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Well, last year in 7th grade, my friends and I would get in fights/arguments. This year, in 8th grade, I've told myself that I wouldn't get mad over really stupid things, and I wouldn't get into very many arguments with my friends, even if they start it. Well, about 2 days ago, one of my friends, lets just call her, i don't know, how about Lisa, well anyways, Lisa just kinda stoped talking to me. I asked her if she was mad at me, and she was like "NO!!" and she sounded pretty mad. And my other friend, we'll just call her Brooke, anyways, it seems like Brooke has switch personalitys. Like, for a week she will be best friends with me, then the next week she will ignore me and just act like I don't even exsist. Oh, I forgot to say one thing. Whenever one of my friends seems mad, and I ask if they are mad at me, or if I ask them if somethings wrong, they just seem to get more mad. Sometimes I feel like my only friend is this guy that I have a really huge crush on. And in our little girl "click" it seems like everyone is pared up. Am I not a good friend?? Am i doing something wrong?? I don't know what to do. But I'm tired of being treated like a peice of crap. Thanks everyone. Much love! (link)
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the only thing your doin wrong is not askin them wats they're problem for screamin and bein so rude.don't let anyone push you around and taken no for a answer is like pushin you down the steps.if they wanna keep treatin you badly then go to the boy you have a crush on for support.you don't need any one to treat ypu bad when sum1 that show you respect is so close buy.also this will help you get closer to him
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i know there are alot of these questions, but im 16 and me and my boyfriend had sex and it was my first time. i dunno if im just really paranoid, or that since it was my first time, I was ignorant and naive. before having sex we did some stuff he didn't go all the way in because he didn't have a condom, but im wondering if thats what could get me pregante. I'm showing symtoms like my chest hurts and i have insane cravings in the middle of the night, also im having cramps and im no where near my period, could i be pregnate?? Also, our relationship is kinda dying, it's getting more and more boring and little things are starting to bug me. when we first started dating everything was so exciting and never boring but now its just kinda blahh... but i love him, and i dont wanna break up with him, but i want the realationship to get better... how should i tell him that im bored and what should i do about it?? (link)
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you can get pregnant if he don't stick it all the way in.all he gotta do is ejaculate inside of you and his sperm could fertilize one of your eggs.so yea you probably are buy a home test from walmart or sumwhere jus to be sure if you don't wanna go to a doctor.to tell him your bored jus ask why we don't do this anymore or like now it's type borin but i don't wanna break up nothin.but don't complain over and over again about it guys hate when you do.try doin stuff you guys never done b4 2gether but not anythin that will put you in jail.
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My boyfriend and I have been having a lot of relationship problems lately. All of his family doesn`t want him to be with me. Two days after Christmas he broke up with me, then he felt bad for breaking up with me, so then he got back with me. =]
We decided to start to take things slow, because we were so dependent on each other. Last night I got upset because he didn`t answer his phone and I was worried. I started crying and he broke up with me again, claiming that I made him feel guilty all the time.
So today, we saw each other. He felt bad so we made a pact. We`re dating, but we only see each other on weekends and only talk on the phone two times a day for ten minutes each.
Mutually, we both think that this will be good for our relationship because we`ll be able to spend more time alone. But, do you think it`ll really help? Thank you!
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no i don't think it'll help i think your boyfriend don't kno what he want if he keep breakin up wit you and getting back wit you.
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okay well i am trying out for the soccer team and i am really nervous.i have never wanted anything so badly. i am on vacation working out something i would never do. i was on two soccer teams and we got first place. i am so determined to make it. i usually dont try out because i am too shy but i think that i really will make it. what do i do. how can i stop doubting myself.i really want to make it.how can i get over my nerves (link)
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keep reminding yourself that you helped your two other teams make it to first place what's different about this one.you can do anythin you set your mind to cuz you can do it and you kno it deep down inside.your not doubting yourself your shyness is making you doubt yourself.you can't b shy for the rest of your life then no one will respect you and you want respect so you should get rid of your shyness to at least try out
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Okay. So my friend is amazing at writing poems. He sent me a bunch and I almost cried during the first one because it was so sweet. I guess my question is.. how would he be able to get them published and how long would it take?
Thanks a tonne.
p.s. I dunno if this is in the right category. (link)
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he can always take them to a library to try and publish them there i don't know how long it'll take
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im 14 i lost my fist born over the summer and im pregnant again it broke my heart when my daughter died i refuse to get an abortion what can i do (link)
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1.you can always keep the baby.
2.give it to an adoption agency.
3.give it to a older close relative to watch over it.
4.leave it in front of hospital in car seat and they will send it to a adoption agency.
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okay. i met this guy online named Keith, Keith and i started talking because i had just gotten out of a relationship and had my heart broken and i was looking for an easy rebound. But anyways things didn't really work out with me and keith because i didn't feel a connection, however with his friend nick, i did. Ive never actually met them but my friends have and they said that theyre both really nice guys. keith and nick only live an hour away from me and ive never seen them before....me and nick actually started liking eachother ALOT through the summer and we'd talk everynight till AT LEAST four in the morning, we'd call eachother babe and sweetie and all the gushey stuff but then once school started we didn't talk as much because we were busy, then we both started liking different people. well, long story short, nick got his girlfriend pregante only a month after we'd been talking, ((and you have to understand that we had such a strong connection and we were eachothers best friends)) he didn't wanna tell me because he was worried i would stop talking to him, but i was the one to ask him about it because keith had told me. so anyways i continued to support him and talk to him (( i had a boyfriend too)) but i still loved nick. and i could tell that he really loved me too. weve tried meeting so many times and everytime something always goes wrong. now hes a dad and being really resoponsible....and hes still with his gf only because he got her pregnate. its been 2 years since we first started talking and ive thought about him at least once everyday since then.
I am in a serious relationship now where i really love my boyfriend or so i think. but lately all ive been thinking about is nick. i havent talked to him since a couple months ago and thats just thru text, we havent talked on the phone since summer. and that hurts. Ill text him occasionaly and sometimes he doesnt respond but other times he does and says "im so sorry, ive just been busy but i really want to talk to you"...i feel like im not being fair to my current boyfriend by still feeling a love ive felt for 2 years so strong that i think about nick and my boyfriend equally throughout the day, sometime i think about nick a little more....nick wansnt only the guy i love he was also my best friend and i really miss talking to him...what should i do? (link)
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you should call nick every now and then but not alot since he's so busy being a dad and try giving your boyfriend sum more attention im sure he want sumlove to.but wit nick you can't xpect things to go back to the way they were b4 he was a dad.he's probably goin through the same thing wit his girlfriend but if yall really wanna connect you should set up a place to meet to talk and everything and mayb you'll be able to meet his kid too
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I really like this guy and have for going on 2 years now. We've known each other for a while but we didn't really get to be friends until 3 years ago. He was in the hospital and I and another friend of ours went to visit him, but he was in surgery so we just left a note and our present for him with the nurse. Today my friend Lisa told me that when she saw him this afternoon, he told her he was glad he was in surgery when we came. Am I wrong to be completely offended by that? (link)
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no i would have kicked his ass if that wasn't suppose to be a joke
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What do you do when you think your whole life is ruined? For example, you don't put your heart into something you thought you put your whole heart into. You say you love someone and they tell you that you are lying? I just really need help (link)
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you convince them that you love them that your not lying that you'll do anything to prove it to them
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well i like this boy in my class and he said he liked me so i told him that i like him too and then i was sick for a week and the day i go back to school all my friends run up to me and tell me that he told "B" he liked her so i asked him wat was up and he said he likes us BOTH so out of jealousy i've been rude to her and yesterday he asked if i still liked him (even though he still likes "B")and i blurted out NO!! PLEASE HELP AND THANX
love,
massie girl♥ (link)
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i get ya i would have done the same thing.but maybe you should confront him that maybe you wanna go out wit him and it's either you or her.and then when he get a confused look on his face tell him that you still like him.
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Lets say you post question(s) that you needed advice on and you received advice. However, you are one of the these people that are compulsive and feel that a week later, a month later, months or years later you must post the same question(s) again dont you think the following suggestion is the best way to not to that: COPY AND PAST THE QUESTION AND THE ANSWERS YOU LIKED INTO A WORD DOCUMENT AND READ THE ANSWERS EVERY TIME YOU FEEL COMPELLED TO REPOST. THANKS (link)
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yea that sound good to me
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Okay I need help. My boyfriend says he really cares about me and stuff but I dont know if thats true and that he means that bascily what I mean is how can you tell a guy really likes you? please help me! (link)
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you can tell he really likes you:
*if he treat you the same way around his friends to when your alone.
*if he do sumthin for you that he hates to make you happy.
*if he do anythin for you.
*if even when you look horrible he still say you look beautiful and really means it.
*if anyone try hurtin or messin wit you he kicks their ass no matter who they are
*if he embrass himself to see your smile
that's just a few there's many more ways but i think thosefor sure mean he really like you
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Say theres this one girl that you like alot [this is a friendship question by the way.. im not gay.. or something] but sometimes she can be really slutty & kinda annoying.. & none of your other friends really like her too much.
but your other friends love you & you like them alot too. you have alot of fun with your group of friends & do alot more with them & are just more like you.
But, the other girl.. doesn't have very many friends, & you feel bad ditching her.. just to stay w/ the other friends.
what would you do? (link)
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i would plan a day or weekend out like to the movies or shopping jus for the two of us to have fun.
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There's this guy and lets call him "Sean". Well sean and i have known eachother for 9 years now and he lives in a different state then me but we've always been close and we've always had feelings for eachother. I mean he's like everything i could possibly want in a guy and none of the guys i've gone out with can compare to him at all. [Sean is 16] He does currently have a girlfriend but he didnt want to tell me about her and i wasnt sure why but i didnt want to tell him about my current boyfriend at the time. It's weird. But im going away the 11th to spend the long weekend with him and his family because we are close. But im nervous because i want him to come out and tell me that he likes me but he wants me to do the same but ive been hurt so many times by guys that i hold back and dont open up easily anymore, because im so afraid of getting hurt again. But then again he lives far away so its like should i just move on? or could we work something out?
any advice is appreciated :] oxxx thanxxx (link)
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there's a strong chance he won't open up to you currently cause he has a girlfriend.but if you guys r right for each other then he will at the right time.i kno wat what you mean when you say you don't want to be hurt nobody does but take a chance and a different approach.like instead of givin him all of you all at once try givin him, small pieces of you as your realationship grows. but never give all of you unless your really sure about him.and it really depends on how he is to say if you can work sumthin out,if he alway thinks he's a pimp and all this other crap i doubt it but if he's sweet,honest,loyal to you,and treat you right then yea you can work sumthin out
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I like this guy and I've liked him for like 5 years! The feeling just won't go away! Ok, here's the deal, in 2nd and 3rd grade we were like imseperable friends, in 4th grade my friend told me that he liked me and I relized that I liked him, in 6th grade my other friend told him that I liked him and after that happened he wouldn't even say hi to me in the halls anymore (not that we saw each other much XP ).
Now i'm in 8th grade and don't know what to do! We have no classes together and are on other sides of the school! NEXT YEAR WE'LL NEVER SEE EACH OTHER AGAIN (probably)! I can't just let him go, and the only conections I have are to him two friends that have classes with him. I'm a wreck with myself, PLEASE HELP! (link)
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you should probably try talkin to him again.like talk to his friends and if you talk wit his close friends then you will come in contact wit him sumtime.if you get wit him alone 4 a while ask him why you and him stopped talkin.i kno you kno but when he say cause so and so told me you liked me and i thought that was weird or sumthin tell him that she lied.afterwards try to laugh about it and stay in contact with him wit numbers emails w/e
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Okay, so I like, well not like but LOVE this guy named Jake. He is sooooooooooooooooooo cute. Here is the problem, he is shorter then i am! Everyone is so short! I'm begging for help. mainly because he is comming to my house to finish a project and i don't know what to say! (link)
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i really don't see a problemin him being shorter than you it's just a measurement if u really loved him you wouldn't care if he was short cause it's love.i only got 3 words for you FLIRT WITH HIM you love him so why not.
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OK for this weekend i have been asked 2 hang out with like 4 differnt ppls. 1. my boyfriend 2.my friend thats wicked mean 2 me 3. another friend that i never see 4. my friend and she wants me 2 see her basketball. My boyfriend is starting his 2nd job in like 2 or 3 weeks and we won't see eachother much and its so hard because we are so close but my only chance 2 see him is on saturday. my friends game is on saturday and like 2 weeks ago i ditched her and didnt go. the friend thats mean wants 2 go 2 the mall or maybe movies i dunno wich yett and we would go wit other ppl and she would ignore me the whole time 100% sure she would and she wants 2 do that on saturday but i could always change it 2 sunday but then again im mad at her. the friend i never see i will see her next weekend and we are goin on a ski trip and are busy every single day so yeah. Who should i hang with? Oh and my friend that plays basketball will have plenty other games but no one i kno is goin 2 her game cept her and her really mean family. So my question to you is ... If you were in my place who would you go with? (link)
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i would go to my friend basketball game on saturday(you at least owe her that 4 ditchin her).hang out wit ma boyfriend on sunday(last time b4 he start his job).ditch the friend im mad at(wats the point of goin wit her when she will ignore you when you can be wit sum1 you have fun wit).and then next week i can hang wit my friend i never see(she'll have you all to herself to chill wit and ski).
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Okay, this is iffy. There's A and B. We're all girls in 9th grade. Last year, we were all good friends. But A started to be a scene and a total *beep* and B was just..uhg. So this year I'm pulling away from them.
There was this whole little drama abuot A "cutting" (which were little paper cuts) and B doing drugs. B stopped A from "cutting" but A tried drugs twice before saying she didn't like it. B is doing drugs...and I mean serious drugs. Apparently, A told B that she'd tell the counslor that B was doing drugs unless B stopped. Now B is mad because A said she was going to tell. And me, I'm stuck in the middle. Both of them come to me at random times saying "She said this and that!" and B is really snappy to people accusing them of being on A's side and A is getting "depressed" because her best friend is mad at her. And I'm still stuck in the middle for some reason. Both of them will get mad at me if I agree with the other or stay neutral, etc.
My question is how do I get ymself out? I've already told A to tell B "I'd rather lose a friendship than a friend" but I don'tt know how that went. And another thing...does B have the right to be so pissy at A? I mean, B did bring this upon herself. A is just looking out for B telling her she's making a big mistake. B brought this upon herself and she's blaming the consequences she brought upon herself on someone who's trying to help. I just want different points of view on this. Thanks (link)
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i think A tellin B she waz goin to a counslor was stupid cause B see it as A taken away wat makes her feel good.so if she really cared she would just straight up do it and i kno she waz tryin to protect her by tellin her wat she waz gonna do but B really takes it as a threat.i kno yall care 4 her but there's sum reason why she started doin drugs n yall need 2 find out wat that reason is.den try to help her.if dat don't work tell a counslor.if her problem ends up bein fixed then in the future she'll thank yall 4 not givin up on her and not touch drugs again.
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okay this guy i like...well like i've said in a lot of my questions i've played a lot of pranks on him well i told him i was sory and that i had like him when i did them...but i diddn't tell him that i still do and now he is going out with this really ugly girl that used to be my friend to make me jeslous what do i do? (link)
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if he's doin it just to get you jealous don't get mad don't get jealous don't show any form of anger or hatred cause you would be doing exactly wat he wants you to which will make him feel better because he got to you
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I'm 14/f and my sister is 19/f. It's ironic how I'm more mature about things than she is. Everytime break starts and she come home, whether it's Thanks Giving, Winter, Spring, Summer break, it's always disastrous and I can never relax.
My sister complains and gets mad over the smallest things. Over Thanks Giving Break, which was about 2 weeks for her, she got braces and oh my goodness. It was horrible. She would barely eat, she would complain, mop around, lock herself in her room for getting stupid braces. She was like "I can't eat. It takes 30minutes just to floss" blah blah..for 2 weeks and MORE. I must say that a 10 year old wouldn't whine so much. That really got my mom pissed off because she was buying stuff for my sister and making all these soft foods just for her to make her feel better and my sister just turned away complaining. And when my mom is mad, I have to watch what i do around her. When she's mad, she's likely to go off at anyone at anytime so it's like I always have to help her during breaks, watch what I say and do and I can't go and hang out with friends as much because my mom won't be in the mood to drive me. Then there's the problem with my sister getting pissed off at every single thing that doesn't go her way. If she wanted this and someone said no, she'll get pissed off, lock herself in her room for days, and get everyone in the house pissed off. I mean if she wanted to get , let's say a coffee from starbucks, and my mom said no, she'll get pissed off. If she wanted to help me practice violin and I decline NICELY (because, personally, she is horrible at teaching and when I tru to tell her that she's going too fast or something, she'll get pissed and say "Well you should've practiced more blah blah") she gets pissed off and locks herself in her room. This is getting really old and I don't knwo what to do about it. I can't talk to my sister because I'll just make it worse and if I talk to my mom or dad, my dad won't do much about it, and my mom will either just get pissy about that or talk to my sister which will still mak things worse. Any suggestions on what I should do to get her not get pissed so easily? (link)
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i personally kno wat ur goin through ma sista is like dat 2.and i jus wanna kill her.she thinks she's grown so she don't listen 2 ma parents any more.and ma olda sister's dat are olda than her she think she kno more jus cuz she went off to college n they wanted to go to colleges by home.so all i can really say is try to act like she's not there only come in contact and speak wit her if it's really important.and when she get pissy ignore her she's doin it 4 attention
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