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Ok well at camp this summer, i had a boyfriend 3 years older then me. You know we would hold hands and stuff and kiss and everything but like everyonce in a while he would grab my boobs and my butt and i didnt really like it but i just threw it off. anyways when i got back home, guys were all calling me a slut, and theres this guy Diantrey, and now hes like all over me grabbin my slappin my ass grabing my boobs tryin to undo my bra and stuff its getting so annoyin. now its starting to spread around my neighbor hodd now people are tryin to like hook up with me say hey baby wanna come over to my hosue tonigh. anyways i've been puttin it off but now its startin to get to me. does anyone have any advice how i can stop all of this??? (link)
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Well the best thing to do would have been to stop it at camp but since you didn't just make it clear you aren't interested. They should leave you alone after that but if it doesn't work DON'T slap them because to alot of guys that will mean you are playing hard to get. Please rate.
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has any one got any tips on how to seduce my mate? (im female hes male) i want him so much but i have no idea where to start. i see him where he works most of the time so i need some pointers on how to get him on his own and that kind of stuff. thanx (link)
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Ask him to come over to your place and then do a lap dance for him or something and then go from there. Just make sure he is comfortable first. I would love feed back.
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... I'm 14, and my boobs aren't that big.. they are 36 B's... which is Alright i guess, but the problem is, I've seen other girls boobs, and my nipples are really big... their's arent!...
I feel so weird, and recently at the beach, they wanted to go skinny dipping and I didnt too, but I didnt want people to see my breasts and laugh... they're weird :( is this normal? (link)
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You haven't stopped growing yet so you have nothing to worry about. You can't compare your boobs with other girls until you finnish growing so don't worry. Please give feedback.
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Hey. Im 17 years old, and my boyfriend is 21 years old. We live together and everything, but one night, when we were having sex, we didnt even notice the condom slip off. Well, he came inside of me, and then we looked frantically for a condom we though was still on. The next day it came out of me, but there was no cum in it or anything. it was as clear as it was when it first came on. Also, im not on birth control. It has been 2 weeks since, and I was just wondering if there is any chance of getting pregnant. Also, it was only 2 or 3 days after my period. So, can i? (link)
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yes there is.
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everyones saying you bleed wen you have sex
...please explain this to me & is it weird for him? my b/f is not a virgin and i am (link)
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When you first have sex you bleed because there is a little thin layer of skin that the guy breaks. If you need more info ask me a question and please give feedback. Hope I helped.
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i think this weekend my boyfriend and i will start having oral sex..i've never done it before but he has and he's had sex before....i don't wear thongs.. but yet i don't wear big grandma underwear..they're exactlylike thongs.. like with the strings around the hips and all.. but instead of the string up my ass, it's just all covered..i'm scared that his other girlfriends wore thongs and stuff and that when he sees i don't he'll think i'm like a looser or something...do you think it matters.....or do guys REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY prefer thongs and totally hate like thekinda underwear i wear (link)
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If this guy isn't using you for his own pleasure and really loves you he won't care about the kind of underware you have on. If he does then he's a loser and then you shouldn't be upset if he dumps you over a stupid thing like that. Please rate.
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Yesterday my boyfriend and i had sex and i bled on him, we thought that it was jusy my period coming because i am late...but it wasnt my period. He said that it could be possible that i contracted a std from my previous relationship or i could be pregnant. Im not sure what to do or what to believe~Im going crazy because i dont have anyone to talk to about this and if i do have a std he'll probably leave me...and i dont think that i would want to live without him; i'll be better off commiting suicide. (link)
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I don't think it is stds and also committing suicide if he leaves you is just stupid I mean come on! If he leaves he isn't good enough for you anyway. You don't just go around saying your going to kill yourself. If all the girls that got rejected killed themselves not many would be around at our age. If he leaves you then you can't do anything... Life goes on. Right?
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Ok,i have this friend Tina. I know tina id going to become friends with my other friend. I do not want them to be friends but i no they are going to become really close. Tina always puts me in the shadow and she gets all the attension. How can i except that Tina and my friend are going to be come close..and not care? Not feel sad and left out inside? Not feel missing and alone? How can i just be happy with everyone? please help (link)
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Simple join in with them like if they are going to the mall then ask if you can come to if you join in then you won't feel left out. Mind you I'm not saying butt into private conversations but you get the idea. If that doesn't work talk to your friend about how you feel she probably doesn't know she's doing it. I would do the second thing first if I were you. would love feed back.
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Okay, I know this is a weird question, but I seriously need some help... kinda.
Well I have the worst case of the hiccups, I have tried what seems like everything to get rid of them. Anyone have any ideas how to get rid of the hiccups? (link)
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Just use a spoon full of sugar I know it sounds weird but it works for me.
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okay im a singer as some of yous may know i have a really great voice and sing at places the probelm is i smoke..i noticed my voice cracks sometimes.I really need advice to quit smoking because my parents smoke also so it will be hard and any tip to improve my singing.Please help me! (link)
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ok to stop smoking here's a classic, chew gum or suck on a candy anything to keep your mind off it.
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how old do you need to be to be a babysitter?
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For most the ideal age is 13 but maturaty is what really matters.
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Hi!
I just got hired to plan a 3-year old's birthday party, and am stuck on games. I already have Simon Says and Red Light Green Light. I also want to do a craft. If it helps, the parents have rented a moonbounce for the event. If possible, I would like to have 1 water game that does NOT soak the kids!! Thanks in advance and I rate!! (link)
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You cold do a treasure hunt, play musical chairs, have a pinata (use a soft bat if you do that) have a colouring contest and give out a prize from the buck store for the winners and you could have an obstical corse or some sort of race like pick up the ball and walk to the tree hand the ball to your partner and so on. Let me know what you think of these ideas.
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My 9 year old cousin is coming up tommorrow. Any ideas on how to amuse her for a few hours? I was thinking maybe giving her a little makeover, or something. (link)
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I love the makeover idea it would be perfect also play some games with her read a story or plop her down infront of the tv for a movie and maybe some healthy snacks (you don't want her bouncing off the walls) Would love feedback.
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lets call the kids jack and jill.
so ive been babysitting jack and jill every other weekend. jill is really good and sweet but jack is not. now there mom wants me to watch them everyday in the summer. and i dont want to! im only 14 i have a life! but their mom is really pushy and in your face.
what should i do?
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Tell her you can't babysit every day because you have other stuff to do but that you can babysit maybe 2 days a week.I would love feedback.
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hey....im 13 and this lady calls me everyday asking me to babysitt her kids...i already told her that my mom said i cant because i already babysit 2 other kids and i have homework...and a life but she keeps on calling asking me to babysitt them....mind you she has like 5 kids...and she has a older son then me that can watch them so why does she need me to watch them???
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If she isn't listening to you ask your mom to tell her and she might get the message. As for her son she probably doesn't trust him as much as she does you. It's a fact that teens are more responsible with kids other than their siblings same parents are more patient with kids that are not theirs compaired to kids that are. I would love feedback by the way.
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okay, i got this amazing babysitting offer!
*well the only thing is i'm kinda shy around little kids like 5,6,7 even 8!
And the girl is 7!
How can i over come me being shy? (link)
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The best thing to do is take the job, yes, you will be shy at first but as you get to know the kids you will be fine and keep in mind these kids will probably look up to you. Would love feedback.
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i have no idea what im going to do with her. do you have any ideas what we could do? also how am i supposed to get her in bed? i have only babysat once..and that was with my sister. im going to babysit from 7 to 11. what time do you think she should go to bed? i just really need some ideas on what we could do. and do you have any tips? also...how much do you think ill get payed for 4 hours? (link)
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Ok first off don't worry about what time she is to be in bed because normally the parents will tell you. The pay varies from person to person so I can't really guess at how much you will get and for the final problem play games with her or watch a movie or read her a story. Considering I babysit all the time for younger ones I can say they love it when you spend time with them. Oh and one more thing try to have fun. Love feedback.
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I am 13 and a girl who has never had a boyfriend and I think think this is my chance.There is this boy who has gone to mostly every school I have gone to(were in the same grade).But I think he likes me.Its like he has been drooping clues like he stares at me all the time with this serious look on his face,he saved me one time(if thats what you wanna call it)because I was walking and I wasn`t waching where I was going so I was about to bump into the wall then he said somthing to me then that made me look up,and his friend keeps on looking at me.So how do I figure out if he likes me without talking to him and can you give me information on how to tell if a boy likes you.
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some of the signs are him teasing you gently, following you around and of corse catching them staring at you. There is also another... they could act really nervous around you. I think from what you told me that he likes you.
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over the course of this school year, ive finally met a guy im comfortable with and has led me to believe he feels the same. although neither of us have come out and admited our feelings, we both have mutual signs/flirting that gives an obvious clue that we're into each other. he told me he wanted to hang out this summer and we traded cell numbers and everything, except im a bit new to this.
1) we're both going to be at camp/away this summer.. and i dont want to get all in his face about when he'll be home.. so im not sure when to expect him to come around
2) should i wait for him to contact me? or no?
3) if we do end up wanting to hang out.. ideas on what to do/where to go [id like some varied answers if possible]
thanks for your time, and i hope everyone has a great summer (link)
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Wait until he contacts you but if it takes him too long call him first. Don't return his calls the second you get them it will make you seem like you have nothing better to do then wait for him to call. Don't call him every 2 seconds either (same reason) Also you are right you shouldn't get in his face when he gets back he might get annoyed and last but no least go to a theam, park (if you have one near you) the movies, out to dinner or to the beach if ther's one close.
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what can I do to make my bf feel like I really love him when he moves away. We agreed to have a long distance thing but I dont know how to show affection from this distance... (link)
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Talk to him let him know how much you will miss him. Speak to him as much as possible.
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