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I really need to get out of this relationship before I hurt my boyfriend and do somthing to him ill regret we don't even talk soo this is wierd for me how do I tell him its over but without beeing harsh
im a 13 year-old girl (link)
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there isnt a way just tell him you ahve grown apart.. you want to be friends..(even though it will never happen)
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Are you considered "sexually active" if you've had oral sex but not vaginal sex? (link)
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sure
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16/F
LAst night my boyfriend and i weren't planning on doing anything jus, out to eat and watch a movie at his house. Well after we ate we went to his place and pop in the movie Paranormal. usually scary movies don't scare, but this one did. so i was like jumping all over him and he had his arms around me.
well idk what part of the movie it was but things started to get heatd and before i knew it we were in his bed. now i'm not a virgin but last night i felt like one. we didn't do anything because it hurt so bad when he tried to put it in.
i want to have sex with him because we've been datein for a long time and i'm ready... or was. But i'm afraid that if we do i would suffer from internal bleedind or i would have to be rushed to the ER.
1st. is it possible to suffer internal bleeding?
Can i REALY be rushed to the ER?
Is there some way we can do this with out me getting hurt?
Is this normal to have had sex b4 and now it hurt this bad?
if its any help i haven't had sex for a year and a 1/2 now, could that be it?
Can some one PLEASE give me answers or advice??? (link)
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you might have healed. you might have an infection
or you werent "hot" yet try foreplay.
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I'm a 15 year old guy and, as I write this question, I have a pacifier in my mouth.
I was wondering, what do you think of a teenager secretly sucking on a pacifier?
Do you think I am normal? What should I do?
Thanks (link)
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are there drugs in it? it use to be cool back in the day... but who cares just tell everyone that you like to think its a nipple :-)
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i am well soon to turn 15 and me and my boyfriend really want to have a baby. my boyfriend is 100%loyal to me. i guess i want to know if i should go through with this. i mean what to tell my mom i dont know my 16 year old sister is already thinking she might be pregnant to. i also would like to know if it is expensive to be home schooled and be home with my child. thank you. (link)
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Dont. my mom had me at 17... and it sucked. for ME and her. we were poor. she never went to college. and do you want to do that to you parents. why should they support u and a child.
think about your life and why you want a child. get a dog first.
if ur sister is pregnant wait and see what happens with her. see how her life changes.
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Hi...
My friend smokes pot a lot and he invited me to come to his house this weekend and smoke with him. I've been playing it off this entire time and haven't told him that I've never smoked a joint before. It's kind of embarrassing to just tell him that it's new to me though.
I'm a little iffy on the whole issue. I don't know what to think of it. Should I smoke pot with him? It can't hurt to right? (link)
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do u want to be an fbi agent? cia? then dont.
if you evver want to be law enforcement then dont. you will have to explain it later.
or if you ever want to have kids and say you did not do it then dont. other wise do what you want just make sure its good stuff and ur not gonna get caught.
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Hi I'm a sixteen year old girl and i have had unwanted sex with a number of guys that are way older than me. I am now currently pregnant and am freaking out on what to do. (link)
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unwanted is very broad so i will say this lightly.
this all depends on YOU!
abortion
adoption (open or closed)
suck it up and keep it.
all options suck. im not pro life, but i must tell you that it sucks for that poor baby to be killed.
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Well im 13 years old and im pretty overweight. Im starting 8th grade the end of august and i wanna show everyone that i can lose weight. How can i lose weight before school starts? Thanks (: (link)
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watch your calorie intake and sugar.
drink ONLY WATER and some milk. if you want to loose it fast jog. even if u cant do a mile try. the most you work out the less hungry you will feel. plus eat tons of veggies and fruit!
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i'm 16/f.
i've been with my current boyfriend for 7 months, and sometimes, i feel that he's too controlling. extremly controlling. and sometimes it get's out of hand. i've never really had a boyfriend, so i don't know if ALL relationships are like this, or if my boyfriend is just a jerk.he alllways ask what i'm doing. which, isnt bad, i can understand that, but he makes me tell him EVERYTHING i'm doing, and everywhere i go. he's constantly keeping tabs on me, and has even had some friends of his watch me at school to make sure i'm not flirting or talking to other guys. if i don't tell him when i leave the house to go somewhere, he gets mad, and starts a fight. if i don't tell him i'm leaving somewhere to go somewhere else, he gets mad, and if i don't tell him i'm home, he will. i can understand him wanting to know what i'm doing, so i'm safe, but i really do feel like it get's out of hand.i'm not allowed to talk to ANY guy. if i do, i have to tell him everything that was said between us. i have to tell him when and if a guy text me, and he starts asking a ton of questions when one does. i'm not allowed to text back, and if i do, it can only be about school, and i cant delete the text. i'm not even allowed to be around a guy, if one's around me, i have to move.he's always telling me what i can and cannot wear. i'm not allowed to wear shorts, or vnecks. if i ever do wear a vneck, or shorts, i have to be around him. it'll be 100 degrees out, and i can't wear shorts, he makes me wear jeans. i have to send him pictures of what i'm wearing, and if i wear something he doesnt like, he gets mad.he wont let me hang out with friends. i havent ever since we started dating, and i'm loosing touch with them. i don't really ever talk to anybody, and if i do, even if it's a girl, he ask what we talk about. if i text anybody else but him, he gets reeaallly mad.he's always talking bad about my friends, saying i shouldnt hang out with him, because their whores. i think that he get's jealous that i want something to do with somebody else besides him. he always talks about how their whores, but he's honestly done tons of worse things than them, their not even sexually active, or anything. so i really dont think he has any room to talk. if i EVER want to go out and do ANYTHING, he tells me no, and threatens to leave me if i go.if he ever gets mad at me, he calls be HORRIBLE names. and sometimes he does stuff that he knows i can get hurt by, like if we're in the car he'll slam on his brakes while i'm trying to get my seatbealt on. he tells me to look at him, and if i dont, he'll grab my face and make me. he even gets controlling about little things, he get's mad if he's not my background picture. things like that. he loves me, i can tell he really does, and he can be the biggest sweetheart sometimes, but i don't know if i'll be able to take any of this much longer. i can sometimes understand why he's like this, he's had his past 3 girlfriends cheat on him.i can go into alot more stuff, but i don't want to make this question too long. soo, are ALL relatoonships like this, or is this really unhealthy? maybe relationships just arent for me? (link)
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get away. he needs to deal with his trust issues. if he cant trust you then you need to tell him to grow up.
why are you letting him dress you? stand up for your self before it is too late and your living with him and you cant talk to anyone even your parents.
there are no excuses for his actions. NONE. cheating or no cheating. do not let him touch you like that either. these are very serious signs that he will become violent.
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There is this really hot girl I've been talking to. She told me she's slept with a lot of people. I mean, a lot, like 40 something guys. She's so hot though and, to be frank, she's easy.
I want to have sex. She told me that she'd do it with me next week if I come over to her place while her parents are gone. She has a big pool there and she said she always does it in the pool so that she's clean and STD free. What she was saying was that the chemicals in the pool kill any STDs that somebody might be carrying.
Sounds great but I want to double check this. I'd hate to have to go to the doctor after banging her. Is she telling the truth? (link)
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you know the HIV sometimes doesnt show up for three months in a test.
40 guys is ALOT for a lifetime.
yes worry. unless you go to the dr with her and her it from him stay away. so many things a person can have and you dont get symptoms for a while.
good luck. and if u do it wear a rubber.. but remember you can still get something from her even if you do
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how do i shave my pubes? (link)
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new razor dont do it fast cut it short first
and except to itch like crazy
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I had sex for the first time 3 years ago, and have had sex pretty regularly since. I have always heard that it hurts the first couple of times, but it ALWAYS hurts me. And getting aroused is not the problem. I know people say it's because "you need to relax" or "try foreplay" but that isn't the issue. This may be too much information, but I can get reeeally wet, and I'm completely comfortable with who I have sex with, so not being able to relax is not the issue either. I can have a clitoral orgasm, so I prefer oral sex. But it just does not feel good vaginally. Could it be because I'm a very small person? I'm 5'3" and only weigh about 95 lbs. I feel like my vagina stays as tight as it was 3 years ago. (link)
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its normal. some women have pain some dont it depends on your position and the guys thing... size wise.
try to sit on him.
sometimes having a tilted uterus makes it pain full. but it could also just be the guy. and most women only have clitorial orgasms.you need a position that stimulates your clitorial while he is in you
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So I started taking birth control right after I ended my period like your supposed to, and then like 2 days before I was supposed to be on it again I had sex and never had my period but thought nothing of it. I continued taking my birth control for another 2 packs which by this time I had missed 2 periods. So once I missed my third period I stopped taking my birth control and within a week of being off it I started my period and it was pretty heavy and lasted for 7 days. Is there a chance I could be Pregnant?
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any time you mess up on birth control you risk being pregnant. since you have your period most like no. but you should take a test to be sure in a week. Birth control messes up your hormones, so when you miss it your messing with your hormones. it was heavy because of the birth control. totally normal!
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i went to the movies with this guy and hed put his arm around me in such an akward uncomfortable way..my exs have never really ben like that.
how are some ways you typically sit in a movie theatre? one, i know with his arm around you but like where.. (link)
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after six years of dating the same person i just try to be comfortable during the movie. those seats are uncomfortable as it is!
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I'm a thirteen-year-old rising female freshman.
Back in September, I got my first boyfriend. Let's say his name was Tyler. Tyler verbally, mentally, and emotionally abused me for almost six months before I finally broke it off. The thing is - I know I was wrong to give in to this - I lost my virginity to Tyler. I thought I loved him, and adults around me believed we were in love too, so I don't know, I just felt like I could trust him. I know I was stupid, losing my virginity at thirteen to someone I no longer care about, but I've learned from my mistakes and won't do this for many years.
Now I've got a new boyfriend. Let's say his name is Aaron. I've known Aaron for almost two years now; we've always been close. I'm Aaron's first girlfriend. I love him a lot, and he's the person I trust most in this world. Recently, I accidentally let loose the fact that I have a deep dark secret (that I'm no longer a virgin). He got curious and asked what exactly my secret was, so I told him I trusted him enough that I would tell him by the end of the summer.
I have no regrets about saying I'd reveal my secret to him. I know he'd never tell anyone. What I am scared of, however, is what he'll think of me afterwards. What if he calls me a whore or something? I know that means he doesn't deserve me, that he isn't worth it. But unlike a lot of other people, his opinion means so much to me. I guess I kind of need some reassurance in my decision to tell him. D: (link)
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the older you get you will see your past as something to be proud of. Everything you have done and everything you are is because of the choice you have made. have no regrets about your choices and feel confident of your judgement. after all you did break it off! You are who you are and if they dont like it then they dont have to be around you!
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