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He's Confusing !


Question Posted Sunday October 10 2010, 11:36 pm

So theres this guy Gio, We had a thing in like march, it was only one night though. We kicked it with some of his friends in front of his house, We were in his car most of the time though. Hes 19 And I'm 14 Though. Well anyways we kicked it and we were suppose to kick it again but my mom knows him from my brother a long time ago and she found out we were talking so she called his friend tyler and told him she was gonna call the cops on Gio if he keeps talking to me. So we just stopped talkking, and he started dating some other girl and he wasnt even on my mind, i was dating other people, But i guess they were suppose to get married. He got locked up for like 3 months and when he got out like a month ago they broke up.

i was dating this guy manuel, and I got really drunk and i walked to my friend Audis house and i told her i wanted to get really drunk and kick it with the homies and she said alright, so we went to go kick it with her boyfriend d and paya. Then jose and Alan just came up to us and i had a 40 in my hand, so jose took it and i looked at him and said wheres Gio at? and he started laughing then called him and told him to come through cause i wanted him so he came!

We were together the whole night, And i kinda made a mistake and had sex with him! |:
We slept at some guys house, And in the morning he had to go to work and i had to go to school so we left and he told me he wants to see me again so i gave him my number, he called and he said he wants to kick it thursday. Soooo Thursday night me audi and d were at the park and D called Gio, Then he came. We needed a place to sleep cause i didnt wanna go to his house cause his sisters HATE me. Oh thats another reason we stopped talking. I fought his sister because she didnt want me talking to him. But anyways we just slept in D's brothers truck, While audi and D slept in the other truck. We ended up having sex again!

He invited me to this concert thing he was having saturday because he raps, But his sisters were gonna be there so i wasn't sure.
So anyways Saturday came, yesterday and i don't know what to do!

Okay like, Yesterday We all had to meet at his house cause we had to figure out how we were all getting there cause there was hellllla people. So we went, Him and his sisters all left in the first van cause he had to be there early. Before he left he gave me a little smile and hugged me when his sisters werent looking! And i turned around and i saw his EX girlfriend there, the one he was gonna marry! i got kinda mad but i was like ohh well she is one of the homegirls so whatevr. so then we all met at the place. and we were outside, When gio saw me he went up to me and asked me if i was okay me and Audi were just like yesss go. ha. So he left and we all sat inside while like 6 othher people performed before him. But gio wasnt even talking to me really. Besides when he came up to me a couple times asking if i was okay.
when the person went on before him everybody went up there to like support him cause he was one of the homies to. And Gio sat downn with me in the back and kept asking me what was wrong and i just said nothing, And he told me he wants me to go up in front to support him when hes rapping so i promised him i would. so when he went on i went up there with audi, He kept smiling at me when he was on stage. And when he was done, he told them to take a picture with the hynas and in front of everyone he told me to go on stage and take a picture and i was just like noooo, and everybody just stopped and looked at me, including his sisters!
But anyways after he performed we all went outside and he went up to me and asked me to go to the after party, so me audi and D were just like alright, so we left, and he was talking to me at first but then i went outside for like 10 minutes to smoke weed with some dude, and then when i went back inside i didnt see Gio, And i heard his sister say wheres Gio and his other sister was like hes in the room with Nancy, [His ex] i was just like wowww! then i got MORE drunk. then i went to the bathroom and when i came out i sat at the table with audi and i look in the kitchenn and Gio and his ex were sitting down talking and she was crying and he was holding her and shit, then i just got up and went outside.
When i came back inside he was on the couch and she was in the kitchen, and then audi told me that she told him she was done with him!

So then at like 4 in the morning audi and D kept bitching about how they're tired and wanna go back to audis, so i was like alright, So we get up and Gio grabbed me and was askking me if i had to leave and i just said yes i have to cause they wanna leave and he told me he wanted me to stay the night! So d was like alright we'll stay! So we were all just sitting down in the living room and things just kept getting wierd cause his sisters were just talking shit and he kept telling them to shut up and shit in spanish.

Well anyways his ex Nancy came and sat down on the chair kinda by him and then he started looking at her and he grabbed her and started talking to her, then stomps was like all the girls in one room and all the guys in the other just joking around and Gio was like what if i wanna sleep with somebody and stomps was like who and he pointed to Nancy!! And he kept tryna talk to her and shit and i was like what the fuck am i here for? Support? So i said whtever and got up and walked out the door and audi followed me and we walked home in the pouring rain!!

i was soooo mad! and now i dont know what to do!
i don't know what hes doingggg! He's too confusing. i reallllly like him though, but i think i got my hopes up. I'm just confused, and on top of it i don't know what happened that night, i don't know if they got back together because i didn't stay to find out!! Ughhh !


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Additional info, added Monday October 11 2010, 3:32 pm:
If all you have to say is it's illegal then don't even bother..

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snowboardbabe answered Monday October 11 2010, 9:46 pm:
Well , I would say , leave him , he is not worth it , and I am sure you are worth a lot more , do not even worry about him , trust me , just move on with your life , with that Audi guy , forget that Gio guy , he is not worth it.

Good luck girl : )

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MissYMelisS answered Monday October 11 2010, 2:33 pm:
Okay, i read your WHOLE life story just now. and all i have to say to this is..PEDOPHILE PEDOPHILE PEDOPHILE. IF HE IS 18 AND YOU ARE 14 IT IS ILLEGAL.

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