Hey I may be young but have a lot of life experience. I am not judgmental, but will tell you my opinion. For the past few months I have been using the account youareneveralone because this one had not been working...hopefully the problem is solved. Anyway I love to help people so please ask me whatever you need.
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Whenever a guy is experienced it's always a turn-off to me. Like if he's done alot of stuff with girls or even just a little. Is this normal does anyone else feel this way? (link)
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yes! I have the same problem, I just feel like everything I do will be compared to all the other girls and I won't be as good. I know exactly how you feel. But just keep in mind that if is does actually want you for anything more than just a hook up it shouldn't matter, he can teach you! hope i could help
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I'm 16, soon to be 17 in june, and I don't like tampons. Im scared that I'll get that TSS, and everytime I tried to wear one, it still bleed onto my panties, and i hate the feeling when taking them out. Is it normal or weird to like pads over tampons at my age? (link)
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Its completely normal, I'm 16 and was only able to use them this year. My sister is 18 and still can't use one. Don't be scared of TSS it is very rare, as long as you don't wear one for 8+ hours you will be fine, and even if you wear it for a little longer than that, chances are nothing will happen. The reason you may be leaking is that you do not put it up far enough, also try different types, I find that the playtex sport are the easiest to get in and they don't leak as easily. (tampons hold less than pads so you will need to change it more often) When I first started using tampons they hurt me as well when I look them out, but after a while it doesn't hurt anymore. Also it WILL hurt if you put a tampon in, then take it out when it is still dry, so wait untill you think it has absored a decent amount.
I hope that made sense and I hope I could help
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so u wanna hook up where u live?????? (link)
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no I think i'll pass
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im 16 and was wandering if you have a bf (link)
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haha no i don't
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what is the best rating you can get, what is the worst, and how do you give them one??????????? (link)
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well the rating system goes from 1-5. 1 being the worst, and 5 being the best. When you ask a question and view your response, below the respone is the numbers 1-2-3-4-5 you just click on the number that you plan on rating the respone and it brings you to a page that you can write a response along with your # rating. If the response is really good I think the best thing to do is rate a 5 and write saying "thanks!" or whatever
also you can only rate the questions that you personally ask.
hope I could help!
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I'm 15 years old and I really want a job. Especially over the summer. I don't mean jobs like babysitting or anything like that. I want like a 'real' job I guess you could say. One thats like at a store or someting. Do you guys know of any stores or shops that would hire a 15 year old and have decent pay? (link)
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Hey yea there are plenty of places that will hire 15 year olds, but it really depends on your area. A community pool is a great place to work but many of them already have all their employees, but you can still try. I think the best places to work when you are younger is in like a small business store. When its not a chain company the store usualy doesn't have set age rules. Just ask around at small bussiness stores and you will probably have a few options. That is what I did and I go a job at 13. I hope this helps! good luck!
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I have an ipod video the big one and the lock button doesnt work and neither does the headphone jack does anyone have advice.
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well it depends how old it is, if its still under warranty. If it is the you can send it back and they will send you a new or fixed ipod (probably new) free of charge. If not try to restart it a couple times by the middle button and menu down for about 5 or so seconds and let it restart. If this doesn't work its most likly broken and there is really nothing you can do. Hope I could help!
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so everytime i try to put music on my ipod it asks me if i want it to put the podcasts on there too ? so what is it ?? (link)
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podcast are free audio and video clips that you can put on your ipod. They are much like things you find on youtube, only you download them from itunes and can put them on your ipod.
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16/f i have very straight hair and it's pretty long. i always wear it long, but i'm thinking about getting it cut short for the warmer months. the problem is that i have a very long neck and long forehead so hairstyles too short make my neck look longer, and ones without bangs make my forehead stand out. but i also have a cowlick that prevents me from getting straight across bangs. any suggestions for hairstyles? thanks (link)
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well if you want it shorter i suggest triming it about an inch or 2. Then maybe layering it a bit, just ask the lady for long layers that way your hair will be a bit shorter but you will still have longer layers. Also you could get your hair angled, even up to your bangs, so you wouldn't have straight across bangs but it would look a bit more intersting.
Hope I could help, good luck!
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i'm 16/f. my passion is gymnastics..the thing is i've never really done well in it. i love watching it and learning more about it. i did it for a year in 8th grade but then when high school started i was preoccupied. now i'm in 11th grade and i feel that i need to fulfill my dream before it's too late. but i also feel that i'm too old to be able to accomplish very much, and that it would be embarassing being with such young kids. i was also thinking about maybe doing private lessons. if anyone would have any insight or advice it would really be appreciated! thanks! (link)
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To be completely honest its too late if you want to do any serious gymnastics. If you just want to get better and have fun, call your local gymnastics gym, most likly all classes are in full swing by now, but there is probably a spot or so open if you dont mind being by yourself. If I was in your situation I would get a group of my friends to join a class together so its not werid that your the oldest one. You probably would have to sign up for summer classes. (not summer camp)
As for private lessions, call the gym they can probably arrange something in a few months but it will be VERY expensive.
I hope I was able to help
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you know how the wii "classic contoller" is supposed to work on gamecube games? well mine doesnt see like the games say to press start and thats the plus button... it doesnt work so i cant play! any suggestions to get them to work trust me i need a lot of help! (link)
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yes like the person before me i think the classic controller only works for the game you downlode, but you can just plug in any of your old gamecube controllers into the wii to play gamecube games. I hope this answered your question, if not you can message me, i can ask my cousin he knows everything and anything about video games and the wii haha. Hope i helped
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I ordered 3 Wii remote jackets four days ago and the status says it is in progress. How long will it take? (link)
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i ordered 3 jackets aswell, i was expecting it to take forever to come in but it came in a about a week and a half
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I feel like I am the only teenager (18) who has not had sex yet, or even go pass first base. I don't believe in sex after marriage, but i think its sad how teenagers (15,16, etc) have sex so young. And people say because it's fun, but I feel that losing your viriginity is much more then just having sex you know? But why do people have sex at such a young age or if they are not even that far in a relationship (like 4 months). I'm just curious, about people's personal experiences. Regrets no regrets etc and why they lost their viriginity at such a young age. (link)
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I think its because when your younger, you fall in love faster and it feels like it true and will last. My firend and her boyfirend had sex after 4 months and she's 15, i think when your young 4 months feels like an eternity and there for, they feel its been long enough. Also theres a constant race with their peers of who has done what, and who hasn't. Someone whos firends are all sexually active are gonna wanna fit in and do the same things.
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ok so the past few weeks i have been kissing a lot of guys & doing other stuff & such, which is fun but i am never turned on, none of the ones i have messed around with i have felt the least bit turned on with.. i mean i like hooking up i just don't know why i don't feel anything towards them at all? please help! (link)
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this is most likely because you don't really like them anymore than a firend i would slow down i wait for someone you have feelings for. Trust me its sooo much better.
hope i could help
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i was just wondering what colour are girls nipples?
i mean i know black girls are black,but asians/latins and whites are from brown to red to pink,why is that? or do the nipple colour gets darker as they grow older? (link)
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haha well my health teacher said the color of a girls lips (natural, no lip stick or anything) is the color of their nipples
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16/f do most girls shave down there?? like should you? (link)
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yea most girls do but not the whole thing only areas where you might see it when your wearing a binkni or something. Other girls may shave most or all of it off for sexual reasons. But you don't have to, it really doesn't make that much of a difference. I heard its not good to completly shave everything, you get up more susceptible to infections and stuff. Hope I could help
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I have both, A myspace and a facebook.
I have a few questions about them.
-1. Why does myspace always get bugs and facebook doesnt?
-2. Which is more safe, myspace or facebook?
-3. Why is Myspace copying everything in and out of facebook? Like, everything is the same!
-4. Is there any way possibal, [with application on facebook] to get a LAYOUT. like with colors, im so bored of the white and blue!
-5. Why do so many people send out ''whores'' on myspace? It's redicilious when I see layout sites posting "ADD HER! ADD HIM!" its so annoying!
-6. Why does it matter if you are in highschool to use eather website? As long as if you are a mature, teen.. notice how i said teen.. not a 9 year old that knows what they are doing arent they okay?
Thanks, these questions go though my head ALL the time when im on these websites. (link)
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Well Myspace has ads and you can post basically anything you want so different peoples pages could have viruses.
It depends if your myspace is on private setting if it is then there basically same, if not myspace is alot more dangerous.
Well alot of the new appications for facebook copy myspace such as top friends and stuff like that, this probably is because of the compition that facebook has given myspace so they want to give facebook the things people like a about myspace.
As of now im pretty sure you cant change the colors but i would not be surprised if that changed soon.
uh i dont really know, cuz myspace is open to anything.
well facebook was orginally for college but now for highschool, its just a way to share school networks and memories, and talk to your firends after you graduate. And i suppose they want older more mature people using the sites because alot of things i've seen on myspace are not for children to be looking at.
hope i could help!
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I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.
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Adoption i personally feel is best. If you do have an abortion, i know many people how have never been able to get over the guilt of killing thier baby, even 20, 30 years after. And that is not something you want to carry around for the rest of your life. Also it could serously damage you phyiscally and emotionaly. You don't seem to be ready to raise a child so putting him/her up for adoption is a loving thing to do. Not only are you giving your baby life, but the chance at a life with a family more capable to support him/her then you might be able to give. I'm not going to tell you how to run your life but for the babys sake and yours I would put the baby up for adoption. Good luck
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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =] (link)
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im am 15 now and female, i think that its not a good idea to have sex has a 15 year old. At 15 your still young and its a big decision to make, their no going back after that. I also belive you should be in love when you have sex, then its alot more special and you can only have 1 first time and that is something you will always remember, so hopefully you can make that a good memory.
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i have this problem, like i can't ever wear lip gloss. it always dries up into a gunky line of white on the inside rim of my lips. does anybody else have this problem?
i think it might have to do with the humidity because it only really happens when its warm out.
so my question is how do i fix this? because i have a lot of lipglosses i want to wear but i can't. thanks!! (link)
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omg it always happens to me! I find that the less gewey/sticky (goey lol idn) ones are not as bad. Also mad chap stick makes my lips nice and shiny and doesn't do that
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