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This girl named Leah lives in my neighborhood and goes to my school.

We used to be best friends sadly, until I kind of tried to keep my distance from her. The reason why I wanted to keep my distance from her is because she acted like total jerk to me for no reason (I'm not gonna list what all she did to me) and then went and cried to me telling her to forgive her. All of my friends were attacking me, so I forgave her and I really wish I didn't do that.

She's is an effing stalker and I'm not kidding. She copies EVERYTHING my friend and I do (Yeah, it's supossed to flattery. Well, it's driving me crazy) All she does is talk about my other friends and when I'm not around all she does is talk about ME behind MY back. She wrote my friend a note today and my friend showed it to me.
This is what it said:
You probably are wondering why I was upset this morning. (I talked to my friend who she wrote the note to and my friend said that she didn't even notice and plus she didn't really care. ) Well I was confused, annoyed, mad, and upset. Katie (Me) has a problem. Dayna (one of my other friends) yelling at me for copying you two didn't help either. I'm already upset enough and plus I'm on my period (I'm on mine too so wtf.) She wont even get within a bazillion feet of me (She's obsessed with me and my friend. I was a foot away from her today so I guess she's blind.)
God, she goes crying to her everytime she has some stupid problem with me and says all this crap about me.

ALL she does is talk about how she hates all of my friends. She started cussing at me when I tell her to stop and I stand up for them. She will sit there and talk and talk and every word she says is a lie. She has seriously changed so much since I first met her. I know she isn't going to go back to who she was. I honestly think she forgot who that actually IS!

She's been a jerk to me lately and I want her to leave me alone. I don't want to be her friend anymore and she can't get that through her head! I know this kind of sounds mean, but if I told you what all she's done to me you would know she's the one who is mean...not me.

I have her screen name if that helps.

How do I just slowly let our friendship fade or just plain out tell her I don't want to be friends with her anymore?
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well, she seems a little crazy to me, so talking to her might not make any difference.

I don't know, I'd try to act really annoying around her so she would leave me alone by choice. Or introduce her to someone else so she can stalk them instead


I know, what a weird question. But latley, my veins are kinda showing more. I rub my hand against my feet, and I can feel them. It's same with my mom, but she's way older than me and I'm only 14. You see is, I can see my vein and feel them, especially on my feet. Before puberty, they werne't their and it was just skin with no veins popping and you can feel the texture. Please, if you know anything about this and is it bad?

-Thanks! (link)
I'm 14 too, and my mom and I have the same problem.
She's a nurse and I asked her why that is.
She told me it's nothing to worry about.


i think im fat.
i got my phisical like a week ago
and im 62 inches and i weighed 104 .
i think i gained like a pound or maybe lost idk.
but is that fat for me
tell the truth ♥ (link)
NO WAY.
NOT EVEN.

that's better than the average person.
trust me.
you have NOTHING to worry about


I heard a song with the title being close to something about "The day the world died" or "The day the world ended" or something along those lines. And the band that sang it had the word about rockets or rocketships or spaceships. The song is electronica. Yeah, I was just wondering if anyone knew who the band was. Sorry for being so vague. (link)
The Age Of Rockets
"The Day The Whole World Died"

A symphony of dying sings
returning patrons to their seats
dead opera hiss and roar the sky
push and pulling satellites
everybody's saying grace
to tidal waves and empty plates

we turn the clocks ahead
and hope to wake up

well nothing feels like anything
and when it hurts you know it's love
dead opera hiss and roar the sky
and when it hurts you know it's love
we tear at skin until it's gone
and when it hurts you know it's love

we turn the lights down low
and watch the earth explode

(well I know about a million words,
so I always know just what to say)


:D!
HERE YOU GO!


what does the i next to the sn mean on aim triton? (link)
omg sorry, I don't know the answer but I really want to know what it is too. I've tried to figure it out for a while now. haha


I recently got a photo contract with playboy magazine. they wanted me to be nude... with nothing on... and nothing covering me. i acceptedd... because i need the money. i told them i was 20. but i have a secret. i am only 13 =). i have DD boobs... and quite a large downstairs. do you think i will get in trouble with like the law if they find out im 13. helpp=[

the photoshoot is in 4 days. on monday (link)
I think you will get in A LOT of trouble.
More trouble than you think, trust me.
I wouldn't do it if I was you.
Believe me, it's not worth it.
Make money some other way because this is really dangerous.


whenever im around people that i dont usually hang out with like new people, i usually get shy.. this always happens so now i am known as the shy girl.. any tips that would help me to get unshy? i have tried to start conversations but sometimes i have nothing to say. and i have always tried to be myself too (link)
I like that you try to be yourself.
:)
If you want to stand out and quit being shy, just voice your opinion whenever you can.
Talk about music or movies. Tell some jokes.


If that doesn't work, it's all good.
Most boys/girls I know really like shy people.


I really like this boy but know he is useing me. he and i are "friends with benifits" It doesn't matter how much i tell myself he doesn't like me, i just can't keep myself from callig him, answering his calls and hanging out with him..I don't know what to do about him and he's all i think about.could someone please just try and help me decided what to do about him? (link)
aw, my friend and I tried the same thing.
we stopped because I got attached.
I can tell that you really like this boy.
You should end it because you might end up getting hurt.
I know I did.
It's hard but it's the right thing to do, trust me.






Hi there. This is the first time asking advice like this. First let me start by saying. I am a 31 years old man.

now for my problem.

I have been with the same woman for 12-13 years. we have had 2 children together, one of whom passed away last year and the other that was just born this year. Lately we've been going throughsome rough times. She has been playing with my emotions. A virtual rollercoaster ride. One day i try to cuddle get intimate, and she'll say "We shouldn't do this" the next she's kissing me pationately. The problem i have, is that i have feelings for her how ever dwindled that they are, while exhibiting feelings for another woman. One who has captivated me over the last few weeks.

My issue is i don't feel that the relationship i am in is going anywhere. but with my new born baby i am kind of in a bind. thus my title. I am torn between 2 loves. Or three if you add in my newborn.

please help me figure out what i should do.

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I'm 14 years old. I've obviously never been through anything like this.
But three of my brothers passed away when they were babies.
It's extremely tough to handle.
My mom had her moods but my dad tried to deal with it.

I suggest you stick around and look after YOUR kid. It wouldn't be fair to them if you leave her for somebody else.
If my dad left my mom, I would hate him forever.
I'm sure you don't want that because you seem really nice.

I hope you do what's right.
Good luck



14/F
lately i have been so depressed. i dont get along with my mom that much anymore & we were soo close. i just cant stop crying & i like cant stand being around certain people that i used to be so close with. i know your gonna say its growing up but this isnt normal. i have tried talking to my mom about getting me pills or something but she just throws in my face how bad her life is which makes it worse. at this point i hate just about everything about me. i think im fat; ugly; worthless; loney; friendless & i cant do anything right. idk what to do anymore. i used to cut but i dont as much anymore and i dont want to but thats the only thing i can think of doing this point. also im getting quite suicidial. i cant see myself going threw with it but i have been thinking. my best friend is the same as me; same problem & everything. we both have very messed up families. also with me thinking im fat it makes me think of becoming anorexic again. i have been threw that also. im 5'1 - 100 pounds. telling me im not fat makes everything worse. i just dont know what to do anymore with myself. i need happy pills or something but idk what to say to my mom. please help. this is outta hand. (link)
wow,just..wow.
this is so incredibely weird because we have almost everything in common.
weight,height,insecurity,cutting,mom,friends.

I don't really know how to help with this one.
But I'm trying to get through everything also.

I try to be around happy people and do yoga and relax. I started keeping a journal and writing songs about everything that bothers me.
I tell my friends everything that is on my mind.
I also began jogging and eating better.
It made me feel so much better.
you should try doing the same.

I really hope life gets better for you.

good luck


ok, I need some advice on here. but you please if you not gonna help or say something rude, don't post at all.

So i think Emo hair cuts are cute. so i was wondering if you could show me some. My hair is black and its a litle longer then shoulder. I have found sites, but i can never see the HAIR!!. So if you could show me some pictures that would be fantastic. Thank you! (link)
My friends have nice emo hair.

http://myspace-582.vo.llnwd.net/00795/28/53/795933582_l.jpg

http://myspace-439.vo.llnwd.net/00815/93/40/815710439_l.jpg


Look around myspace if you don't like those.
That's what I did.


do girls go for guys with piercings? if they are good looking that is, and do girls get attracted to guys with piercings,like let's say nose rings?and if they do, can you specify which part of the face or body you find most attractive for a piercing on a guy and how much piercings should your ideal guy have?thanks (link)
LIP PIERCINGS.

they are so hot.
and it's funner to kiss.

nose piercings are hot too.


about how much are digital cameras? thanx in advance (link)
You can get one at Radio Shack for about $110-$140 ish. They're not too bad.
If you want something really great, it might cost you $160+



Well, I'm home alone alot, with my brother thats only ten, and i need to learn how to defend myself. but i can't take classes because my mom won't have enough time to take me. so, this is my question, can i learn to defend myself at home, with like a knife or something?

thanks in advance♥ (link)
Honestly,
the knife thing is a really good idea.
haha
it's the best way to defend yourself if you're being bothered.
I'd stick with the knife.


Hi.I'm 16 / male.I see you love bright eyes I do too. So I was just wondering what kind of music would be good for a party? It's a going away party for my friend. Anything you would recommend? (link)
:) sweet.
okay,
I'd recommend The Subways, Dandy Warhols, Ima Robot, Le Tigre, Be Your Own Pet, The Vines, The Donnas, Yeah Yeah Yeahs. anything upbeat like that.

good luck


i absolutely can't speak to my mother about this because all she does is try to use reverse phsycology on me or just tells me that i'm talking stupididies and i'm not! i really do feel this way and it's bugging me so much and there's nothing i can do to make myself stop feeling like this. i've tried! maybe this information will help a little:

i've always been very mature for my age. i was 9 when i got my period. so, i feel like i've grown up to fast and now is when it is just catching up to me. when i was like 9, i guess the best way to explain it is that i was like a 12 year old stuck in at 9 years old. i don't know how to explain it. it's jut kind of weird. so, i don't really know what kids do at 9. but, when i was 9, i would spend friday night's watching television while doing my hair and nails!

when i turned 12, the same thing happned. i was like 14 or 15 stuck at 12. i wanted to go out every weekend and party. so, not because i had to or anything, just because i didn't have anything better to do, i was asleep pretty early and i would lie there in my bed super mad because i wished that i was at party. i started going to parties like later being 12, like when i started jr. high but this was before the dances

then when the dances did start, i loved them. i would get so exited about every party i went to. and when i turned like 13, i would go to parties whenever i had the chance. i loved to get ready for parties and do my hair/makeup. i would just get so exited about it

now, i'm 15/f. and for some reason, i feel like i've grown up too fast. i'm not even interested in parties anymore. i dismiss invitatioins when they come in the mail but i still go because my mom makes me go. but, i don't want to be there yet! i want to be interested in parites. i want to get exited about it. i want to do my make-up and feel interested in it and all that stuff. but, i can't control it

for those of you that read this i thank you and i hope that you can give me some advice on what to do about this situation! ty again!!!!

:) (link)
aw.
well, this is really corny and might be useless advice.
but I would start doing all the things I missed out on as a kid.
Maybe have a sleepover with some close friends and talk to them about it. Skip the next couple of parties. maybe try yoga, because it helps you clear your mind.

I've never been in that position, but I can tell it bothers you. so, I hope you figure something out.
good luck.


Ok....i am really addicted to pop....but i wana stop drinking it and i was wonderin if you know how much weight i would lose in a month from just not drinking pop? (link)
Well, it's tough to tell because people's weight depends on different things.

but I stopped and there's a BIG differnce.
Drink Vitamin Water instead.
It's so yummy
:)



Does anyone know of any good online game sites for when you're bored??? *other than miniclip*

thanks! (link)
www.addictinggames.com


it's really cool.
haha


I'm 16 years old, 5'2, and overweight. I have some issues controling what I eat. I haven't gained any weight in over a year. I need some advice on some exercises and diets to help me lose weight. I don't have a lot of time to exercise because I go to school and have tons of homework. I do however walk up and down at least ten flights of stairs a day going from class to class during school. Any advice will be appreciated. (link)
I know a lot of exercises to help.
But I see you don't have too much time on your hands.
so I'd suggest about 30 sit ups before you go to sleep.
and about 25 leg squats.
It shouldn't take too long.

good luck


Is there any certain type of food/s that will help put weight on ur arms and legs? (link)
sour cream and chocolate can definitely do it.




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