just don't push it anymore, if they seem cool then just bring it up again like in another week. If they are cool then eventually they will set a date or they will bring it up to you. If not move on to someone else. But you know it helps to have something in mind that you want to do or like to do.
Peace
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