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so theres this boyy... lets call him ben. well i had a class with him last year first smemster and we were friends but the next semester we had no classes and completely stopped talking. everyone is friends with ben but honestly i have never really found myself attracted to him. like hes shorter than me and hes not fat or anything but im alot skinner than him and he has terrible achne scars and braces. hes a hockey player and for some reason hes one of the guys that gets invited to all the parties. hes sort of a big deal. well anyways one of my good friends started liking him this year. he started talking to me online because of my friend liking him and next thing i knew we were kinda getting carried away flirting. i didnt really mean anything by it, im just a flirt. we would talk every day and he would tell me how cute and funny and pretty and everything i was. and say how he liked me so much more then the other girls at our school. well anyways my friend supposively doesnt like him anymore and he really wanted to hang out so me and him and a bunch of other people hung out at djs house. he was being really gay and annoying and i realised i liked talking to him online alot better than in person. also i liked talking to him when i couldnt see him. haha. he had a long talk with me before about hating prude girls and i think that meant he likes fast girls. well anyways back to the story. him and his friend had a plan to get with me and my friend. i wasnt sure what it was or who was gonna try and get with me. we were watching a movie and he sat by me and somehow we managed to get all cuddled up. i swear i dont like him im just a movie whore. well anyways we didnt hook up we just cuddled for a while. when he got home he talked to my friend and said he was pissed off about us not hooking up and that he just wanted to be friends for that reason. when she talked to me i was like okay thats what i want to? but heres where the advice is needed.. I talked to him online a little later and he was like " i thought something could happen with us, like we could have something or be together but after hanging out with you i realised we are best off as friend" i told him i completely agreed and that i really dont like him but for some reason... that reallyyyy offended me! i cant stop thinking about that. like ive been hurt really bad by a guy in his crew before... do they just think they are too good for me? there are pleanty of guys that like me so why do i want ben to like me so bad when i dont want him? and why do i care so much that he said that? help please!
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thats perfectly normal, well to me it is. i've been like that too. i hate when guys act like they want me one second, but whenever i don't do something they suddenly stop. its completely rude. that's how you're feeling. you want to feel wanted and not feel judged just because you wouldn't put out. and plus you wanted to be the one to let him down, because thats sort of like winning, but you feel like you lost because he said it first. you will get over it soon, trust me. he is so not worth it.
good luck :D
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its like, the clasic case of: you only want what you cant have.
just keep telling yourself all the things you dont want about him.
all the people in his crew probably only want someone fast. they probably really dont care about you as a person. NO OFFENCE at all, because im sure you have an amazing personality its just that theyr too dumb to see it.
im sorry youve been messed with by these dumb boys. just forget about them.
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