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name's chelsey.i'm 16,i'll be 17 in a little over 3 months.
i've been through a lot,and i have a lot of wisdom in different areas.
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This was me earlier.
14/f
i like this guy and i think he likes me. he knows that i like him, but i dont noe what to do...im not pretty like everyone else and i dont know if i should ask him if he does....whut?? help if you can thanks a TON!!!
Me and this guy are GREAT friends... and he knows alot about me and he acts like he likes me but I'm not sure if he does. thanx a lot!!
Well, then, yes, I do think you need to tell this guy how you feel. If you don't tell him you're never gonna get anywhere. I'm trying to do the exact same thing right now with a guy I like, so I know how hard it is, but you need to just sit down and tell him how you feel about him. I hope that makes sense and helped!
Good luck and God Bless!
hello ms. butt. my name is Suneil Raghvan. I am kind of concerned about my life since everyone around me says im a little weird. I think its not weird for a guy like me to love the colour pink and me to only hang around girls and cry everytime i get a 90 and under on a test or quiz. I am a very sophisticated and elegant young man from the very rich country of India. India might not be really rich in real life but in my dreams and justice of peace i think it's rich and very pretty and hott. My question is "what does sexy mean" this girl names Bob asked me a question called "Do u think ur sexy its a poll" i thought she meant its a pole. i became very low blood pressured and i fainted. What does sexy mean? Is it appropriate? Tell me! thank you. I pray and support your future and past family and generations and ancestors!
First of all, I'm kinda wondering why you called me a butt..?? But anyway,sexy is not an inappropriate word.It is merely an expression used to describe a person's looks, such as "I think that looks sexy on you." or something like that.Thanks for your prayerS,and I hope I helped!!
14/f
i like this guy and i think he likes me. he knows that i like him, but i dont noe what to do...im not pretty like everyone else and i dont know if i should ask him if he does....whut?? help if you can thanks a TON!!!
Just talk to him more and get to know him. He's not going to ask you out if you don't at least become friends. In time he will get to know you, and surely ya'll will become alot closer.
Hope I helped!
Hey. I been dancing since I was 4ish-7ish but then I quit. I started going street/Hip-hop lessons now since April. I have a few dance videos but I still cant keep up with them or my dance school! Everyone else is prancing around memorizing all the moves when there is me forgetting the moves and really slow!! I'm not sure how to remember the moves and speed up! Any tips? And yes i do concentrate as hard as I can but i forgot them all even after 2 minutes! Thanks if you can help x
ok, I'm a dancer, so I can tell you with all honesty that the only way you're gonna get better, and be able to memorize all the moves is to practice, practice,practice!!!Practice makes perfect! It also helps ALOT to concentrate on the 8 counts! Good Luck!!
i was wondering, what are some websites, for like teenage girls. that we can find like quotes, and like stories of breaking up, where ypu can find poems and stuff like that.
thanks so much
www.firehotquotes.com
www.boardofwisdom.com
They both usually have really good quotes and poems and stuff! Hope I helped!
Can anyone give me some fun websites to get quizzes and internet games from? I rate high for good sites.
www.bored.com
www.quizie.com
How do you get an orgaism??
Sorry, but that's something to figure out when you're married. ;)
I don’t think people have anything to live for at all. Most people live for other people even thought everyone will eventually die. I think life is pointless and there is no such thing as “making a difference” because in the end none of it matters. My teacher says everyone wants to be remembered after they die, I don’t want to be remembered. Some people live for God, which I think is stupid because I don’t believe in God. If I did, I would hate him, why? Because he has control over us. Killing yourself is wrong because you’re interfering with “God’s little plan”, right? That doesn’t sound right now, does it? Everything happens for a reason doesn’t it? If something happened to make you want to kill yourself then is killing yourself still wrong? If God doesn’t want it to happen then it shouldn’t happen because he makes everything happen, doesn’t he? Can someone help me understand this whole “God” concept?
God isn't the one who makes people want to kill themselves, the devil does. See, it's an ongoing battle between God and the devil. The devil tries to steal people's souls, by putting obstacles in our life. Some people just give in to the obstacles, allowing the devil to take their souls in hell with him when they commit suicide, or start worshiping him. If you believe in Jesus, then their is definately a purpose in life, because when you die you will go to heaven and have everlasting salvation in a place that is unimaginably wonderful.Don't let the obstacles the devil throws your way sway you from God. Hope that answered your question, or helped. God Bless.
ok so im 13 im 5,3. im not fat but i think i have big thighs my mum says i dont but im really self consious of it. but whats really bugging me is the stretch marks on them they look horrible i no you can get cream and things but i dont think my mum would let me. can anyone give me advice???????????????????
Stretch marks are usually a sign of excess skin. Just excercise more, and you should notice them disappearing, along with your skin firming up. Good luck!
14/m
what are ways that i can pull my girlfriend aside from all our friends and get our first kiss? like what are ideas that i can do? what are things that i can bring up the romantic event once i pull her aside?
Background: she has been getting annoyed with me for absolutly no apparent reason, sometimes just because im around-we go to the same school, and are in the same classes, and hang around the same group of friends. sometimes i get the impression that she gets annoyed whenever i pull her aside for a while just to cuddle with her, or talk by ourselves, its like she thinks i am hogging her from everyone, when really its just some of our friends are so obsessive with her (they are almost all girls, we have like 2 or 3 other guy friends) and they (a few girls) like obessess with her and shit. so how can i pull her aside without her thinking im trying to hog her to myself?? thanks for the help!
Maybe she's upset because she feels like you don't want to be affectionate in public with her. Try just grabbing her hand, even when ya'll are around your friends, and don't act ashamed to cuddle. Hope I helped and Good Luck!
Well, I'm not fat and that's what my friends tell me. Last year I lost a load of weight but the dress I have for the Spring Fling looks absolutely adorable on me when others and I look at it. It's just when I took a picture in it yesterday (not at the Spring Fling), I looked fat. My face was fat. My friend told me that the camera always adds a extra pound or so to you, but when I take other photo's with the camera's, I find that I don't like how huge my head is. Is it that huge. I want my pictures to be pretty . I don't want to look like a pig. So do I need to drop down to another ten pounds or do I not need to just loosen up. Is it the camera or is it me? Please, help me.
Trust me, it's the camera. Actually, the camera adds like 10 pounds, so you definately don't need to lose weight because of that! Hope I helped!
i am the same person that wrote witch/devil with the thoughts in my head. well kately i have thought about it a lot and all that, well in class i kind of fell asleep and i was aware that i had my eyes closed and all that, anyway i had a weirdish dream and it was a dream that the devil was dragging this guy i have never seen before in my life under the bed and killed him. this woke me right up but i hnever had a dream like that and now all i can think about is that dream and that guy i didn't even know and the fact that i might be a satanist what should i think about instead of this?
You need to accept Jesus into your life as your Lord and Savior. The devil is trying to torment you,he wants you to sink to his level and spend eternity in hell with him, and you can't give in to him. I already answered your other question, so I don't have much more to say. God Bless.
this may sound scary but lately i have these thoughts like a voice in my head saying im a satanist. i don't want to be and i try to force the thought out and think that god is my only one though it always comes back. i got this book and it had a list of all the warning signs of a satanist and i had all of them except for one. i think i am becoming a satanist. i also do witchcraft but i never did anything involving the devil. now all i can think about is becoming a satnist i need serious help. i am originally catholic. and i am a girl.
Ok, the devil is just trying to make you think that you're a satanist, and if you believe it, then you're giving him what he wants and giving in.When you start to think these thoughts, just say Jesus's name over and over again, and that will make him go away, because he knows that Jesus and God are more powerful than him, and he's scared of them. God Bless!
This is a question about doing the laundry. I am not a real laundry-doer so i need some tips and help. HOW do i do the laundry. Heres what i know so far: seperate them into dark, lights, and white (the ones that i bleach). How much soap do I add?? Do i put the clothes in after all the water is filled up, and then put the soap in? Should i pour the soap in along with the running water thats going into the washer so it gets all bubbly? So, clothes, water, soap? Clothes, soap, water? The only dispenser i have on my washer is for the softener (which we dont use) and for the bleach (i use this one alot with the whites.) Someone tell me how to do the laundry please?! Thanks a bunch!
Put your clothes in the washing machine, fill the top of your liquid soap, pour it on the clothes (add more if needed), then turn on the washing machine to whatever setting you need, and you're finished. To answer your question, it's clothes, soap, water. Hope that helps!
my hair is strait up top and wavy down below. i hate having to straiten it or blow dry it every day. it there anyway i can get it to dry stait w/out having to blow dry it or straiten it
-bad hair everyday
You could try going to a salon and getting a permanent straightener put in your hair.
Hope I helped!
ok i know this sounds like pretty pathedic or something..but when i heard about anirexia, i thought to my self that..."that will never happen to me! i love my self to much for that!" but now im totally obessed with my weight...yes i do admit it... its like im always watching what i eat..how many grams of fat are in it..and now im looking at websites about anirexia..i tried puking..but it was to hard to do..is this a normal thing for my body to always feel fat?? i would really appreciate any advice..or help you can tell me...thanks
Well, it's not your body, it's how you look at yourself. You can't always be putting yourself down, or you'll just feel worse and worse. First you have to learn to love yourself for what you are, and if you're not comfortable with your body, then do something about, but don't obsess over it. Try to excercise more, and eat better, simple as that.
15/f ok at night i always seem to get frustraited about something... i dont know what but its starting to bug me. My mom always tells me what to do or if i need help like when im cooking or somthing and its really annoying. I no shes just trying to be nice but it bugs me and i told her too but she still does it! and my lil bro (11) gets all annyoing and clingy and WONT leave me ALONE! and then thoughts of these two guys i like keep poping into my head... its like everything could posibly go wrong at night... what do you think the cause is and how can i stop this negative frustraition?
plz help, sorry this is so long..
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I know exactly how you feel, and usually when I'm feeling frustrated, or just down, I just stay in my room and listen to music and/or write a poem, which really helps to get everything out. Well, hope I helped and Good luck!
I need new colors for my advice coulm. Im really girly and preppy so can anyone please give me cute colors with the codes and what to put it on. Thanks so much!!!
Well ,sorry, but I haven't really mastered the whole like making your own colors thing, but if you go to column settings, it gives you the codes.But, anywayz, I think some pretty and girly colors would be pink, purple-ish pink, royal purple, limke green. I hope that helped! Sorry I couldn't help more!
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Does anyone have any good ideas for a mother's day gift? I have no ideas! It could also be a home-made gift.
You could make a picture frame and have a pic of yourself in it, or make a scrapbook of pics that you and your mom have together, like where ya'll have done things and stuff, I'm sure she would love that, cause mom's are really sentimental! Hope I helped! Good Luck!
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Teen christianity is becoming an enormous problem. In hordes normal children are being brainwashed into believing their elders that the world will end within their lifetimes.
As a result kids aren't just kids anymore. Everything that used to be "fun" is suddenly a "sin." We're busy thinking about heaven and our church before we hardly even had a chance to see the world, and we're waiting for the "world to end."
What a crock of sh**. I personally don't even want to go with Jesus if there is an apocolypse. I never was attracted to Christianity. Your parents shove it down your throats before you even have a chance to thin for yourselves. It's a religion created by old men, for old men, and against personal gain or women in general. Well, being an AMBITIOUS woman and a FEMINIST I want nothing to do with this faith. I know I'll be getting some violent attacks from all of you brainwashed little turds about how right you are and wrong I am, and I'll sit here and sigh and understand because you're in a box that you didn't necessarily put yourself in.
So here is my question- what makes you believe anyway?
We have made a choice to believe in whatever religion we choose. You don't get into heaven just because you love God, or anything like that.You get into heaven if you believe that God sent Jesus Christ to earth to die on the cross to wash away our sins. The fact is, thought that if you truly believe that, more than likely you're going to have a love for God anyway. What makes me believe, is knowing that there IS God, who put me on this earth for a reason, and he loves me and everybody else because we are all his children, whether you believe in him or not,and I know when I die I'll spend eternity in heaven. That's what makes me believe. God Bless!
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