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Q: During lunch, I sit with one of my best friends. She's nice, but when she eats, I can see every since crumb of food in her mouth in mushed up form, and she talks while she is at it too. I can't help but want to stop being friends with her for this. One time food even spit out of her mouth onto me! She doesn't even realize how vulgar I feel watching this! It's hard to ignore when she sits right infront of me. What is a nice way to approach her about this?
Well, for me when my bffs do something i try and tell and usually i would approach her by saying hey okay. I don't want this to come out the wrong way or sound mean because i don't mean in it that way at all. But its just been bothering me so I'd thought i'd tell you and maybe you could fix it...but...when you eat its kinda gross to watch. And again, not to sound mean or a jerk but can you chew with you mouth closed and try and not to talk with food in your mouth or at least cover your mouth?? Thanks

..and just tell her your not tyring to be mean. and if shes your bff all should be well

Q: Will replacing soda and only drinking water as a drink really make you lose weight? If so, why?
For the most part yes, but if you only drink more water and eat crap food then no. But drinking more water will help you lose weight with other little thing such as eating less junk walking a mile or so a day. Also, water will help clear your skin up too...but also add in some milk at dinner or something to get some calcium.

Q: 16/f. My boyfriend writes music and he's pretty good at it. However, one of his more recent songs was pretty disturbing-- it was about another girl, a girl "see around school". He's never written a song for me before.

he assures me that it means nothing, that is was the only thing he could think of (that worries me in itself) at the moment, and that he wants to be with me not her.

Should I believe him? Is this any real cause for concern? Because it's really hurting me, I don't want to leave him but I'm starting to think maybe I should.
Well you never know maybe the song about another girl is true or maybe he really couldn't think of anything else?

If I were you though I'd sit him down and really talk to him tell him whats on your mind and thats its really worrying you and your thinking about leaving him. Just explain to him your feels and hopeuflly he'll tell you whats going on in his head and things will work out for the best.

Q: i want to make new friends, but i dont really know how to. You see, it's just kind of weird to go sit at a lunch table that you don't usually sit at, or start talking to people at school that you don't really know. So, my question is, how do you make new friends?
Well I'm not sure what grade your in but I'm a freshmen and I didn't know half of my frosh class so I had my friend introduce me to the kids from the other schoool. Also, since its a new semester new classes and people just talk to those people in your new class. Or if you met someone once ask if they have a sn, myspace, facebook, and then just talk to them there and get to know them better. Lastly try hanging out with a friend who has differnt friends than you so you can be friends with her friends.

Well I hope I helped, and good luck.

Q: Ok so I'm gonna keep this short and simple.. I'm in love with my bestfriend and everytime I see her I fall more and more in love with her. She don't like me back. I'm a very emotional person so it hurts that I can't be with her like that. I have stopped talking to her to get over her. But she and I dont wanna lose our friendship. How do I get over her and be her friend?
Hmm well thats a tuffy but I kinda had the same probably with my friend but he'd always come to me for girl advice and stuff and I'd help him cause I didn't want him to be unhappy..but anyways since I've met him he's had 3 or 4 girlfriends and each of them i thought he really cared about but turnes out he did. And I realized that our friendship will always last thought his girlfriends and my boyfriends and even thought we don't kiss or anything were still really good friends. So I don't know if that help at all but if you were her boyfriend that may only last a year or less? But being her best friend and always there for her, tha'll last forever.

Hope I helps ya

Q: why are the scented kind of tampons bad for you?
Well I'm not totally sure but my guess would be because the sented ones have the ,scent in them so I guess it would be kinda like putting perfum up there which isn't really good for you. Thats just my guess I'm sure someone else can probably tell you better but thats my guess. Hope I helped a little bit.

Q: hello. im a 13 yearold boy who is confused and bored.i want to look like a girl for one day to see wut i would look like,i need advise as to wut i should do to myself this includes:wut to do for cleavege,how to hide something below my knees,makeup,and how i shoud p0ut my hair up. thnx alot! and no im not gay just bored and thought of something funny to do and wondered wut it would be like!(-.-)
Hmm...intersting

well I'd wear a dress so that no one could see your more manly features haha wear a wig and then if you have a good friend thats a girl ask her to do your hair and make up and to get the clothes just go to a vintage store or something and buy a cheap dress there.

Um..good luck?

Q: do blind people have dreams??
Yeah, at least I think they would because a blinds persons eyes are just "broken" not their mind. Their mind is still totally capable of a person who isn't blind and dreams are something that you crazy mind makes up which you don't have to see though your eye to see.

Q: Me and My Bestfriend Where Wondering How to Make Guys Like Girls loOl were just wondering thats All Does anyOne Know How ??
Attcually you can...

By being totally and a hundred percet you. Because you want a guy to fall for you, not something fake or something he sees but really isn't there. Because if you just be you then that'll make the guy fall for you that much harder than if you were faking it.

Q: ok. so last night i took a shower. and i looked inside my bra and there was little hairs. then i look at my breast and theres hair. not alot like verryy small and little. you can barely tell unless your face is like right there. is that normal?
Yes you are a hundred percert times a a trillion normal. =]

Q: is it okay for a girl to ask a boy for his cell number
HELL YES!! because boys these days are to freaking scared and don't take matters into their own hands so us girls gotta ask for the numbers and first dates lol

Q: Okay.I really like this guy. we've known each other for about 3 and a half months. Everyone thinks we would be a great couple. We talk alot at school but barely have anything to say on the phone.So my question is can someone give me the longest list of questions they can think of of conversation starters. Please.
Ever see She's the Man..??

Just talk about anything and if you guys are right for eachother then it'll flow...such as do you like cheese. hah sorry thats from shes the man

but just talk like how was your day
what are you doing
what are you thinking about
wanna hang out
have you ever seen..
do you like..

Q: ugh okay so im only 13 and i hate my life. like its not bad or anything but im always depressed and ive had a lot of stuff happen to me latly that i just cant handle and it doesnt take much to make me sad or mad and ive already tried to commit sucide but that didnt work and i want to run away so bad but i dont think i could go through with it and im just to confused as to wat to do becuz i dont wanna see a counserlour and i really dont think im depressed so i dont need to take any pills but is there something wrong with me and if so how can i fix it? this has been going on for way to long and i just want to give up and run away so bad
Honestly, I think you just need someone to talk and such as a counserlour like you said so I would try and talk to someone weather a teacher, school counserlor or a profesional. And I think over time just getting your emotions out you can fix this and feel and become a better person and i'm sure theres nothing wrong with you I know I go through the same thing sometimes. Don't worry you can get thorgh this.

Q: what are some good gifts you can get your boyfriend for valentines day?
thanksss
Personally I like things people make me, but I always think making a photo album and fillng it with pictures of you and him and kind making a photo album like adding little comments and stickers and stuff is always good and then writing a note inside of how much he means to you

Q: what exactly is ing?
um well ing is what you add to an ending of a work which shows that your in the process of doing something

ex. i'm typing..thats what i'm doing right how

and i'm sorry if your refering to ing in another way but that the only think or use of ing i know of

Q: how do you know your in love.
Not to sound like jerk who gives crap answers or anything because personally i hate when people do that but...

if your asking if you in love with a guy then odds are you probably arn't because when you find love you just know it, you don't ask any questions about it.

Q: I was trying to upload the soundtrack to A Little Night Music and La Cage aux Folles on my iPod, and it won't show the song names. It'll only show stuff like "TRACK 01" and "TRACK 07" Neither of them are burned copies, either. I'm thinking maybe because neither of them are in the Music Store...

Does anyone know if it's possible to edit the song titles so it will actually show the name of the song and not just the track number?

Yeah just put your mouse over "Track 7" click once sometimes you have to wait..but if you clcik twice then it plays the song..but the once you get it to edit the Name just erase Track 7 and put the Name of the song.
Hope I helped

Q: 13/f/tx
Ok, my boyfriend loves me like alot. He's always telling me how much he loves me and is always wanting to get me stuff. He gives me goosbumps and smiles at me all the time. I smile back, but for some reason I just dont feel like Im giving him the same love he gives me. And when I'm around him and have nothing to say, I call him names like retard, loser, and stuff like that. He hates it when I do that but I cant stop. Yet he still loves me and would give the world for me. What do I do? I dont feel like a good girlfriend.
Try jut talking to him, but don't buy his love. Just talk to him and tell him your sorry for doing that and you can't help it. Its just the way you are. And just tell him you reallly do love him you just don't know how to show it like he shows it. And you get this craxy good feeling when you see him and stuff.

Q: My boyfriend was with a girl for 6 months. Now weve been together for almost two months, but the other day he called me his exs name. What do I do?
I'm only 15 but honestly I think you should just talk to him, and just say "I'm curious how come you called me your ex's name?" DOn't break up with him untill you know for a fact he's cheating or something. And its just a name..so if I called my Dad my Mom would that mean I love Mom more and I wished that my dad was my mom..NO. I just made a mistake we all make mistakes. I wouldn't worry about it.

Q: whats a myspace code that will hide your friends BUT STILL HAS A LINK THAT SAYS "view all friends" ???? help asap pleasee
td.text td.text table table table, td.text td.text table br {display:none;} td.text td.text table {background-color:transparent;} .r{} td.text td.text table table br {display:inline;}

thats what I use so it should work just put it in your "about me"

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