my boyfriend ((my first)) just asked me to go to the movies with him. first date. i didnt answer yet because i think hes gonna "make a move" and kiss me, but im not ready for that at all. we just stareted going out on a few days ago. i want to blow it off. i dont want to tell him that im not ready to kiss him or anythingg. what do i do! i need an answer quick!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? XkittyOkatX answered Thursday May 10 2007, 5:56 pm: Alright, so what I'd do in your situation, is to tell him your parents aren't going to let you go alone with him, so try to bring a group of friends along with you. That will make it harder for him to 'make a move.' You could also count it as double dating, and if you think he's going to try anything, and you really really don't want to go through with it, just start talking to your friend.
If you're REALLY nervous and totally against it, talk to him about it. He should respect that you don't want to kiss on the first date or anything.
iwantthetruth answered Thursday May 10 2007, 5:32 pm: just go with him and have fun but if you dont want to kiss him just say im sorry not yet. he wont think any less of you he should respect that you dont want to kiss yet. and if hes a jerk and doesnt want to date you anymore because of a stupid kiss then thats just because hes not worth it and hes a loser. trust me!
dont cancel your first date he might think you dont like him that much or something. go on the date have fun and just make it clear where you stand. im happy for you [really i am] have fun on the date. ahh first bf how exciting lol. sorry im a freak.
x0xqtpiex0 answered Thursday May 10 2007, 5:09 pm: dont stress
if he tries to try and make a move at the movies just say
this isnt the right time
my first "real" boyfriend tried to make a move at the movies with me
and he's known for making out with girls in relationships
but i told him not now
and he respected me
he'll understand if you need time
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