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Can anyone please tell me how i can do this hairstyle or link me to youtube videos i tried and failed !
thanks

http://www.hollywoodheadache.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/02/jessica-alba-latina.jpg

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http://www.schoolballs.com.au/gallery/hair%20style%20ideas/Carrie-Underwood.jpg (link)
I am sure you can do it , you should use some good shampoo , and then suggest straightening it , and after you do that , take a curling iron and curl it starting with the inside in , and at the end hairspray it , wait a while or do it again , to do touchs , or vice versa

Good luck girl : )

- Youtube links can work!


So theres this guy Gio, We had a thing in like march, it was only one night though. We kicked it with some of his friends in front of his house, We were in his car most of the time though. Hes 19 And I'm 14 Though. Well anyways we kicked it and we were suppose to kick it again but my mom knows him from my brother a long time ago and she found out we were talking so she called his friend tyler and told him she was gonna call the cops on Gio if he keeps talking to me. So we just stopped talkking, and he started dating some other girl and he wasnt even on my mind, i was dating other people, But i guess they were suppose to get married. He got locked up for like 3 months and when he got out like a month ago they broke up.

i was dating this guy manuel, and I got really drunk and i walked to my friend Audis house and i told her i wanted to get really drunk and kick it with the homies and she said alright, so we went to go kick it with her boyfriend d and paya. Then jose and Alan just came up to us and i had a 40 in my hand, so jose took it and i looked at him and said wheres Gio at? and he started laughing then called him and told him to come through cause i wanted him so he came!

We were together the whole night, And i kinda made a mistake and had sex with him! |:
We slept at some guys house, And in the morning he had to go to work and i had to go to school so we left and he told me he wants to see me again so i gave him my number, he called and he said he wants to kick it thursday. Soooo Thursday night me audi and d were at the park and D called Gio, Then he came. We needed a place to sleep cause i didnt wanna go to his house cause his sisters HATE me. Oh thats another reason we stopped talking. I fought his sister because she didnt want me talking to him. But anyways we just slept in D's brothers truck, While audi and D slept in the other truck. We ended up having sex again!

He invited me to this concert thing he was having saturday because he raps, But his sisters were gonna be there so i wasn't sure.
So anyways Saturday came, yesterday and i don't know what to do!

Okay like, Yesterday We all had to meet at his house cause we had to figure out how we were all getting there cause there was hellllla people. So we went, Him and his sisters all left in the first van cause he had to be there early. Before he left he gave me a little smile and hugged me when his sisters werent looking! And i turned around and i saw his EX girlfriend there, the one he was gonna marry! i got kinda mad but i was like ohh well she is one of the homegirls so whatevr. so then we all met at the place. and we were outside, When gio saw me he went up to me and asked me if i was okay me and Audi were just like yesss go. ha. So he left and we all sat inside while like 6 othher people performed before him. But gio wasnt even talking to me really. Besides when he came up to me a couple times asking if i was okay.
when the person went on before him everybody went up there to like support him cause he was one of the homies to. And Gio sat downn with me in the back and kept asking me what was wrong and i just said nothing, And he told me he wants me to go up in front to support him when hes rapping so i promised him i would. so when he went on i went up there with audi, He kept smiling at me when he was on stage. And when he was done, he told them to take a picture with the hynas and in front of everyone he told me to go on stage and take a picture and i was just like noooo, and everybody just stopped and looked at me, including his sisters!
But anyways after he performed we all went outside and he went up to me and asked me to go to the after party, so me audi and D were just like alright, so we left, and he was talking to me at first but then i went outside for like 10 minutes to smoke weed with some dude, and then when i went back inside i didnt see Gio, And i heard his sister say wheres Gio and his other sister was like hes in the room with Nancy, [His ex] i was just like wowww! then i got MORE drunk. then i went to the bathroom and when i came out i sat at the table with audi and i look in the kitchenn and Gio and his ex were sitting down talking and she was crying and he was holding her and shit, then i just got up and went outside.
When i came back inside he was on the couch and she was in the kitchen, and then audi told me that she told him she was done with him!

So then at like 4 in the morning audi and D kept bitching about how they're tired and wanna go back to audis, so i was like alright, So we get up and Gio grabbed me and was askking me if i had to leave and i just said yes i have to cause they wanna leave and he told me he wanted me to stay the night! So d was like alright we'll stay! So we were all just sitting down in the living room and things just kept getting wierd cause his sisters were just talking shit and he kept telling them to shut up and shit in spanish.

Well anyways his ex Nancy came and sat down on the chair kinda by him and then he started looking at her and he grabbed her and started talking to her, then stomps was like all the girls in one room and all the guys in the other just joking around and Gio was like what if i wanna sleep with somebody and stomps was like who and he pointed to Nancy!! And he kept tryna talk to her and shit and i was like what the fuck am i here for? Support? So i said whtever and got up and walked out the door and audi followed me and we walked home in the pouring rain!!

i was soooo mad! and now i dont know what to do!
i don't know what hes doingggg! He's too confusing. i reallllly like him though, but i think i got my hopes up. I'm just confused, and on top of it i don't know what happened that night, i don't know if they got back together because i didn't stay to find out!! Ughhh ! (link)
Well , I would say , leave him , he is not worth it , and I am sure you are worth a lot more , do not even worry about him , trust me , just move on with your life , with that Audi guy , forget that Gio guy , he is not worth it.

Good luck girl : )

- Your better then that!


So recently i discovered that i really like masturbating. It's so embarassing to talk about, but i just cant help it. I just was wondering if you had some suggestions to make it "better". Thanks :) (link)
Well hey that is nothing to be embarrased about , and you cannot ask someone , that because it depends how you like doing it , standing up , lying down , sitting down , I suggest look on a variety of sites , I am sure you will get better ideas. It depends what you are into.

Good luck girl : )

- I agree!


I really don't know what to do anymore. This year started out a little bad at school, but I started pulling up my grades and doing better and I'm almost done making up the classes I failed last year and I'm doing this mostly because my mom wants me to. (No, I'm not doing this for myself, otherwise, I wouldn't be doing it at all.)
My mom only nods and says 'good job'. Nothing much else. If she's not off on her own, she's screaming at me, which doesn't help.
And (Yes, I posted something a while ago about a doctor's appointment) now my arms are going numb, from the wrist to the elbow. I know writing all day every day for the past 5 years has something to do with it, but I think the stress is adding to it. My school friends aren't helping at all either and in fact making it worse.
I really don't know what to do and I've been thinking some things that I really don't want to think about. I really need help, please! (link)
Well , I am sorry to hear that , but hey whatever bad happens , something good will happen , and you will get your fair share of good things that will happen , since you have been dealing with a lot of bad things in your life as I can see , and I am so sorry to hear that. All this is happening because you have to get stronger , and you are by going back to school and going to school even though your failecd , and your mom , well I know that would suck , what about your dad? I think your mom is just busy and well you should give her some more space and she will come to you , and I am sorry about your situation with your arms , well I hope your arms get better , you just need to pray to God , and trust me he will listen to your needs and you will recieve. And your friends? well if your friends are not helping , you sure they are your friends? Friends make things better , and are there to support you , so I think you should go out and find some new ones , and you can either do councelling or you could always go and think about positive stuff , but I know that would really not work with the situation you are going through. I think you should focus on , getting your life ready to go and be able to set yourself up for the good things to come. You need to let yourself accept the facts and as you accept it , it will get better.

Good luck girl : )

- You are blessed


How can I get my dad to be fair and notice my work without being a ass? (link)
Well approach him in a good way , and make the atmosphere good timing , do not get him in a bad mood , do not fight with him , just approach him at a time , where things will work , and you have a smile on your face , and talk to him , like family.


Good luck girl : )

- I am sure your dad is not an ass


ive been cheated on and lied to and promised it wouldnt happen and i dont know if it is happening, i dont know what to do. i just want things to work after 3years. i feel like if he wanted to be single and do his own thing he has the option and yet it seems like he stays and doesnt tell me everything and i don't how to trust and let go. i really want to, i want to try but its hard. (link)
well , unfortauntley it is hard , and theres no question about it , but hey do not worry about it , it is normal to feel tat way , and it will , but you should sit down and think about it , if it seems he isn't telling you everything , sit down with him and see what is going on , the best way is to talk it out , instead of thinking and questioning about it , if you really want to , then do it and it is hard to do that , but trust me if you really put yourself to do it , I am sure you will be able to succeed with it , and let it work , but you have to be able to trust and let go. Trusting an individual is really hard so you have to have a backup plan to be able to like not get hurt , and letting go , you have to be around your friends , and be able to cope with yourself. If you want to let go , get into the habit with other guys and get that ONE guy off your mind , surround yourself with things that make you happy , you need to give yourself time , because if you don't you will just end up getting hurt again.

Good luck girl : )

- I am very sorry to hear that , but hey you will find a better guy for you , it just takes time!


how do i dump an acquaintance who just won't leave me alone. I don't want to hurt his feelings because we see each other frequently in the group of friends we share. How can I tell him that I want nothing more than to have a cordial relationship. No dinners with our spouses, no golf games, no drinks after work. We are both in our 50's.

Thanks. (link)
Ah , well first of all , I think you should sit down and just talk to him. Be calm , just start out with something nice be like I am glad we have this relationship , but I think you know , just make it relaxing and a nice atmosphere and tell him how much you like his company , BUT let him know that sadly , unfortunatley , we cannot and give him the reasons why , make him want to buy it like persuade him to why you and him shouldn't , as long as you are happy and comfortable with him in a right place at the right time , I am pretty sure he will get heart broken BUT he will also , be aware and glad you told him.

Good luck girl :)

- I am sure you can work this out!


I am 16 years old female. It's my sophomore year of highschool and I am becoming depressed. I have a younger brother and sister that are twins. They are freshman in highschool and i hate it. Exspecially since my sister is like a mini me, only people think shes prettier and it just seems like shes better than me at everything. Like school, sports ect. We both hangout with the same type of friends. Sometimes I feel like my friends like her better than me. During my freshman year in highschool the upperclassman guys all thought i was really cute and were trying to get to know me and stuff. Now it seems like they would rather talk/hangout with her and not only is it embaressing but it really hurts. I am already selfconsious about my looks as it is. I even left school one day crying because someone tried to give me a compliment but it turned into a bigger insult by saying alot of people think my sisters prettier than me. It's making me want to disapear. I dont know what to do anymore. Please help me :'( (link)
Awh , do not worry , it is okay , trust me everyone is pretty in their own way , and I am sure you are pretty , and do not worry , just be good with yourself , do you think you are pretty? if you think you are pretty , which I am sure you do , do not even ignore what people say , and do not even let your sister get to you , just face the fact she is pretty , and people think so , and face the fact that you are pretty and no one can top you , do your nails or put a new look for yourself , something with a change , you will feel good do not worry , and trust me there are so many guys out there , and they cannot all go for your sister , they will go for you , mostly , too and you got to face the fact , guys and girls will always be like that and turn into threats, or negative comments , but you have to be able to put up with it , because if you do not , then this is what happens right , and you know what you should do right now? you should wipe away those tears and turn your frown upside down into a positive smile girl , :) be happy that God made you this way , be happy for your sister , because trust me the best will come back your way ;)


Good luck girl

- Do not let her get to you!


I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long! (link)
Aw , my advice to you is get out of there now , he is obviously not worth your time , if he does that to you , do you honestly want a guy that will do that to you and keep you from things? That's not a healthy relationship , forget him and everything , don't even worry about it. Forget facebook and do not let it bother you girl , go see other guys , he is not worth your tears :)



So on the weekend I met a guy. He's 34 and I'm 19 and he lives about 3 hours away from me. Basically I made out with him the first night we met. The next night we slept together, and again the next morning and he was such a gentle person not just sexually but emotionally, didn't pressure me to do anything I didn't want to do. Now, I'm finding myself to be thinking of him constantly. He told me he cared about me but he wouldn't be able to see me much because he's always busy working long hours, which is fair enough considering he works a good job in the city. I can't talk to him until Thursday because at the moment his phone is being fixed and he won't have it back until Thursday, he said he'll contact me when he gets it...But I don't think I can have a Friendship with benefit thing with him seeing as I'm slowly falling for him and I don't know if he feels the same. Maybe he does like me in that way but wouldn't date me because of the distance, either way I'm afraid to tell him because I don't want to hear the "We can only be just friends" speech. And what makes it 1000 times complicated is that I have an ex who is still madly in love with me and got insanely(and aggressively) jealous of me hanging out with this new guy on the weekend annnd I have an online boyfriend who is coming to see me start of next year. You may think I'm a horrible person for this but this guy is just all I can think about and it's driving me crazy.

What should I do? I'm so stuck and feeling so lost :( (link)
Well , you are falling heads over heels for this guy. I'd say go for the one that makes you most happier. This ex , if you do not like him , just forget about him and do not even worry about him , ignore him , but if you do like him , then go get him back. The online boyfriend , that is 50/50 chance because that is a long year till the start of next year and what are the chances of you guys working out if it is long distance like that , but as for it if you guy's really like eachother then go for it. I say just put the oonline boyfriend aside and see what happens , and that 34 year old guy , tell him everything you just said in this parapgrah trust me , then he knows exactly how you feel , and either way you will know what he has to say back , because if you do not tell him or show him , you will never know. Also , be strong , there is so many guy's out there do not even worry about it , plenty of fish in the sea. My advice to you is , forget about ex if you do not like him , if you still do then go back to him , for the online boyfriend keep going what is going on and just put him as a good option , and then 34 year old you should see if it will work out , talk to him about it. Honestly , best way to go , and also , you got back up so that's good.

Good luck girl : )

- Pick wisely


I have this boy best friend who I tease always. And do you know why I do that? Because I have a crush on him. And now he has this sort-of girlfriend and whenever I see him with her I feel jealous. And he doesn't know my secret. I used to have a crush on this person and still my best friend thinks I have a crush on that other boy. Now what do I do?! I'm so confused. And the other boy is begging to be my boyfriend. WHAT SHOULD I DO?! (link)
Ah , wow well if he is begging you , he is desperate , do not do anything you do not feel/want/ wish to do. If you like this guy , then go for him , or if you want to make him jealous then go for it too. If you still like this other guy , do not tease him , he might get the wrong depression , and feeling jealous is normal , just try to flirt around with the other guy that is begging you to be your boyfriend and see if he notices. If you really like that other guy that tell him everything you just said. My advice to you is if you like that guy , go and have your boyfriend , if not then go for the other guy and tell him how you feel. Always be honest , that is the key.

Good luck girl : )
- Do what makes you more happier.


Is it okay to call a celebrity who is semi-retired and reportedly loves his fans? if anyone needs details, let me know. need to know this thanks! (link)
You should definatley e-mail them first , before anything , if you call they will either ask who it is , or get security or something, or they can be really nice and stay on the phone with you. Also , first just go and find out the name and then e-mail them , and then call them , so they are familiar with who you are. My advice to you is go and e-mail them first and see what happens , from there , call them. You should do it , you got a great chance!

Good luck girl : )
- Have fun :)



I am dressing up tomorrow and am going to wear high heels. This is the first time I'm going out with them on but don't worry I've been practicing walking with them and my mom says I'm a natural. Anyways, am I suppose to wear socks with heels? The heels are red and my dress is red and cream almost white. Should I wear like white or cream socks or red socks or what? THANX (link)
Ah , do not where socks with heels , if you need to wear pantyhoes , not socks. My advice to you is just wear the heels , or with pantyhoes , either one,NOT socks lol.

Good luck girl : )
- Have fun!


Hey guys I'm 18/f. Basically last week me and my bf had an argument over something really lame! It was nothing serious. For the next few days I ended up being moody with him b/c of it, and I knew I was in the wrong. I told my bf It wasn't fair that I was being moody with him all the time so said maybe for the best we should break up. I asked if I could think about it. He said yes but kept demanding an answer from me. I said I would make one the next day. The next day he says he is questioning our relationship now. I told him I wanted to be with him and he said he doesn't want to break up but its probably for the best. He kept telling me how much he loves me and wants to stay friends and he still said goodnight sweet dreams to me. I said I can't be friends with him it will be too hard. We are meeting up to talk about it. I asked if he can re-think his decision and we can talk about it and he said he isn't sure if it will make a difference but we'll see. Do you think there's any hope for us?? We both love eachother a lot and it was only last week he was telling my friends how happy he is with me, and planning surprises for my birthday. What should I do? (link)
ah well , I think this guy , really does like you , and everything. He is just scared since you said that to break up , he was probabaly not expecting that from you , and did not want to hear it , but since you brought it up , he is questioning himself now, in order to see if anything bad will happen. There is hope if he was just saying how much he loves you and planning surprises for your birthday , because if someone loves you that much and just magically a week later does not love you anymore , then that was not really love . I think there is hope and that is good you asked him to re-think it , because it shows you care about him , and you want him and everything as you said you can not stay friends with him because it will be too hard . I think what you should do is you guys should meet up ASAP and try again , you never know where it could end up. My advice to you is that there is still hope and you should just talk to him face-to-face and tell him what you feel and actually show like you mean it. Also , take it slow , do not rush back to where you ended , you could make it worse , so just step back take a breather and be glad you still got him.

Good luck girl :)
- Go get him back!


how do i cut my own hair into choppy layers? (link)
This might help you http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080625212459AAuKZRj
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100805180029AAwxWde
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081001183424AAlziPn or
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080530190631AAQWf2W
This one might help too http://www.answers.becomegorgeous.com/hair/how_to_cut_choppy_layer_by_your_own_self-8655.html or try this on google http://www.google.ca/search?hl=en&biw=1259&bih=566&q=how+to+cut+your+hair+in+choppy+layers&aq=0&aqi=g1&aql=&oq=how+to+cut+your+hair+in+chopp&gs_rfai=

I am sure you can find something :)
Good luck!


My husband has been on short term leave from work for about three months now. could this be why we are not getting along and dont agree on anything right now? Normally he works out of town and comes home on the weekends. (link)
Ah it is okay , this always happens , you just have to get use to it. As long as you can still contact him , things should be fine. Things like this always happen , you just have to be aware and ready. Changes always cause conflicts , but it builds you guys stronger. Yes , it might be the case why you guys are not getting along and do not agree on anything because you guys are probably not use to distance ,and it is just something you guy's have to work on. My advice to you is , just try talking to him , not be pushy , find out when you can contact him and what can work between you guys , and all that stuff. You have to not argue so much , because negative stuff will happen more of it.

Good luck girl : )

- Good luck with you and your husband , you guys will work out!


does anyone know where i can watch, download, rent, buy, etc the movie LOL laughing out loud? it's a french movie, so it has to have english subtitles but i really want to watch it, but cant find it anywhere!! (link)
This might work http://watchfreetvshow.tk/ or just look around http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100814191952AAUXVDM search the interent , if you can not then , go to your local video store , I am sure they will have it.

Good luck : )


18, Female.

This is SO weird, but I'm not complaining :) Just curious.

I've only been fingered twice, nothing else has been in my vagina. Well I get wet really easily, and it's a lot. The first time I had sex, I was SO scared it was going to hurt and it didn't hurt ONE BIT, NOTHING. I was shocked, is this normal? I'm scared if I do it again or something it's going to hurt, but I don't know if it will since it didn't the first time??

And, the guy I had sex with didn't believe I was a virgin. Long story, no I don't regret having sex with him we're friends. But what I'm asking is ..is this a good or bad thing? He knew I was before, told him to be careful with me and he said he would but I know he still didn't believe me. After we had sex and were laying in bed, I said you took my virginity you know that? I was a virgin. He smiled and looked at me and said "No you weren't ;)"

I don't know if I was loose or something, or if I was just good at it? Haha I was wondering, why he still didn't think I was a virgin before I had sex with him. What do you guys think? (link)
Ah well I think this guy just got the glimpse of your excellent challenges in bed probably , and does not believe you were a virigin , because you probabaly were good at it , and knew what you were doing and like you get wet easily and had SOME experience. Also , I agree with jospehballard10 who said that since you had sex with him , he can not believe your a virgin , but before you did not have sex with him , he probabaly thought you were one. My advice to you is that he thought you were not one because you were either good and he just had sex with you. I think that is a good thing he said that.

Good luck girl : )
- I am sure your good.


Anything from chin-length to shoulder-length, all styles. I'm getting my hair cut and want a lot of inspiration. Thank you! (link)
Hope these help ....
http://www.curly-hair-styles-magazine.com/curly-hair-short-styles.html
http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/curly/
http://www.short-hair-style.com/
http://www.google.ca/images?hl=en&q=short%20curly%20hair%20styles&um=1&ie=UTF-8&source=og&sa=N&tab=wi&biw=1259&bih=566
you should just get some magazines , or go to a hair salon and find out , or surf the net , there's millions :)


i hit my head how long should i wait to go to sleep (link)
Well , if you banged your head , do not worry about it ,you will be fine. If you have a bump on your head then , you should go see a doctor. Do not worry about it , you can go to sleep whenever you want to , maybe put some ice on it , do not worry about it. My advice to you is that you will be alright and you can go sleep whenever you want just get some ice or pills , if it has a bump then you should go to the doctors. Do not worry about it.

Good luck girl : )
- Hope you get better!




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